Story, - Insecure love or true love..!

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Hi i am 19 yr old, i love a 20 yr old guy whom i call caro. He is really very adorable... our parents were fly friends.. His parents were very cool n loving.. i knew them for almost 4 yrs but just 8 months back i became friendly with caro n fell in love with him.. :)
i confessed my love for love for him but he gave no reply... he still behaved the same way he used to, he didn't change even a bit after knowing my feelings for him.. It was very confusing and i wasn't able to understand what was going on in his mind and what he felt about me..
A month later something happened n his parents stoped talking to mine, things changed, he was asked not to talk to any1 of us, yet he used to talk to me and i was unaware of that. Once we went for a movie and aunty came to know about it, she called me up n said that,"like a mother i'm telling you, stop all this n i know u will obey like a daughter". She had also taken away caro's mbl n sent him abroad..!! For a month v dnt tlk, later on i contactd him through fb, he replied... v were just tlking as friends then...
When he came bck to india i askd him wat he felt abt me?? he said he is nt ready for a relationship nw n dat we will stay as friends for nw..! i askd him wat abt the future? wil he evr b ready to be in a relationship with me?? he said he doesnt knw n dat i shouldnt b thinking abt it nw..! he still dnt knew dat his mum had askd me to stop tlking to him n his dad had called up home to tell my parents to break all the relations with them...!
i askd him if i should wait for him to be ready or forget abt him? he told me dat he is nt ready for a relationship nw n he cannot tell anything else...
a few days back i told him everything abt wat had happnd wen he wasnt here, he said he was unaware of all dis..! i told him i didnt wanna loose him, he said pray n everything will b alright..
he still tlks to me, wenevr i tell him i love him he eithr doesnt reply or just smiles..!
i dnt knw wat he feels abt me!! aftr knwing dat our parents dnt want us to tlk yet he tlks to me.. he never stoped me from loving him...! he is really very nice n understanding bt i dnt knw wat should i do..!
i dnt knw if these r his signs of gently telling me dat he doesnt love me coz he is too good to break my heart or a sign dat he may fall in love with me..!
m risking my life for him n i dnt evn knw if he'l stand by be when his parents come to knw dat i still tlk to him..! i really love caro alot n hope that he does tell me soon abt his feelings for me n nt kip me waiting in hopes more..!

- PUBLISHER - - - - - - - - "Prof.Dr.M. NajimudeeN. Phd- INDIA"

Story, - Never love someone too much

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Hii, i'm 21 years old boy, studying pharmacy from a university. it all started when i joined university for studying pharmacy. I was selected from the waiting list, so my admission was 2 weeks after classes started. Our batch was the 1st batch of this university seeking pharmacy. I was happy that i will be a pharmacist one day. First day, when i entered the class, i was familiar with only two students, one is a boy & onether one is girl, rest are new. I seated on a seat and was checking every one. I saw a gud looking girl, stared at her for few seconds. I'm addicted to facebook, so search her name n luckily found her profilen send her frnd request, she accepted, soon we started to talk via phone n also become familiar with everyone in the class, we become good friends and used to share everythings with each other. This went for 2 months i started to like her but dint tell her, then 1 month vacation started. After vacation, she said she like a boy n that boy also likes her n they started relationship which is still going on. I dint felt anything bad. Just i stoped talking with her.
Now the main story started, there is another girl in our class, she is childish, cute n sweet in nature, we used to come to the university in the same bus but never talk with her actually, but i dont know when i started to feel for her. I used to stare at her everyday and she also never talked with me in person, i got to know the she had a boyfriend who cheated her, then again have a boyfriend. I was sad knowing this, then days goes on like this. I wanted to talk to her but had no courage how to start. Finally 1 day, i asked for her phone number, she gave me without asking anything as we are classmates, then i started sending jokes and all that, she also replied me with same, few days goes same way. One day i decided to really talk with her, so we talked soon she became very free with me and started to share everything with me. I was very happy with this talking with her everyday, suddenly 1 day her bf broke up with her n she was very sad n decided that she will never hav bf anymore. Few day went this way. She also said she still likes his 1st bf, they talk sometime. I thought may be i have no chance to b her love. 1 day, i shared my feeling for her to her n hearing this she become shocked n said to be her friend nothing more as she dont want anyone anymore, i tried to make her realize how i feel for her but she never understood that. N kept on saying to be her friend only other wise she will not talk, i agreed to her. Few days later, again told her that i love her but she said no, i tried many times bt she kept on saying no bt i kept my hope alive believing that 1 day she will love me. Somtime we had urguments on this bt soon everything used to become ok n we used to talk like nothing happened. My love for her was growing day by day but she never understood that. I also hurted her many times but not intentionallyn for that i said soory to her from my heart many times. I cant do anything other than hoping. Still, everything is ok, we were talking everyday. Sometime, we used to have urguments n dint used to talk for 2-3 days again she used to start talking. She also hurted me many times but i never let her know. One day, i was in angry mood, n talk angrily with her, and we stoped talking n i decided not to talk to her again but again talked with me n said to be my friend only. I aid ok n dint tried to talk to her much, now from few days, we dont talk.. But i still love her n will love her always. May be she is not the right girl for me. I just want her to be happy always no matter with whom. I'm still waiting for her. everything started in 2011. She never said that she wont talk to me. I know if i talk again, she will talk but i dont want to, when i talk i get hurted. Tommorrow, i'm going to see her in class after few day, i wont look at her. I know she will look at me without my notice. She always do like this. I dont know what will happen next. Just hoping for the best.
Guys plz comment n share your views. It may be little long. Bt hope u will like it.
Thanks for reading my story.

- PUBLISHER - - - - - - - - "Prof.Dr.M. NajimudeeN. Phd- INDIA"

Sex in Islam, - Is Viagra Halal or Haram?

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The Shaikh said, "Using a drug that helps sexual intrecourse is permitted and there is no legal Islamic prohibition provided it does not contain ingredients that may harm health, or any intoxicating substances." (quoted from Okaz newspaper).
Note: If you're a man who uses nitrate drugs, like nitroglycerine, (drugs commonly used for the treatment of chest pains) never take Viagra with any nitrate medicine, as your blood pressure could suddenly drop to an unsafe or life threatening level. Viagra must never be used by men taking nitrates of any kind, any time.
( Zawaj.com is not recommending or endorsing this drug, we are simply reporting on the issue of whether or not it is halal).
A biography of Shaikh bin Baz:
HIS NAME:Abdul Azeez Ibn Abdullaah Ibn Abdur-Rahmaan Ibn Muhammad Ibn Abdullaah Aal Baaz.
HIS BIRTH:He was born in the year 1330AH in the city of Riyaadh, Saudi Arabia. He had normal sight at the beginning of his studies and was then afflicted with an illness in 1346AH which impaired his eyesight. He later became blind in 1350H when he was only 20 years old.
SEEKING KNOWLEDGE:He started upon the path of knowledge at a young age and memorised the Qur'aan before puberty. The Shaykh excelled in his knowledge of the various branches of the Sharee'ah and the Arabic language and was then appointed as a Judge. This however did not stop him from seeking knowledge until the time of his death. The various offices he had held never stopped him from teaching and engaging in research.
HIS TEACHERS:
1.Shaykh Muhammad ibn Abdul-Lateef ibn Abdur-Rahmaan ibn Hasan ibn Ash-Shaykh Muhammad ibn Abdul-Wahhaab (rahimahumullaah).
2.Shaykh Sa'd Ibn Hamad ibn Ateeq (the Cheif Judge of Riyaadh).
3.Hamad Ibn Faaris (Vice Chancellor of the Treasury at Riyaadh).
4.Shaykh Saalih ibn Abdul-Azeez ibn Abdur-Rahmaan ibn Hasan ibn Muhammad ibn Abdul-Wahhaab (The Chief Judge of Riyaadh).
5.Shaykh Sa'd Waqqaas al-Bukhaaree, One of the scholars of Makkah from whom Shaykh Ibn Baaz learnt the science of tajweed.
6.Shaykh Muhammed ibn Ibraaheem ibn Abdul-Lateef Aalush-Shaykh. The Former Mufti of Saudi Arabia and the Ummah. Shaykh Ibn Baaz attended and adhered to his study circles for approximately 10 years. Shaykh Ibn Baaz learnt all the branches of the sharee'ah from him from 1347H to 1357 whereupon his teacher then nominated him for a post in the judiciary.
HIS VARIOUS POSTS AND POSITIONS:
1.Judge in Al-Kharaj district for a lengthy time, spanning approximately 14 years from 1357H till 1371H.
2.Teaching post in Riyaadh at al-Mahad al-Ilmee in 1372H then at the college of Sharee'ah from its inception in 1373H. He taught the sciences of fiqh, tawheed and fiqh. This continued for 9 years till 1390H.
3.He was appointed as Vice-Chancellor of the Islamic University Of Madeenah in the year 1381H and he remained in this post until 1390H.
4.He then became the Chancellor of the University of Madeenah in 1390H upon the death of the then Chancellor Shaykh Muhammad Ibn Ibraaheem Aalush-Shaykh. He remained Chancellor until 1395H.
5.In 1413H, he was appointed the official Muftee (expounder of Islamic law and fatwa) and was appointed to the presidency of the Commitee of Senior Scholars and the presidency of the Administration for Scientific Research and Legal Rulings.
6.He continued to hold other posts until his death.
HIS INFLUENCE AND STUDENTS:
The Shaykh has influenced and affected many people and in many different ways. The Shaykh produced many other scholars from his great knowledge. Amogst them, Shaykh Muhammad Saaleh ibn Al-Uthaymeen, Shaykh Saaleh Ibn Fawzaan al-Fawzaan, Shaykh Rabee ibn Haadee, Shaykh Muhammad ibn Haadee al-Madkhalee, Shaykh Abdus-Salaam ibn Burjiss and many hundreds of others.... he died in Taa'if 1420 A.H.
May Allaah have mercy upon him.

- PUBLISHER - - - - - - - - "Prof.Dr.M. NajimudeeN. Phd- INDIA"