Great Britain, Darwin's own homeland, now rejects evolution. For years
the bastion of Darwinism, Britain has come to oppose evolution
extraordinarily quickly over the past few years. The country heads the
list of those in which thefact of creation is spreading the quickest,
and the public, as recent newspaper headlines show, now want students
to learn about the fact of creation in schools.
Richard Dawkins, who has recently stepped up his pro-Darwinist and
atheist activities in Britain, imagined that Darwinism, the worst
deception in the world, would be strengthened with atheist camps and
demagoguery. Dawkins has been engaged in wide-ranging activities to
that end for many years now, and has expressed his concern at the
spread of Creationist belief, and has set these fears out in his
latest book in such a clear manner that they cannotbe denied. Rather
than providing any scientific evidence to support his claims, Dawkins
makes far from scientific accusations, writes slogans on the sides of
public buses , seeks to attract interest by performing impersonations
on talk shows and most recentlysought shelter behind the idea of
aliens . He truly imagined that these false and demagogic methods
would work. His latest book, in which he claimsto "provide evidence
for evolution," actually contains not a single piece of scientific
evidence, only demagoguery, but he actually thinks that this outdated
method going back 150 years can still influence people today.
The fact is, however, that Dawkins' efforts in this direction have
been in vain and have enabled people to bettersee the true face of
evolution. According to the results of an opinion poll conducted last
year, only 25% of British people believe in evolution. Parents have
now objected to the state of affairs in which evolution alone has been
taught in schools and that has persisted for many years, and have now
said, "Creationshould also be taught in schools." The increasingly
rapid turning toward Allah in Britain in particular has fundamentally
undermined and demolished the bastion of Darwinism. Dawkins must have
been amazed to see the turning toward the fact of Creation among the
British people in whom he had placed so much faith, since he had no
hesitations over ignorantly describing hisown people as "ignorant."
Those who went along with superstition and failed to comprehend the
sublime might and power of Allah have always fallen into the error
into which Dawkins and other Darwinists have fallen. They have
believed that a claim put forward in opposition to Allah, a mass
deception, could muster support and grow using corrupt and false
methods. They imagined that the more propaganda was made, the more
effective it would be. They imagined they could make good their lack
of scientific evidence by indulging in impersonations on chat shows,
putting posters up on the sides of buses and entering into debates
with middle school students. The fact is, however, that by doing so
they have made the great mistake committed by everyone who has ever
striven against Allah. Allah has always thwarted the plans of those
who strove against the truth with superstition and led them to
failure. Under the law of our Almighty Lord, those who do this in the
futurewill also be condemned to failure. Almighty Allah tells us in
His verses:
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Britons want creation to be taught in schools
A new name for Darwinist despair modular evolution and aperfect flying bird: Darwinopterus
The enormous scale of the Darwinist defeat andhow Darwinists have no
means of saving their theory has been set out with various forms of
supporting evidence for a long time now. But theevidence that perhaps
made this defeat clearesthas come from Darwinists themselves.
Darwinists, with no scientific evidence for their theories, confronted
by disappointment time and time again and whohave suffered their worst
rout in the manifest proofs of Creation presented in recent years,
have now set reason. Leaving reason, logic and scienceto one side,
Darwinists come up with a new claim. They said, "all the organs in the
life form we have just discovered somehow came into existence
momentarily." They then had no qualms about giving thisthe name of
modular evolution. "We do not know how it happened, but it is a form
of evolution," they said. They have quite shamelessly put this
falseand ludicrous claim out in scientific journals, as if it were
that easy to deceive people. This stage to which Darwinists have now
come is one of the greatest manifestations of the Darwinist defeat.
This new deception that Darwinists refer to as "modular evolution" is
the idea that one or more organs appears suddenly in a life form. Not
a word is of course said about how these organs emerge, what kind of
biological, physical and anatomical stages might be involvedor about
any scientific evidence for it. All we have is an evolutionist claim,
according to which an animal can suddenly grow wings or develop claws
and suddenly turn into a birdor a land-dwelling life form. DEVOID OF
ANY EVIDENCE AS TO HOW LIVING THINGS EVOLVE AND WITH NO CHANCE OF
FINDING ANY IN THE FUTURE, EITHER, DARWINISTS NOW IMAGINE THEY CAN
DECEIVEPEOPLE BY SAYING, "EVERYTHING HAPPENED IN A SINGLE MOMENT."
It is of course scientifically IMPOSSIBLE for a living thing to
suddenly develop a new characteristic, to suddenly grow a new limb or
to suddenly come into possession of a new system. ALL BRANCHES OF
SCIENCE REFUTE this claim. It must not be forgotten that the mutations
necessary for such a change to take place will inevitablykill the life
form involved. NINETY NINE PERCENT OF MUTATIONS ARE DELETERIOUS, AND
THEOTHER 1% HAS NO EFFECT. SEVERAL MUTATIONS TAKING PLACE AT THE SAME
TIME LEAD TO THE SWIFT DEATH OF THE LIVING THING CONCERNED. There is
only one reason for the production of such an amazingly ignorant idea
as modular evolution, and that is the despairing evolutionist idea of
"WHAT KIND OF EVOLUTIONARY MODEL MIGHT DO AWAY WITH THENEED TO LOOK
FOR EVIDENCE IN THE FOSSIL RECORD?"
Because THE FOSSIL RECORD DEFINITIVELY REFUTES THE THEORY OF
EVOLUTION. ALMOST 300 MILLION FOSSILS HAVE BEEN DISCOVERED TO DATE,AND
EVERY NEW FOSSIL UNEARTHED ONCE AGAIN PROVES THE COLLAPSE OF
DARWINISM.
Darwinopterus Is Also a Fossil That Confirms Creation, and That
Explains the Darwinist Panic
Seeking to support their hollow theory, Darwinists pointed to
160-million-year-old bird fossils found in the north-east of China as
anexample, at least in theirown eyes, of this false modular evolution.
This new fossil, the subject ofspeculation in many publications,
especially National Geographic, was given the name of " Darwinopterus
." Darwinopterus was a perfect flying bird with ahead and neck looking
just like those of birds alive today and whose rear legs and tail
resemble extinct forms of bird known as pterosaurs. This life formis a
perfect example of the mosaic life form group of which there are many
specimens living today. Contrary to what Darwinists maintain, this
life form isa perfect work that manifestly and powerfully refutes
Darwinism and in fact verifies Creation.
As biology advanced, living things were divided into various groups on
the basis of specific characteristics. These were scientifically
examined in the form of species, phyla, families and breeds. It was of
course impossible to divide all life forms on the basis of features
set up by human beings. Because some life forms possess features from
several groups established by human beings. These are knownas "mosaic
life forms." These may possess characteristics from several groups,
species or families. Darwinists try to use this state of affairs as a
vehicle for speculation and to depict characteristics belonging to
different species as intermediate form characteristics. But the fact
is that all these features are complete and perfect characteristics.
These lifeforms have not a single structure or organ indicating
developing and thus intermediate form characteristics. Features
belonging to various different species in one single life form are a
manifestation of the matchless works andsublime creation of Allah.
It needs to be made clear here that a pterosaur fossil has
beendiscovered before and also used as a vehicle forvarious forms of
Darwinist speculation. Darwinists failed to fully understand the
structureof the 150-million-year pterosaur and produced completely
biased and unrealistic interpretations of it. However, investigations
of the fossil by a team of scientists from three universities
described the life form's physical structure as a "masterpiece."
Thanks toits perfect and flawless mosaic structure, this animal was
able to walk comfortably on dry land,fly to perfection and alsoswim
comfortably in the seas. Because it was a marvel of creation equipped
with all these features by Allah.
The life form they are presently trying to portray as the greatest
evidence for evolution isa specimen of the pterosaur, which scientists
have previously described as a"masterpiece." The fact is, however,
that since they harbor perfect characteristics belonging to different
species, mosaic life forms represent an even more insoluble dilemma
for evolution. But since Darwinists are unable to swallow that fact
they try to go on the counter-offensive and depict them as evidence
for their own theory. In the same way, since they areunable to account
for the perfect and very different characteristics possessed by
Darwinopterus they haveno qualms about comingup with the idea of
modular evolution, an even more wretched and humiliating one for
Darwinists. Yet they are very well aware that every structure in this
life form is totally flawless and points to a sublime creation.
Darwinopterus was a perfect bird, flawlessly created, that possesses
features of various flyingbird species at one and the same time.
The real reason why Darwinists are hiding behind such a shameful
account as "modular evolution" is this; while Darwinists are trying to
invent a new mask for the fact that not a single intermediate form has
ever been discovered in the fossil record, the factof creation is
spreading very rapidly right across the world. Through the works of
Harun Yahya people are no longer being taken in by the Darwinist
dictatorship. The number of people who believe in the Darwinist
deception is falling increasingly in opinion polls across the world.
The period before us will be a bright one in which people become aware
ofthe scientific facts and learn the real truth. Darwinist writhing
will have no effect. Allah has created all living things, human beings
included, and the universe we live in, in a perfect manner, and the
nonsense that is evolution will soon be consigned to the history
books.
Say: "Allah's is the conclusive argument. If He had willed He could
have guided every one of you." (Surat al-An'am, 149)
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means of saving their theory has been set out with various forms of
supporting evidence for a long time now. But theevidence that perhaps
made this defeat clearesthas come from Darwinists themselves.
Darwinists, with no scientific evidence for their theories, confronted
by disappointment time and time again and whohave suffered their worst
rout in the manifest proofs of Creation presented in recent years,
have now set reason. Leaving reason, logic and scienceto one side,
Darwinists come up with a new claim. They said, "all the organs in the
life form we have just discovered somehow came into existence
momentarily." They then had no qualms about giving thisthe name of
modular evolution. "We do not know how it happened, but it is a form
of evolution," they said. They have quite shamelessly put this
falseand ludicrous claim out in scientific journals, as if it were
that easy to deceive people. This stage to which Darwinists have now
come is one of the greatest manifestations of the Darwinist defeat.
This new deception that Darwinists refer to as "modular evolution" is
the idea that one or more organs appears suddenly in a life form. Not
a word is of course said about how these organs emerge, what kind of
biological, physical and anatomical stages might be involvedor about
any scientific evidence for it. All we have is an evolutionist claim,
according to which an animal can suddenly grow wings or develop claws
and suddenly turn into a birdor a land-dwelling life form. DEVOID OF
ANY EVIDENCE AS TO HOW LIVING THINGS EVOLVE AND WITH NO CHANCE OF
FINDING ANY IN THE FUTURE, EITHER, DARWINISTS NOW IMAGINE THEY CAN
DECEIVEPEOPLE BY SAYING, "EVERYTHING HAPPENED IN A SINGLE MOMENT."
It is of course scientifically IMPOSSIBLE for a living thing to
suddenly develop a new characteristic, to suddenly grow a new limb or
to suddenly come into possession of a new system. ALL BRANCHES OF
SCIENCE REFUTE this claim. It must not be forgotten that the mutations
necessary for such a change to take place will inevitablykill the life
form involved. NINETY NINE PERCENT OF MUTATIONS ARE DELETERIOUS, AND
THEOTHER 1% HAS NO EFFECT. SEVERAL MUTATIONS TAKING PLACE AT THE SAME
TIME LEAD TO THE SWIFT DEATH OF THE LIVING THING CONCERNED. There is
only one reason for the production of such an amazingly ignorant idea
as modular evolution, and that is the despairing evolutionist idea of
"WHAT KIND OF EVOLUTIONARY MODEL MIGHT DO AWAY WITH THENEED TO LOOK
FOR EVIDENCE IN THE FOSSIL RECORD?"
Because THE FOSSIL RECORD DEFINITIVELY REFUTES THE THEORY OF
EVOLUTION. ALMOST 300 MILLION FOSSILS HAVE BEEN DISCOVERED TO DATE,AND
EVERY NEW FOSSIL UNEARTHED ONCE AGAIN PROVES THE COLLAPSE OF
DARWINISM.
Darwinopterus Is Also a Fossil That Confirms Creation, and That
Explains the Darwinist Panic
Seeking to support their hollow theory, Darwinists pointed to
160-million-year-old bird fossils found in the north-east of China as
anexample, at least in theirown eyes, of this false modular evolution.
This new fossil, the subject ofspeculation in many publications,
especially National Geographic, was given the name of " Darwinopterus
." Darwinopterus was a perfect flying bird with ahead and neck looking
just like those of birds alive today and whose rear legs and tail
resemble extinct forms of bird known as pterosaurs. This life formis a
perfect example of the mosaic life form group of which there are many
specimens living today. Contrary to what Darwinists maintain, this
life form isa perfect work that manifestly and powerfully refutes
Darwinism and in fact verifies Creation.
As biology advanced, living things were divided into various groups on
the basis of specific characteristics. These were scientifically
examined in the form of species, phyla, families and breeds. It was of
course impossible to divide all life forms on the basis of features
set up by human beings. Because some life forms possess features from
several groups established by human beings. These are knownas "mosaic
life forms." These may possess characteristics from several groups,
species or families. Darwinists try to use this state of affairs as a
vehicle for speculation and to depict characteristics belonging to
different species as intermediate form characteristics. But the fact
is that all these features are complete and perfect characteristics.
These lifeforms have not a single structure or organ indicating
developing and thus intermediate form characteristics. Features
belonging to various different species in one single life form are a
manifestation of the matchless works andsublime creation of Allah.
It needs to be made clear here that a pterosaur fossil has
beendiscovered before and also used as a vehicle forvarious forms of
Darwinist speculation. Darwinists failed to fully understand the
structureof the 150-million-year pterosaur and produced completely
biased and unrealistic interpretations of it. However, investigations
of the fossil by a team of scientists from three universities
described the life form's physical structure as a "masterpiece."
Thanks toits perfect and flawless mosaic structure, this animal was
able to walk comfortably on dry land,fly to perfection and alsoswim
comfortably in the seas. Because it was a marvel of creation equipped
with all these features by Allah.
The life form they are presently trying to portray as the greatest
evidence for evolution isa specimen of the pterosaur, which scientists
have previously described as a"masterpiece." The fact is, however,
that since they harbor perfect characteristics belonging to different
species, mosaic life forms represent an even more insoluble dilemma
for evolution. But since Darwinists are unable to swallow that fact
they try to go on the counter-offensive and depict them as evidence
for their own theory. In the same way, since they areunable to account
for the perfect and very different characteristics possessed by
Darwinopterus they haveno qualms about comingup with the idea of
modular evolution, an even more wretched and humiliating one for
Darwinists. Yet they are very well aware that every structure in this
life form is totally flawless and points to a sublime creation.
Darwinopterus was a perfect bird, flawlessly created, that possesses
features of various flyingbird species at one and the same time.
The real reason why Darwinists are hiding behind such a shameful
account as "modular evolution" is this; while Darwinists are trying to
invent a new mask for the fact that not a single intermediate form has
ever been discovered in the fossil record, the factof creation is
spreading very rapidly right across the world. Through the works of
Harun Yahya people are no longer being taken in by the Darwinist
dictatorship. The number of people who believe in the Darwinist
deception is falling increasingly in opinion polls across the world.
The period before us will be a bright one in which people become aware
ofthe scientific facts and learn the real truth. Darwinist writhing
will have no effect. Allah has created all living things, human beings
included, and the universe we live in, in a perfect manner, and the
nonsense that is evolution will soon be consigned to the history
books.
Say: "Allah's is the conclusive argument. If He had willed He could
have guided every one of you." (Surat al-An'am, 149)
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Institution of marriage and social duties of Muslims
The foremost and fundamental institution of human society is the
family unit. A family is established by the coming together of a man
and a woman, and their contact brings into existence a new generation.
It then produces ties of kinship and community, which gradually
develop into a large society. The family is the institution through
which a generation prepares the succeeding generation for the service
of human civilization and for the discharge of its social obligations
with devotion, sincerity and enthusiasm.
This institution does not merely recruit cadets for the maintenance
and development of human culture but its guardians. They earnestly
desire thatthose who have to replace them in the future should be
better than themselves. In this respect the family can be truly
called the fountain-head of progress, development, prosperity and
strength of human civilization on Earth.
Hence, besides the social problems, Islam devotes much attention to
those relating to the family andstrives to establish this important
social unit on the healthiest and strongest foundations. According to
Islam, the correct form of relationship between a man and woman is
marriage, that is, the onein which full social responsibilities are
undertaken by them and which results in the emergence of a family.
Irresponsible behaviour are not condoned by Islam as innocent past
times or ordinary transgressions. Rather, they are acts that strike at
the very roots of human society.
Hence, Islam aims at purifying and purging the society of all
activitiesthat encourage such irresponsible action or provide
opportunities forthem. Regulations of Hijaab (an out fit women must
adhere to in Islam) , ban on free mixing of men and women,
restrictions on music and films and discouragement of the spread and
propagation of obscenities and aberrations, are all intended to guard
against this.
Their sole object is to protect and strengthen the institution of the
family. Islam does not merely regard the desirable form of social
contact as just permissible but holds andaffirms it as a good and
virtuous act. Indeed, it is seen as an act of worship. It does not
simply look upon celibacyof an adult person with disfavor, but calls
upon every young man and woman to take, in his turn, the social
responsibilities of married life just as his or her parents did in
their time.
Islam also strongly disapproves those rites, ceremonies or
restrictions that make marriage a difficult and tedious affair. The
intention of Islam is that marriage may become easy and fornication
(andadultery) the most difficult thing in society, and not vice versa
as it is in most of the societies today.
Hence, besides debarringa few specified relatives from entering into
matrimony with one another, it has legalized marital relations with
all other near and distant kith and kin. It has removed all
distinctions of caste and community and permitted matrimony of any
Muslimwith any other Muslim, although being equivalent in status is a
matter that is recognized when considering marriage. It has
enjoinedthat the amount of Mahr (dower) should be fixed at a low and
easy figure, the burden of which can be easily borne by the husband
and has dispensed with the necessity of clerics and offices of
compulsory registration.
In an Islamic society, marriage is such a plain and simple ceremony as
can be performed anywhere before two witnesses, and a Wali (woman's
guardian or one whom he authorizes), though it is essential that the
proceedings should know that the couple is now going to live a
matrimonial life.
Within the family itself, Islam has assigned to the man a position of
authority so that he may maintain order and discipline as the chief of
the household. Islam expects the wife to obey and look after the
comforts and well-being of her husband and expects the children to
behave accordingly with their parents. Islam doestnot favor a loose
and disjointed family system, which is devoid of any authority,
control and discipline and in which someone is not
pointedlyresponsible for the proper conduct and behaviour of its
members.
Discipline can only be maintained through a central authority and in
the view of Islam the position of father in the family is such that it
makes him the fittest person to take over this responsibility. But
this does not mean that the man has been made a tyrant and an
oppressor in the household and the woman has been handedover to him as
a helpless chattel. According to Islam, the real spirit of marital
life is love, understanding and mutual respect. If the woman has been
asked to obey the husband, the latter has been called upon to exercise
his privileges towards the welfare of the family andtreat his wife
with love, affection and sweetness.
Islam makes the marital bond strong but not unbreakable. It aims at
keeping the bond intact only so long as it is founded on sweetness of
love or for as long as at least the possibility of lasting
companionship exists. When this possibility of lasting companionship
exists. When this possibility diesout, it gives the man the right of
divorce and the woman the right of separation. Under
certainconditions, when married life has become a source of misery and
nuisance, it also gives theIslamic courts of justice the authority to
annul the marriage.
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family unit. A family is established by the coming together of a man
and a woman, and their contact brings into existence a new generation.
It then produces ties of kinship and community, which gradually
develop into a large society. The family is the institution through
which a generation prepares the succeeding generation for the service
of human civilization and for the discharge of its social obligations
with devotion, sincerity and enthusiasm.
This institution does not merely recruit cadets for the maintenance
and development of human culture but its guardians. They earnestly
desire thatthose who have to replace them in the future should be
better than themselves. In this respect the family can be truly
called the fountain-head of progress, development, prosperity and
strength of human civilization on Earth.
Hence, besides the social problems, Islam devotes much attention to
those relating to the family andstrives to establish this important
social unit on the healthiest and strongest foundations. According to
Islam, the correct form of relationship between a man and woman is
marriage, that is, the onein which full social responsibilities are
undertaken by them and which results in the emergence of a family.
Irresponsible behaviour are not condoned by Islam as innocent past
times or ordinary transgressions. Rather, they are acts that strike at
the very roots of human society.
Hence, Islam aims at purifying and purging the society of all
activitiesthat encourage such irresponsible action or provide
opportunities forthem. Regulations of Hijaab (an out fit women must
adhere to in Islam) , ban on free mixing of men and women,
restrictions on music and films and discouragement of the spread and
propagation of obscenities and aberrations, are all intended to guard
against this.
Their sole object is to protect and strengthen the institution of the
family. Islam does not merely regard the desirable form of social
contact as just permissible but holds andaffirms it as a good and
virtuous act. Indeed, it is seen as an act of worship. It does not
simply look upon celibacyof an adult person with disfavor, but calls
upon every young man and woman to take, in his turn, the social
responsibilities of married life just as his or her parents did in
their time.
Islam also strongly disapproves those rites, ceremonies or
restrictions that make marriage a difficult and tedious affair. The
intention of Islam is that marriage may become easy and fornication
(andadultery) the most difficult thing in society, and not vice versa
as it is in most of the societies today.
Hence, besides debarringa few specified relatives from entering into
matrimony with one another, it has legalized marital relations with
all other near and distant kith and kin. It has removed all
distinctions of caste and community and permitted matrimony of any
Muslimwith any other Muslim, although being equivalent in status is a
matter that is recognized when considering marriage. It has
enjoinedthat the amount of Mahr (dower) should be fixed at a low and
easy figure, the burden of which can be easily borne by the husband
and has dispensed with the necessity of clerics and offices of
compulsory registration.
In an Islamic society, marriage is such a plain and simple ceremony as
can be performed anywhere before two witnesses, and a Wali (woman's
guardian or one whom he authorizes), though it is essential that the
proceedings should know that the couple is now going to live a
matrimonial life.
Within the family itself, Islam has assigned to the man a position of
authority so that he may maintain order and discipline as the chief of
the household. Islam expects the wife to obey and look after the
comforts and well-being of her husband and expects the children to
behave accordingly with their parents. Islam doestnot favor a loose
and disjointed family system, which is devoid of any authority,
control and discipline and in which someone is not
pointedlyresponsible for the proper conduct and behaviour of its
members.
Discipline can only be maintained through a central authority and in
the view of Islam the position of father in the family is such that it
makes him the fittest person to take over this responsibility. But
this does not mean that the man has been made a tyrant and an
oppressor in the household and the woman has been handedover to him as
a helpless chattel. According to Islam, the real spirit of marital
life is love, understanding and mutual respect. If the woman has been
asked to obey the husband, the latter has been called upon to exercise
his privileges towards the welfare of the family andtreat his wife
with love, affection and sweetness.
Islam makes the marital bond strong but not unbreakable. It aims at
keeping the bond intact only so long as it is founded on sweetness of
love or for as long as at least the possibility of lasting
companionship exists. When this possibility of lasting companionship
exists. When this possibility diesout, it gives the man the right of
divorce and the woman the right of separation. Under
certainconditions, when married life has become a source of misery and
nuisance, it also gives theIslamic courts of justice the authority to
annul the marriage.
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- The husband's right over his wife
The wise wife:
The wise wife is the one who helps her husband conquer his own
shortcomings by reminding him of Allaah The Almighty so that their
marital happiness lasts.The wives of the Companions used to tell their
husbands whenthey went out for work, "Fear Allaah The Almighty and
stay away from illicit gain."
• Mutual respect
It is a truly great blessing if mutual respect always prevails between
the spouses.
The wife should respect her husband, realize that he is in charge of
her, and must not try to change that fact. She should know that he is
the master of thefamily, its guardian, and the one in charge.
How great was the example of Umm Haani' . When the Prophet proposed to
her, she refused as she had children and was afraid that she might not
be able to fulfill her duties as a mother and a wife.
• Be an earth for him and he will be your sky:
Dear sister, read the advice that was given by Asmaa' bint Khaarijah,
the wife of 'Awf Ash-Shaybaani, to her daughter before her marriage.
This advice is comprehensive as it combines the basics of the marital
life and the morals that every girl should acquire before getting
married.
Asmaa' told her daughter,
"O daughter! If advice should not be offered to the well-mannered, I
would not advise you, but it is a reminder for the oblivious and anaid
to those who are sensible. O daughter! If any woman were to dispense
with having a husband, you would be the most worthy one of that, but
women were created for men and men were also created for women.
O daughter! You will leave the house where you grew up to live with a
man whom you do not know, so be an earth for him andhe will be your
sky. Be a resting place for him and he will be your pillar; be his
bondmaid and he will be your slave and apply the following ten tips so
that he would be a supportive husband:
• Be modest, contented and obedient.
• Be watchful of his nose and his eye so he will smell nothing fromyou
but that which is sweet and look at nothing but that which is
beautiful.
• Be careful of the timings of his sleep and food as being hungry or
sleepy makes him angry.
• Be careful with his money and take good care of your children.
• Do not disobey his orders or reveal his secrets as disobeying him
would arouse his anger and revealing his secrets would make him plot
against you.
• Avoid being happy when he is sad or being sad when he is happy.
• Respect him as much as you can so that he would honor you as much as he can.
• Agree with him as much as possible and he will accompany you
constantly and be sure that you will not attain what you aspire until
you have put his satisfaction before yours and his wishes before
yours, and Allaah The Almighty choose for you."
Every wise mother should advise her daughter in the same way and give
her the same valuable advice that includes all the rights of the
husband!
The rights of the husband over his wife
First: Obeying him according to what is reasonable
What is reasonable is what was approved by Sharee'ah (Islamic
legislation). The wife should obeyher husband in matters that Allaah
The Almighty does not forbid. Allaah The Almighty Says (what means):
• {And due to the wives is similar to what is expected of them,
according to what is reasonable. But the men have a degree over them
[in responsibility and authority]. And Allaah is exalted in Might and
Wise.} [Quran 2:228]
• {Men are in charge of women by[right of] what Allaah Has Given one
over the other and what theyspend [for maintenance] from their
wealth.} [Quran 4:34]
Disobeying the husband incurs the anger of Allaah The Almighty and His
curse. Abu Hurayrah narrated that the Prophet said: "If a husband
calls his wife to his bed and she refuses causing him to sleep in
anger, the angels will curse her untill morning." [Al-Bukhaari and
Muslim]
Ibn Al-Jawzi said, "Any sensible wife should, when she finds a
suitable husband, endeavor to satisfy him and avoidanything that
annoys him. If she annoys him or does what he dislikes, he will be
bored and mayfind a good chance to leave her or prefer to be in anyone
else's company leaving her all alone. It is well-known that any person
can feel bored, so when a man is not that happy, it would be
moreprobable that he would feel bored."
Second: To stay at home and not go out without the husband's permission
Allaah The Almighty Says (what means): {And abide in your houses and
do not display yourselves as [was] the display of the former times of
ignorance.} [Quran 33:33] This verse was for the wives of the Prophet
but it is considered guidance for the rest of the women of the Ummahto
follow their example.
Third: Preserving his honor and wealth
The Prophet said: "The wife is a caretaker at her husband's home and
she will be held responsible for what she is in charge of."
[Al-Bukhaari]
Fourth: Cooking and housekeeping
The proof that a wife is required to serve the husband is what
wasmentioned by Ibn Al-Qayyim in his book, Zaad Al-Ma'aad. He said,
"When 'Ali and Faatimah complained to the Prophet hedivided the
responsibilities between them. He assigned the housework to Faatimah
and the outdoor work to 'Ali ."
Fifth: Adornment for the husband
Jaabir said, "Once, we were with the Prophet coming back from one of
the battles. When we were about to enter Al-Madeenah, he said: 'Wait
so that you may enter at night so that the woman of unkempt hair may
comb her hair and the one whose husband has been absent may shave her
pubic hair." [Al-Bukhaari and Muslim]
Sixth: Respecting the husband's feelings
You should avoid any saying, deed, or act that may hurt your husband.
You should consider hissocial and financial status.
Seventh: Keeping the husband's secrets
This is one of the mutual rights for both the husband and wife.
Allaah The Almighty Says (what means): {So righteous women aredevoutly
obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allaah would have
them guard.} [Quran 4:34] Some scholars said that this verse means the
womenwho keep the secrets that shouldbe kept. The Prophet said: "The
most wicked of people on the Day of Judgment is a man who goes in unto
a woman (i.e. his wife) and she goes in unto him, and then he divulges
her secret." [Muslim]
A reminder
Dear sister, remember that the Prophet said: "I was shown Hell-fire
and the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It
was asked, 'Do they disbelieve in Allaah?' (or are they ungrateful to
Allaah?) He replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are
ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to
them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and
then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I
have never received any good from you.'" [Al-Bukhaari]
Be tactful
Tactfulness simply means to say asuitable word and to react
intelligently. In other words, an articulate, tactful wife is one
whosays the proper words according to the situation and who has the
ability to win the situation.
Here is a famous incident where awoman acted tactfully:
Once, Khaalid ibn Yazeed ibn Mu'aawiyah, disputed with 'Abdullaah ibn
Az-Zubayr, the rivalof Banu Umayyah, and called him a 'miser'. His
wife, Ramlah Bint Az-Zubayr, the sister of 'Abdullaah ibn Az-Zubayr,
was sitting nearby, but she did not say a word. Khaalid asked her,
"Why do you not speak? Does thisindicate that you agree with what I
say or you disdain to reply?" She said, "Neither this northat, but
women were not created to interfere between men. Women are flowers who
can just be smelled and embraced." He admired her reply and was amazed
at her sensibility.
Dear sister,
Avoid characteristics that your husband hates and be keen on
respecting and revering him. In Ibn Al-Jawzi's interpretation of the
verse (what means): {But the men have a degree over them [in
responsibility and authority]}, he quoted Sa'eed ibn Al-Musayyib's
daughter who said, "We used to speak to our husbands inthe same manner
in which you speak to your princes."
Would you follow the example of the daughter of Sa'eed ibn Al-Musayyib ?
Ibn Al-Jawzi said, "A wife should be patient regarding the harm of her
husband just as a slave is patient with his master's harm."
Some of the Arabs said, "Do not marry any of these six types of women:
The oft-complaining, theoft-boasting about the favors shehas done, the
one who would wish to be married to another man, the one who desires
everything sees, the one who is fussy about her appearance, and the
one who is talkative."
'Abdullaah ibn Ja'far said to his daughter, "O daughter! Be wary of
jealousy as it is the key todivorce and avoid reproaching as it causes
hatred."
Three things can undermine a woman: love for money, selfishness, and
love for authority; whereas three matterscan elevate her: sacrificing,
loyalty and virtue.
Once, a man asked Al-Hasan "To whom would you marry your daughters?"
He said, "To the one who fears Allaah The Almighty; if he loves her,
he will honor her and if he hate her, he would not do her wrong."
- The husband's right over his wife
The wise wife:
The wise wife is the one who helps her husband conquer his own
shortcomings by reminding him of Allaah The Almighty so that their
marital happiness lasts.The wives of the Companions used to tell their
husbands whenthey went out for work, "Fear Allaah The Almighty and
stay away from illicit gain."
• Mutual respect
It is a truly great blessing if mutual respect always prevails between
the spouses.
The wife should respect her husband, realize that he is in charge of
her, and must not try to change that fact. She should know that he is
the master of thefamily, its guardian, and the one in charge.
How great was the example of Umm Haani' . When the Prophet proposed to
her, she refused as she had children and was afraid that she might not
be able to fulfill her duties as a mother and a wife.
• Be an earth for him and he will be your sky:
Dear sister, read the advice that was given by Asmaa' bint Khaarijah,
the wife of 'Awf Ash-Shaybaani, to her daughter before her marriage.
This advice is comprehensive as it combines the basics of the marital
life and the morals that every girl should acquire before getting
married.
Asmaa' told her daughter,
"O daughter! If advice should not be offered to the well-mannered, I
would not advise you, but it is a reminder for the oblivious and anaid
to those who are sensible. O daughter! If any woman were to dispense
with having a husband, you would be the most worthy one of that, but
women were created for men and men were also created for women.
O daughter! You will leave the house where you grew up to live with a
man whom you do not know, so be an earth for him andhe will be your
sky. Be a resting place for him and he will be your pillar; be his
bondmaid and he will be your slave and apply the following ten tips so
that he would be a supportive husband:
• Be modest, contented and obedient.
• Be watchful of his nose and his eye so he will smell nothing fromyou
but that which is sweet and look at nothing but that which is
beautiful.
• Be careful of the timings of his sleep and food as being hungry or
sleepy makes him angry.
• Be careful with his money and take good care of your children.
• Do not disobey his orders or reveal his secrets as disobeying him
would arouse his anger and revealing his secrets would make him plot
against you.
• Avoid being happy when he is sad or being sad when he is happy.
• Respect him as much as you can so that he would honor you as much as he can.
• Agree with him as much as possible and he will accompany you
constantly and be sure that you will not attain what you aspire until
you have put his satisfaction before yours and his wishes before
yours, and Allaah The Almighty choose for you."
Every wise mother should advise her daughter in the same way and give
her the same valuable advice that includes all the rights of the
husband!
The rights of the husband over his wife
First: Obeying him according to what is reasonable
What is reasonable is what was approved by Sharee'ah (Islamic
legislation). The wife should obeyher husband in matters that Allaah
The Almighty does not forbid. Allaah The Almighty Says (what means):
• {And due to the wives is similar to what is expected of them,
according to what is reasonable. But the men have a degree over them
[in responsibility and authority]. And Allaah is exalted in Might and
Wise.} [Quran 2:228]
• {Men are in charge of women by[right of] what Allaah Has Given one
over the other and what theyspend [for maintenance] from their
wealth.} [Quran 4:34]
Disobeying the husband incurs the anger of Allaah The Almighty and His
curse. Abu Hurayrah narrated that the Prophet said: "If a husband
calls his wife to his bed and she refuses causing him to sleep in
anger, the angels will curse her untill morning." [Al-Bukhaari and
Muslim]
Ibn Al-Jawzi said, "Any sensible wife should, when she finds a
suitable husband, endeavor to satisfy him and avoidanything that
annoys him. If she annoys him or does what he dislikes, he will be
bored and mayfind a good chance to leave her or prefer to be in anyone
else's company leaving her all alone. It is well-known that any person
can feel bored, so when a man is not that happy, it would be
moreprobable that he would feel bored."
Second: To stay at home and not go out without the husband's permission
Allaah The Almighty Says (what means): {And abide in your houses and
do not display yourselves as [was] the display of the former times of
ignorance.} [Quran 33:33] This verse was for the wives of the Prophet
but it is considered guidance for the rest of the women of the Ummahto
follow their example.
Third: Preserving his honor and wealth
The Prophet said: "The wife is a caretaker at her husband's home and
she will be held responsible for what she is in charge of."
[Al-Bukhaari]
Fourth: Cooking and housekeeping
The proof that a wife is required to serve the husband is what
wasmentioned by Ibn Al-Qayyim in his book, Zaad Al-Ma'aad. He said,
"When 'Ali and Faatimah complained to the Prophet hedivided the
responsibilities between them. He assigned the housework to Faatimah
and the outdoor work to 'Ali ."
Fifth: Adornment for the husband
Jaabir said, "Once, we were with the Prophet coming back from one of
the battles. When we were about to enter Al-Madeenah, he said: 'Wait
so that you may enter at night so that the woman of unkempt hair may
comb her hair and the one whose husband has been absent may shave her
pubic hair." [Al-Bukhaari and Muslim]
Sixth: Respecting the husband's feelings
You should avoid any saying, deed, or act that may hurt your husband.
You should consider hissocial and financial status.
Seventh: Keeping the husband's secrets
This is one of the mutual rights for both the husband and wife.
Allaah The Almighty Says (what means): {So righteous women aredevoutly
obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allaah would have
them guard.} [Quran 4:34] Some scholars said that this verse means the
womenwho keep the secrets that shouldbe kept. The Prophet said: "The
most wicked of people on the Day of Judgment is a man who goes in unto
a woman (i.e. his wife) and she goes in unto him, and then he divulges
her secret." [Muslim]
A reminder
Dear sister, remember that the Prophet said: "I was shown Hell-fire
and the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It
was asked, 'Do they disbelieve in Allaah?' (or are they ungrateful to
Allaah?) He replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are
ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to
them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and
then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I
have never received any good from you.'" [Al-Bukhaari]
Be tactful
Tactfulness simply means to say asuitable word and to react
intelligently. In other words, an articulate, tactful wife is one
whosays the proper words according to the situation and who has the
ability to win the situation.
Here is a famous incident where awoman acted tactfully:
Once, Khaalid ibn Yazeed ibn Mu'aawiyah, disputed with 'Abdullaah ibn
Az-Zubayr, the rivalof Banu Umayyah, and called him a 'miser'. His
wife, Ramlah Bint Az-Zubayr, the sister of 'Abdullaah ibn Az-Zubayr,
was sitting nearby, but she did not say a word. Khaalid asked her,
"Why do you not speak? Does thisindicate that you agree with what I
say or you disdain to reply?" She said, "Neither this northat, but
women were not created to interfere between men. Women are flowers who
can just be smelled and embraced." He admired her reply and was amazed
at her sensibility.
Dear sister,
Avoid characteristics that your husband hates and be keen on
respecting and revering him. In Ibn Al-Jawzi's interpretation of the
verse (what means): {But the men have a degree over them [in
responsibility and authority]}, he quoted Sa'eed ibn Al-Musayyib's
daughter who said, "We used to speak to our husbands inthe same manner
in which you speak to your princes."
Would you follow the example of the daughter of Sa'eed ibn Al-Musayyib ?
Ibn Al-Jawzi said, "A wife should be patient regarding the harm of her
husband just as a slave is patient with his master's harm."
Some of the Arabs said, "Do not marry any of these six types of women:
The oft-complaining, theoft-boasting about the favors shehas done, the
one who would wish to be married to another man, the one who desires
everything sees, the one who is fussy about her appearance, and the
one who is talkative."
'Abdullaah ibn Ja'far said to his daughter, "O daughter! Be wary of
jealousy as it is the key todivorce and avoid reproaching as it causes
hatred."
Three things can undermine a woman: love for money, selfishness, and
love for authority; whereas three matterscan elevate her: sacrificing,
loyalty and virtue.
Once, a man asked Al-Hasan "To whom would you marry your daughters?"
He said, "To the one who fears Allaah The Almighty; if he loves her,
he will honor her and if he hate her, he would not do her wrong."
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