Story - Bad action

Not know how to begin, before 4 months, this would be an wonderful
story, which, however, I turn into a nightmare.
It all started 4 years ago.
I met with him in an American chat room, which used to exercise his
tongue. She lived in New York and wanted to see me only 2 months after
our acquaintance.
Everything was going as well as in fairy tales, so the better. As is
seen, every 2 months or here, or more often to some exotic place,
which features both izbirahme.Loshata it was his jealousy and distrust
sometimes, otherwise everything else was wonderful. I have dealt
treacherously! Always been alone for the truth Isaid it! There was a
reason for my iznevyara.Beshe am sick of this jealousy and
nedovolstvo.Byah tired ofhis interrogation!
He can not afford to accept the fact and for the first time I could
hearcrying, izmachva.Beshe how awful! Parted! Now 4 months later,
after his numerous calls asking me for a second chance, as said
separation is impossible for me nego.Razdyalata itis something nemozhe
to swallow, despite attempts in these 4 months, but here there is one
condition that he set,but it is:
It wanted to tell you about the man himself who was with him and
promise that I will try notto repeat!
I can not do it, although Iwould like to have a second chance with him!
I think this may be a bad game, but he assures me that e.Imam mind
that maybe I could throw him forever?
Please, if someone can give me advice from personal experience or
ingeneral, I will facilitate the response, which should give you very
soon.
Thank you in advance!

Story - Never love someone too much

Hii, i'm 21 years old boy, studying pharmacy from a university. it all
started when i joined university for studying pharmacy. I was selected
from the waiting list, so my admission was 2 weeks after classes
started. Our batch was the 1st batch of this university seeking
pharmacy. I was happy that i will be a pharmacist one day. First day,
when i entered the class, i was familiar with only two students, one
is a boy & onether one is girl, rest are new. I seated on a seat and
was checking every one. I sawa gud looking girl, staredat her for few
seconds. I'm addicted to facebook,so search her name n luckily found
her profilensend her frnd request, she accepted, soon we started to
talk via phone n also become familiar with everyone in the class, we
become good friends and used to shareeverythings with each other. This
went for 2 months i started to like her but dint tell her, then1 month
vacation started.After vacation, she said she like a boy n that boy
also likes her n they started relationship which is still going on. I
dint felt anything bad. Just i stoped talking with her.
Now the main story started, there is another girl in our class, she is
childish, cute n sweet in nature, we used to come to the university in
the same bus but never talk with her actually, but i dont know when i
started to feel for her. I used to stare at her everyday and she also
never talked with me in person, i got to know theshe had a boyfriend
who cheated her, then again have a boyfriend. I was sad knowing this,
then days goes on like this. I wanted to talk to her but had no
courage how to start. Finally 1 day, i asked for her phone number, she
gave me without asking anything as we are classmates, then i started
sending jokes and all that, she also replied me with same, few days
goes same way. One day i decided to really talk with her, so we talked
soon she became very free with me and started to share everything with
me. I was very happy with this talking with hereveryday, suddenly 1
day her bf broke up with her n she was very sad n decided that she
will never hav bf anymore. Few day went this way. She also said she
still likeshis 1st bf, they talk sometime. I thought may be i have no
chance to b her love. 1 day, i shared my feeling for her to her n
hearing this she become shocked n said to be her friend nothing more
as she dont want anyone anymore, i tried to make her realize how ifeel
for her but she neverunderstood that. N kept on saying to be her
friend only other wise she will not talk, i agreedto her. Few days
later, again told her that i love her but she said no, i tried many
times bt she kept on saying no bt i kept my hope alive believing that
1 day she will love me. Somtime wehad urguments on this btsoon
everything used to become ok n we used to talk like nothing happened.
My love for her was growing day by day but she never understood that.
I also hurted her many times but not intentionallyn forthat i said
soory to her from my heart many times. I cant do anything other than
hoping. Still, everything is ok, we were talking everyday. Sometime,
we used to have urguments n dint used to talk for 2-3 days again she
used to start talking. She also hurted me many times but i never let
her know. One day, i was in angry mood,n talk angrily with her, and we
stoped talking n idecided not to talk to heragain but again talked
with me n said to be my friend only. I aid ok n dint tried to talk to
her much, now from few days, we dont talk.. But i still love her n
will love her always. May be she is not the right girl for me. Ijust
want her to be happy always no matter with whom. I'm still waiting for
her. everything started in 2011. She never said that she wont talk to
me. I know if i talk again, she will talk but i dont want to, when i
talk i get hurted. Tommorrow, i'm going to see her in class after few
day, i wont look at her. I know she will look at me without my notice.
She always do like this. I dont know what will happen next. Just
hoping for the best.
Guys plz comment n share your views. It may be little long. Bt hope u
will like it.
Thanks for reading my story.

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The virtue of giving iftaar to one who is fasting -[For detail - Click http://aydnajimudeen.blogspot.com]

What is the reward for giving iftaar to one who isfasting?
Praise be to Allaah.
It was narrated that Zayd ibn Khaalid al-Juhani said: The Messenger of
Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:"Whoever
gives iftaar to one who is fastingwill have a reward like his,
without that detracting from the reward of the fasting personin the
slightest."
Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 807; Ibn Maajah, 1746. Classed as saheeh by
Ibn Hibaan, 8/216 and by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami, 6415.
Shaykh al-Islam [Ibn Taymiyah] said: What is meant by giving him
iftaar is giving him enough to satisfy him. Al-Ikhtiyaaraat, p. 194
The righteous salaf were keen toprovide food for others and they
thought that this was one of thebest of righteous deeds.
One of the salaf said: For me to invite ten of my companions andfeed
them food that they like is dearer to me than freeing ten of the sons
of Ismaa'eel from slavery.
Many of the salaf used to give uptheir iftaar for others, such as
'Abd-Allaah ibn Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him), Dawood
al-Taa'i, Maalik ibn Dinar and Ahmad ibn Hanbal. Ibn 'Umar used only
to break his fast with orphans and the poor andneedy.
There were among the salaf those who used to offer food to their
brothers whilst fasting, and theywould sit and serve them, such as
al-Hasan and Ibn al-Mubaarak.
Abu al-Siwaar al-'Adawi said: Men from the tribe of Banu 'Adiyy used
to pray in this mosque and not one of them would break his fast on his
own; if they found someone to join them they would eat with him,
otherwise they would take their food out to the mosque and eat with
the people, and the people would eat with them.
From the 'ibaadah of providing food for people stem many other acts of
worship such as creating love and friendship towards those who are
given the food, which is a meansof entering Paradise, as the Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allaah beupon him) said: "You will not enter
Paradise until you truly believe, and you will not truly believe until
you love one another." Narrated by Muslim, 54. It also fosters the
practice ofsitting with righteouspeople and seeking reward by helping
them to do acts of worship for which they gain strength by eating your
food.

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Jumma Prayer - Acts of worship which are prescribed on Fridays

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many virtues. Could you tell me some acts of worship that I can do on
this day?.
Praise be to Allaah.
Yes, Friday is a good day;there are many ahaadeeth which speak of its
virtues. See Question no. 9211 .
There are many acts of worship which are prescribed for the Muslim to
do on this day.These include:
1 – Salaat al-Jumu'ah (Friday prayer)
Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
"O you who believe (Muslims)! When the call is proclaimed for the
Salaah (prayer) on Friday (Jumu'ah prayer), come to the remembrance of
Allaah [Jumu'ah religious talk (Khutbah) and Salaah (prayer)] and
leave off business (and every other thing). That is better for you if
you did but know!"
[al-Jumu'ah 62:9]
Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in Zaad al-Ma'aad (1/376):
Friday prayer is one of the most important obligations in Islam, and
one of the greatest gatherings of the Muslims. Gathering on Friday is
more importantand more obligatory than any other gathering apart from
'Arafah. Whoever neglects it, Allaah will place a seal on his heart.
It was narrated from Abu'l-Ja'd al-Damari – who was a companion of the
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) – that the Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "Whoever neglects
threeJumu'ahs, Allaah will place a seal on his heart."
Narrated by Abu Dawood, 1052; classed assaheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh
Abi Dawood, 928
It was narrated from 'Abd-Allaah ibn 'Umar and Abu Hurayrah that they
heard the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
him) say on the minbar:
"Let people stop neglecting Jumu'ah, or Allaah will place a seal on
their hearts, then they will be among those who are neglectful."
Narrated by Muslim, 865.
2 – Making a lot of du'aa'.
On this day there is a time when a person's Lord will answer his
du'aa' – by Allaah's leave.
It was narrated from AbuHurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) that
the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)
mentioned Friday and said: "On this day there is a time when no Muslim
stands and prays,asking Allaah for something, but Allaah will grant
him it" – and he gestured with his hands to indicate how short that
time is.
Narrated by al-Bukhaari,893; Muslim, 852
3 – Reading Soorat al-Kahf.
It was narrated from AbuSa'eed al-Khduri that theProphet (peace and
blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "Whoever reads Soorat al-Kahf
on Friday, he willbe illuminated with lightbetween the two Fridays."
Narrated by al-Haakim; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh
al-Targheeb, 836
4 – Sending a lot of blessings upon the Prophet (peace and blessings
of Allaah be upon him).
It was narrated from Aws ibn Aws that the Prophet (peace and blessings
of Allaah be upon him) said: "The best of your days is Friday. On that
day Adam(peace be upon him) was created; on that dayhe died; on that
day the Trumpet will be blown; and on that day all of creation will
swoon. So send a great deal of blessings upon me, for your blessings
will be shown to me." They said,"O Messenger of Allaah, how will our
blessings upon you be shown to you when you have turned to dust?" He
said, "Allaah has forbidden the earth to consume the bodies of the
Prophets, peace be uponthem."
Narrated by Abu Dawood, 1047; classed assaheeh by Ibn al-Qayyim in his
comments on Sunan Abi Dawood, 4/273; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani
in Saheeh Abi Dawood, 925.
He said in 'Awn al-Ma'bood:
Friday is singled out because it is the best of days and the chosen
day.So there is an advantageto sending blessings upon him on that day
that is not present on any other day.
Along with these virtues and acts of worship, the Prophet (peace and
blessings of Allaah be upon him) forbade singling out Friday for
fasting, or singling out the night of Friday for doing acts of worship
that are not narrated in sharee'ah.
It was narrated from AbuHurayrah that the Prophet (peace and blessings
of Allaah be upon him) said: "Do not single out the night of Friday
for qiyaam al-layl,and do not single out the day of Friday for
fasting, unless that is part of the habitual fasting of any one of
you."
(Narrated by Muslim, 1144).
Al-San'aani said in Subul al-Salaam:
This hadeeth indicates that it is haraam to single out the night of
Friday for worship or reading Qur'aan that is not one's regular
custom, apart from that which is indicated in thetexts, such as
reading Soorat al-Kahf.
Al-Nawawi said:
This hadeeth clearly states that it is forbiddento single out the
night ofFriday for prayer or the day of Friday for fasting. It is
agreed (among the scholars) that this is makrooh.
He also said:
The scholars said that the reason why it is forbidden to single out
Friday for fasting is that Friday is a day of du'aa', dhikr and
worship, such as ghusl, going early to the prayer, waiting for the
prayer, listening to the khutbah and recitinga lot of dhikr
afterwards,because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
"Then when the (Jumu'ah) Salaah (prayer) is ended, you may disperse
through the land, and seek the Bounty of Allaah (by working), and
remember Allaah much"
[al-Jumu'ah 62:10]
And there are other acts of worship to be done on this day. So it is
preferable not to fast then, as this will help a person to perform
these duties in an energetic manner and enjoy them without feeling
bored ortired. This is like the pilgrim on the day of 'Arafah in
'Arafah, because the Sunnah is for him not to fast on that day for the
same reason… This is the reason for not allowing singling out Friday
for fasting. And it was said that the reason is so thatpeople will
not go to extremes in venerating it as happened in the case of
Saturday. But thisview is weak, because on that day we offer Jumu'ah
prayer and do other acts of worship which are a kind of veneration.
And it was said that the reason for its prohibition is so that people
would not think that this was obligatory. This is also a weak view
because it is encouragedto fast on Mondays and there was no fear that
anyone would think it was obligatory. No attention should be paidto
this far-fetched view. The same argument is applicable in the case of
fasting the day of 'Arafah and the day of 'Ashoora', etc. The correct
view is that which we have stated above.
And Allaah knows best.