hey, you seem to be a very good Muslimah, just as I imagine my future
wifeto be! I really want to know you better before I take any step and
ask for your hand in marriage!"
Sister, is this familiar to you?! Well this is what many Muslim men
are doing unfortunately on fb or any other social networksites!! A
brother approaches a sister and makes her feel special, and that he
really wants to marry her… Then he starts with her a forbidden
relationship through the net because he wants to "know her better"
before taking the first step towards engagement! And when she reminds
him about marriage, he starts giving her some excuses as:
" well let's know each other more, we are still young for marriage"
OR
"honey! I am not ready for marriage for the moment! Ididn't finish my
studies yet!"
OR
"marriage?!! But how can I provide you if I marry you? wait till I
find a good work, then we will get married!"
OR
"dear, I don't know how to tell you this but my parents want me to
marry my cousin… But of course I will "try" to convince them about our
marriage!"
Sister!! Wake up!! These are all LIES and excuses because he doesn't
want you actually! Many men arelike him, when they will choose to get
married theywould let their mothers choose for them a girl who've
never had a boyfriend…
if someone really wants you, he would go to your house with no
hesitation to ask your father/wali for your hand in marriage
A good Muslim man wouldn't approach the girl but her wali
but if he is not ready for marriage, then he would fear HIS Lord and
never let you face Allah's Anger by your forbidden relationship! —
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