Its started in 2011 when I was in my first year of Graduation. Vicky
visited our college with his friends who were also my friends and
classmates too frm last 3years. I was crossing vicky suddenly we both
had a look at eachother. I dont know what happened to me. I call my
friend (priya) & ask about him. She told me that he is vicky. Vicky
was in some bit doubt that this girl asking about me from priya. He
also did the same, he also ask about me from priya. That day we dont
even said hello to eachother because we were not introduced. Then some
days passed Vijay start teasing me with vicky's name. I asked him why
he is doing so then I got to know from priya that Vicky want to be
friend with me. I was confused, continuously thinking what to do, what
to answer? But later I thought he just want to be my friend, so I dnt
think I should have some problem, so I said okie we will be friends.
But still we had not exchanged our numbrs. Next day it was off from
our college. Vicky came to see my home aftr he heard that I am ready
to be friends. Priya call me later and told me that Vicky visited ur
place. I was bit confused that why he came? Why he visited my place? I
asked Priya that is everything okie with him she just told me that he
is falling in love with u. Wow! I was so happy. I said with me? R u
serious? Priya's word force me to think about that & seriously,
something start happening to me. I always think about him, always
wonder if he came to the college again. But one day priya came to my
home, that day I was alone at home. It was diwali night therefore my
family was gone out to some relatives home. Me & priya was going
through a cup of tea with some snacks suddenly her phone bell rings.
It was again vijay. They both were having a normal conversation
suddenly vicky took the phn from vijay and start talking to priya
about me. Priya told him that I am with Sona at her home. Vicky
confirmed about who else is there at home, priya said no body. He said
okie I am coming(just to see me).. I was blushing.. So much happy! I
just washed my face, dressed up and comb the hair. Priya came and
start teasing me like ohoooo and all.. I was again blushing. Suddenly
her phone bell rings again, vicky again called on her phn because we
had not yet exchanged our numbrs. This time vicky was standing outside
my house. Priya ask me to go. I was feeling shy but still I move to
the terrace. I saw him, he removd his glairs and gve me a smile(this
was for the first time). I smiled back.:)
After 5mints I move downwards, priya ask me to call him from my own
numbr. But I hesitate exchanging my numbr but then something came into
my mind I took his numbr from priya and text him. Seeing my numbr ie
immediately call me. We talk to eachothr for some time but then my
bhaiya bhabhi came back to home therefore I was suppose to cut the
call.
We conthur phone calls and text messages for next 3-4days. On the 5th
day he ask me to meet. When I ask him why he just said i want to meet
u. I said okie wait for some time I coming to ur university. In the
next 1hour I was there in the university. I called him to ask where is
he? But he was already coming towards me. I start smiling. When we
came close we just shake our hands & immediatly I said I need to go
because I was afraid of being caught because it was my first bunk from
college. He asj me for a coffee but I refused & because of refusing he
was angry with me, so that night I offered him to see movie with me. &
he agrees.
Next morning, he came to pick me, we both enjoyed the movie and talk
to echother. I was very comfortable with him. I found him very humble.
I was in no mood of going back home but he dropped me back home. That
time was good which I spend with him. Later the days start passing and
we daily talk to echother. We start sharing our problems. Everytime it
feels good whenever I talk to him. I started myself as complete. I was
already facing some problems from my family side because I dont have
my parents since i was 12. When I told him about the family issues he
just said a single sentence to me which made me crazy like anything.
He ask me to finish my graduation then he will talk to his family &
will marry me.(even though we wre not committed still he says me like
this) I was so disturbed, already looking for a caring partner and god
gave me that & I am very happy in my life today, its just because of
him. Today we are comitted and he always take care of me. I dont need
to ask anything from my bhaiya bhabhi he always support me and fulfil
my desires. He is too ausmm. Love him forever!
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Story, - My love
Fathwa, - What to do about pre-hijab photos that others have of one?
Question:
What should a sister do about photos she had taken before she was
practicing, in which she wasn't wearing a hijab. If some of these
photos are the possession of her non-mahrem family members, should she
try to get them back?
Answer:
The dictates of hijab and modesty entail that one figure out effective
means of getting these photos back from those who have them (whether
family, one�s high school, etc), to the extent genuinely possible. A
well-expressed explanation of your purpose has proven to be effective
in many similar cases, both with family and institutions.
Once one has taken all reasonable means available, then one is free of
all blame before Allah: one�s moral responsibility is only to the
extent of one�s genuine ability.
And Allah alone gives success.
What should a sister do about photos she had taken before she was
practicing, in which she wasn't wearing a hijab. If some of these
photos are the possession of her non-mahrem family members, should she
try to get them back?
Answer:
The dictates of hijab and modesty entail that one figure out effective
means of getting these photos back from those who have them (whether
family, one�s high school, etc), to the extent genuinely possible. A
well-expressed explanation of your purpose has proven to be effective
in many similar cases, both with family and institutions.
Once one has taken all reasonable means available, then one is free of
all blame before Allah: one�s moral responsibility is only to the
extent of one�s genuine ability.
And Allah alone gives success.
Fathwa, - Jinn and Fertility: Could our long problems in conceiving be jinn related... someone suggested
Question:
Jinn and Fertility: Could our long problems in conceiving be jinn
related... someone suggested it�
Answer:
[detailed question omitted]
As-Salamu `alaykum:
Both good health and infertility are from Allah regardless of the
means by which they take place and so is the purported presence of
jinn. Obedience to Allah keeps them at bay such as -- after the
absolute obligations -- reciting Qur'an and maintaining wudu' between
prayers. For this specific matter it is recommended also to give
sadaqa such as slaughtering an animal and giving it away (entirely) to
feed the poor to the intention of lifting infertility; and make
abundant daily istighfar (min x100) together with salawat on the
Prophet and his Family (300x).
Was-Salam,
Jinn and Fertility: Could our long problems in conceiving be jinn
related... someone suggested it�
Answer:
[detailed question omitted]
As-Salamu `alaykum:
Both good health and infertility are from Allah regardless of the
means by which they take place and so is the purported presence of
jinn. Obedience to Allah keeps them at bay such as -- after the
absolute obligations -- reciting Qur'an and maintaining wudu' between
prayers. For this specific matter it is recommended also to give
sadaqa such as slaughtering an animal and giving it away (entirely) to
feed the poor to the intention of lifting infertility; and make
abundant daily istighfar (min x100) together with salawat on the
Prophet and his Family (300x).
Was-Salam,
Fathwa, - I have a breast lump but donę° want to be examined by a maledoctor�
Question:
I noticed that I have a breast lump, but I don't want to be examined
by a doctor as it is very unlikely that the doctor will be female.
Instead I am relying on Allah (swt) and praying that this harm is
removed from me. But I am being told that I should seek medical advice
as it is sunnah to seek the means. Can you please advise me on what is
the best thing to do?
Answer:
Walaikum assalam wa rahmatullah,
What you are doing is a mistake.
Enquire: there are almost certainly female doctors able to treat you.
If not available�after enquiry�it would be permitted to go to a male
doctor, but only uncover to the extent genuinely necessary and have a
third party present in the room. See attached answer(s).
The sunna with regards to actions is to take the best means possible,
outwardly (such as medical treatment) and inwardly (such as absolute
reliance and trust in Allah, and seeking Allah�s aide through earnest
supplication).
Wassalam,
I noticed that I have a breast lump, but I don't want to be examined
by a doctor as it is very unlikely that the doctor will be female.
Instead I am relying on Allah (swt) and praying that this harm is
removed from me. But I am being told that I should seek medical advice
as it is sunnah to seek the means. Can you please advise me on what is
the best thing to do?
Answer:
Walaikum assalam wa rahmatullah,
What you are doing is a mistake.
Enquire: there are almost certainly female doctors able to treat you.
If not available�after enquiry�it would be permitted to go to a male
doctor, but only uncover to the extent genuinely necessary and have a
third party present in the room. See attached answer(s).
The sunna with regards to actions is to take the best means possible,
outwardly (such as medical treatment) and inwardly (such as absolute
reliance and trust in Allah, and seeking Allah�s aide through earnest
supplication).
Wassalam,
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