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Monday, February 17, 2014

Dought & clear, - Ruling on spending zakaah funds on starting an Islamic satellite channel












Is it permissible to give zakaah to a non-profit Islamic satellite channel, where the money will be used to set up this channel?
Praise be to Allah
The fuqaha’ are unanimously agreed that jihad in Allah’s cause (fi sabeel-Allah) using force and weapons is one of the things on which zakaah funds may be spent, as mentioned in Soorat at-Tawbah, where Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):
“As-Sadaqat (here it means Zakat) are only for the Fuqara (poor), and Al-Masakin (the poor) and those employed to collect (the funds); and for to attract the hearts of those who have been inclined (towards Islam); and to free the captives; and for those in debt; and for Allah’s Cause [fi sabeel-Allah] (i.e. for Mujahidoon - those fighting in the holy wars), and for the wayfarer (a traveller who is cut off from everything); a duty imposed by Allah. And Allah is All-Knower, All-Wise.”
[at-Tawbah 9:60].
But they differed as to whether jihad other than with the sword is included in the general meaning of the words of Allah “and for Allah’s Cause”, based on the difference of opinion as to whether the phrase should be understood according to its broader linguistic meaning or the specific shar‘i understanding of the concept of “Allah’s cause”.
There are three different interpretations, starting with one that is very specific and gradually broadening the meaning:
1.
The first view is that the meaning of “Allah’s cause” is so specific that it does not include anything other than jihad by the sword and spear. This is the view of the majority of Hanafi, Maaliki and Shaafa‘i fuqaha’, and of Ibn Qudaamah among the Hanbalis. It is also regarded as more correct by the Council of Senior Scholars in the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia. Seeal-Buhooth al-‘Ilmiyyah, 1/73.
Ibn Qudaamah (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
This is the view of Maalik, Abu Haneefah, ath-Thawri, ash-Shaafa‘i, Abu Thawr, and Ibn al-Mundhir, and this is more correct, because the phrase “Allah’s cause” in general terms only refers to jihad. Every time “Allah’s cause” is mentioned in the Qur’an, what is meant by it is jihad, except in a few cases. So what is mentioned in this verse should be understood in accordance with that, because that is what the apparent meaning indicates.
End quote fromal-Mughni, 6/484. See alsoal-Majmoo‘, 6/198-199
2.
It may also include some specific good deeds, because of the general meaning of spending “in Allah’s cause”.
Such as adding only Hajj and ‘Umrah (to the meaning of “Allah’s cause”), as is the view of the Hanbalis, and Muhammad ibn al-Hasan among the Hanafis, as it says inTabyeen al-Haqaa’iq, 1/298;Radd al-Muhtaar, 2/343
Al-Bahooti (may Allah have mercy on him) says:
Hajj comes under the heading of “Allah’s cause”, on the basis of textual evidence. This was narrated from Ibn ‘Abbaas and Ibn ‘Umar. Abu Dawood narrated that a man donated a she-camel for the sake of Allah, and his wife wanted to do Hajj, so the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Ride it, for Hajj is for the cause of Allah.” So it may be understood that a poor person may be given from the zakaah funds that which will enable him to perform the obligatory Hajj or ‘Umrah, or help him to do so.
End quote fromKashshaaf al-Qinaa‘, 2/283
It may also include da‘wah or calling people to Allah (verbal jihad), as was stated by the Islamic Fiqh Council of the Muslim World League.
See the answer to question no. 121551
Or it may include giving zakaah to seekers of knowledge, as was narrated by some of the Hanafis. It says inRadd al-Muhtaar(2/343):
It was said (that zakaah may be given) to seekers of knowledge, as was stated by the Zaheeris and Murgheenaanis. This was regarded as unlikely by as-Sarooji because at the time when the verse was revealed, there were no people who were called seekers of knowledge. It says inash-Sharbilaaliyyah:
Ruling it out is not appropriate, because seeking knowledge means nothing more than trying to understand the rulings of Islam, and the one who is seeking these rulings is like one who stayed close to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) in order to learn the rulings from him, like Ahl as-Suffah. Hence including the seeker of knowledge among those who may be given zakaah is appropriate, especially since it says inal-Badaa’i‘: The phrase “in Allah’s cause” includes everything by means of which a person seeks to draw closer to Allah. That includes anyone who strives to obey Allah, and to do all kinds of righteous deeds, if the person is in need. End quote
That which he quoted from al-Kaasaani’sal-Badaa’i‘(2/45) may be understood as referring to the linguistic meaning, not that Imam al-Kaasaani stated that. This is exactly like what al-‘Ayni said inal-Binaayah Sharh al-Hidaayah(3/454): Because “Allah’s cause” is a phrase that refers to all means by which a person seeks to draw closer to Allah, but when used in general terms it refers to jihad.
3.
The concept of “Allah’s cause” includes all good deeds in general, and all means by which a person seeks to draw closer to Allah, and all acts of obedience. This view was narrated from some of the fuqaha’ and was attributed, as stated above, to al-Kaasaani al-Hanafi inBadaa’i‘ as-Sanaa’i‘. This view was favoured by many contemporary scholars such as Shaykh Muhammad Rasheed Rida inTafseer al-Manaar(10/504); Shaykh Mahmoud Shaltoot inal-Islam ‘Aqeedah wa Sharee‘ah(p. 124); and others.
Imam ar-Raazi (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
It should be noted that the apparent meaning of the wording in the phrase “and for Allah’s Cause” should not be limited only to military campaigns. al-Qaffaal narrated in hisTafseerthat some of the fuqaha’ regarded it as permissible to give zakaah to all kinds of good or charitable causes, such as shrouding the dead, building fortresses, and maintaining and renovating mosques, because the words “and for Allah’s Cause” are general in meaning and include all things.
End quote fromMafaateeh al-Ghayb, 16/87
The issue is very deep and requires detailed discussion; many contemporary studies have been devoted to it, such as the bookMasraf “wa fee sabeel-Allah” bayna al-‘Umoom wa’l-Khusoosby Dr. Sa‘ood al-Funaysaan; and a paper entitledMashmoolaat Masraf “fi sabeel-Allah” bi Nazrah Mu‘aasirah hasba al-I‘tibaaraat al-Mukhtalifahby Dr. ‘Umar Sulaymaan al-Ashqar (may Allah have mercy on him), which was published in the bookAbhaath Fiqhiyyah fi Qadaayaa az-Zakaah al-Mu‘aasirah, approx. 100 pages long (2/767-856);Nawaazil az-Zakaahby Dr. al-Ghufayli (431-443). On our website, in fatwa no. 121551, we have favoured the moderate view, which includes jihad in the form of da‘wah within the broad concept of jihad that is referred to in the verse in the phrase “and for Allah’s Cause”. There we quoted the evidence for this choice; please refer to the fatwa for further details.
Dr. ‘Umar al-Ashqar (may Allah have mercy on him) says:
This study, which we carried out on all the Qur’anic texts in which the phrase “and for Allah’s Cause” appears and on a number of saheeh hadeeths of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), prove the validity of the conclusions reached by the majority of scholars who limited spending“for Allah’s cause”in the verse on zakaah to jihad, because the phrasefor Allah’s cause”, when mentioned in general terms in the Qur’an and Sunnah, refers to jihad,
But it should be noted that the definition of jihad is not limited only to fighting; rather it includes all areas of conflict between the Muslims and the disbelievers. Supporting Islam is not limited only to combating the disbelievers and mushrikeen and their plots; rather it goes beyond that and includes combating the supporters of falsehood in Muslim lands if this falsehood targets Islam itself, such as if those who support falsehood want to change Islamic sharee‘ah or abolish the Islamic caliphate in the Muslim lands, or permit things which are haraam or allow evil things.
We can mention many activities on which we may spend zakaah, because they come under the heading of “and for Allah’s Cause”… – Among which he [the author] mentioned setting up broadcast stations and printing books and other publications intended for the enemies of Islam, to tell them about Islam and call them to it, and to alert them to the misguidance that they are following.
End quote fromAbhaath Fiqhiyyah fi Qadaayaa az-Zakaah al-Mu‘aasirah, 2/849-856
Dr al-Ghufayli (may Allah guide him) says:
The aims that can be achieved by engaging in jihad and by supporting Islam through da‘wah are many and varied, such as setting up Islamic satellite channels that call people to Allah, and supporting them in fulfilling the aim for which they were established. This is one of the greatest kinds of jihad by means of media, and explaining Islam to people, because it has a great impact due to its power to attract and influence people, which is inherent in such media. Invasions of other nations by means of satellite campaigns is more effective than military campaigns, because satellite TV focuses on influencing minds, unlike military campaigns, which only capture tangible things whilst minds and hearts may be difficult to change, even if there is military success.
End quote fromNawaazil az-Zakaah, p. 446
Dr ‘Abd ar-Rahmaan al-Barraak (may Allah guide him) says:
Purely Islamic satellite channels that focus primarily on spreading Islam, explaining its fundamentals and and combatting bid‘ah (innovation) are like community da‘wah centres, and may be more effective. The one who follows that fatwa with regard to giving zakaah to da‘wah centres may follow it with regard to Islamic TV channels. End quote.
Then
Based on a arab network, we do not think there is anything wrong with giving zakaah for starting up an Islamic satellite channel or spending on it so that it can spread its influence among the people, teaching them the proper understanding of Islam and giving them a clear vision, on condition that the giver of zakaah pays attention to some important matters, so that he will not waste his wealth on something that is not of great benefit. These matters are as follows:
1.
He should make sure that the channel’s board of directors are people who are skilled and have a good understanding of Islam; they should also be competent in managing the channel, be able to handle competitors, to establish a long-term project, and to supersede the many other channels.
2.
He should make sure that there is a committee of trustworthy Islamic scholars who are keen to offer sincere advice to the channel and work to evaluate its programming so as to achieve the hoped-for aims without any over exaggeration or carelessness. This committee should include specialists in Islamic knowledge as well as specialists in other important fields, especially education, media and social issues.
3.
He should make sure that there is strict financial transparency in the organisation, so as to guarantee that the money will be spent appropriately and that he will not fall victim to the trickery of some bandits who take advantage of people’s sympathy towards every activity that supports Islam, and take it as a means to get rich and accumulate wealth.
4.
Finally, the one who is in charge of disbursing the zakaah funds must ensure that he tells the giver of how his money is being spent, and keep him informed about all other areas in which there is a difference of scholarly opinion as to whether zakaah money may be spent in those areas, so that he can find out from the giver whether or not he agrees to his zakaah being spent on these areas that are subject to a difference of opinion among the fuqaha’. In this manner we will be able to avoid many contemporary problems and dispel any doubts or accusations that may be stirred up concerning this matter (i.e., how the money is spent).
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Dought & clear, - Is it permissible to say that someone resemblesthe Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)?











My question is: is it permissible for us to say of someone that he has some resemblance to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), if that resemblance is in physical terms only, and not in character or anything else?
Praise be to Allah
There is nothing wrong with the Muslim saying that So and so resembles the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), whether that is physically or in character, if that is indeed the case with regard to that person.
It was narrated that al-Bara’ ibn ‘Aazib (may Allah be pleased with him) said: the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to ‘Ali: “You are of me and I am of you.” And he said to Ja‘far: “You resemble me physically and in character.” And he said to Zayd: “You are our brother and our friend (mawla).”
Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 2700.
Similar things were said by many of the Sahaabah.
It was narrated that Anas ibn Maalik said: No one resembled the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) more than al-Hasan ibn ‘Ali.
Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 3752.
And he said concerning al-Husayn ibn ‘Ali: He was the closest of them in resemblance to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him).
Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 3748.
Al-Haafiz Ibn Hajar said:
Those who resembled the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), other than al-Hasan and al-Husayn, were: Ja‘far ibn Abi Taalib and his son ‘Abdullah ibn Ja‘far, Qutham ibn al-‘Abbaas ibn ‘Abd al-Muttalib, Abu Sufyaan ibn al-Haarith ibn ‘Abd al-Muttalib and Muslim ibn ‘Aqeel ibn Abi Taalib.
Among people other than Banu Haashim were: as-Saa’ib ibn Yazeed al-Muttalibi, the great-grandfather of Imam ash-Shaafa‘i, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Aamir ibn Kareez al-‘Abshami, and Kaabis ibn Rabee‘ah ibn ‘Adiyy. And these add up to ten.
End quote fromFath al-Baari, 7/97
Ibn al-Jawzi said: Among the Taabi‘een there was a man called Kaabis ibn Rabee‘ah as-Saami… he resembled him (the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)). Mu‘aawiyah sent for him and kissed him on his forehead, and he allocated something to him. When Anas ibn Maalik saw him, he wept.
End quote fromKashf al-Mushkil min Hadeeth as-Saheehayn, 1/42
Some of the scholars mentioned people other than these; anyone who has full knowledge of the attributes of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) will understand that.
Ibn ‘Abd al-Haadi said of a man called ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Awaanah al-Maghribi, who was a contemporary of his: More than one of the shaykhs who had knowledge of the attributes of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) told me that this man, al-Maghribi, was similar in physical appearance to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him).
End quote fromSubul al-Hadiy wa’r-Rashaad fi Seerah Khayr al-‘Ibaad, 2/117
Likewise, resemblance may be in character attitude.
Hudhayfah ibn al-Yamaan said: The closest of the people in resemblance to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) in terms of conduct, humility and dignity, was Ibn Umm ‘Abd. Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 6097.
Ibn Umm ‘Abd is ‘Abdullah ibn Mas‘ood (may Allah be pleased with him).
It was narrated that ‘Aa’ishah, the Mother of the Believers, said: I have never seen anyone closer in resemblance to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) in terms of conduct, humility and dignity, or in the manner of standing and sitting, than Faatimah bint Rasool-Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him).
Narrated by at-Tirmidhi, 3762. He said: This is a hasan saheeh hadeeth. It was classed as saheeh by al-Albaani.
The words conduct, humility and dignity are close in meaning; what they refer to is good manners, meekness and calmness, and so on. See:‘Awn al-Ma‘bood, 14/87
End quote fromMirqaat al-Mafaateeh Sharh Mishkaat al-Masaabeeh, 7/2969
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Dought & clear, - He is suffering from excessive desire and he wants to masturbate or watch porn movies to relieve that, and he is asking which of them is less sinful?










Sexual desire has taken control of me to a very great extent, and indeed a very far-reaching extent, and I have been trying to fight it by various means, such as fasting, but after breaking the fast I find myself falling into sin again, or I swear to myself that I will not do it for a certain amount of time, so that it will be extinguished, but I find myself doing it again after the end of that period for which I swore not to do it. I am confused and I am looking for what is known as the lesser of two evils; sometimes I find myself compelled to watch movies and sometimes to masturbate. I am always thinking of various ways and means, but they do not succeed except for a limited time and it is not long before I go back to it again.
I have decided to ask: which of them is less harmful to my religious commitment – watching movies or masturbation? Which of them is the greater sin? I know that both of them are sins.
Praise be to Allah
We are well aware – in sha Allah – of the extent to which you are suffering from stress, pain and anxiety, and we know the conflict you are living through between either striving to control desires or submitting to them and falling prey to them, between either blaming yourself for doing it or giving yourself free rein to indulge in it, so that you can find relief from this anxiety.
But we also know that you have not been able to bear the bitterness of the remedy with patience, and hence you soon give up on it and go back to your problem as soon as you taste the bitterness of the remedy.
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Fasting is a shield,” i.e., a protection. Narrated by al-Bukhaari (7492). But that does not mean that you can a put a worn-out shield with holes in it on your arm, then expect it to protect you on the battlefield! Rather we may say that you are taking it off, and thinking that you are still under its protection.
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) also said: “O young men, whoever among you can afford it, and whoever cannot afford it should fast, for it will be a shield for him.”
Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5065) and Muslim (1400).
One of the effects of fasting is that it weakens desire and reduces it, but there is no way you can achieve that result if you try in only one way to weaken it, but you do not pursue the matter wholeheartedly to the end, rather you strengthen it again in other ways.
Al-Haafiz Ibn Hajar (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
What we learn from this hadeeth is that fasting suppresses sexual desire.
However there may be a problem in that fasting increases heat in the body, and this stirs up desires.
But that only occurs in the beginning, then when one persists in fasting and gets used to it, that settles down.
End quote fromFath al-Baari, 4/119
Do you not see that you have not completed the course; rather you were content to take one step, then you began to fall back?
You need to be patient with the remedy and put up with its bitterness, and strive to overcome your nafs all the way.
You want to choose between two things: the secret habit or watching movies.
Well, suppose we tell you to go ahead and watch the movies; will that solve your problem and weaken your desire, or will it make it worse?
It may be possible to accept such a choice if in both options, or one of them, there is a solution to your problem. However, one of them is the problem, or is one type of the problem, and the other is a way that will surely lead to it. Are you, perhaps, jumping out of the frying pan into the fire? Or do you want to treat the disease with the thing that is itself the disease, then you want us to choose for you which is best for you or is the least sinful?
You will never find healing or relief in either of these two options.
Reflect upon this hadeeth that was narrated by Imam Muslim in his Saheeh (1984): Taariq ibn Suwayd al-Ju’fi asked the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) about khamr, and he forbade him or expressed his disapproval of his making it. He said: I only make it as a remedy. He said: “It is not a remedy, but it is a disease.”
In this case the Sahaabi thought what many people think, that there is some benefit in khamr (alcohol) for treating some diseases, and he asked for a concession allowing him to make it for that reason.
But the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) explained to him that something that is itself a disease cannot bring healing from a disease; rather it will only make the disease worse.
So what you must do is strive to keep yourself chaste by means of marriage at the earliest possible opportunity. You do not have to be restricted by traditional social requirements; rather you should try to reduce these restrictions as much as possible and hasten to marry someone who will keep you chaste. Until you are able to do that, you must keep away from movies completely, lower your gaze, and refrain from this secret habit. You should also fast a great deal and strive hard therein and in other acts of worship and all kinds of permissible deeds that will benefit you in this world and in the hereafter. Do not allow yourself any free time, because if you do not keep your nafs busy with the truth, it will keep you busy with falsehood.
This is no more than a passing desire and transient pleasure, but what will be left is regret and remorse. One wishes that this sense of sorrow would be limited to this world and would end with our death, but it is regret that never dies; it will follow us to the grave, the gathering (on the Day of Resurrection) and the standing before the Judge. Why should we lose our Hereafter for something which, if we sought the help of Allah against it, asked Him to make us steadfast in keeping away from it, and strove to overcome our nafs, we would overcome it by His grace.
There follow some ways and means that may help you, by the grace and power of Allah, to keep away from these sins:
- Hasten to repent and strive against your nafs in order to do so.
- Sincerely turn to Allah, and ask Him to help you against the evil of your nafs and to overcome your desires, and to make it easy for you to find ways to direct your desires in permissible ways, and to divert away from you that which is haraam and that which leads to haraam.
- Strive to offer prayers on time, and offer a lot of naafil (supererogatory) prayers.
- Strive to fast and read Qur’an regularly.
- Always bear in mind that Allah is watching you, and that He is Most Noble and Generous, the One Who conceals sins, may He be glorified. So beware of showing audacity in committing sin, lest Allah then expose your sins
- Strive to find good friends who will help you to do good and will guide you to it.
- Try to exercise regularly and spend time in useful pursuits such as reading.
For more information, please see the answers to questions no. 329, 148007, 26985.
We ask Allah to guide you and to keep you away from evil and immorality, and to make you one of His sincere slaves.
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