Story, - Pls come back i cant live without u

hi!!! friends
this is my story of merely one year. but in this one year i saw my
whole life a beautiful one.
i and my boyfrnd met in my cousion wedding where i first saw him.
slowly we become frnds and after a tenure of two months we were in
relationship. actually i had seen him when i was in 6th standard but
then we aparted coz of our study and career. .
we became so much intimated that even we cant think our life without
each other. he gave me the best feeling of love. i still remember our
first kiss wen he was at my home and we did it near our staircase. he
was like an angel for me who filled my life with all happiness of
heaven. then we decided to get marry. so we approached our family. our
parents were ready but my aunty who was also my boyfrnd aunty didnt
agree with this relation. we begged them a lot but they didnt abd
finally we gave up for the sake of our family happiness. but this
didnt affect our relation. now onwards our emotion and feelings get
stronger day by day and finally we decided to meet one more time to
realise whether we could without one another. and that moment came and
i met him on his place. i spend full 5 days with him. and that five
days was the most beautiful days of my life i ever had. in those five
days we loved each other like we never did. and finally we decided we
would again request our parents for our marriage.
finally i talked to my parents but this time they were too much angry
and they refused our relation completely. they warned me not to call
him again. there was big fuss all around and we were just hopeless. i
was shivering on thought of that he will be no more with me through
all my life. days were gone by and again we started talking with each
other. and every day again and again we fall in love more strongly.
finally a day came wen his parents chose a girl for him. i also told
him to move on in his life. and a day came wen he got engaged. he was
happy with his new relation and me too. but something somewhere i was
lonely. he knew my condition but cant help out. and then i decided
that i will be in no more contact with him. fianlly we talked for the
last time and i wished him gud luck for his new life and request him
to break alk his contact and terms with me. he dint want this but i
gave him our love swear to do this. at last we were in no more contact
but still i m missing him in my life. i knw he cant come back but i
dont knw why still i want him back in my life.
still i love him fron core of my heart. . . . and will love always
till i am in this world. . .

Story, - Sad love story

My story sarted few years ago. It was Christmas holiday and I was
spending it all alone at home. Then I was maybe 14 years old. I know
it sounds funny... Oh that silly kids love. So one evening I got text
message from my friend. We started talking. In short time we became
best friends. It was fun, we talked a lot every single day. I felt so
happy. But I saw him just like friend nothing else. But after few
weeks I told to my best friend that maybe I like him. She started
laughing at me. I felt bad because my best friend told me that I'm
silly. She said "look at him, he is funny, he will always be just
friend forget that". From that moment everything changed. We stopped
talking. I didn't even thought about him anymore. We were just
friends. I never knew how he really felt about me. So time passed.
2012 the year that changed everything. It was September. We both were
part of exchange program. The trip started. We went to Germany. I had
such an amazing time. And there was this guy, my best friend now he's
older we are not little kids anymore. I felt something again. He felt
it too. It was party we walked away from everyone. It was so amazing
finally we were together.
He was holding my hands in his hands. It was start of something
beautiful. It was the last day in Germany, we were going home. The
night we stayed in Prague. All of our friends were having a party in
hotel.
We stayed in his room. I was so tired. But at the same time I was so
happy. Because I was in his arms, I felt his heart beating. That
evening I will remember forever. He kissed me for the first time.
Finally I knew that butterflies in your stomach really exsist. After
exhausting 24 hours in bus we were finally home. Everything was so
wonderful we were happy. Still not a couple, but I knew it was going
to happen. After few weeks in October 9th. My birthday came I was all
shining and happy. But strange thing, he didn't even said happy
birthday. I was little bit dissapointed. In the evening I was spending
time with my family we had my birthday dinner. Suddenly I got text
message from him saying "open the door". I opened the door and guess
what there is a lovely guy standing in rain with roses. I felt so
happy. Sadly he couldn't stay. My birthday was on Tuesday, but I had a
party on Friday with my friends.
We were having a really good time. He was at his friends birthday so I
didn't even thougt about seeing him that evening. Well my friends were
pretty funny. They took my phone and asked him to come. And afcourse
he did. That was amazing. And the best part was his gift, his
unplanned gift. He asked me to be his girlfriend. Oh God that was
amazing! But there was a little secret that no one knew about me. The
secret that always made me run from guys and made me to build a wall
that Would save me from falling in love. But he just broke that wall
and came into my life. I tried to stay with him but it was too hard
for me even that I loved him didn't helped. After a week I told him
that I can't do that. I knew I have to make something that he would
forget about me. And that I could forget him. So that's what I did, I
kissed with other guy in party and he saw that. I know his heart was
broken. Mine was broken too.
I loved him so much, but I hade to make him forget about me. So
everything happend how I planned we got into arguments... It was so
bad I couldn't handle it. I cried so much. But in few weeks I
convinced myself that I hate him. Everything seemed to be normal
again. We didn't talked at all. So Cristmas holidays was few days away
from here! I felt happy. We were sitting in cafè with my friends and
suddenly they started to talk about him. Something inside me just
blown up. I started crying. In the middle of cafè... I felt everything
again. It was so painful. I couldn't handle. After few weeks I finnaly
decided I have to tell him how I fell. We talked again I was happy
because he said " everythings fine I forgive you". I asked maybe we
could start again. He said yes. He said that he feels happy too. But I
didn't said nothing about my secret that was killing me. And suddenly
something strange happend. He said "oh I don't know if I want to start
everything again".
That evening when he told me that we were standing in the rain I was
crying. And you know what he told me that everythings will be fine, he
touched my face to make sure that there's no mote tears. He run trough
my hair with his fingers and huged me and that moment he said
"everythings gonna be alrigt". I was too emotional to tell him how I
felt. So I came home crying and wrote him letter. Even though I knew
he changed he wasn't that same guy I loved. I wrote everything, every
emotion was on that paper. I gave it to him. He didn't said nothing.
Just "it's really emotional. I know it's hard". I just felt so sad it
was killing me. After that we still talked. One evening I got a panic
attack because of my secret...
I thought that I will kill myself. But something in my mind said tell
him, tell him your secret. So I did. I told everything. My secret made
even him cry. I was sexualy abused when I was little girl. That's why
I always run. He invuted me to talk to him ne t day. I cried. I dont
know why but he started to talk about us. He had questions why. I had
same questions too. He said maybe someday everything will change.
After that we talked maybe few times. It seems that he forgot that I
exsit. Once he said he will be there forever. But that was a lie. He
was that simple guy that I loved with all my heart. But now he has a
lot of girls around him, that's why he said he doesn't want to be with
me anymore. I think about him every single day. Our friends say that
he was better person when he was with me, but what can I do? I hear
all the time that we are soulmates and that I'm love of his life from
his best friend, but that seems far far away from reality. And after
all I still believe that one day the guy that I love with all my heart
will comeback, will be the same guy who loved me an told me that he
never leave.

Fathwa, - Her husband does not pray in the Masjid all the time

Question
Assalamu Alaicom! I would like to know the ruling on a man who is not
always praying at the masjid. My husband works at a very far place, he
is taking the bus for his transport, at this heat, he would arrive at
home very tired. Sometimes, he had to wait more or less 30 mins
everytime for the bus from home going to the terminal then another
waiting time from the terminal to his workplace, same pattern after
work. His work finishes at 3pm but he arrived mostly at 5pm. For that
reason, he wud easily fell asleep after eating and praying asr, I need
to wake him up for Maghrib but sometimes he can't make it in the
Masjid because he's saying dat he is tired and can't make it there,
after he prayed Maghrib he would again sleep and some times pray at
the masjid for Eisha, some times not and would pray Eisha very late in
the evening, he'd say dat he feels very weak and tired. During salatul
Fajr, most often, he still can't make it in the Masjid. In this
situation, I am very disappointed, is his situation a valid reason for
not praying in the Masjid? tired and weak from work? This is always
the subject of my nagging. I hate his attitude. I would love him more
and really want him to be always praying at the Masjid no matter what
because I believe it is wajib for every man, he also knows the
importance. What should I do to make him love it and make it a top
priority? We are currently experiencing a very hard financial dilemma,
the company is giving them their salary very late, every after 3
months, we would only get 1 month, not enough to pay for the house
rent and the expenses, our debts are left and right. I am not
complaining on this matter because I know that this is a matter of
test, I praise Allah for everything but sometimes, I can't help but to
think that maybe we're failing in doing ibadah that's why our
sustenance is getting short. As I have read in some other Islamic
articles that, provisions will be less to those who are low in doing
ibadah/good deeds..
Answer
All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify
that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad,
is His Slave and Messenger.
We thank our dear sister for her keenness to make her husband offer
prayer in the mosque in congregation; however, she should not fight or
quarrel with him. There is absolutely no doubt that offering prayer in
congregation in the mosque is one of the best acts of worship.
Whenever a Muslim man is able to maintain praying in congregation in
the mosque, it is more appropriate for that entails a great reward.
However, if he experiences difficulty and exhaustion, then there is no
blame on him to offer it at home, especially if he is able to offer it
in congregation along with his family. Although some scholars view
that the congregational prayer in the mosque is obligatory, the
majority of the scholars are of the view that it is not. Also, many of
those who view that it is obligatory do not view that it is obligatory
to perform it in the mosque, rather they believe that the obligation
is fulfilled by offering it in congregation in any place.
Ibn Qudaamahsaid in Al-Mughni:"It is permissible to offer it - i.e.
the congregational prayer - at home and in the desert. It was also
said in another narration )from Imaam Ahmad( that attending prayer in
the mosque is obligatory if someone is close to the mosque because it
was narrated that the Prophet, said: "There is no prayer for a
neighbour of the mosque except in the mosque. However, what supports
our view is the saying of the Prophet: "I have been given five things
which were not given to any amongst the Prophets before me: The earth
has been made for me )and for my followers( a place for praying and
for performing Tayammum )dry ablution(; therefore my followers can
pray wherever the time of a prayer is due." ]Al-Bukhaari and Muslim[.
'Aa'ishahalso said: "The Prophet, prayed at home when he was sick. He
prayed sitting down and some people prayed behind him standing up, so
he gestured to them to sit down." ]Al-Bukhaari[. Also, the Prophet,
said to two men: "If you have already prayed at your resting places
and then came to a mosque with congregation, pray with them too and it
will be a supererogatory prayer for you."]End quote[
Again, the scholars who are of the view that offering congregation in
the mosque is obligatory )upon men( allowed that one may not attend it
in the mosque for some excuses. In fact, we do not mention this as a
form of taking matters lightly; rather, it is to clarify that the
matter is easy. So, if one is exhausted and finds difficulty to go to
the mosque, then there is no blame on him, Allaah Willing, to pray at
home although it is more appropriate to go to the mosque as we have
stated previously. In any case, it is not permissible for one to delay
prayers beyond the time when they are due.
On the other hand, there is absolutely no doubt that a person may be
deprived of provision because of sins that he commits.Thawbaannarrated
that the Messenger of Allaah, said: "A person may be deprived of
provision because of a sin that he commits." ]Ahmad[
However, we hope that you have an excuse because of the difficulty
from which your husband suffers and thus do not worry. For more
benefit, kindly refer to Fatwa 17133about the causes of being deprived
of provision.
Allaah Knows best.

Fathwa, - There is no harm in carrying the name 'Baasit'

Question
Assalamo alikum Brother, My name is Basit Minhas and i am from
Pakistan.Unfortunately my parents named me Basit Minhas without using
Abdul.Now i am named Basit minhas on all my official Documents and all
my family members and friends call me Basit without saying
Abdul.Kindly tell me is there any sin or not because i heard that some
names of Allah can be used without using Abdul. Is "Basit" one of
those.Because if have to change my name officially it will be a lot of
work to change on all my documents and people know me by Basit.And
will I be questioned on day of judgement if i say people to call me
Abdul basit but still they call me Basit.Kindly reply me brother
anxiously waiting for your reply. jazakallah.
Answer
All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify
that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad,
is His Slave and Messenger.
There is nothing wrong with having the name ofBaasit. That is because
it is permissible to have one of the names that are common between
Allaah and His creation. This is proved by the approval of the
Prophet, of some of the names of the Companions that are used for
Allaah such as'AliandHakeem. Also,Baasitcan be added to them.
It was stated in Ad-Durr Al-Mukhtaar byAl-Haskafi: "It is permissible
to have the names 'Ali and Rasheed, which are common )between Allaah
The Almighty and people(. That is because their meanings concerning us
)human beings( are different from their meanings concerning Allaah The
Almighty." ]End quote[
Allaah Knows best.