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Tuesday, March 18, 2014

Fathwa, - Getting a divorce



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How I can get divorce if my partner refuses and is asking for money?
Answer
Praise be to Allah, the Lord of the World; and may His blessings and peace be upon our Prophet Muhammad and upon all his Family and Companions.
If the disagreement reached the degree that a wife cannot live in harmony with her husband, then she can sue her husband in an Islamic court in her country. The Judge will take a decision after looking in her case. He may issue a decree enjoining her to continue her marital life, or granting her divorce in exchange with some money or other property to be paid to the husband or even for free.
In fact, it is among the merits of Islamic Sharia that a husband is allowed to divorce his wife and a wife to demand divorce if there is no way to a happy life.
It is strictly forbidden for a husband to oppress or be unfair with his wife just to force her to demand a divorce. Allah Says )interpretation of meaning(:}… and you should not treat them with harshness, that you may take away part of the Mahr you have given them, …{]4: 19[.
In the same manner, Allah forbids asking for divorce without a legal reason. The Prophet )Sallallahu Alaihi wa Sallam( said:"Any woman who seeks divorce from her husband without being harmed in anyway, the smell of Paradise is forbidden for her"]Ahmadand the Imams of Sunans[.
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I was recently married but had not consummated my marriage and was waiting for my wife to send her immigration papers. What eventually happened is that my wife asked for divorce and the reason is due to her mother constantly talking about me in the negative? When I spoke to my father-in-law about this I found out that whatever me and my wife spoke of in private )through the internet or on the phone since these are the only 2 ways we could communicate( was known to them because she was informing them of everything happening. My question is that I was in a way forced into divorcing her because of her family's constant psychological torture to her. An example of which her mother would stop talking to her for long periods of time because she wanted this marriage to end. In any case I have not made any du3a against her family for ruining my marriage and betraying my trust in them to take care of my wife until her immigration papers are finished. What is the punishment for those who come between a man and his wife and force a divorce?
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Praise be to Allah, the Lord of the Worlds; and may His blessings and peace be upon our Prophet Muhammad and upon all his Family and Companions.
Allah the Exalted has legislated for His believing slaves the rulings that insure success and happiness here and the Hereafter if they put them into effect.
One of the most important matters the Shariah gives great attention to is marital relations. The Shariah contains many rulings pertaining to the marriage contract before and after it is established and how to solve disagreement if it occurs. The purpose of Shariah, as confirmed by the Muslim scholars, is either to bring benefits to the people or to complete them, or to protect people from harm or at least diminish such harms. So, the Shariah teaches us to reconcile relations between couples and to send two good mediators for this job. However, if it does not work then one may resort to separation as a last resort though it is not appreciated in Islamic Shariah. The Prophet )Sallallahu Alaihi wa Sallam( said:"If any woman asks her husband for divorce without some strong reason, the odour of Paradise will be forbidden for her". ]Reported by four Imams of Books of Sunan[.
If the disagreement has reached point that they cannot continue the marriage and the wife is demanding divorce then a husband can ask for compensation. This kind of separation is called "Khul'a". Allah Says )interpretation of meaning(: }…Then if you fear that they would not be able to keep the limits ordained by Allâh, then there is no sin on either of them if she gives back )the Mahr or a part of it( for her Al-Khul' )divorce(. …{]2: 229[.
ImamBukharireported fromIbn Abbas )Radiya Allahu Anhu( that the wife ofThabit Bin Qaiscame to the Prophet )Sallallahu Alaihi wa Sallam( and said:"O Allah's Messenger! I do not carp at Thabit concerning his religion or morals, but I fear dishonoring his rights'; then the Prophet )Sallallahu Alaihi wa Sallam( said: "Will you give him back his orchard )i.e. which was given as her Mahr(?" She replied: 'Yes, and I returned it to him'; and the Prophet )Sallallahu Alaihi wa Sallam( ordered Thabit to divorce her"]Reported by Imamal-Bukhari[.
It is strictly forbidden for the parents or anyone else to interfere in the matters of couples except for the purpose of making peace between them. So, what your wife's mother did is wrong and not permissible. The Prophet )Sallallahu Alaihi wa Sallam( said:"Whoever sows dissension among husband and wife is not one of us"]Abu Dawood[.
Also, it is not permissible for your wife to ask for divorce without any acceptable reason.
Despite the mistakes that are committed by your wife and her mother our advice is to avoid cursing them though it is permissible in Islam to curse those who are unjust. Allah Says )interpretation of meaning(: }Allâh does not like that the evil should be uttered in public except by him who has been wronged. …{]4: 148[.
Islam always encourages forgiveness and pardon. Allah Says )interpretation of meaning(: }And verily, whosoever shows patience and forgives that would truly be from the things recommended by Allâh.{]42: 43[. He also Says )interpretation of meaning(: }…And to forego and give )her the full Mahr( is nearer to At-Taqwa )piety, righteousness, etc.(. …{]2: 237[.
So, do not curse them especially after the divorce has occurred. Know that Allah is not Careless about what the unjust are doing.
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Dought & clear, - Shar’i implications of husband’s zina with his wife’s mother before and after marriage



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There is a woman who is married, and her husband committed zina several times with her mother, but this wife does not know. What should she do with her mother and her husband? She is confused about her situation.
Praise be to Allaah.
Firstly:
It is not permissible for anyone to claim that someone else has committed zina unless that is proven in the way dictated by sharee’ah, such as a confession of the zaani, or the testimony of four men of good character who witnessed the act of zina. The one who claims that someone committed zina with no proof has committed slander, which is a major sin for which a person deserves eighty lashes; this is the hadd punishment for slander.
Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And those who accuse chaste women, and produce not four witnesses, flog them with eighty stripes, and reject their testimony forever. They indeed are the Faasiqoon (liars, rebellious, disobedient to Allaah).
5. Except those who repent thereafter and do righteous deeds; (for such) verily, Allaah is Oft‑Forgiving, Most Merciful”
[al-Noor 24:4-5]
Secondly:
If the questioner has proof of what is mentioned in the question, that the husband committed the sin of zina with his wife’s mother, then it should be noted that they both deserve the punishment and wrath of Allaah, and they deserve to be punished in this world. As the woman is married, she deserves to be stoned to death. If he was married then he deserves the same, and if he committed zina before he was married, then the punishment is one hundred lashes.
Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“The fornicatress and the fornicator, flog each of them with a hundred stripes. Let not pity withhold you in their case, in a punishment prescribed by Allaah, if you believe in Allaah and the Last Day. And let a party of the believers witness their punishment.”
[al-Noor 24:2]
It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah said: A Muslim man came to the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) when he was in the mosque and called out to him, saying: O Messenger of Allaah, I have committed zina. He turned away from him, so he came around to face him and said to him: O Messenger of Allaah, I have committed zina. He turned away from him, until he had repeated that four times. When he had testified against himself four times, the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) called him and said: “Are you insane?” He said: No. He said: “Are you married?” He said: Yes. The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Take him and stone him.”
Narrated by al-Bukhaari (6439) and Muslim (1691).
“Married” refers to one who has previously been married and consummated the marriage, even if divorce took place after that or the husband or wife died.
Imam Ahmad said – according to one report narrated from him – concerning the one who does that: He is to be executed whatever the case, i.e., the one who commits zina with one of his mahrams is to be executed, whether he was married or not, and whether the mahram was a mahram through blood ties, marriage or breastfeeding.
Ibn Qudaamah said: This is also the view of Jaabir ibn Zayd, Ishaaq, Abu Ayyoob and Ibn Abi Khaythamah. End quote.Al-Mughni(12/341).
Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: If the evil deed was done with a mahram, this is the worst of evil deeds, and the one who did that is to be executed in all cases, according to Imam Ahmad and others.
Rawdat al-Muhibbeenp. 374.
Does the fact that he committed zina with her mother mean that it is haraam for him to marry her daughter, or that the marriage should be annulled? There is a difference of opinion among the scholars concerning that. The most correct view is that it does not make the marriage haraam and the marriage should not be annulled.
The ruling on this matter has been stated and explained in detail in the answer to question no. 78597.
Thirdly:
What the wife must do now is:
1. Not act or make any decision about this matter unless she has definitive proof.
2. Advise her mother – if the accusation of zina is proven – that it is essential to repent sincerely.
3. Advise her husband to repent sincerely if he committed zina with her mother after she got married. It is essential to keep him away from her mother in living arrangements and meetings so that this deed will not be repeated. If he does not repent from this action then she should hasten to get divorced, and it is not permissible for her to stay with him, because Allaah has forbidden marriage of a zaani to a chaste believing woman.
We understand what a severe calamity has befallen this sister. How great is a woman’s grief, and difficult it is for her to bear it if her husband commits zina, and it is a thousand and one times more difficult to bear it when her mother commits zina, so how about if it is her husband who is committing zina with her mother? This is indeed a calamity!
We ask Allaah to relieve her distress and take away her sorrow, and to bless her with patience and wisdom.
But before making any major decision, we advise her to think long and hard about the consequences.
If she decides to leave her husband, then in that case can she live in the same house as her mother, who is the one who did that and wrecked her marriage?
We think, if she has no suitable place to go and no mahram who can take care of her, that staying with her husband and advising him to repent and mend his ways is easier for her than getting divorced and living in her mother’s house.
This sister should weigh up the consequences of her decision. Some evils are easier to bear than others.
And Allaah knows best.







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