Story, - Love Story

Hi frenzz.,i directly wanna start this story..This is a True Love
story.There was a guy name Rehan and a girl Zoya.zoya was very popular
girl in her teenage life.she was very known person.she was very much
intrested in making friends and she was having many boyfriends
even,zoya never wanted to make many boyfriends but she goes in
relationship because of her idot behaviour,and always she got ditched
by thoes boyfriend.one day when zoya was in 11th class she got a wrong
number from a guy name kaif and as usual she started talking to that
guy and then kaif and zoya became friends,talking on phone was going
on and then kaif proposed zoya and again zoya said yes,then kaif was
having a best friend name rehan who came into picture.one day when
kaif was not rehan started talking to zoya by kaif's name but zoya
dint recognised that he is rehan.then whenever kaif come rehan use to
give the phone to kaif and then kaif use to talk with zoya then rehan
and kaif were playing a game with zoya,zoya clicked that something is
wrong she said rehan that "Tell me are kaif or rehan" then rehan
accepted that he is rehan and he said that kaif is having another
girlfriend and kaif don't love you.and then rehan proposed to zoya but
as zoya was shocked so she had stoped talking with both of them.
After six month zoya was busy in her life and she was not hving any
boyfriend she use to stay alone becuase she was fedup with her life
zoya was a swimmer she went for her swimming state level compitions
their she got a call from Shifan.and shifan was zoya's ex boyfriend
zoya said to shifan that she is changed and she dont want to talk with
anyone shifan forced her so she said to shifan that she will only be a
friend with shifan.then next day she returned home from her swimming
compitions.and she saw her mummy's cell phone she was about to play a
song so she was checking her mummy's phone she saw number of rehan,she
had called and seen is this rehan's or not.when zoya called to rehan
she directly asked "is this rehan" and rehan said yes rehan said "zoya
you still remember my voice" then she smiled and said yes she asked
rehan why did he called her after so long time.he said i was missing
you and was desparate to listen your voice.she said why rehan said i
realy love you and then zoya accpeted his proposal rehan and the main
story begain.zoya was a coreographer also she started her dance
acadamy zoya was not having her own cell phone whatever she use earn
from dance class se use spent all earning on rehan's call in day she
goes on STD booth to call rehan as rehan was in mumbai so they use to
talk on phone for 1 hour and one day zoya thought to talk more than 1
hour that day while talking rehan said a truth to zoya that rehan is
in love with some other girl her name was Mehwish she was rehan's
uncle's daughter rehan said to zoya that he is not serious about zoya
and truely love mehwish and he wants to marry her only zoya started
crying and and she said to rehan that "rehan i don't have any problem
with this thing you love her and you want to marry her but the things
is realy love alot and i just want to be with you that's ok if you
want to marry her but please be with me".
Rehan said to zoya that he can't marry zoya she accpeted and then they
both disconnected the call.Then daily zoya and rehan use to talk in
same way as they were before but zoya got very upset just because she
was deeply in love with rehan she don't say anything rehan always use
to say about mehwish to zoya and she smile and listen.Then the day
when Zoya and Rehan saw each other for the 1st time.zoya and rehan
decided to meet in theater to watch movie together zoya was not having
bike so she went by auto to PVR cinema hall.rehan said zoya to take
tickets zoya was wearing blue jeans and black top and she was
purchasing tickets,while that rehan entered the gate of cinema hall
and he came near the enterance zoya saw rehan and she was very much
happy to see him.rehan dint even smile but then they both went into
the auditorium were GHAJINI movie was going on and the date was 8th
January 2008,they saw movie they accpeted each other.then again they
went for movie and this was way they use meet each other.after some
days rehan went back to Mumbai and then zoya also took a phone to
contact with rehan. ten zoya and rehan use to talking on phone whole
day rehan use to go for football practice in morning at 6'o'clock.1
day on 21st february rehan said to zoya that he will take zoya on
conference call so that zoya can hear the talk between rehan and
rehan's family nobady was knowing that it was last talk of rehan with
his mom.it was about to 8pm in evening rehan was talking with his
family he had talked to his brother,eler sister,his brother's kids and
then call connected to mom rehan did Salam to his mom and zoya also
did salam at the same time but as zoya had kept her phone on mute
nobody was able to listen zoya's voice,rehan's mom said to rehan to
eat food properly take care of himslef and then she said to rehan to
call her tommorow means on 22nd febuary in morning she wanted to talk
to rehan he said ok and call disconnected.then next zoya talked with
rehan and she said to rehan to call his mom she must be waiting rehan
said yes he will but reha forgotten and he din't called to his
mom.then next day in morning same again rehan was going for practice
of football so he talking to zoya and rehan said ok zoya i will call
you after practice a guy is staring me,zoya said ok and again zoya
said to rehan to call his mom she must be waiting for call,rehan ok
call disconnected.
As rehan and zoya use to talk whole day whole night zoya was sleeping
in morning and she kept her phone on silent,when she awaked she saw so
many misscalled of from rehans phone then she desparatly called to
rehan and rehan's friend recieved the call his name was Lucky he said
to zoya not to call again rehan's mom is no more with him and Lucky
disconnected the call,then zoya again called to rehan then rehan
recieved it and rehan was crying he said he is coming back home and he
will call to zoya.zoya started crying zoya said evrything to her mom
and her mom said that it happens its life evryone has to go one day.
and zoya and her mom prayed for rehan's mom.then next day zoya got a
call from rehan zoya handled rehan.she din't gave chance to cry to
rehan the zoya gave her phone to her mom and then rehan talked to
zoya's mom and he flet little bit good.reha said thanks to zoya that
she is with rehan and the girl mehwish din't even ask rehan for water
when he was crying she din't even talked with rehan the time when
rehan needed her alot. he said zoya you are the only girl who had
supported me at this situation.then rehan started realising that zoya
realy love him...(want to know more what happend after this keep
reading frenzz.....hope you like it.

Story, - My Love Story

I was a person who was totally against a relationship. But all of a
sudden something happened to me….
It all started in the year 2010….I know him as my college senior….I
have met him during the Orphanage visits which we students organize in
college (he was in his pre-final yr, I in second yr)…. The very first
time I met him kindled my feelings… Is this called "Love at first
sight"????... After that day, almost for a year we never talked with
each other nor texted (Both of us didn't share our contacts even in
FB)…But whenever we crossed each other in college we exchanged our
Hi's and Bye's with a smile . All his friends were my friends in FB
but he was not…
Then on the 4th week of Jan 2011, I saw his name and his profile
picture on the 'People You May Know' column in FB… I clicked on 'Add
Friend' :p…. Immediately my request was accepted and his chat message
saying "Hi…" popped out...I also replied "hi...". Then we had a normal
and a formal conversation that would happen between a junior and a
senior… The very next day he asked for my contact number in FB... I
usually hesitate to share my number on FB that too with guys... But I
dunno why, my fingers started typing my number and before even I could
realize it, it pressed ENTER… I never regretted for it thou…
Immediately after that I got a message in my mobile saying "This is
XXX"… We stopped chatting in FB and our conversation continued on
mobile….Fortunately I had to cross his bus stop while going to
college… As soon as I get into the bus I will text him and he makes
sure that he meets me and follows my bus in his bike… I will tell him
the exact place where am seated and he tries and drives to make sure
that am not going out of his sight…  We used to text daily and I
dunno what we had to talk or text. May be those were the sweet
nothings that brought us close to each other. This continued for two
weeks and the most awaited college cultural came up… All were in
festive mood… We both started talking in college whenever possible… We
both had few common friends and hence it was not a big deal for us to
talk without any hesitation or fear…. We had a 2-day college fest… and
on the first day it got late for the programs to get over… and
unfortunately (actually fortunately…!!!!!) all my friends who used to
accompany me left early and I was alone at 10pm in the night… As he
had a dance rehearsal for his program on the next day, he was in a
dance school. As soon as I got into the bus I texted him and he
replied back… he asked about my whereabouts and I told him. He asked
me if anyone was there with me. I said "No, am going alone and my dad
will pick me up from my bus stop"… And he replied, "This is the last
time you will be going alone…. Reach home safely and text me". I felt
something fishy :P. I smiled and replied "Okie..". Then I reached home
I texted him.. I waited for him till he finished his practice and
reached home, just to say GOODNIGHT… Then came the second day of
culturals… I was roaming with my friends and he was busy with his
programs... Then the long awaited program of this guy came up in the
evening… My eyes didn't take any other sight other than him… I tried
hard to keep my eyes on him being seated at the last few rows and
people dancing in front of us… As soon as he finished his dance he
came down and stood behind the place where both of our friends were
sitting…. His friends already having known that something is happening
between us, called him and offered him a place near them. And this
time I could see him without any difficulty. Our eyes conveyed the
things that are to be conveyed. Then at the end of the day, I met him
at our college entrance and just like that was talking for few
minutes. After that he made sure that I got into the bus and he
followed my bus in his bike till my stop and he went back. As he was
tired I didn't disturb him much and we both slept early that night.
The next day he had some competitive exam in the afternoon. He told me
his dad was not happy with his preparations and he wanted to revise
few things in the morning. I told him to concentrate and study and
text me after he finished his exam. In the noon I texted him, wishing
him all the best and I slept off. Evening when I woke up I expected a
message from his mobile but there was none. I texted him and waited
for his reply for sometime. No reply again. I called him from my dad's
mobile (That was our first telephonic conversation), as you all would
know, during college days we hardly have balance in our mobiles :p.
When he picked up, I heard some noise and I found that his friends
were around and I got a bit irritated cos I have been expecting his
message for a long time. I started shouting at him even before he
could say anything. I shouted for more than two mins (It was too much
for the first call even though he gets a multiple amounts of it
nowadays :p). After I finished, he started in low voice, "You know
what happened? I met with a small accident. (before I could say
something) Nothing happened to me, am fine. My bike got damaged. I
have left it in a mechanic shop and waiting in my friend's house. I
will reach home and text you." . I was dumbstruck and I said "Ok. Come
safely" and kept the call. I dunno why, but I started crying. I waited
for his call or message and I couldn't do anything from here. As soon
as he reached home he texted me. I asked if everything was fine and
asked his pardon for shouting. He said that it was fine and we then
had some normal conversations. The next day was 'February 14'. That
day he came to college little late than the normal timings and I met
him during the first break hour and asked if he was fine. I saw him
limping when he was walking. I asked if it was paining and he said it
was fine and there was a slight swelling in his knee. I told him not
to walk or strain too much and take rest. And at the end of the day we
both bid bye to each other and we left to our homes. As soon as I
reached home I switched on my system and logged into FB. Usually, I
will sign in only in the late evening. But that day it was too early
to be on FB. (I know he would log in as soon he reaches home). Before
he said anything, I started saying "Hi..." and obviously, I got a
reply. We started the conversation in a normal way and it went on. He
asked me if I had got any proposals on that day. I denied and I
bounced back that question to him again. My heart was praying
sincerely to get a NOO from him and God saved me . Then I was pulling
his leg with few girls in college. At that time, I got a forward in my
mobile from my friend. The forward was "I would like to accept you as
my ____. ". And the options were "a. boyfriend. b.girlfriend, c. close
friend, d. brother/sister, e. lover ,etc etc and the last one was Life
Partner". My heart was instructing me to forward that message only to
him and I sincerely obeyed it. (Our chat on FB was continuing). For
the first time I didn't get any reply. I forwarded it the second time.
This time, I got a reply on chat asking "What should I reply".
I said "Whatever u feel like".
He said "Whatever??".
I said "Yeah... ".
He said "U won't mistake me uh??".
I said "I won't… and u know about me very well."
He said "Okay.. for example, if I say Life Partner.. what would u say"
(The most cleverest way of proposing a girl!!)(I appreciated him at
heart as he didn't choose girlfriend/lover :p)
I said " See, no this example and all..say it frankly whatever it may be.."
He said "yes..I want you to be my life partner"
… My heart was craving for that only!!!. But still I didn't accept it
immediately. I asked him to text me and I went to bed with my mobile,
just to make sure that no one sees me blushing . I got a message from
him saying "What do you say? Sorry if I had hurt you…I thought of
saying it in college itself but something was stopping me from telling
you. But now I couldn't resist myself from telling this to you. I need
you .I love you . Whatever is your decision I will abide by that". I
said "See, you are not just a friend for me. You are someone more than
that. I frankly say, I can't accept you as a brother as my classmates
do. But choosing you as my life partner in such a short span of time
is making me think about it….. but I agree I like you. I dunno whether
it's love or not". Then he took a step back and said "Its ok, don't
confuse yourself. If you are confident about it, please let me know.
If not we will try to be as friends". That moment shook my heart and I
wanted to hold a grip of him. I said "No, am confident of it. But
worried about our parents and castes". He said "I will take care of
everything and you just be with me. To be happy, to have a life beyond
this, I need you . I love you". It was time for dinner and we both had
to pause our chat and went to have our dinner. I didn't feel like
eating. I filled my stomach and sat with my mob again. Unfortunately,
I got a call from some a person and I had to listen to his stupid
talks and scoldings because of someone else. If it was before I would
told about that to any of my friends first. But this time without
hesitating I called him and started crying and explained him about the
previous call. He convinced me. Supported me. I felt secured with his
talks and I felt a sigh of relief. He understood my situation and
didn't talk a word about our pre-dinner chat. Then we both slept. In
the next day morning, as soon as I woke up I took my mob and said
those 3 words which would have been expected by my guy for the past 6
hours. I found this guy very caring and adjustable. He knows very well
to manage me as I am uncontrollable. He never restricts me from doing
anything. He always held me in his hands and takes care of me like a
kid. He supports me in everything I do. He corrects me if I do
anything wrong and he makes sure that nothing affects me because of
it. He says that am his lucky charm as he got his job after I came
into his life :p. (Applause!!). He hardly gets annoyed with my silly
questions and actions. But I take up the charge of everything :P. I
accept that I will make him bang his head like anything at times and
even then he makes sure that nothing takes more than an hour to bring
us back together. And so many other things about him for which I
really don't have the patience to write. I will continue this write up
as soon as we both get married.
Thanks for reading

Fathwa, - In love with non-Muslim married woman�

Question:
I am in love with a non-Muslim married girl. I guess its one sided
from me. I just care about her. Is it ok for me to wish and pray for
her to get together in other life? I wish and pray for her all the
time. I guess only Allah knows how much I love her. Can I wish to be
with her in real life after death? If I do good things and Allah
Blesses me with (heaven) can I ask for her in Heaven to be with me?
Answer:
Assalamu alaykum
In the name of Allah, the Inspirer of Truth.
Dear brother, let us put a few things into perspective.
For one, you should not have let this love develop. It is not
permissible for Muslim men to have casual social relationships with
members of the opposite sex. It is normally through such interactions
that unlawful relationships and sentiments are fostered and then
difficult to overcome. Islam puts a stop to these from the beginning.
The other problem is that she is already married. Hence, marriage to
her does not even seem an option for you. It is bad enough to be in
such an infatuation with a non-married girl but it is far more serious
when this kind of attachment is with a married woman.
You must stop seeing her at once, either by changing or dropping out
completely of the class, if this is taking place at school; or
transferring to another office or finding another job, if this is at
work. All types of contact: telephone, email, etc. must cease
immediately, even if it be without explanation, since unnecessarily
prolonging it can only be detrimental. If you continue to be in close
proximity to her, then this will be extremely difficult to end.
Pray to Allah to deliver you from such a dangerous infatuation in
which you torture yourself unnecessarily. Du'as work wonders. You must
also sincerely pray to Allah for forgiveness for allowing such an
infatuation to develop.
Actively look to get married with a pious Muslim woman. This way you
will be able to fulfill the natural craving and desire of your soul
and replace this woman with a woman you are married to.
Insha Allah, if you are able to follow through with these steps, then
God-willing, you can overcome this problem.
Please do not see this as an insurmountable problem, something that
you have to take with you to the grave, even if it currently seems
like it. Remember, this can only continue if you fuel it by
communication, thoughts, and proximity to her.
The Prophet Muhammad (upon him be blessings and peace) said, "The
hearts are in the fingers of the Merciful One, He turns them as He
wishes." [Muslim and Ahmad]
Hence, nothing is difficult upon Allah. He is in control of all
things. But we must pray for His assistance.
And He knows best.

Fathwa, - Basic Fiqh of Looking at the Opposite Sex

Question:
What is the popular position in regards to looking at the non-awrat
parts of a woman (face and the hands)? (i.e. if I look at a
[non-mahram] woman's face more than once)
Answer:
Walaikum assalam wa rahmatullah,
1. In the Hanafi school, it is permitted (though disliked without
need) for a man to look towards the face or hands of a woman, and for
a woman to look towards the non-nakedness of a man, if there is no
fear of desire or physical inclining.
2. If one looks out of physical desire or inclining, or fears this,
then it is unlawful to look.
3. The exception is in cases when it is unavoidable, such as for
witnesses in court or to look at someone one is intending to marry
when there is hope of the marriage taking place, but only if one's
intention is to fulfill one's objective, even with desire, not to
fulfill one's desires.
4. The definition of 'desire' is: any physical inclination of the heart.
5. It is not a condition that it be strong physical desire, or that it
be accompanied by sexual thoughts or physical arousal.
6. Lack of desire is that one looks towards them as one would towards
one's child or towards a beautiful tree.
[Source: al-Fatawa al-Hindiyya (5.329-330); Ibn Abidin/Haskafi, Radd
al-Muhtar `ala al-Durr al-Mukhtar (bab shurut al-salat )]
وعن جرير بن عبد الله قال : { سألت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم عن نظر
الفجأة ؟ فقال : اصرف بصرك } رواهما أحمد ومسلم وأبو داود والترمذي ) وعن
بريدة قال : قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم لعلي { يا علي لا تتبع
النظرة النظرة فإنما لك الأولى وليست لك الآخرة } رواه أحمد وأبو داود
والترمذيقال الإمام علاء الدين الحصكفي (رحمه الله تعالى) في الدر
المختار: ( ولا يجوز النظر إليه بشهوة كوجه أمرد ) فإنه يحرم النظر إلى
وجهها ووجه الأمرد إذا شك في الشهوة , أما بدونها فيباح قال الإمام ابن
عابدين (رحمه الله تعالى): ( قوله ولا يجوز النظر إليه بشهوة ) أي إلا
لحاجة كقاض أو شاهد بحكم أو يشهد عليها لا لتحمل الشهادة , وكخاطب يريد
نكاحها فينظر ولو عن شهوة بنية السنة لا قضاء الشهوة , وكذا مريد شرائها
أو مداواتها إلى موضع المرض بقدر الضرورة كما سيأتي في الحظر , والتقييد
بالشهوة يفيد جوازه بدونها , لكن سيأتي في الحظر تقييده بالضرورة وظاهره
الكراهة بلا حاجة داعية . قال في التتارخانية : وفي شرح الكرخي النظر إلى
وجه الأجنبية الحرة ليس بحرام , ولكنه يكره لغير حاجة . ا هـ . ( قوله
بشهوة ) لم أر تفسيرها هنا , والمذكور في المصاهرة أنه فيمن ينتشر
بالانتشار أو زيادته إن كان موجودا , وفي المرأة والفاني بميل القلب .
والذي تفيده عبارة مسكين في الحظر أنها ميل القلب مطلقا , ولعله الأنسب
هنا . ا هـ . ط . قلت : يؤيده ما في القول المعتبر في بيان النظر لسيدي
عبد الغني بيان الشهوة التي هي مناط الحرمة أن يتحرك قلب الإنسان ويميل
بطبعه إلى اللذة , وربما انتشرت آلته إن كثر ذلك الميلان ; وعدم الشهوة
أن لا يتحرك قلبه إلى شيء من ذلك بمنزلة من نظر إلى ابنه الصبيح الوجه
وابنته الحسناء ا هـ وسيأتي تمام الكلام على ذلك في كتاب الحظر والإباحة
. ... في الفتاوى الهنديّة: (5/329-330) وأما النظر إلى الأجنبيات فنقول
: يجوز النظر إلى مواضع الزينة الظاهرة منهن وذلك الوجه والكف في ظاهر
الرواية , كذا في الذخيرة . وإن غلب على ظنه أنه يشتهي فهو حرام , كذا في
الينابيع . النظر إلى وجه الأجنبية إذا لم يكن عن شهوة ليس بحرام لكنه
مكروه , كذا في السراجية . وروى الحسن عن أبي حنيفة - رحمه الله تعالى -
يجوز النظر إلى قدمها أيضا , وفي رواية أخرى عنه قال لا يجوز النظر إلى
قدمها . وفي جامع البرامكة عن أبي يوسف - رحمه الله تعالى أنه يجوز النظر
إلى ذراعيها أيضا عند الغسل والطبخ قيل : وكذلك يباح النظر إلى ثناياها
وذلك كله إذا لم يكن النظر عن شهوة , كذا في المحيط . وكذلك يباح النظر
إذا شك في الاشتهاء , كذا في الكافي . قيل : وكذلك يباح النظر إلى ساقها
إذا لم يكن النظر عن شهوة , فإن كان يعلم أنه لو نظر يشتهي أو كان أكبر
رأيه ذلك فليجتنب بجهده , كذا في الذخيرة . والأصح أن كل عضو لا يجوز
النظر إليه قبل الانفصال لا يجوز بعده كشعر رأسها وقلامة رجلها وشعر
عانتها , كذا في الزاهدي . ولا يحل له أن يمس وجهها , ولا كفها , وإن كان
يأمن الشهوة وهذا إذا كانت شابة تشتهى , فإن كانت لا تشتهى لا بأس
بمصافحتها ومس يدها , كذا في الذخيرة . وكذلك إذا كان شيخا يأمن على نفسه
وعليها فلا بأس بأن يصافحها , وإن كان لا يأمن على نفسه أو عليها فليجتنب
, ثم إن محمدا - رحمه الله تعالى - أباح المس للرجل إذا كانت المرأة
عجوزا ولم يشترط كون الرجل بحال لا يجامع مثله , وفيما إذا كان الماس هي
المرأة قال إذا كانا كبيرين لا يجامع مثله ولا يجامع مثلها فلا بأس
بالمصافحة فتأمل عند الفتوى , كذا في المحيط . ولا بأس بأن يعانق العجوز
من وراء الثياب إلا أن تكون ثيابها تصف ما تحتها , كذا في الغياثية . فإن
كان على المرأة ثياب فلا بأس بأن يتأمل جسدها ; لأن نظره إلى ثيابها لا
إلى جسدها فهو كما لو كانت في بيت فنظر إلى جداره هذا إذا لم تكن ثيابها
ملتزقة بها بحيث تصف ما تحتها كالقباء التركية , ولم تكن رقيقة بحيث تصف
ما تحتها , فإن كانت بخلاف ذلك ينبغي له أن يغض بصره ; لأن هذا الثوب من
حيث إنه لا يسترها بمنزلة شبكة عليها . هذا إذا كانت في حد الشهوة , فإن
كانت صغيرة لا يشتهى مثلها فلا بأس بالنظر إليها ومن مسها ; لأنه ليس
لبدنها حكم العورة , ولا في النظر والمس معنى خوف الفتنة , ثم النظر إلى
الحرة الأجنبية قد يصير مرخصا عند الضرورة , كذا في المحيط . والكافرة
كالمسلمة وروي لا بأس بالنظر إلى شعر الكافرة , كذا في الغياثية . يجوز
للقاضي إذا أراد أن يحكم عليها وللشاهد إذا أراد أن يشهد عليها أن ينظر
إلى وجهها وإن خاف أن يشتهي ولكن ينبغي أن يقصد به أداء الشهادة أو الحكم
عليها لا قضاء الشهوة وأما النظر لتحمل الشهادة إذا اشتهى قيل : يباح كما
في النظر عند الأداء والأصح أنه لا يباح في السراج الوهاج .