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Friday, February 1, 2013

A good sister is more than a good friend.

A good sister is more than a good friend. If sheloves you, she would
do for Allah's sake, with no self-interest. When you'rewith her, you
won't be hurt or ignored. She loves for you what she loves for
herself. She is always concerned about your hereafter and your own
good, she will always remind you of obeying Allah. she alwaysgives
advice, shares her knowledge, keeps contact with you, asks about you
and will always be there for you.
In this Dunya, she is a trustworthy and loving companion. In the
Akhira(the hereafter), because of her love you will be shaded under
Allah's shade, in shaa Allah ♥
The Prophet ﷺ reminds usof the importance of good company in this
hadith (record of the Prophet ﷺ): "A good friend and a bad friend are
like a perfume-seller and a blacksmith: The perfume-seller might give
you some perfume as a gift, or you might buy some from him, or at
least you might smell its fragrance. As for the blacksmith, he might
singe your clothes, and atthe very least you will breathe in the fumes
of the furnace." [Bukhari, Muslim] —

The Most Excellent Jihad

Bismillahir-Rahma-nir-Raheem
"The most excellent jihad is that for the conquest of oneself." This
was a saying of Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alaiyhi wa sallam), our
most blessed prophet. What does it mean to conquer oneself? It is when
the ruh, the spirit, the soul of the body is in control of the body
and the body is no longer in control. There is a lack of understanding
of the reality of the ruh (soul)and it's position in our lives, as
Muslims.
As Sheikh Riyadh al-Haq of London explained in a lecturedhe delivered:
Allah created the angels and fused in them intelligence and created
them from nur (light) and thus the nature of the angels is such that
they have no needs or desires. No need for food, drink, associates,
and relationships. Each angel is created for a certain purpose and
allthat angel does is whatAllah has appointed him to do. Whatever his
duty is, he will obeyAllah subhanahu wa ta'ala. They do not change at
all.
On the other hand, Allah azzowajal created animals, the beasts. But
Allah did not give them any nur or intelligence like the angels, but
Allah created in them the need as well as the desire for bestial
things--food, drink, relationships, the needand the urge to reproduce,
the need for company. But Allah gave them no intelligence, so the
animals spend life eating, drinking, associating, growing up, and
dying and there's nothing more to their lives.
On this hand, we have the creation, the purpose, and the life ofthe
animals and the beasts. On the other hand, we have the creation, as
well as the purpose and the kind of lives the angels have, the
Malaa'ikah. On the one hand, we have what's created from nur and
intelligence. They're whole life is ibaadah and the obedience of Allah
azzowajal and carrying out the tasks Allah had appointed. On the other
hand, we have the animals, where there is no intelligence, neither
were they created from nur. Because neither of these will change, and
they have been given no choice of change, they will be neither
rewarded nor punished.
In between these two, Allah has created man. And in man, Allah has
given him a bit of both.Although man is made of dust, Allah has
givenhim some intelligence, so man, on the one hand, shares
characteristics with the animals and on theother hand, he shares
characteristics with the angels. Allah has also given man choice and
it is within man's grasp and ability to change himself and because he
can change, Allah has promised him reward for good and righteousness
and punishment for evil and sinfulness. Man, according to his
obedience or lack of obedience to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala isinclined
to either of the two. Either he becomes close to the angels, their
characteristics, and their ways or man can fall so low, he becomeslike
the animals and the beasts. In fact, Allah describes this in the
Qur'an. Allah says:
"Indeed We have created man in the best fashion and mold, then We have
reduced him to the lowest of the low."
When a human being comes into the world in the form of a baby, Allah
makes it beautiful, both physically and in spirit.It is born pure. But
throughout the life, according to the company and according to the
deeds,that same child becomes so evil that Allah describes him as
being the lowest of thelow. Except of course"Illalladhina aamanu wa
amilussalihaat"--thosewho believe and do good deeds. Allah describes
those who have gone far from the path of Allah, "These people are like
animals. Nay! They are even worse."
On the other hand, through his ibaadah (worship), through his
obedience, mankind can rise. Man can rise to such heights that the
angels seek their attention. Man can rise to such heights, that, as
Muhammad (sallallahu alaiyhi wa sallam) explains in a hadith, even the
angelsbecome envious of man's position. But notin a bad way because
angels are incapable ofsin and they will never sin, but in terms of
admiration and respect. Man can rise to such heights that Allah boasts
of man to His angels. In a hadithi qudsi, Allah says, "I am with my
servant as he thinks of Me." The meaning of this hadith is the way a
person sees Allah, how he views Him, the kinds ofexpectations he has
from Allah, Allah azzowajal deals with him accordingly. If man
despairs of Allah'smercy, then Allah azzowajal will deprive him of His
mercy. "I amwith my servant as he thinks of Me and I am with him
whenever he thinks of Me. If he remembers Me in his heart, I remember
him in My heart. If he remembers Me in a gathering, I remember him in
a better gathering," the gathering of the angels. And the thing that
makes man's temperament and his character flexible, the thing which
gives him the ability to do good and bad is not the body. It is the
ruh. And because there is no ruhin the animals, they will not change
for the worse or the better, but Allah has given man the body, the
flesh, the bones, the blood, his needs, his urges, his desires, and
together with that, Allah has given him intelligence and Allah has
given him the ruh.
That ruh does not come from the same origin as his body, his needs,
his desires, and urges--these things come from the animals. His ruh
comesfrom the heavens, his ruh comes from another realm all together
and it is this that changes man, thatmakes him better or worse. The
ruh is the essential part of the man's body, not the rest. The essence
of lifeis the ruh. When Allah commanded the angels to prostrate to
Adam (alaiyhis-salam),they were not commanded to only prostrate to the
body. No. Allah says in the Qur'an: "When I have completed the
creationof Adam, when I have fashioned him completely and when I have
blown into him ofmy ruh, then fall down into prostration." So, it's
not the body, the flesh, the bones that the angels were supposed to
respect, it was the ruh of the man. And the life of thearwah (plural
of ruh) began then, not at the moment of birth, nor will it end at the
time of death. That is why it is so important to realize that the ruh
is the essence of life, it is the essence of the human being, the
essence of Allah's creation, and not the body. Allah provides a cage,
a shell, a means of transport for the ruhand that cage, that shell,
that means of transport is none otherthan the body.
But, Subhannallah, we have neglected the ruhand we have devoted our
entire attention to the body, the cage, the shell. If we devote our
entire attention to this body, the cage, the shell, the flesh, the
bones, then there could be none more foolish than ourselves. Just as
the body needs food, drink and nourishment, the ruh needs food, drink,
and nourishment. Allah gives it everything; its food, drink, energy,
and nourishment and it comes from the same origin it was created. The
ruh needs to survive, but its nourishment does not come from the
dunya, the earth, the dust. Because the ruh comesfrom Allah, it is
heavenly, it is celestial,it is elevated. The nourishment all
comesfrom the same source and the nourishment of the ruh is the Qur'an
and the dhikr (remembrance) of Allah. And only that can upkeep the
ruh. It can give it strength, it can suspend it. But imagine how
foolish we would be if we allow the ruh, which has survived and has
journeyed from the moment Allah creatingit in the "Realm of the
Spirits," if we allow this spirit that carried all the way from there
into this short phase inthe dunya because of our neglect, our lack of
attention because we are too preoccupied with the shell, the body, if
we allow the real person, the real essence to die in this dunya and if
the ruh dies now and if we don't allow it to prosper, then indeed we
have destroyed ourselves. (Remember the ruh will not literally die.)
Allah swears by all His creations, the sun, the moon, the day, the
night, the heavens, the canopy of the heavens and Allah who raised the
canopy and the earth and the soul. Allah even swears by the soul and
Allah who created and fashioned the soul and after having created the
soul, Allah inspired it to both good as well asevil. "We sewed and
guided man to both ways of good as well as evil." After swearingupon
all these things, Allah says, "Successful is thee." And the meaning of
true success is the bliss of the akhira, the hereafter. Successful is
thee who allows the soul, the ruh, to grow and prosper, who cleanses
his soul to let it grow and prosper. Indeed, he is successful. And he
whoreduces the growth of the ruh, suppresses it, and prevents it from
expanding and growing, indeed he is the one who is a loser.
If we kill off our ruh merely for the lavishment and enjoyments of the
worldly desires, we aregoing to do it at the expense of our ruh, which
never dies. Our bodies will die, but Allah has made our ruh, so that
it will "live on." Muhammad (sallallahu alaiyhi wa sallam) was lying
on top of a mat. The Sahaba entered; the mat was course; it wasvery
rough. It's the kind of straw mat that we see in hot countries.
Rasoolullah
(sallallahu alaiyhi wa sallam) stood up. The upper part of his body
was bare. The Sahaba noticed the criss-cross marks of the mat
impressed on the back of the Prophet (sallallahu alaiyhi wa sallam)
and they said,"Oh, Prophet of Allah! Why didn't you inform us? Had you
told us, wecould've laid out some bedding for you, so you could rest
in comfort and you wouldnot have those marks on your back." Upon this,
he replied, "What connection do I have with the dunya? I am but a
traveler who takes shade under the tree from the heat of the sun and
when he has rested, he gets up and leaves the tree." So, man is a
traveler in the world. The ruh is a traveler and the Prophet
(sallallahu alaiyhi wa sallam) teaches us by example and demonstrates
by person that the body does not require the attention we lavish over
it, especially at the expense of the ruh.Why? Because the body is
merely a cage, a shell, a means of transportation and the real
traveler is the ruh. And if we neglect the ruh, we will die, die a
spiritual death even if we live for over a hundred years.
It is well known that everything has a heart,an essence to life. If
theheart is not healthy, if the essence is rotting, then it is only a
question of time before everything else suffers and similarly, if our
ruh suffers, if our ruh dies a spiritual death, if the growth of our
ruh is prevented and if it is suppressed, then it does not matterhow
beautiful our a'mal may seem, how beautiful our outward life may seem,
our obedience may seem, no matter how religious we say seem to
ourselves and to others, it is only a question of time before the
internal rot takes over. It is only a question of time that the
corruption within takes over and destroys everything.
The following examplewill show how essential the physical heart is to
the physical body and how, despite the outward strength and stamina of
the body, if the physical heart is not stronger, then the rest has no
impact. It's a reverse. The heart will determine the life and strength
of that individual. For example, a few years ago, in America, there
was a famous fitness fanatic, so famous for being fit himself, as well
as teaching it to others, that he was given the title "Fitness Guru."
He was extremely healthy, but one day he went out for a jog at a young
age, fell down flat, and died. How? The heart. Despite being a fitness
guru and instructor, despite the outward strength of the body, the
heart was weak. The physical heart is what determines the health and
life of the person. Likewise, how beautiful our a'mal may seem to
ourselves and others, no matter how religious we and others consider
us, or how spiritual and holy we may seem, the health of our spiritual
life is not so much so determined by our religiousness and deeds as by
the health of the ruh. If the ruh is healthy, it will be in the
highest of the high.But if the ruh is ill--prevented from growing and
prospering, even though we may be beautiful and attractive from the
outside, as the munafiqeen (hypocrites) were, we've lost ourselves and
not only have we lost ourselves, we havedestroyed ourselves.
The reality is that though we may be attractive and loved to be viewed
by others, if the ruh is neglected and suppressed and has no
nourishment, Allah says they are hollow planks, as the munafiqeen
were. Hollow planks that were made to lean against a wall because they
cannot stand by themselves. The Prophet (sallallahu alaiyhi wa sallam)
said, "Indeed, Allah will not view your bodies or your wealth, Allah
will see your hearts and youre a'maland even more important than that
is the state of the ruh."
Now, the ruh can rise. It can rise to the heights of the angels. It
can become so powerful that it could take over the whole body because
it's attached to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Then the body becomes
obedient and subservient to the ruh. If the ruh engages in the dhikr
and remembrance of Allah, then the body will do the same. If the ruh
does not wish to disobey Allah azzowajal, then despite the cravings of
the nafs, despite the desires and passions ofthe rest of the body, the
ruh will prevent it. But if the ruh is weak and the body craves the
worldly desires of the nafs, the ruh will succumb, it will submit, and
it will giveup. And that means theruh is dead and the entire body is
corrupt. The Prophet (sallallahualaiyhi wa sallam) said, "Indeed there
is apiece of flesh in the body and if pure, the whole body will be
pure and if corrupt, thewhole body will be corrupt. It is the
heart."The heart that the Prophet (sallallahu alaiyhi wa sallam) is
referring to is the ruh, the essence of life.
We can rise, but what prevents us? The bestial passions, urges,and
desires--these things that we share with the animals. This animal-like
behavior prevents us from risingto the heights of the angels and keeps
us down to the level of the beasts.
(End of part of lecture that was delivered by Sheikh Riyadh al-Haq.)
Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has given us the opportunity to shake off
this restriction and to rise from that low level. How? He gives usthe
month of Ramadan, a month in which He chains the Shayateen in order to
let us rise about our desires and urges and he gives the ruh a chance
to survive, grow, and prosper. Instead of eating, drinking, and
indulging in our passions during our fasting periods, we should take
advantage of the time Allah gives us to rise to the heights of the
angels by indulging in His dhikr, His remembrance, and in reciting the
Holy Qur'an, the soother of pains, the healer of thedeepest wounds,
the spring that nourishes the soul when sick, the well that bathes the
body when tired, the passionate companion in the grave, the interceder
on the Day of Judgement, the nur of the straight path, the shield and
protection against the Hellfire. The miracle and blessing of the
Qur'an is the cure for reviving the ruh. The holy month of Ramadan has
passed before our eyes, but that does not mean wemust wait till then
to nourish our souls, our arwah, our real persons, our real qualities,
our real characteristics. We canstart now, this very moment. It is up
to us to take that first step.
The reciting of the Qur'an has dynamic powers. If we could only
observe it properly. The Qur'an was not send down to only read when
one passes away, but today, it seems that this is a ritual when it
comes to reading this most auspicious Book. It was sent down as a
guidance to mankind, an answer to all questions, the solutionto all
problems, the cure to all things. And it was sent down for usto apply
in our daily lives, to apply to every single aspect of our lives. What
is the Qur'an? It is the channel of communication between the servant
and his Lord. It is the very words spoken by our Lord, Himself, which
He has promised to protect until the Day of Resurrection; the one
revelation which has remained unchanged since it was revealed. It is
most powerful in its eternal mission of enlightening the hearts of the
believers.
We must divert our attention from the body, the bones, the flesh, the
cage, the shell, the means of transportation to the real essence of
life, the real traveler in the world, the ruh.
We must do our best toprevent ourselves fromindulging in the needs and
desires of the body: unnecessary consuming of food anddrink,
un-Islamic association, un-Islamicgatherings, which holdno benefit,
movies, music, TV, sleeping, and the list goes on and on.
Unless by this lecture you were affected tremendously, can you let go
of all these worldly bestial things all at once. Most of us can't do
it, but we can do it, gradually. For example, by reducing the amount
of music one listens to or the amount of TV one watches, then
gradually quitting TV and music and substituting them withother more
Islamically beneficial things.
If we sincerely want to give our ruh a chance to live, if we sincerely
want to be successful in the akhirah, if we sincerely want to receive
the love and pleasure of Allah, Most Exalted, the Compassionate, the
Merciful, if we sincerely want to learnto love Him and devoteand
submit ourselves to Him fully, and Him alone, we must repent.We must
repent sincerely and meaningfully to Allah and ask for His forgiveness
for our sins, our ignorance in neglecting the ruh, Islam, His ibadah,
His remembrance, after all the kindness He shows us in keeping us
alive and healthy and of course in many, many other ways. When one
repents sincerely, he is so taken by remorse that tears gush from his
eyes as water gushes from a cliff in the form of a waterfall.If we
can't seem to cry, we must concentrate and force ourselves to cry, for
even this will help in more ways than one.
Insha Allah, if we repent, we must not only ask for Allah's
forgiveness, but His guidance to the Siraatul Mustaqeem forus and our
families and all Muslims. We must ask for His help innourishing our
souls. We must ask Him to help us become such servants who love Him
more than our family and our wealth. Subhannallah, by Allah's will, a
message of truth has been submitted and only by His will, will it
enter our hearts and only by His divine will, will we take heed and
may Allah allow our hearts to soften up to His message, the Holy
Qur'an and that we willallow it to prosper ourselves without giving it
a second thought.
Whether you at work, school, or home reading this, you can start
nourishing your ruh now. If at work or school, start doing tasbih with
concentration on your glorification of Allah. Try to abstain from
mixing freely with the opposite sex. Wherever there is free mixing of
men and women, Shaytaan is there to arouse in them evil thoughts
anddesires. If you are able,pray your required salah at work or
schoolif there is no nearby mosque. Who cares what the non-Muslims
think? Why? On the Day of Judgement, theywill not be your protectors
or your helpers or the forgivers of your sins. The Only Protector,
Helper, Forgiver of sinsis Allah and only He will help us on the Day
when we will need help the most, if we deserve such kindness and
mercy.
If you are at home reading this, make wudu, pray your required salah,
plus 2 nafl salah of Salaatut-Towbah (prayer of repentance) after the
required salah. After offering salah, pick up the Qur'an, kiss it,
openit, and beginning in the name of Allah, startreading with the pure
intention of gaining guidance and the pure intention of pleasing Allah
subhanahu wa ta'ala. If you cannot read Arabic, please learn how.
Until then, read the translation of the Qur'an in English orwhatever
language you understand best. Keep up with the habit of refraining
from sins,reciting the Qur'an, doing dhikr, offering prayers, and
making supplications (du'a) and Insha Allah, you will be successful.
None of us is perfect. Infact, we are far from it, but with a firm
intention and with the help of Allah, we can rise to the heights of
the angels, the highest of the high.
May Allah include us among those who are successful in His eyes,
successful in this worldas Muslims (who submit fully to Allah) and
more importantly, successful in the akhirah (hereafter). May Allah
give us the towfique to better ourselves and may He include us among
those of whom He has favored, not those whoearn His anger, nor those
who go stray. Ameen.

The Woman as Human Being and Equal to Man

Islam was revealed at a time when a lot of people denied the humanity
of the woman;some were skeptical about it; and still others admitted
it, yet considered the woman athing created for the humble service of
the man.
With the advent of Islam,circumstances improved for the woman. The
woman's dignity and humanity were restored.Islam confirmed her
capacity to carry out Allah's commands, her responsibilities and
observation of the commands that lead to heaven.
Islam considered the woman as a worthy human being, with a share in
humanity equal to that of the man. Their single origin, their general
human traits, their responsibility for the observation of religious
duties with the consequent reward or punishment, and the unity of
their destiny all bear witness to their equality from the Islamicpoint
of view. This fact isestablished in the Noble Qur'an.
" O mankind! Be dutiful to your Lord, Who created you from a single
person (Adam) and from him (Adam) He created his wife (Eve), and from
them both He created many men and women and fear Allah through Whom
you demand your mutual (rights), and (do not cut the relations of) the
wombs (kinship). Surely, Allah is Ever an All-Watcher over you." The
Holy Qur'an, Chapter 4, Verse 1
As is stated in another verse:
" It is He Who has created you from a single person (Adam), and (then)
He has created from him his wife (Eve), in order that he might enjoy
the pleasure of living with her." The Holy Qur'an, Chapter 7,Verse 189
The Qur'an, on its part, treats this issue of equality among men
andwomen from more than one perspective.
On the purely religious level
"Verily, the Muslims (those who submit to Allah in Islam) men and
women,the believers men and women (who believe in Islamic
Monotheism),the men and the women who areobedient (to Allah), the men
and women who are truthful (in their speech and deeds), the men and
the women who are patient (in performing all the dutieswhich Allah has
ordered and in abstaining from all that Allah has forbidden), the men
andthe women who are humble (before their Lord Allah),the men and the
women who give Sadaqat, (i.e. Zakat, and alms, etc.),the men and the
women who fast (the obligatory fasting during the month of Ramadan and
the optional Nawafil fasting),the men and women who guard
theirchastity (from illegal sexual acts) and the menand women who
remember Allah much with their hearts and tongues (while sitting,
standing, lying, etc.) Allah has prepared for them forgiveness and a
great reward (i.e. Paradise)." The Holy Qur'an, Chapter 33, Verse35
On the basic social and religious responsibilities
The Qur'an establishes equality by maintaining
"The believers, men and women, are "Awliy," (helpers, supporters,
friends, protectors) of one another, they enjoin(on the people)
Al-Ma`ruf (i.e. Islamic Monotheism and all that Islam orders one to
do);and forbid (people) from Al-Munkar (i.e. polytheism and disbelief
of all kinds, and all that Islam has forbidden); they offer their
prayers perfectly (lqamat-as-Salat), and give the Zakat and obey Allah
and His Messenger. Allah will have mercy on them." The Holy Qur'an,
Chapter 9, Verse 71
In Adam's story, Divine Orders were made to him and his wife, both and equally:
"O Adam! Dwell you and your wife in the Paradise and eat both ofyou
freely with pleasure and delight of things therein as wherever you
will, but come not near this tree or you both willbe of the Zalim'n
(wrongdoers)." The Holy Qur'an, Chapter 2, Verse 35
What is new, however, about this story as given by the Qur'an is that
the temptation is blamed not on Eve but on Satan.
"Then the Satan made them slip there from (theParadise), and got them
out from that in which they were." The Holy Qur'an, Chapter 236
The reverse of The Old Testament versions. ThusEve was neither the
sole eater from the tree, nor the one who initiated the act. Rather,
the mistake was theirs both, and both of them repented and asked for
forgiveness:
"They said, "Our Lord! We have wronged ourselves. If You forgive us
not, and bestow not upon us Your Mercy, we shall be losers." The Holy
Qur'an, Chapter 7, Verse 23
Further still, some verses ascribe the trespass to Adam:
"And indeed We made a covenant with Adam before, but he forgot, and We
found on his part no firm will-power". Then Satan whispered to him
saying, "O Adam! Shall I lead you to the Tree of Eternity and to a
kingdom that will never waste away?" Thus did Adam disobey his Lord,
so he went astray." The Holy Qur'an, Chapter 20, Verse 115, 120 and
121
Equality of punishment and reward and eligibility for Paradise
The Almighty says: "That was a nation who has passed away. They shall
receive the reward of what they earned and you of what you earn. And
you will not be asked of what they used to do." The Holy Qur'an,
Chapter 2, Verse 134 and 141.
Concerning the equality of men and women in receiving rewards and the
entry of paradise, God says:
"So their Lord accepted of them (their supplication and answered
them), "Never will I allow to be lost the work of any of you, be he
male or female." The Holy Qur'an, Chapter 3, Verse 195
"And Whoever works righteousness, whether male or female, while he(or
she) is a true believer(of Islamic Monotheism) verily, to him We will
give a good life (in this world with respect, contentment and lawful
provision), and We shall pay them certainly a reward in proportion to
the best of what they used to do (i.e. Paradise in the Hereafter)."
The Holy Qur'an, Chapter 16, Verse 97
Financial matters
The rule of Islam abolished the conventions prevalent among many
nations which deprived the woman of the right of ownership,
inheritance, and those which createdobstacles against her exercise of
free and full control of her holdings. As a rule, Islam acknowledges
the woman's rights to all kinds of ownership, spending and channeling
of her money. It gives her the rights of inheritance, selling, buying,
renting, donating, lending, allocating property for religious and
charitable purposes, giving alms, legal transfer and mortgage, as well
as many other forms of contracts and actions.
Right to seek education
The woman's right to seek education or learning is basic and is also
guaranteed by Islamic teachings. Islam actually makes it incumbent on
the woman to seek knowledge; the Prophet (blessings and peace be upon
him) says, `seekingknowledge is incumbenton every Muslim," where"every
Muslim" obviouslyinvolves men and women on an equal footing as a rule
formalised by all authorities of jurisprudence.
Right to perform religious ordinances
The woman is also required to perform religious ordinances andforms of
worship the way the man is. Praying, fasting, Zakat (the alms
sanctifying tax), pilgrimage and all the other fundamental practices
in Islam are required of Muslims in their capacity, both men and
women, as responsible humans. Again the woman's actions are
recompensedby Allah the way the man's actions are.
Social activity
The woman is not excluded from the area of social activity; Allah says:
"The believers, men and women, are "Awliy," (helpers, supporters,
friends, protectors) of one another, they enjoin(on the people)
Al-Ma`ruf (i.e. Islamic Monotheism and all that Islam orders one to
do); and forbid (people) fromAl-Munkar (i.e. polytheism and disbelief
of all kinds, and all that Islam has forbidden)." The Holy Qur�an,
Chapter9, Verse 71.
For instance, she can give refuge for those who seek it. If she hosts
a refugee, her action is to be respected and observed. This rule
relates back to Um Hanibint Abi Talib's giving relief to a father
in-law on the day of the Conquest of Mecca by Muslims. When her
brother wanted to kill him because he was an infidel, she complained
to Allah's Messenger (blessings and peace be upon him) saying,"Allah's
Messenger, my mother's son insists on killing my refugee, Ibn Hubayra.
"The Prophet (blessings and peace be upon him) replied, "We confer
asylum on him that you give refuge to, Um Hani". [Mutafaq aley (agreed
upon) on the authority of Um Hani, The Pearl and the Coral (Al-Lu'lu'
wal-Marjan) (193)]

Hijab - Unveiling the Mystery

American Muslim womentoday are rediscovering the pristine Islam as
revealed by Allah, (God), to the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh1), more than
1,400 years ago, but without any of the contradictions of ancestral
culture. Consequently they are essentially engaging in alife-long
exercise of rediscovering their own selves � what it means tobe a
human, a Muslim, and more so, a Muslim woman. Wearing a head-covering
(hijab) is an important part of their spiritual journey.
One of the most commonquestions today, asked by Muslims and
non-Muslims alike, is:"Why do Muslim women cover their heads?� The
answer is very simple - Muslim women observe hijab because Allah has
told them to do so:
"O Prophet, tell your wives and daughters and the believing women to
draw their outer garments around them (when they go out or are among
men). Thatis better in order that they may be known (to be Muslims)
and not annoyed..." (Qur'an 33:59).
Muslims believe that their sole purpose in life is the worship of God
alone, according to His instructions, as revealed in the Holy Qur�an,
and through the teachings ofthe Prophet Mohammed (pbuh). As such,
wearingthe hijab is an act of obedience to God and, hence, forms the
primary basis for wearing it.
Generalizations about Islam and Muslims are replete in today�s media.
Muslim women inheadscarves are frequently unfairly stigmatized. They
are regarded on the one hand as oppressed, and on the other, as
fanatics and fundamentalists. Both depictions are grossly wrong and
imprecise. Such portrayals not only misrepresent these women�s strong
feelingstowards hijab, but also fail to acknowledge their courage and
the resulting identity hijab gives them. There are even bans on
wearing the hijab in some countries. When asked about this, Aminah
Assilmi, a Christian convert to Islam, said: �To ask me to go out
without my hijab would be like asking a nun to go topless. It amazes
me,and I cannot help but wonder, if they would have ordered Mary, the
mother of Jesus (pbuh) to uncover her hair.�
Another misconception is the belief that Muslim women are forced to
wear hijab. For the vast majority of Muslim women, nothing could be
farther from the truth. Indeed, deciding finally to wear hijab is
often difficult. Days of meditation, fear of negative consequences and
reactions from family and/or the wider American society, and
ultimately, the need for plenty of courage weighheavily in reaching
the decision. Wearing hijab is a very personal and independent
decision, coming from appreciating the wisdom underlying Allah�s
command and a sincere wish to please Him.
�For me, the lead up to the decision to wear hijab was more difficult
than actually wearing it. I found that, al hamdulillah (praise be
toGod), although I did receive negative comments from people,
Iappreciated the feeling of modesty wearing the hijab gave me, and
ironically, the negative attention made me feel more proud to be
identified as a Muslim,� remarked Katherine Bullock, a Canadian
convert to Islam.
�To me hijab is a gift from Allah. It gives me the opportunity to
become closer to Allah. Also quite importantly, (it provides me) the
chance to stand and be recognized as a Muslim,"Fariha Khan of
Rockville, Maryland, said.
While the hijab identifies women as followers of Islam, with it comes
tremendous responsibility. Hijab is not merely a covering dress, but
more importantly, it is behavior, manners, speech and appearance in
public. The headscarf is an outer manifestation of an inner commitment
to worshipping Allah � it symbolizes a commitment to piety. Self or
inner morality is what gives meaning to the external scarf. This can
be perceived from the overall demeanor of any Muslim woman � how she
acts, dresses, speaks, and so on. In a land where misinformation about
Islam and Muslims abounds, Muslim sisters have the opportunity to
portray Islam in its true light
Saba M. Baig, a graduateof Rutgers University, NJ, was 17 when she
seriously started wearing hijab. She feels that she is still in the
process of learning internal hijab. "My biggest realization was that
hijab was not just about wearing a scarf on my head, but more ofa
(veil) on my heart," said Baig. "Hijab is more than an external
covering. That�s the easypart of it all. It has a lot (more) to do
with modesty and just the way you present yourself."
Imaan, a convert to Islam, adds,"Unfortunately, it also has its down
side: you get discriminated against, treated as though you are
oppressed� I wear it for (Allah), and because I want to. Period."
Katherine Bullock observed that �after I started wearing hijab, I
noticed that people would often behave more circumspectly with me,
like apologizing if they swore. I appreciated that. I feel that
wearing hijab has given me an insight into a decent and upright
lifestyle.�
HIJAB IS AN ACT OF MODESTY
Modest clothing and hijab are precautions to avoid social violations.
The following verses of the Qur�an highlight that this is not limited
to women only.
"Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard
their modesty; that will make for greater purity for them; and Allah
is well acquainted with all that they do. And say to the believing
women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; and
that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what
must ordinarily appear thereof; that they shoulddraw their veils over
their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands..."
(Qur'an 24:30-31)
According to Jabir ibn Abdullah, when he askedthe Prophet (pbuh),
about a man�s gaze falling inadvertently on a strange woman, the
Prophet replied, "Turn your eyes away" (Muslim). In another tradition,
the Prophet (pbuh) chided for looking again at a woman � he said, the
second glance is from Satan.
So, contrary to popular belief, Muslim and non-Muslim, hijab is not
worn for men; to keep their illicit desires in check � that is their
own responsibility, as the above verse and Prophetic sayings show.
Rather, Muslim women wear it for God and theirown selves. Islam is a
religion of moderation and of balance between extremes. Therefore, it
does not expect women alone to uphold society�s morality and
uprightness. Rather, Islam asks men and women mutually to strive to
create a healthysocial environment where children may grow with
positive, beautiful, constructive and practical values and concepts.
In fact, for many women hijab is a constant reminder that they should
not have to design their lives and bodies for men. "Before I started
covering, I thought of myself based on what others thought of me. I
see that too often in girls, their happiness depends on how others
view them, especially men. Ever since, my opinion of myself has
changed so much; I have gained (a lot of) self-respect. I have
realized whether others may think of me as beautiful is not what
matters. How beautiful I think of myself and knowing that Allah finds
me beautiful makes me feel beautiful," Baig recounts.
The concept of modesty and hijab in Islam is holistic, and encompasses
both men and women. The ultimate goal is to maintain societal
stability and to please God.
Since Muslim women aremore conspicuous because of their appearance, it
is easier for people to associate them with the warped images they see
in the print and broadcast media. Hence, stereotypes are perpetuated
and Muslim women often seem"mysterious" to those not acquainted with
the religious meanings of hijab. This aura of"mystery" cannot be
removed until their lifestyles, beliefs and thought-systems are
genuinely explored. And,this cannot be achieved until one is not
afraid respectfully to approach Muslim women � or men for that matter.
So, the next time you see a Muslim, stop and talk to them � you�ll
feel, God-Willing, as if you�re entering a different world, the world
of Islam: full of humility, piety, and of course, modesty!
1. (pbuh) here stands forpeace be upon him
by Saulat Pervez