Story, - My boyfriends bestfriend

Sooo my boyfriend had a party at his house. The music was so loud and
the house was crowded. I decided to go to my boyfriends room but I
found his best friend in there. We started talking and before I knew
it we were kissing. Afterwards I felt really bad so I locked myself in
my bedroom for the whole of Spring break. Josh (my boyfriends
bestfriend) came to visit me. We talked and decided to just forget
about the party. After he left I realised I loved him so I broke up
with my boyfriend. I went to josh's house. We went on a walk together
but david my ex saw us together kissing. He called me words I didn't
know even existed. Everyone in school thought I was a slut. I was so
angry. I spent every break in the school shed with josh doing "it". A
year later we broke up and I moved schools.

Fathwa, - Living with an Elderly Lady - Khalwa?

Question:
I am in a situation where it may be possible for my family and I to
live with my friend�s grandmother who is over 75, and like my mother.
The issue is that there may be long periods of time (though not
overnight) where my young son and I would be alone in the house with
this elderly lady when my wife is out.
Answer:
In the name of Allah, Most Gracious and Merciful
Asslamu alaikum,
There would be nothing wrong with living with your friend�s mother,
given that she is elderly, in the Hanafi school. Rather, if the
intention is also to help take care of an elderly lady, there would be
reward in this.
In the Hanafi school, it is permitted for a man to be alone with an
elderly woman who is no longer attractive (`ajuz shawha'), as long as
there is no fear of the untoward from either side. [Ibn Nujaym,
al-Ashbah wa'l Nadha`ir; Haskafi, al-Durr al-Mukhtar; Ibn Abidin, Radd
al-Muhtar] It is reasonable to consider a lady who is in her 70s to be
'an elderly woman who is no longer attractive'.
As an aside:
It is also not a prohibited seclusion (khalwa muharrama) if the woman
is not elderly but each person remains in a different room of a house,
as long as the abovementioned fear does not exist. [ibid.] However, in
this situation, care and caution must be exercised, and it is a
situation which is not generally considered 'dignified'. A child does
not lift the state of prohibited seclusion.
And Allah alone gives success.

Fathwa, - Sisters Seeing Male Doctors

Question:
If necessity dictates that a Muslimah be examined by a male physician
should or can her husband be present in the examining room? Also I
take from the Maliki madhhab, however since your site limits itself to
Hanafi and Shafii rulings please recount to me the view of both of
these respected madhhab.
Answer:
In the name of Allah, The Most All-Knowing, The Wise
When one genuinely cannot see a doctor of the same sex, then one may
see one of the opposite sex. However, one cannot be alone with them in
a closed room: there needs to be a third person (such as one�s spouse)
present.

Fathwa, - Can I Be Alone With Men To Test Their Eyes?

Question:
I am a sister, who is studying to become an optometrist (i.e. to see
if people need glasses and the health of their eyes), am I allowed to
test men's eyes and be alone in the room with them as I test them?
Answer:
There are, Alhamdulillah, many practicing Muslim women in your
intended field. They find ways around being in unlawful
seclusion--which remains unlawful, such as keeping the door open
enough for people outside to see. If you talk to other practicing
Muslim optometrists serious about the Shariah, you'll see that there
are many ways around these concerns.
And Allah alone gives success.