A young man is studying with a sheikh who deals with jinn in order to
treat the possessed people and those suffering from spells. This young
man knew about this recently. Should he stop learning from this sheikh
and leave the place? Bearing in mind that he has only few months left
to complete his Qura'anic studies with him. What isthe ruling on
seeking knowledge through this sheikh and what is the ruling on the
alms given to this student by his sheikh?.
Praise be to Allaah.
Firstly:
Dealing with the jinn is aserious issue, and is a door that leads to
evil and mischief; how often have people are affectedby this evil? It
is sufficient for you to know that shirk only came to mankind through
them. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said,
telling us how Allaah taught His slaves: " 'I have created all My
slaves with the inclination to worship Me alone, but the devils come
to them and turn them away from their religion. They forbid to them
that which I have permitted to them, and they tell them to associate
others with Mefor which I have not sentdown any authority.'" Narrated
by Muslim (2865).
There are believers and Muslims among the jinn, and also kaafirs and
evildoers. But the fact that they are concealed from man means that
wecannot be sure about any one of them, and gives us cause for concern
about their tricks and treachery, especially with the spread of
ignorance andbid'ah (innovation), which is the harbinger of shirk.
Usually these creatures make man fall into that which is haraam, and
bring only a little benefit.
Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
"And verily, there were men among mankind who took shelter with the
males among the jinn, but they (jinn) increased them (mankind) in sin
and transgression"
[al-Jinn 72:6]
Hence the fatwas of the scholars state that it is haraam to deal with
the jinn at all – whether with the believers or thekaafirs among them
– and it is essential not to take this matter lightly, so as to close
the door tofitnah and confusion, and out of concern for those who have
faith in Allaah.
It says in al-Insaaf by al-Mardaawi (10/351):
"As for the one who claims to have power over the jinn and claims that
he can summon them and they obey him,he should not be denounced as a
kaafir orexecuted, but he should be given a ta'zeer punishment." He
should be given a severe ta'zeerpunishment that should not reach the
extent of execution, according to the correct view of our madhhab; and
it was said that his ta'zeer punishment may reach the extent of
execution. End quote.
It says in al-Mawsoo'ah al-Fiqhiyyah (14/18):
As for seeking help from anyone other than Allaah, it is either from
humans or from the jinn.If it is seeking help from the jinn, then this
is forbidden and it may be shirk and kufr. "And verily, there were men
among mankind who took shelter with the males among the jinn, but they
(jinn) increasedthem (mankind) in sin and transgression" [al-Jinn
72:6].
Shaykh al-Albaani said inal-Silsilah al-Saheehah (hadeeth no. 2760):
This also includes some who appear outwardly to be righteous treating
people by means of that which they call "spiritualmedicine (al-tibb
al-roohaani)", whether that is in the ancient manner by contacting his
qareen or jinn companion – as they used to do during the Jaahiliyyah
– or it is done by means of what they call "summoning the spirits".
Similar to that in my opinion is hypnotism. All of these are means
that are not acceptable in sharee'ah, because they all boil down to
seeking the help of the jinn who were the cause of the mushrikeen
going astrayas it says in the Holy Qur'aan (interpretation of the
meaning):
"And verily, there were men among mankind who took shelter with the
males among the jinn, but they (jinn) increased them (mankind) in sin
and transgression"
[al-Jinn 72:6]
The claims of some of those who seek their help, that they only seek
the help of the righteousamong them, are false claims, because they
usually cannot mix with them and live with them in ways that will show
whether they are righteous or not. We know from experience that most
of the humans with whom you keep company turn out not to be good
friends. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
"O you who believe! Verily, among your wives and your children there
are enemies for you (who may stop you from the obedience of Allaah);
therefore beware of them!"
[al-Taghaabun 64:14]
This has to do with people who can be seen,so what do you think about
the jinn, concerning whom Allaahsays (interpretation of the meaning):
"Verily, he [Shaytaan] and Qabeeluhu (his soldiers from the jinn or
his tribe) see you from where you cannot see them" [al-A'raaf 7:27]?
End quote.
We have previously quoted fatwas from the scholars on this topic, in
the answers to the following questions: 10518 , 11114 and 78546 .
Secondly:
The first thing that the seeker of knowledge must do is to choose
trustworthy scholars, people who are religiously-committed,
trustworthy and pious. He should only acquire knowledge from those who
are qualified, and those who are truly qualified are those who have
the knowledge andact upon it, by obeying Allaah and adhering to His
laws and commands. The teacher has the greatest effect on the student,
so he should have the quality of fear of Allaah (taqwa).
It was narrated that Ibraaheem al-Nakha'i said:
When they came to a man to acquire knowledge from him, they would look
at his character, his prayer andhis situation, then they would take
knowledge from him. Al-Jaami' li Akhlaaq al-Raawi (1/127).
The scholars stated that this is especially important with regard to
learning the Qur'aan.
Al-Nawawi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in al-Tibyaan fi Adaab
Hamalat al-Qur'aan (p. 13):
It should not be learned except from one who is fully qualified and
whose religious commitment is apparent,whose knowledge is proven to be
sound and whose piety is well known. Muhammad ibn Sireen, Maalik ibn
Anas and others among the salaf said: This knowledge has to do with
religion, so look to whom you take your religion from. End quote.
Al-Zarnooji (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in Ta'leem al-Muta'allim (p. 7):
He should choose the most knowledgeable, the most pious and the
oldest, as Abu Haneefah chose Hammaad ibn Abi Sulaymaan after much
thinking and consideration, and he said: I found him to be a patient,
forbearing and dignified old man. End quote.
Ibn Jamaa'ah al-Kinaani said in his book Tadhkirah al-Saami'
wa'l-Mutakallim (p. 133):
The seeker of knowledge should look and pray istikhaarah, asking
Allaah for guidance concerning theone from whom he will take knowledge
and learn good attitude and manners; if possible he should be one who
is fully qualified, and is proven to be kind, compassionate and
chivalrous, and who is well known for his chastity and piety, and who
is well versed and has deep understanding.
The student should not continue to learn when there is a shortcoming
in(the teacher's) piety or religious commitment, or his attitude is
not good. It was narrated from one of the salaf: This knowledge has to
do with religion, so look to whom you take your religion from.
If you explore the lives of the earlier and later generations, you
will find that the student usually only benefits andsucceeds if the
Shaykh is clearly sincere towards his students.
Even if you look at books, you will find that you will benefit from
books authored by thosewho are more pious andhave less interest in
worldly gains. End quote.
Thirdly:
Our advice to this seeker of knowledge is to leave this teacher who
uses the services of the jinn – if there is certain proof of that –
and he should not learn anything from him of knowledge, attitude or
religion. Thatis the most cautious approach, to be on the safe side,
if he is able to make up what he has missed and complete his studies
with a Shaykh who follows the Sunnah and is righteous.
But if there are no righteous people in his city who can do that for
him, then what we thinkis that he should complete the short time that
remains of his studies, if the situation isas described and he
onlyuses the jinn for treatingthose who are bewitched or sick, and he
is not known to practice sihr (witchcraft)or harm the Muslims, or
transgress against their wealth or honour. The basic principle
accordingto the scholars is that one may be pardoned for continuing
that which one may not be pardoned for starting. Although we would
tell aseeker of knowledge notto begin studying with aShaykh who
follows bid'ah, or who is obviously deviant in his knowledge or
action, in cases such as this, there is a concession allowing him to
continue these studies until he finishes, especially since the
remaining time is very short, and especially since he cannot find an
alternative teacher in hiscity who is a righteous follower of the
Sunnah.
But what we have said here should also be balanced against the fact
that this Shaykh maybe following the opinionof those who say that it
is permissible to employ the jinn with regard to permissible matters,
such as those mentionedin the question; he may be excused for
followingthat (weak) view and in that case we cannot say that he is a
follower of bid'ah (innovation) or is misguided.
Although some of Ahl al-Sunnah are of this view, the correct view is
that which we mentioned first of all, which is that it is forbidden to
employ the services of the jinn at all.But the correct view concerning
the issue is one thing, and finding an excuse for those who follow a
weaker view is something else.
Fourthly:
Our advice concerning the charity is also to try to do without it, and
always look for ways of earning a living by yourself, without falling
short in seeking knowledge or spending all your time and effort in
seeking a living. Rather you should be moderate and refrain from
taking that which is in people's hands (i.e., by earning your living
by your own efforts), and strive to learn aboutissues of religion, and
thus you will attain the pleasure of Allaah.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "Whoever
follows a pathseeking knowledge, Allaah will make a path to Paradise
easy for him." Narrated by Muslim (2699).
But if a seeker of knowledge cannot earn enough to live on and he has
no choice but to accept charity given by this teacher, there is no sin
on him, in sha Allaah,if he takes it.
And Allaah knows best.
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Friday, November 16, 2012
He found out that his Shaykh deals with jinn
Just dedicated
I write this for a person who has left a mark in my heart… and in the
hearts of many others who knew him.
You were with me all the time for so long. You were always there – my
best friend… I couldn't find out whether you were more than a friend.
I unroll the reel of my memories.
Is it me – this child over there…up in the mountains where dreamsrise
up to Heaven? I lovedto wake up with the sound of birds; to take a
deep breath of the cold air and to see the blue eyes on the bed next
to me… bluer than the sky. There is so much laughter, so many dreams
gathered… up in the attic. You were the one who knew what I felt,
without even talkingto you. I have always questioned myself how you do
this. Where did you get strength never toget upset? You were the
"moving spirit" of the company; you were everything… an angel who had
descended fromthe sky to bless us with his warmth and goodness. But
why for so short? WHY?
I remember the nights bythe fire when we were lying on the grass and
mylife was significant. I was wondering why the stars sparkle in the
dark and you told me it was not to forget them.
And you were the one who compensated for myfooleries. But you never
blamed me for this. I could tell you everything and I knew you'll
understand.
It was the end of the summer. The end of the season was near and we
had to set apart. You were leaving; like you did each year and I had
to let you go. The last night we were sitting on the porch; you looked
at me and I got lost somewhere in your deep blue eyes. I was
speechless and you gave me the first kiss. Then, you gave me the
biggest present in my small world. All became quiet when you left. The
forest started crying and I wandered why.
One morning I woke up from the pouring rain that was pattering on
theceiling; my heart began to bleed. I didn't know why. I ran
downstairs and I saw them. I saw their faces and I felt theirawkward
emptiness.
God had taken you from me… forever. This damn car-accident - somewhere
far away in Spain, where the other world of yours was. I didn't want
to believe that someone could be that cruel and kill an angel… the
soul of a child. There are no wordsto describe this pain, this
emptiness, and these insults after the accident, and these fake looks
of compassion… for you! Thousands of smiles werebroken into thousands
ofpieces. Life was ahead of me and that didn't matter to me. When part
of me was gone; when memories brought only the pain of the loss.
Oh, how much I miss you even after five years. I'll never let me
forget you because you live in my heart – in that tiny heart of a
child who loved you endlessly.
I wish more people knewyou. Now I have other friends, I've changed,
I'vemaybe grown up. There are people who love me and I keep looking
for a small part of you in them – a small part of your laughter.
hearts of many others who knew him.
You were with me all the time for so long. You were always there – my
best friend… I couldn't find out whether you were more than a friend.
I unroll the reel of my memories.
Is it me – this child over there…up in the mountains where dreamsrise
up to Heaven? I lovedto wake up with the sound of birds; to take a
deep breath of the cold air and to see the blue eyes on the bed next
to me… bluer than the sky. There is so much laughter, so many dreams
gathered… up in the attic. You were the one who knew what I felt,
without even talkingto you. I have always questioned myself how you do
this. Where did you get strength never toget upset? You were the
"moving spirit" of the company; you were everything… an angel who had
descended fromthe sky to bless us with his warmth and goodness. But
why for so short? WHY?
I remember the nights bythe fire when we were lying on the grass and
mylife was significant. I was wondering why the stars sparkle in the
dark and you told me it was not to forget them.
And you were the one who compensated for myfooleries. But you never
blamed me for this. I could tell you everything and I knew you'll
understand.
It was the end of the summer. The end of the season was near and we
had to set apart. You were leaving; like you did each year and I had
to let you go. The last night we were sitting on the porch; you looked
at me and I got lost somewhere in your deep blue eyes. I was
speechless and you gave me the first kiss. Then, you gave me the
biggest present in my small world. All became quiet when you left. The
forest started crying and I wandered why.
One morning I woke up from the pouring rain that was pattering on
theceiling; my heart began to bleed. I didn't know why. I ran
downstairs and I saw them. I saw their faces and I felt theirawkward
emptiness.
God had taken you from me… forever. This damn car-accident - somewhere
far away in Spain, where the other world of yours was. I didn't want
to believe that someone could be that cruel and kill an angel… the
soul of a child. There are no wordsto describe this pain, this
emptiness, and these insults after the accident, and these fake looks
of compassion… for you! Thousands of smiles werebroken into thousands
ofpieces. Life was ahead of me and that didn't matter to me. When part
of me was gone; when memories brought only the pain of the loss.
Oh, how much I miss you even after five years. I'll never let me
forget you because you live in my heart – in that tiny heart of a
child who loved you endlessly.
I wish more people knewyou. Now I have other friends, I've changed,
I'vemaybe grown up. There are people who love me and I keep looking
for a small part of you in them – a small part of your laughter.
Love knows when to let go
About 6months ago this guy who i was in a long distance relationship
with broke up with me over facebook. I had no other choice but to give
in to what he wanted because i knew that he didnt love me anymore the
same way he used to.
A month after that i met this guy at a church get together whilst
trying to move on from the brokenrelationship i recently was in. He
broke the ice, by giving a compliment on a talk i gave out that day. I
was on cloud nine indeed. I went home thatday with the image of the
stranger lingering in my head; i couldnt stop thinking of him. I had
false doubts about him because he was from another country but was
popular and successful in his career as a singer andmusician. I was
nothing compared to him; i was beaten up by my own thoughts that i
tried to forget about him. Unfortunately it didnt work. One night i
was watching this popular singing competition in my country and wa-lah
he was one of the competitors. The same night, i was on facebook when
his page was suggested. I didnt add him straight instead i sent him a
message to congratulate him on his performance and simply to return
the favour.
It felt soooo random for me to do that still i did. I sent that
message but wasnt expecting a reply. Two weeks later, i got a message
from him and this time he left his phone number. So i took my chances
and text him. We started chatting on and off since that day it was
late in May then. We would chat about these random stuffs back and
forth leaving me daydreaming of him.
I was completely head over heels not knowing he was starting to feel
the same way for me. (Well that's what he later told me) I was slowly
recovering from the pain i had been in and was slowly giving my heart
away to this guy. He was different (in a good way)He was kindhearted,
loving, caring, down to earth and thoughtful. I couldnt ask for anyone
better. So days went by, there are days that we would meet up at a
random place and spend 2-3hours talking and laughing our heads off
ateach others' jokes. Those magical moments i can never forget. They
made me feel special and truly loved until things started changing.
The competition he was in? Well he won that singing competition. He
deservedit right from the start. After winning, people started
spreading rumours about him dating his runner up. I didnt do or say
anything because i knew i had no right to take rumours from others.
All i wanted was to hear it straight from him, i never had the
intention of judging him i only wanted to find out the truth. But if
what i had been hearing was true then i would let him go. I couldnt be
foolish enough to keep holding on to what is not mine. But as i recall
the times we'd spent together and the whole lot of exchanging texts,
what isstarting to happen is so very impossible. In the way that he'd
say all these things (that he wants to be with no one else but me,
that he's loving me forever, that he'll try everything in his power so
i could feel loved and special) It's justnot fair..
Days and weeks went by istarted not hearing from him instead rumours
widely spreaded. That he had changed alot! I couldnt believe what i
was hearing. I was hurting inside but still i was breathing. And so
one day, i saw them together at a car park in town. He didnt see me
but i saw them clearly from my position. Seeing them settled my
uncertainties, all the questions i had. Finally i was in peace, Guess
it's really time that i let him go; that i forget about him. But one
thing for sure is, i will never forgetthe special times we've spent
together, the way he made me feel, how hetreated me like the only girl
he sees. I still love him but i have to let him go. He seemed happy
with her and there's nothing more that i would want to see than seeing
him happy. After everytime we'd spent together Im left with an
everlasting impression.
Maybe we weren't meantfor each other. He may bethe sun and i the ocean
therefore in his eyes, i belong somewhere else. Ipray that happiness
and peace fills his everyday..
with broke up with me over facebook. I had no other choice but to give
in to what he wanted because i knew that he didnt love me anymore the
same way he used to.
A month after that i met this guy at a church get together whilst
trying to move on from the brokenrelationship i recently was in. He
broke the ice, by giving a compliment on a talk i gave out that day. I
was on cloud nine indeed. I went home thatday with the image of the
stranger lingering in my head; i couldnt stop thinking of him. I had
false doubts about him because he was from another country but was
popular and successful in his career as a singer andmusician. I was
nothing compared to him; i was beaten up by my own thoughts that i
tried to forget about him. Unfortunately it didnt work. One night i
was watching this popular singing competition in my country and wa-lah
he was one of the competitors. The same night, i was on facebook when
his page was suggested. I didnt add him straight instead i sent him a
message to congratulate him on his performance and simply to return
the favour.
It felt soooo random for me to do that still i did. I sent that
message but wasnt expecting a reply. Two weeks later, i got a message
from him and this time he left his phone number. So i took my chances
and text him. We started chatting on and off since that day it was
late in May then. We would chat about these random stuffs back and
forth leaving me daydreaming of him.
I was completely head over heels not knowing he was starting to feel
the same way for me. (Well that's what he later told me) I was slowly
recovering from the pain i had been in and was slowly giving my heart
away to this guy. He was different (in a good way)He was kindhearted,
loving, caring, down to earth and thoughtful. I couldnt ask for anyone
better. So days went by, there are days that we would meet up at a
random place and spend 2-3hours talking and laughing our heads off
ateach others' jokes. Those magical moments i can never forget. They
made me feel special and truly loved until things started changing.
The competition he was in? Well he won that singing competition. He
deservedit right from the start. After winning, people started
spreading rumours about him dating his runner up. I didnt do or say
anything because i knew i had no right to take rumours from others.
All i wanted was to hear it straight from him, i never had the
intention of judging him i only wanted to find out the truth. But if
what i had been hearing was true then i would let him go. I couldnt be
foolish enough to keep holding on to what is not mine. But as i recall
the times we'd spent together and the whole lot of exchanging texts,
what isstarting to happen is so very impossible. In the way that he'd
say all these things (that he wants to be with no one else but me,
that he's loving me forever, that he'll try everything in his power so
i could feel loved and special) It's justnot fair..
Days and weeks went by istarted not hearing from him instead rumours
widely spreaded. That he had changed alot! I couldnt believe what i
was hearing. I was hurting inside but still i was breathing. And so
one day, i saw them together at a car park in town. He didnt see me
but i saw them clearly from my position. Seeing them settled my
uncertainties, all the questions i had. Finally i was in peace, Guess
it's really time that i let him go; that i forget about him. But one
thing for sure is, i will never forgetthe special times we've spent
together, the way he made me feel, how hetreated me like the only girl
he sees. I still love him but i have to let him go. He seemed happy
with her and there's nothing more that i would want to see than seeing
him happy. After everytime we'd spent together Im left with an
everlasting impression.
Maybe we weren't meantfor each other. He may bethe sun and i the ocean
therefore in his eyes, i belong somewhere else. Ipray that happiness
and peace fills his everyday..
True stories »Happiness came alone
This is my story. About the love that came alone.
Three years ago I was 23 years old and very unhappy. I had just left a
rich, non-committed manwho wanted to marry meand gave me everything
Ineeded.
But one day, April 1 it was and just like in a joke I left him. There
was a reason and quite a serious one. He wanted to own me. Leaving him
meant losing my job (because I worked for him), my love, my comfort
and money.
Another man helped me leave him; he was the third man in my life. I
was madly in love with him. I simply adored him.Two months after we
began dating, his ex-girlfriend called him and told him she was
pregnant. He went crazy. He began behaving weird. He didn't know what
to do. Go to her or stay with me. At the end, he left me.
I cried myself out. For months and maybe years.
I started dating other men and hurting them. For only a year I went to
bed with 5 men and left them in the worst possible way. I made them
cry and beg me.
I felt nothing. I was the cruelest being in the world. My heart was
broken and I found no meaning of life. But at a certain point I calmed
down. I forgot the man that left me. He married that woman he left me
for. I lost him forever andI knew I needed to move forward and to go
back to normal, to somehow save my soul.
Weird enough after this so called balance, Paco appeared. I was at a
bar and he approached and started talking to me. We spent our time
together until 4 am and we couldn't get enough of each other. It was
hard atthe beginning. He had just been abandoned by a woman he was 5
years with. So he was being mean to me. But I knew best what he felt
and waited for the moment he would reach that calmness that I felt and
everything will be perfect. Yes, I waited for him to go through that
same hell I did, through the same agony for the unrequited love and I
don't feel sorry about it. Because now I have next to me the man I can
rely on totally. I love him and I cannot imagine my life without him.
We have our wedding planned in 3 months time, exactly two years after
we met. And I think that happiness comes alone tous, without looking
or crying for it. The only thing we need is to be at peace with
ourselves.
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Three years ago I was 23 years old and very unhappy. I had just left a
rich, non-committed manwho wanted to marry meand gave me everything
Ineeded.
But one day, April 1 it was and just like in a joke I left him. There
was a reason and quite a serious one. He wanted to own me. Leaving him
meant losing my job (because I worked for him), my love, my comfort
and money.
Another man helped me leave him; he was the third man in my life. I
was madly in love with him. I simply adored him.Two months after we
began dating, his ex-girlfriend called him and told him she was
pregnant. He went crazy. He began behaving weird. He didn't know what
to do. Go to her or stay with me. At the end, he left me.
I cried myself out. For months and maybe years.
I started dating other men and hurting them. For only a year I went to
bed with 5 men and left them in the worst possible way. I made them
cry and beg me.
I felt nothing. I was the cruelest being in the world. My heart was
broken and I found no meaning of life. But at a certain point I calmed
down. I forgot the man that left me. He married that woman he left me
for. I lost him forever andI knew I needed to move forward and to go
back to normal, to somehow save my soul.
Weird enough after this so called balance, Paco appeared. I was at a
bar and he approached and started talking to me. We spent our time
together until 4 am and we couldn't get enough of each other. It was
hard atthe beginning. He had just been abandoned by a woman he was 5
years with. So he was being mean to me. But I knew best what he felt
and waited for the moment he would reach that calmness that I felt and
everything will be perfect. Yes, I waited for him to go through that
same hell I did, through the same agony for the unrequited love and I
don't feel sorry about it. Because now I have next to me the man I can
rely on totally. I love him and I cannot imagine my life without him.
We have our wedding planned in 3 months time, exactly two years after
we met. And I think that happiness comes alone tous, without looking
or crying for it. The only thing we need is to be at peace with
ourselves.
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And Allah Knows the Best!
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