Islamic Marriage Articles, - 3. Marriage to a Jew or Christian

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Marriage to a Jew or Christian
Question 1:The holy Qur'an has absolutely allowed marrying Jewish or Christian women vide 5:5. But IslamicVoice March '96 in reply to a question forbade marrying a Catholic girl if she believed in Trinity. In my view the question whether she believes in one God or not is unreasonable, as there were Christians believing in the Trinity even in the time of the Prophet pbuh. (See Surah Maidah 5:73). The Qur'an has given sanction to believers to marry from the people of the book without any conditions.
- T.K. Yoosuf, Pulikhal, Malappuram
Question 2:Islamic Voice, in answer to a question on "Love marriage" states that a Muslim would be allowed to marry a Christian girl if she is a Unitarian Christian, in other words if she believes in One God. Fair enough. Can you kindly point out today a Unitarian Christian? Can you kindly point out today a Unitarian Christianity mentioned in the Qur'an? Unitarian Christianity is defunct now which is why our learned Ulemas have disapproved of this allowance. Hence your approval of such an alliance is erroneous and against the spirit of Qur'an.
- T.V.A. Abdul Malik, Madurai.
Answer 1:Believers are permitted to marry the girls from the people of the Book vide (Surah Al-Maidah 5:5) but you are greatly mistaken if you think that the permission is unconditional. Some conditions are laid down in the same verse i.e. you must pay Mehar to them and they must be virtuous women and not of loose character. Other conditions are derived from (Surah Baqarah 2:221) which forbids a Muslim to marry a Mushrik. As the Shariat orders are applicable on the apparent, all women who are involved in open Shirk are forbidden to believing men even if they are from Muslim families.
Deriving absolute orders from a verse when there are other verses also touching the subject can at times be very misleading. For example the same verse (5:5) allows the food of the people of the Book. But the permission is not unconditional although no condition is mentioned in the verse. In the case of meat, it should not be of an animal which is not slaughtered properly. The flesh of swine and that on which the name of other than Allah has been invoked is also unlawful although you frequently find these types of meat in the Christian families. Even at the time of the Prophet, Christians ate pork as it was allowed by St. Paul who was also the pioneer of Trinity in Christianity. And that is not all. You are not permitted to consume meat offered by Jews or Christians if you are certain that the Name of God has not been invoked while slaughtering the animal (Sell Surah Al-Anam 6:121).
So you see that the permission to marry a Catholic girl (Ahle-e-Kitab) in 5:5 is not without further conditions just as the permission to eat food of the Christians (in the same verse) is not unconditional. A Muslim's marriage to a Catholic woman is permitted only if she does not practise idolatry and amends her belief of sonship of the Christ to the Prophethood of Jesus.
Answer 2:I have personal friends among Christians (born as well as convert Christians) who denounce Trinity, believe in One God and proclaim Jesus Christ a Prophet of God. There are Unitarian Churches and quite a number of Christians are openly Unitarian. There are also a large number of Christians who are formally attached to protestant Churches and other denominations but believe in One God and the Prophethood of Christ. Not withstanding the above fact, I am not supposed to demonstrate a Unitarian Christian if someone wants to know the conditions of marrying a Christian girl. Simply put, if a Trinitarian Christian girl is converted to Unitarianism, a Muslim is permitted to marry her. No Aalim can dare cancel the allowance given by Allah and His Prophet. Ulema have only recommended (and rightly so) against such marriages as in most of these love marriages, the girl only pretends to be Unitarian for convenience's sake while the boy himself does not know even the basics of Islam. They have gone a step further, again rightly so, and recommended against marrying the Ahle-Kitab' girl, especially a Christian, who is converted to Islam because in most such cases, the conversion in only a pretence, sometimes for the express purpose of converting the boy to Christianity after a while. Ulema's warning is against deception and for those persons who are ignorant of Islamic ethics. They cannot and they have not altered the law. The genuine permission is neither erroneous nor against the spirit of Qur'an. It is for those seeking the permission to decide for themselves if they are only pretending to abide by the Shariat. In that case, they will deceive none but themselves as Allah knows what is in their hearts.
For the present day youth, it is wiser to explain the law with its boundaries and limitations to them instead of concealing the allowance provided by Shariat for the sake of untold considerations. In the Former case they may and they usually do try to be faithful while in latter they tend to altogether ignore the law.

PUBLISHER M.NajimudeeN-India

Islamic Marriage Articles, - 2. Marriage to a Buddhist

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Marriage to a Buddhist
Question:Please refer to the Islamic Voice Sept. '94 issue of 'Our dialogue' under the heading, "Can a Muslim marry a Buddhist?" Your reply is in the negative. While recognising marriage of a Jew or a Christian woman with a Muslim man on the ground of being "Ahle Kitab", you have placed a Buddhist in the category of "Mushrikeen", misquoting irrelevant verses of the holy Qur'an 2:221. As per Qur'an there is no nation in the world in which an Apostle/Prophet has not been sent. We understand that no effort has been made in our country to find and recognise a Prophet for the Indian nation. There must be a holy book in Indian language in whatever state it may be and there must be some followers thereof to be treated like Ahle-Kitab. Is it not necessary for Muslims to find out the true status of our Buddhist or Hindu brothers and live accordingly with them peacefully?
- F.M.Khan, Rewa
Answer:It is not necessary for Muslims to marry a Buddhist or a Hindu to live with them peacefully. We are required to live with them peacefully even if we are not allowed a matrimonial relationship with them. The answer you have referred to was taken from Arab News and the verse 2:221 was rightly quoted therein in context of the Buddhist. In the available literature of Buddhism, we do not find the conception of a Creator and Sustainer God. The present day Buddhists go a step further. Instead of maintaining silence on the existence of God, they have started denying God. Nearly all of them are idolaters although Buddha had specifically forbidden making and worshipping his idols. There is no doubt that they will be categorised among Mushrikeen and therefore matrimonial relations with them are forbidden. The Qur'an clearly ordains:"You shall not marry Mushrik women (idolatresses or who ascribe God's attributes to others as ascribe partners of Him) unless they embrace the Faith. A believing slave woman is better than a Mushrik woman although she may please you. Nor shall you wed (your women to Mushrik men unless they embrace Faith. A believing slave is better than a Mushrik, although he may please you. These invite you to Fire but Allah calls you by His will to Paradise and to forgiveness. He makes plain His revelations to mankind so that they may be mindful."(Surah Al-Baqarah 2:221)
In principle, there is some substance in your logic that there may be some followers thereof to be treated like "Ahle-Kitab," but practically there is no Buddhist who can be categorised thus although there is the probability of some Hindus being termed as Ahle-Kitab. It is essential to understand the term Ahle-Kitab to grasp a clear-cut conception of his subject. From Qur'anic narrations and the scholars' discussion, Ahle-Kitab' may precisely be defined as:
"A group of people believing in God and Prophethood and the Books (or Book) of God, who still possess a Book of God (though distorted) and also know and believe in the Prophet through whom that Book was revealed."
Buddhists do not believe in God and Prophethood. They do not believe in Buddha as a Prophet of God and apart from some stray saying ascribed to Buddha they don't even possess the Word of Buddha.
On the other hand Hindus are closer to meeting the criteria than the Buddhists. They believe in God and an overwhelming majority of them believe in a Book (the Vedas) they call the Word of God. Research has been made to try to establish the identity of the Prophet or Prophets sent to the Indian people.
Late Moulana Shams Naved Usmani has done commendable work in this direction. I have been writing in the comparative studies column of Islamic Voice that there are conclusive proofs of a series of Prophets from Adam to Noah visiting India. (For more details, see my Urdu Book 'Agar Ab Bhi No Jage To' or its English translation 'Now or Never'). Besides, the Vedas have a strong case of being the collection of scriptures revealed to these Prophets.
But even that is not enough to categorise Hindus as Ahle-Kitab. There should at least be a small sect, a group of people (not just a few individuals who do not know each other) who must believe in these Prophets as the bearers of Books that they claim to be the Book of God. Only then can that group of people be called Ahle-Kitab.
Marriage to a Jew or Christian
Question 1:The holy Qur'an has absolutely allowed marrying Jewish or Christian women vide 5:5. But IslamicVoice March '96 in reply to a question forbade marrying a Catholic girl if she believed in Trinity. In my view the question whether she believes in one God or not is unreasonable, as there were Christians believing in the Trinity even in the time of the Prophet pbuh. (See Surah Maidah 5:73). The Qur'an has given sanction to believers to marry from the people of the book without any conditions.
- T.K. Yoosuf, Pulikhal, Malappuram
Question 2:Islamic Voice, in answer to a question on "Love marriage" states that a Muslim would be allowed to marry a Christian girl if she is a Unitarian Christian, in other words if she believes in One God. Fair enough. Can you kindly point out today a Unitarian Christian? Can you kindly point out today a Unitarian Christianity mentioned in the Qur'an? Unitarian Christianity is defunct now which is why our learned Ulemas have disapproved of this allowance. Hence your approval of such an alliance is erroneous and against the spirit of Qur'an.
- T.V.A. Abdul Malik, Madurai.
Answer 1:Believers are permitted to marry the girls from the people of the Book vide (Surah Al-Maidah 5:5) but you are greatly mistaken if you think that the permission is unconditional. Some conditions are laid down in the same verse i.e. you must pay Mehar to them and they must be virtuous women and not of loose character. Other conditions are derived from (Surah Baqarah 2:221) which forbids a Muslim to marry a Mushrik. As the Shariat orders are applicable on the apparent, all women who are involved in open Shirk are forbidden to believing men even if they are from Muslim families.
Deriving absolute orders from a verse when there are other verses also touching the subject can at times be very misleading. For example the same verse (5:5) allows the food of the people of the Book. But the permission is not unconditional although no condition is mentioned in the verse. In the case of meat, it should not be of an animal which is not slaughtered properly. The flesh of swine and that on which the name of other than Allah has been invoked is also unlawful although you frequently find these types of meat in the Christian families. Even at the time of the Prophet, Christians ate pork as it was allowed by St. Paul who was also the pioneer of Trinity in Christianity. And that is not all. You are not permitted to consume meat offered by Jews or Christians if you are certain that the Name of God has not been invoked while slaughtering the animal (Sell Surah Al-Anam 6:121).
So you see that the permission to marry a Catholic girl (Ahle-e-Kitab) in 5:5 is not without further conditions just as the permission to eat food of the Christians (in the same verse) is not unconditional. A Muslim's marriage to a Catholic woman is permitted only if she does not practise idolatry and amends her belief of sonship of the Christ to the Prophethood of Jesus.
Answer 2:I have personal friends among Christians (born as well as convert Christians) who denounce Trinity, believe in One God and proclaim Jesus Christ a Prophet of God. There are Unitarian Churches and quite a number of Christians are openly Unitarian. There are also a large number of Christians who are formally attached to protestant Churches and other denominations but believe in One God and the Prophethood of Christ. Not withstanding the above fact, I am not supposed to demonstrate a Unitarian Christian if someone wants to know the conditions of marrying a Christian girl. Simply put, if a Trinitarian Christian girl is converted to Unitarianism, a Muslim is permitted to marry her. No Aalim can dare cancel the allowance given by Allah and His Prophet. Ulema have only recommended (and rightly so) against such marriages as in most of these love marriages, the girl only pretends to be Unitarian for convenience's sake while the boy himself does not know even the basics of Islam. They have gone a step further, again rightly so, and recommended against marrying the Ahle-Kitab' girl, especially a Christian, who is converted to Islam because in most such cases, the conversion in only a pretence, sometimes for the express purpose of converting the boy to Christianity after a while. Ulema's warning is against deception and for those persons who are ignorant of Islamic ethics. They cannot and they have not altered the law. The genuine permission is neither erroneous nor against the spirit of Qur'an. It is for those seeking the permission to decide for themselves if they are only pretending to abide by the Shariat. In that case, they will deceive none but themselves as Allah knows what is in their hearts.
For the present day youth, it is wiser to explain the law with its boundaries and limitations to them instead of concealing the allowance provided by Shariat for the sake of untold considerations. In the Former case they may and they usually do try to be faithful while in latter they tend to altogether ignore the law.

PUBLISHER M.NajimudeeN-India

Women site, - Safeguarding the Muslim Home from Evil-I

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There are many evils from which Muslim homes should be far removed.
The first evil that should be expelled from Muslim homes is Satan and his associates; Allaah The Exalted Says )what means(:}Indeed, Satan is an enemy to you; so take him as an enemy. He only invites his party to be among the companions of the Blaze.{]Quran 35:6[
One does not allow his enemies into his house, so how about our worst enemy who was the reason behind getting our father, Aadam, may Allaah exalt his mention, out of Paradise and who is determined to keep you away from it as well! You must keep Satan away from your home.
How do you keep him away? There are some things that keep Satan away, and others that attract him to your house.
Things to keep Satan away: Among the things that keep Satan away from your home are:
• Recitation of Chapter Al-Baqarah: The Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said:“Do not make your houses like graveyards. The devil runs away from the house in which the chapter of Al-Baqarah is recited.”]Muslim[
• Mentioning the Name of Allaah The Exalted: It was reported on the authority of Jaabir bin ‘Abdullaah, may Allaah be pleased with him, that the Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said:“When a person enters his house and mentions the Name of Allaah The Exalted at the time of entering it and while eating, the devil says )addressing himself(, 'You have no place to spend the night ]in that home[ and no evening meal'; but when he enters without mentioning the Name of Allaah The Almighty, the devil would say )addressing himself(, 'You have found a place to spend the night', and when he does not mention the Name of Allaah The Exalted before eating, he i.e. the devil says )addressing himself(, 'You have found a place to spend the night and an evening meal'.”]Muslim[
Devils would find an apt habitat in the homes whose inhabitants forget to mention the Name of Allaah The Exalted, and this means that they would spend their nights in your home!
Therefore, the Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said:“When a man enters his house, he should say: "Allaahumma inni Asaluka khayra al-mawlij wa khayra al-makhraj, bismillaahi walajna wa bismillaahi kharajna wa ‘ala rabbina tawakkalna]which means: O Allaah! I ask You for good both when entering and when leaving; in the name of Allaah we have entered, and in the name of Allaah we have gone out, and in Allaah our Lord we trust.[,and he should then greet his family )i.e. with Salaam(” ]Abu Daawood and At-Tabaraani[ ]Al-Albaani: Hasan by virtue of corroborating narrations[
• Performing various acts of worship: The devil can never be found where acts of worship are performed; the heart that is full of obedience to Allaah The Exalted and the mention of His Name cannot be a suitable place or a habitat for devils. Whenever they whisper to a pious Muslim, he would mention the Name of Allaah The Almighty and accordingly they would retreat and escape from him. Similarly, devils flee from homes where acts of worship are performed and where the Name of Allaah The Almighty is mentioned.
Dear Muslim, the more your home is devoid of performing acts of worship and mentioning the Name of Allaah The Almighty, the more the devil is likely to be present in it.
Things that attract Satan: Muslims should assign a great deal of care and attention to keep all that attracts devils away their home such as:
• Lying and falsehood: Allaah The Exalted Says )what means(:}Shall I inform you upon whom the devils descend?* They descend upon every sinful liar.{]Quran 26:221-222[ The home which witnesses lying, backbiting, tale-bearing, and slander is more likely to be appealing to devils.
• Impurity: Another thing that would draw devils is an impure and dirty home; since devils are filthy creatures they would be attracted to dirtiness and filthiness.
• Images and dogs: Devils are drawn to images, statues, and dogs. This is why devils may appear in the form of black dogs. Therefore, the Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, warned us about keeping dogs in Muslims homes.
A Muslim home should be deemed far above immoral and obscene songs: This purifies the home and makes a righteous one. In fact, such obscene songs are tools that Satan uses to lure people. Allaah The Exalted informed us of this fact and warned us against this evil in the verse that reads )what means(:}And incite ]to senselessness[ whoever you can among them with your voice and assault them with your horses and foot soldiers and become a partner in their wealth and their children and promise them." But Satan does not promise them except delusion.{]Quran 17:64[
Some scholars elaborated on that verse clarifying that Satan’s voice here refers to singing and musical instruments ]flute[; therefore, such immoral songs are prohibited.
Allaah The Almighty Says )what means(:}And of the people is he who buys the amusement of speech to mislead ]others[ from the way of Allaah without knowledge and who takes it in ridicule. Those will have a humiliating punishment.{]Quran 31:6[ Ibn Mas‘ood, may Allaah be pleased with him, was asked about this verse and said, “By Allaah,}the amusement of speech{is singing”. Ibn ‘Abbaas, may Allaah be pleased with him, said, “It means singing and buying a singer’s services.” ]Ibn Abu Shaybah[
Ibraaheem, may Allaah have mercy upon him, narrated that ‘Abdullaah bin Mas‘ood, may Allaah be pleased with him, said, “Singing implants and fosters hypocrisy in one’s heart.” ]Al-Bayhaqi[
Indeed, it is a tangible reality in our society; one can easily see for himself such people who suffer from music-mania and have a morbid fascination with listening to immoral songs. Dear Muslim, notice how often such people recite the Noble Quran? Do they enjoy reciting it? Are their hearts softened by it?
Indeed, the Quran is the word of Allaah The Exalted while such songs are the words of the devil, and the two opposites can never co-exist in one’s heart.
‘Abdur-Rahmaan bin Ghanm Al-Ash‘ari reported on the authority of Abu ‘Aamir, or Abu Maalik, Al-Ash‘ari, may Allaah be pleased with them all, that the Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said:"From among my followers there will be some people who will consider illegal sexual intercourse, the wearing of silk ]for men[, the drinking of alcoholic drinks, and the use of musical instruments, as lawful. Some of them will stay near the side of a mountain and in the evening their shepherd will come to them with their sheep, when a poor comes to them asking for something ]charity[, but they would ]refuse to give him any and would[ say to him, 'Return to us tomorrow.' Allaah The Almighty will destroy them during the night and will let the mountain fall on them, and He will transform others into monkeys and pigs and they will remain so until the Day of Resurrection."]Al-Bukhaari[ Such people would render adultery, men wearing silk, drinking alcohol, and musical instruments as allowable.
Dear Muslim, what do you think of such a heart that is full of love for these immoral songs and the temptations of various types of music? Do you think that such a heart would endure Jihaad )sacrifice for the sake of Allaah(? Do you think that a ‘dancing’ nation would be capable of freeing its occupied sacred places? By Allaah, no!
The Arabs fought in 1967 while singing Umm Kulthoom’s songs )a famous Egyptian female singer( and they faced an awful defeat. On the other hand, the Afghans have fought while reciting ‘Allaahu Akbar’ ]which means: Allaah is the Greatest[ and ‘La Ilaaha illa Allaah’ ]which means: none is truly worthy of worship but Allaah[; they triumphed over the great empire of Communism despite the fact that all what they possessed were mere primitive weapons! So contemplate the difference between the two wars.
A nation that has been robbed of its lands, has been humiliated, and is weak enough to let others make its own decisions, such as the Jewish board or what may be called the ‘Council of International Injustice’, should not be dancing; such repulsive attitudes are for dissolute people. In fact, such immoral and obscene songs suit those who have indulged themselves in promiscuity and various worldly pleasures. Whereas serious people, who are determined to restore their occupied lands, given that what was taken by force can only be restored by force, are not among those who are fond of trivialities and blameworthy humor; they render their homes free of such immoral and obscene songs that are aired whether on T.V, radio, or any other device.

PUBLISHER M.NajimudeeN-India