Islam is a way of life consonant with nature, providing humansolutions
to complex situationsand avoiding extremes. This characteristic of
Islam can be observed most clearly in its stand concerning the taking
ofmore than one wife. Islampermitsthe Muslim to marry more than one
woman in order to resolve some very pressing human problems,
individual as well as social.
Many peoples and religions prior to Islam permitted marriage to a host
of women, whose number reached tens and sometimes hundreds, without
any condition or restriction. Islam, on the other hand, laid
downdefinite restrictions and conditions for polygamy. With regard to
the restriction, it limited tofourthe maximum number of wives a man
might have.
When Ghailan al-Thaqafi accepted Islam, he had ten wives. "Choose four
of them and divorce the rest," the Prophet Muhammad (peace be on him)
told him (Reported by al-Shafi'i, Ahmad, al-Tirmidhi, Ibn Majah, Ibn
Abi Shaybah, al-Darqutni, and Bayhaqi).
Similarly, some men who hadeight(Reported by Abu Daoud in his Musnad.)
orfive wivesat the time ofembracing Islamwere told by the Prophet
Muhammad (peace be on him) to retainonly four(Reported by Ahmad,
al-Darimi, Ibn Hibban, al-Hakim, and the compilers of Sunan (Abu
Daoud, al-Nisai, and Ibn Majah).)
The case of the Prophet (peace be on him), who himself had nine wives,
was exempted from this by Allah (SWT) for the sake ofda'wah (the
propagation of the message of Islam)during his lifetime and because of
theneed of the Muslim ummah after his death.
Justice Among Wives - A Condition
The condition which Islam lays down for permitting a man to have more
than one wife isconfidenceon his part that he will be able todeal
equitablywith histwo or more wivesin the matter of food, drink,
housing, clothing and expenses, as well as in the division of his time
between them. Anyone wholacks the assurancethat he will be able to
fulfill all these obligations with justice and equality isprohibited
byAllah (SWT) from marrying more than one woman.
Allah (SWT) says:
"...But if you fear that you will not be able to do justice (among
them), then (marry) only one...." ( Surah 4: Verse 3)
And the Prophet Muhammad (peace be on him) said,
"Anyone who has two wives and does not treat them equally will come on
the Day of Resurrection dragging one part of his body which will be
hanging down." (Reported by the compilers of Sunan and by Ibn Hibban
and al-Hakim.)
Theequal treatmentmentioned here pertains to therights of the wives,
not to the love the husband feels towed them. For equality in the
division of love is beyond human capacity and any imbalance in this
regard is forgiven by Allah Ta'ala who says:
"And you will not be able to do justice among (your) wives, however
much you may wish to. But do not turn away (from one of them)
altogether...." ( Surah 4: Verse 129)
This is why the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) used todivide his
time among his wives equally, saying,
"O Allah, this is my division in regard to what I can control. Then do
not take me to task regarding what Thou controllest and I do not
control" (Reported by the compilers of Sunan.), referring to the
attachment and affection which he felt for one particular wife.
And when he planned to go on a journey, Allah's Messenger (peace be on
him) would cast lots among his wives, and the one who was chosen by
lot would accompany him. (Reported by al-Bukhari and Muslim.)
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Marrying more than one Woman
Infinite Powers of Allah
The infinite power of God has no clearer proof than that furnished by
the study and examination of the phenomena of the created universe and
the multiple forms and colorations of nature that can never be fully
described.
When we look at God's creation we find ourselves confronted with so
vast an energy that no limit can be imagined for it. A look at
creation and the millions of truths secreted in the wonders of nature
and the depths of man's own being provides the clearest indication of
the scale of the power of the One Who has created it, for the rich and
complex order of being admits of no other explanation.
It is God's incomparable power that compels man to bow humbly before
the Creator of this great scheme. There is no word to express the
dimensions of His power; that unique essence has much power that
whenever He wills a thing to come into existence, it suffices for the
command "Be!" to issue forth from Him and the object addressed will
be.
Quran says: "When He wills a certain thing, He commands it 'Be!' and
it is" (36:82)
The law expounded in this verse is the best indicator of Hislimitless
power and manifestationof His boundless power and splendor. It negates
any limit that might be set on God's power and proclaims the
inadequacy of all criteria and measures when confronted with this
divine law.
The champions of the natural sciences, the men of the laboratory,
despite all the advances they have achieved, have not yet gained
complete knowledge of the inner secrets of a single one among the
numerous and varied beings of the created universe. Nonetheless,
thepartial and defective knowledgethat man has acquired concerning a
few of the beings that exist in this world is enough for him to
realize with all his being that the great power that has created such
variety and abundance in the universe must be infinite.
Consider the range of His creation:tiny creatures and monstrous
beastswith strange appearances both dwelling in the depths of the
ocean;delicate and melodiousbirds with multicolored wings, the beauty
of which skilled artists imitate as an adornment to their craft; stars
that shine in the heavens and the sun that rises and sets;the dawn and
the moonlight; the planets, galaxies and nebula each of which
sometimes contains at its heart millions of great shinning stars
giddying in their apparent infinitude.
Does not a creation such as this, awe inspiring in its splendor,
indicate theinfinite power of its Maker? Can one disregard the power
of a Creator Who imparts such variety to life and made distinct,
finite forms of it appear in all this vast range of phenomena?
Now, given the fact that all these captivating forms of creation
ultimately arise from the atom, the question of being cannot be
explained except by reference to a guiding and infinite power. It is
He Who impels all things toward the assumption of life-giving form and
possesses the power and intelligence to plan and design this vast and
precise scheme.
Large and small, difficult and easy, are properties pertaining to
finite beings; in the infinite realm of God's essence and attributes,
there is no question of great and little, much and few.Impotence and
inabilityare caused by the finiteness of the energy at the disposal of
an agent, by the existence of an obstacle on his path, or by the
absence of means and instruments; they are inconceivable in the case
of an infinite power.
The Quran says:
"Nothing in the heavens or on earth can induce weakness or impotence
in God; indeed, God is all-knowing and all-powerful." (35:44)
God is capable of doing all things, He has created the world according
to a precise and specific scheme in the framework of which a set role
has been assigned to certain phenomena in the origination of others.
Those phenomena are completely and unquestioningly subordinate to His
command while fulfilling that role and never rebelling against His
orders in the slightest.
The Quran says:
"The sun, the moon and the stars are all at His command. Be aware that
creation belongs only to God; it is His penetrating command that in
its exalted purity creates the world and all it contains." (7:54)
Strictly speaking, no creature in the scheme of the universe can be a
manifestation of power or have any share in His will and command, for
just as God has no partner in His essence, so, too, He hasno partner
in His agenthood. Just as all creatures in the world lack independence
in their essence and are dependent on Him, they also lack it in
producing acts and effects. Every agent and cause derives the essence
of its being from God and also its power to act and produce an effect.
Whenever He wills and necessitates it, the order that encloses all
beings abandons its role, for that order is itself subordinate to His
will, precious and firm though it may be. The Creator Who has assigned
a particular effect to every factor and cause is able to neutralize
and suspend that effect at any instant. Just as one command brought
the order of the universe into existence, another command robs
phenomena of their customary effect.
Thus, theQuran says:
"They said, 'Burn Abraham and thus us render help unto your gods, if
you are men of action.' We commanded the fire, 'be cool for Abraham
and harm him not.' They sought a stratagem against him, but We made
them the losers." (21:68-69)
Although the powerful attraction exerted by the sun and the earth
prevails over a vast space, both bodies are subordinate to His will.
As soon as He gives a little bird the necessary power, the bird is
able to resist the pull of the earth and take flight.
The Quran says:
"Do they not look at the birds in the heavens and see how the skies
have been subjugated to them? It is God alone Who keeps them aloft,
and in this there is an evident sign of God's power for the people off
faith." (16:79)
Whateverphenomenonmay be imagined to exist in the world of being finds
its needs for sustenance and life met by the Creator. Therefore,
whatever power and capacity is found in the scheme of creation must
necessarily go back to the infinite power of God. Ali, peace be upon
him, him, the Commander of the Faithful, says in a sermon reproduced
in the Nahj al Balaghah:
"O God, we cannot penetrate the depths of Your splendor and majesty.
We know only that You are living and self-subsistent, that You are
exempt from eating and sleeping. No mind can perceive You and no eye
can see You. But You see all eyes, You know the life span of all
things, and You are all-powerful.
Although we have perceived nothing of Your creation, we are astounded
by Your power and praise You mightily. That which is hidden from us
and our eyes cannot see and our mind and intelligence cannot attain,
which is concealed from us by veils of the unseen, is much greater
than what we can see ..."
When man decides to build something, for example, a hospital, he
assembles the necessary tools and pieces of equipment that do not have
any essential relationship with each other, and, then, connects them
with each other by means of a series of artificial relationships in
order to reach his goal.
In order to create such artificial relationships, he makes use of
different forces and object that he finds to be already existing. His
work and activity are a part of the system of creation; they are not
properly speaking creative activity, but only a form of motion that
takes place within existing objects.Divine creationforms a quite
different category from the production of artificial relationships
between unrelated objects. God originates things with all their
properties, forces and energies and characteristics.
One whose heartbeats with the love of Godand flows over withbelief in
the Creator of all beingwill never be discouraged lonely and hopeless
even in the midst of the most complex difficulties. Whatever deed he
undertakes he does so in the consciousness of being in the protective
shade of a supreme power that can make him triumph over all
difficulties.
A man who is aware of God and knows that he enjoys His support can
resist and endure all kinds of hardship. Difficulties are for him like
foam on swift vanishing foam on the face of the waters.
The fire that burns within him becomes ever brighter and he emerges
stronger than ever from the crucible of hardship. Throughout the toils
he endures, he is comforted and strengthened by God's kindness and
favor, and it is this that forms the true motor of his
activity.Failure does not blockhis path and cause him to surrender;
instead, with sincere intention and diligent effort, he continues his
strivings until final victory.
He understands well that his effortscannot remain fruitlessand that
victory goes to the deserving. Whenever He wills, God takes the hand
of the fallen and the oppressed who have no refuge other than Him and
raises them up to the apex of power. Sometimes, too, He rubs in the
dust of humiliation and disaster the noses of the powerful and
arrogant oppressors who believe only in violence and the logic of
force and treat men as if they were worthless.
How many arrogant tyrants have been cast down by disaster in the
course of human history, sinking and vanishing in a tempest of shame!
The story ofGod's messengersrepresents in itself a complete and ideal
model of human values. We all know how the messengers stood alone
against the oppressive forces of their day in order to guide men to
salvation, reform their society, and inculcate lofty values in them.
In doing so, they lit the first spark that ultimately
destroyedpolytheism
The response aroused by their beliefs caused such a positive tumult
that they were able to change the face and direction of history. They
laid the foundations ofmonotheistic worship and established the
principles of virtuein the most comprehensive way. Who can deny the
role played by their devotion and faith in the untiring struggle they
waged? How far can will power alone take man, and how much can it
enable him to endure and sacrifice? A cursory review of the proud
history of the Prophets' lives enables us all to behold, in the most
vivid fashion possible, the sincerity and devotion they displayed,
their mercy and forbearance, and their intense desire to guide and
reform men. Thefundamental secretof their success was the fact they
never thought of themselves for a single instant; they sincerely
renounced their own beings, making them a gift to God's cause. God
then responded by bestowing immortality and everlasting fame on them.
Allah is the proper name of God, however, we know Him generally
through His attributes. These attributes describe how Allah manifests
Himself to us (also see Attributes of Allah). God's attributes are
innumerable since human intellect cannot possibly comprehend every
aspect of the Supreme Being. A Hadith of the Holy Prophet (peace be on
him) makes mention ofNinety Nine names of Allahcommonly known asAl-
Asmaul Husna, the Most Names.
In theHoly Quranwe read:
"And to Allah alone belong all perfect attributes. So call Him by
these.And leave alone those who deviate from the right way with
respect to His Attributes." (7:181)
"Allah - there is no God but He, the Living, the Self-Subsisting and
All-Sustaining. Slumber seizes Him not, nor sleep. To Him belongs
whatsoever is in the heavens and whatsoever is in the earth. Who is he
that will intercede with Him except by His permission? He knows what
is before them and what is behind them; and they encompass nothing of
His knowledge except what He pleases. His knowledge extends over the
heavens and the earth; and the care of them burdens Him not;and He is
the High, the Great." (2:256)
"Allah is the Light of the heavens and the earth. The similitude of
His light is a lustrous niche, wherein is a lamp. The lamp is in a
glass. The glass is as it were a glittering star. It is lit from
blessed tree - an olive - neither of the east nor of the west, whose
oil would well-nigh glow forth even though fire touched it not.Light
upon light! Allah guides to His light whomsoever He will. And Allah
sets forth parables to men, and Allah know all things full well.This
light is now lit in houses with regard to which Allah has ordained
that they be exalted and that His name be remembered in them, Therein
is He glorified in the mornings and the evenings" (24:36-37)
"He is Allah, and there is no God beside Him, the Knower of the unseen
and the seen. He is Gracious, the Merciful.He is Allah, and there is
no God beside Him, the Sovereign, the Holy One, the Source of Peace,
the Bestower of Security, the Protector, the Mighty, the Subduer, the
Exalted. Holy is Allah far above that which they associate with Him.He
is Allah, the Creator, the Maker, the Fashioner. His are the most
Beautiful Names. All that is in the heavens and the earth glorifies
Him, and He is the Mighty the Wise." (59: 23-25)
Abu Huraira (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated: The Holy Prophet
(Peace and Blessings of Allah be upon him) said,
"Allah has ninety nine Names, one hundred less one; and who memorized
them all by heart will enter Paradise." (Bukhari, The Book of Tauhid)
the study and examination of the phenomena of the created universe and
the multiple forms and colorations of nature that can never be fully
described.
When we look at God's creation we find ourselves confronted with so
vast an energy that no limit can be imagined for it. A look at
creation and the millions of truths secreted in the wonders of nature
and the depths of man's own being provides the clearest indication of
the scale of the power of the One Who has created it, for the rich and
complex order of being admits of no other explanation.
It is God's incomparable power that compels man to bow humbly before
the Creator of this great scheme. There is no word to express the
dimensions of His power; that unique essence has much power that
whenever He wills a thing to come into existence, it suffices for the
command "Be!" to issue forth from Him and the object addressed will
be.
Quran says: "When He wills a certain thing, He commands it 'Be!' and
it is" (36:82)
The law expounded in this verse is the best indicator of Hislimitless
power and manifestationof His boundless power and splendor. It negates
any limit that might be set on God's power and proclaims the
inadequacy of all criteria and measures when confronted with this
divine law.
The champions of the natural sciences, the men of the laboratory,
despite all the advances they have achieved, have not yet gained
complete knowledge of the inner secrets of a single one among the
numerous and varied beings of the created universe. Nonetheless,
thepartial and defective knowledgethat man has acquired concerning a
few of the beings that exist in this world is enough for him to
realize with all his being that the great power that has created such
variety and abundance in the universe must be infinite.
Consider the range of His creation:tiny creatures and monstrous
beastswith strange appearances both dwelling in the depths of the
ocean;delicate and melodiousbirds with multicolored wings, the beauty
of which skilled artists imitate as an adornment to their craft; stars
that shine in the heavens and the sun that rises and sets;the dawn and
the moonlight; the planets, galaxies and nebula each of which
sometimes contains at its heart millions of great shinning stars
giddying in their apparent infinitude.
Does not a creation such as this, awe inspiring in its splendor,
indicate theinfinite power of its Maker? Can one disregard the power
of a Creator Who imparts such variety to life and made distinct,
finite forms of it appear in all this vast range of phenomena?
Now, given the fact that all these captivating forms of creation
ultimately arise from the atom, the question of being cannot be
explained except by reference to a guiding and infinite power. It is
He Who impels all things toward the assumption of life-giving form and
possesses the power and intelligence to plan and design this vast and
precise scheme.
Large and small, difficult and easy, are properties pertaining to
finite beings; in the infinite realm of God's essence and attributes,
there is no question of great and little, much and few.Impotence and
inabilityare caused by the finiteness of the energy at the disposal of
an agent, by the existence of an obstacle on his path, or by the
absence of means and instruments; they are inconceivable in the case
of an infinite power.
The Quran says:
"Nothing in the heavens or on earth can induce weakness or impotence
in God; indeed, God is all-knowing and all-powerful." (35:44)
God is capable of doing all things, He has created the world according
to a precise and specific scheme in the framework of which a set role
has been assigned to certain phenomena in the origination of others.
Those phenomena are completely and unquestioningly subordinate to His
command while fulfilling that role and never rebelling against His
orders in the slightest.
The Quran says:
"The sun, the moon and the stars are all at His command. Be aware that
creation belongs only to God; it is His penetrating command that in
its exalted purity creates the world and all it contains." (7:54)
Strictly speaking, no creature in the scheme of the universe can be a
manifestation of power or have any share in His will and command, for
just as God has no partner in His essence, so, too, He hasno partner
in His agenthood. Just as all creatures in the world lack independence
in their essence and are dependent on Him, they also lack it in
producing acts and effects. Every agent and cause derives the essence
of its being from God and also its power to act and produce an effect.
Whenever He wills and necessitates it, the order that encloses all
beings abandons its role, for that order is itself subordinate to His
will, precious and firm though it may be. The Creator Who has assigned
a particular effect to every factor and cause is able to neutralize
and suspend that effect at any instant. Just as one command brought
the order of the universe into existence, another command robs
phenomena of their customary effect.
Thus, theQuran says:
"They said, 'Burn Abraham and thus us render help unto your gods, if
you are men of action.' We commanded the fire, 'be cool for Abraham
and harm him not.' They sought a stratagem against him, but We made
them the losers." (21:68-69)
Although the powerful attraction exerted by the sun and the earth
prevails over a vast space, both bodies are subordinate to His will.
As soon as He gives a little bird the necessary power, the bird is
able to resist the pull of the earth and take flight.
The Quran says:
"Do they not look at the birds in the heavens and see how the skies
have been subjugated to them? It is God alone Who keeps them aloft,
and in this there is an evident sign of God's power for the people off
faith." (16:79)
Whateverphenomenonmay be imagined to exist in the world of being finds
its needs for sustenance and life met by the Creator. Therefore,
whatever power and capacity is found in the scheme of creation must
necessarily go back to the infinite power of God. Ali, peace be upon
him, him, the Commander of the Faithful, says in a sermon reproduced
in the Nahj al Balaghah:
"O God, we cannot penetrate the depths of Your splendor and majesty.
We know only that You are living and self-subsistent, that You are
exempt from eating and sleeping. No mind can perceive You and no eye
can see You. But You see all eyes, You know the life span of all
things, and You are all-powerful.
Although we have perceived nothing of Your creation, we are astounded
by Your power and praise You mightily. That which is hidden from us
and our eyes cannot see and our mind and intelligence cannot attain,
which is concealed from us by veils of the unseen, is much greater
than what we can see ..."
When man decides to build something, for example, a hospital, he
assembles the necessary tools and pieces of equipment that do not have
any essential relationship with each other, and, then, connects them
with each other by means of a series of artificial relationships in
order to reach his goal.
In order to create such artificial relationships, he makes use of
different forces and object that he finds to be already existing. His
work and activity are a part of the system of creation; they are not
properly speaking creative activity, but only a form of motion that
takes place within existing objects.Divine creationforms a quite
different category from the production of artificial relationships
between unrelated objects. God originates things with all their
properties, forces and energies and characteristics.
One whose heartbeats with the love of Godand flows over withbelief in
the Creator of all beingwill never be discouraged lonely and hopeless
even in the midst of the most complex difficulties. Whatever deed he
undertakes he does so in the consciousness of being in the protective
shade of a supreme power that can make him triumph over all
difficulties.
A man who is aware of God and knows that he enjoys His support can
resist and endure all kinds of hardship. Difficulties are for him like
foam on swift vanishing foam on the face of the waters.
The fire that burns within him becomes ever brighter and he emerges
stronger than ever from the crucible of hardship. Throughout the toils
he endures, he is comforted and strengthened by God's kindness and
favor, and it is this that forms the true motor of his
activity.Failure does not blockhis path and cause him to surrender;
instead, with sincere intention and diligent effort, he continues his
strivings until final victory.
He understands well that his effortscannot remain fruitlessand that
victory goes to the deserving. Whenever He wills, God takes the hand
of the fallen and the oppressed who have no refuge other than Him and
raises them up to the apex of power. Sometimes, too, He rubs in the
dust of humiliation and disaster the noses of the powerful and
arrogant oppressors who believe only in violence and the logic of
force and treat men as if they were worthless.
How many arrogant tyrants have been cast down by disaster in the
course of human history, sinking and vanishing in a tempest of shame!
The story ofGod's messengersrepresents in itself a complete and ideal
model of human values. We all know how the messengers stood alone
against the oppressive forces of their day in order to guide men to
salvation, reform their society, and inculcate lofty values in them.
In doing so, they lit the first spark that ultimately
destroyedpolytheism
The response aroused by their beliefs caused such a positive tumult
that they were able to change the face and direction of history. They
laid the foundations ofmonotheistic worship and established the
principles of virtuein the most comprehensive way. Who can deny the
role played by their devotion and faith in the untiring struggle they
waged? How far can will power alone take man, and how much can it
enable him to endure and sacrifice? A cursory review of the proud
history of the Prophets' lives enables us all to behold, in the most
vivid fashion possible, the sincerity and devotion they displayed,
their mercy and forbearance, and their intense desire to guide and
reform men. Thefundamental secretof their success was the fact they
never thought of themselves for a single instant; they sincerely
renounced their own beings, making them a gift to God's cause. God
then responded by bestowing immortality and everlasting fame on them.
Allah is the proper name of God, however, we know Him generally
through His attributes. These attributes describe how Allah manifests
Himself to us (also see Attributes of Allah). God's attributes are
innumerable since human intellect cannot possibly comprehend every
aspect of the Supreme Being. A Hadith of the Holy Prophet (peace be on
him) makes mention ofNinety Nine names of Allahcommonly known asAl-
Asmaul Husna, the Most Names.
In theHoly Quranwe read:
"And to Allah alone belong all perfect attributes. So call Him by
these.And leave alone those who deviate from the right way with
respect to His Attributes." (7:181)
"Allah - there is no God but He, the Living, the Self-Subsisting and
All-Sustaining. Slumber seizes Him not, nor sleep. To Him belongs
whatsoever is in the heavens and whatsoever is in the earth. Who is he
that will intercede with Him except by His permission? He knows what
is before them and what is behind them; and they encompass nothing of
His knowledge except what He pleases. His knowledge extends over the
heavens and the earth; and the care of them burdens Him not;and He is
the High, the Great." (2:256)
"Allah is the Light of the heavens and the earth. The similitude of
His light is a lustrous niche, wherein is a lamp. The lamp is in a
glass. The glass is as it were a glittering star. It is lit from
blessed tree - an olive - neither of the east nor of the west, whose
oil would well-nigh glow forth even though fire touched it not.Light
upon light! Allah guides to His light whomsoever He will. And Allah
sets forth parables to men, and Allah know all things full well.This
light is now lit in houses with regard to which Allah has ordained
that they be exalted and that His name be remembered in them, Therein
is He glorified in the mornings and the evenings" (24:36-37)
"He is Allah, and there is no God beside Him, the Knower of the unseen
and the seen. He is Gracious, the Merciful.He is Allah, and there is
no God beside Him, the Sovereign, the Holy One, the Source of Peace,
the Bestower of Security, the Protector, the Mighty, the Subduer, the
Exalted. Holy is Allah far above that which they associate with Him.He
is Allah, the Creator, the Maker, the Fashioner. His are the most
Beautiful Names. All that is in the heavens and the earth glorifies
Him, and He is the Mighty the Wise." (59: 23-25)
Abu Huraira (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated: The Holy Prophet
(Peace and Blessings of Allah be upon him) said,
"Allah has ninety nine Names, one hundred less one; and who memorized
them all by heart will enter Paradise." (Bukhari, The Book of Tauhid)
Getting closer to Allah
"When My servants ask thee concerning Me, I am indeed close (to them):
I listen to the prayer of every suppliant when he calls on Me: let
them also, with a will, listen to My call, and believe in Me: that
they may walk in the right way." ( Surah Al-Baqarah 2, verse 186)
After mentioning the rules offasting and significance of the month of
Ramadan, Allah says that He is indeed Qarib or close to his servants.
Allah, of course, knows His whole creation. He is aware of every one
and every thing. He knows the believers and the non-believer. He knows
those who are truthful, honest, sincere and righteous and those who
are sinners and wrongdoers. But His closeness is a special honor that
He grants to special people. Who are those people and how they become
closer to Allah and what benefit they draw when Allah comes closer to
them?
The people who become closer to Allah are those who love to be closer
to Him. They make an effort to come closer to Allah. Allah then grants
them the honor of His closeness. Taqarrub ila Allah, getting closer to
Allah or drawing near Allah is thus a very important Islamic value.
The Prophet (PBUH) was the closest person to Allah and he used to
teach people the way of this closeness.
We all can try to come closer to Allah and Allah in His glory and
majesty can be closer to all of us at the same time. It is possible
for every person to draw near to Allah. But we have tomake an effort.
The question is how to make this effort. In the Qur'an and Sunnah we
are given various ways and methods to come closer to Allah. We should
try all these ways and may try to excel in one or the other. The
possibilities are immense and reward are many.
Ways to come closer to Allah
1.Way of Devotion and Worship:
This is a way to come to closer to Allah. People close to Allah are
those who are most devoted to Allah. They love Allah more than any one
and anything. Worship is a very important way of coming closer to
Allah. Allah says:
Nay, heed him not: but bow down in adoration, and bring thyself the
closer (to Allah)! ( Surah Al Alaq 96 - Verse 19)
In a Hadith the Prophet (PBUH) said:
"..my servant does not come closer to Me with anything more dear to Me
than that which I made obligatory upon him. My servant keeps coming
closer to Me with
2.Way of Piety and Righteousness:
Taqwa (piety) and righteous deeds also bring us close to Allah. People
close to Allah are those who are foremost in doing good things. They
want to go ahead of every one in their faith, deeds of charity and
goodness. Allah says:
And the pioneers who compete with other (in Faith and righteousness).
These will be those Nearest to Allah. ( Surah Al-Waqi'ah 56 - Verses
10-11)
Call on your Lord with humility and in private: for Allah loves not
those who trespass beyond bounds. Do no mischief on the earth, after
it hath been set in order, but call on Him with fear and longing (in
your hearts): for the Mercy of Allah is (always) near to those who do
good. ( Surah Al-A'raf 7 - Verses 55-56)
3.Way of Charity and Kindness:
This is another way that can bring us very close to Allah. The Prophet
(PBUH) mentioned that Allah identifies with the poor and those who
help the poor and needy they find Allah and they come closer to him.
"Allah will say on the Day of Judgment, O son of Adam, I was ill and
you visited Me not. He will say: O Lord, and how should I visit You
when You are the Lord of the worlds? He will say: Did you not know
that My servant so and so was ill and you visited him not? Did you not
know that had you visited him you would have found Me with him? O son
of Adam, I asked you for food and you fed Me not. He will say: O Lord,
and how should I feed You when You are the Lord of the worlds? He will
say: Did you not know that My servant so and so asked you for food and
you fed him not? Did you not know that had you fed him you would
surely have found that with Me? O son of Adam, I asked you to give Me
to drink and you gave Me not to drink. He will say: O Lord, how should
I give You to drink when You are the Lord of the worlds? He will say:
My servant so and so asked you to give him to drink and you gave him
not to drink. Had you given him to drink you would have surely found
that with Me." (Muslim 4661)
All these are the ways to come closer to Allah. Those who strive in
this direction they become the beloved of Allah and they become the
people of Paradise:
Thus, then, if he be of those Nearest to Allah, there is for him Rest
and Satisfaction, and a Garden of Delights. ( Surah Al-Waqi'ah 56 -
Verse 88)
I listen to the prayer of every suppliant when he calls on Me: let
them also, with a will, listen to My call, and believe in Me: that
they may walk in the right way." ( Surah Al-Baqarah 2, verse 186)
After mentioning the rules offasting and significance of the month of
Ramadan, Allah says that He is indeed Qarib or close to his servants.
Allah, of course, knows His whole creation. He is aware of every one
and every thing. He knows the believers and the non-believer. He knows
those who are truthful, honest, sincere and righteous and those who
are sinners and wrongdoers. But His closeness is a special honor that
He grants to special people. Who are those people and how they become
closer to Allah and what benefit they draw when Allah comes closer to
them?
The people who become closer to Allah are those who love to be closer
to Him. They make an effort to come closer to Allah. Allah then grants
them the honor of His closeness. Taqarrub ila Allah, getting closer to
Allah or drawing near Allah is thus a very important Islamic value.
The Prophet (PBUH) was the closest person to Allah and he used to
teach people the way of this closeness.
We all can try to come closer to Allah and Allah in His glory and
majesty can be closer to all of us at the same time. It is possible
for every person to draw near to Allah. But we have tomake an effort.
The question is how to make this effort. In the Qur'an and Sunnah we
are given various ways and methods to come closer to Allah. We should
try all these ways and may try to excel in one or the other. The
possibilities are immense and reward are many.
Ways to come closer to Allah
1.Way of Devotion and Worship:
This is a way to come to closer to Allah. People close to Allah are
those who are most devoted to Allah. They love Allah more than any one
and anything. Worship is a very important way of coming closer to
Allah. Allah says:
Nay, heed him not: but bow down in adoration, and bring thyself the
closer (to Allah)! ( Surah Al Alaq 96 - Verse 19)
In a Hadith the Prophet (PBUH) said:
"..my servant does not come closer to Me with anything more dear to Me
than that which I made obligatory upon him. My servant keeps coming
closer to Me with
2.Way of Piety and Righteousness:
Taqwa (piety) and righteous deeds also bring us close to Allah. People
close to Allah are those who are foremost in doing good things. They
want to go ahead of every one in their faith, deeds of charity and
goodness. Allah says:
And the pioneers who compete with other (in Faith and righteousness).
These will be those Nearest to Allah. ( Surah Al-Waqi'ah 56 - Verses
10-11)
Call on your Lord with humility and in private: for Allah loves not
those who trespass beyond bounds. Do no mischief on the earth, after
it hath been set in order, but call on Him with fear and longing (in
your hearts): for the Mercy of Allah is (always) near to those who do
good. ( Surah Al-A'raf 7 - Verses 55-56)
3.Way of Charity and Kindness:
This is another way that can bring us very close to Allah. The Prophet
(PBUH) mentioned that Allah identifies with the poor and those who
help the poor and needy they find Allah and they come closer to him.
"Allah will say on the Day of Judgment, O son of Adam, I was ill and
you visited Me not. He will say: O Lord, and how should I visit You
when You are the Lord of the worlds? He will say: Did you not know
that My servant so and so was ill and you visited him not? Did you not
know that had you visited him you would have found Me with him? O son
of Adam, I asked you for food and you fed Me not. He will say: O Lord,
and how should I feed You when You are the Lord of the worlds? He will
say: Did you not know that My servant so and so asked you for food and
you fed him not? Did you not know that had you fed him you would
surely have found that with Me? O son of Adam, I asked you to give Me
to drink and you gave Me not to drink. He will say: O Lord, how should
I give You to drink when You are the Lord of the worlds? He will say:
My servant so and so asked you to give him to drink and you gave him
not to drink. Had you given him to drink you would have surely found
that with Me." (Muslim 4661)
All these are the ways to come closer to Allah. Those who strive in
this direction they become the beloved of Allah and they become the
people of Paradise:
Thus, then, if he be of those Nearest to Allah, there is for him Rest
and Satisfaction, and a Garden of Delights. ( Surah Al-Waqi'ah 56 -
Verse 88)
Fathwa, - Shaking hands withthe opposite gender
Question:
Generally in the West, shaking hands is a polite form of greeting, and
not shaking hands is often considered rude. Many times, non-Muslim men
want to shake my hand (I am female). When there is an opportunity to
explain my religion, I do. But sometimes, there is not this
opportunity or their gesture to shake my hand happens in front of an
audience, such as at a banquet or during a formal introduction. I do
not want to be rude and give Muslims a bad image (I especially do not
want to be condescending). How do I go about this awkward situation?
Answer:
Assalamu Alaykum wa Rahmatullah,
The ruling across the madhhabs is that it is not permitted to shake
hands with someone non-related of the opposite sex. This is sometimes
difficult to implement: the ruling of impermissibility remains,
however, and one should:
a) Ask Allah to make things easy; and
b) Seek the means to be able to avoid falling into the impermissible,
for Allah not only commanded us to avoid the sinful but also to take
the means that enable one to do so.
Generally in the West, shaking hands is a polite form of greeting, and
not shaking hands is often considered rude. Many times, non-Muslim men
want to shake my hand (I am female). When there is an opportunity to
explain my religion, I do. But sometimes, there is not this
opportunity or their gesture to shake my hand happens in front of an
audience, such as at a banquet or during a formal introduction. I do
not want to be rude and give Muslims a bad image (I especially do not
want to be condescending). How do I go about this awkward situation?
Answer:
Assalamu Alaykum wa Rahmatullah,
The ruling across the madhhabs is that it is not permitted to shake
hands with someone non-related of the opposite sex. This is sometimes
difficult to implement: the ruling of impermissibility remains,
however, and one should:
a) Ask Allah to make things easy; and
b) Seek the means to be able to avoid falling into the impermissible,
for Allah not only commanded us to avoid the sinful but also to take
the means that enable one to do so.
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