Story, - Facebook love. The happy ending

hi,im bithi. i read in 12 nd um 18. my story isnt realy a story. its
the reality of my life. my story starts somehow like this...
When i was in cls 10 nd aftr my ssc test xm i met a guy named kabir in
facebook. he s 4m dhaka city. nd i lived in ctg. a quite far away. he
seemd nice. so we startd chatting n calling n talking. . . . :-)
Aftr about a week he proposd me n next day i acceptd him. actually i
was in love wid him 4m b4. he is still unknown 2 this. aftr about a
month my dad died. nd my family came 2 know about him nd they csd my
phn nd bcoz of me my family situation was too hot. so i had2 brk up.
bt i never stopd loving him. by da way he is my 1st bf. nd ofcoz last.
aftr about 4 mnth i got my phn back. nd a new sim. so at 1st i jst
send him a sms widout my name. i was so scared thinking mayb he wont
reply. i thought he s forgot me nd got a new gf. bt i was wrong. he
recognisd me though i didt write my name. i was so surprisd reading
his reply. my eyes became wet. i started crying. thn we restarted our
relationship. aftes ths new starting we dated 2 times. bt it wasnt da
1st tym. we dated 1st after my ssc board xm. nd b4 my break up nd
after my dads death. (my dad died during my board xm)it was our 1st
metting. tht tym i 4got tht i hav lost my dad. i was so happy.
anyway... b4 my 3rd date i came 2 know my moms trying 2 marry me off.
i told him about it on the date. nd we made a plan. accordng to the
plan one day i came 2 the place where kabir was waiting. thn he took
me wid him to his hometown nd tht evening we got married. whn my
family came 2 know bout it they rejectd us. bt kabirs family didnt
react as we thought. they accepted us.

Story, - Miss

Sunny morning, birds chirping merrily, singing morning dew brings
daydreams fly a farm boy in the foothills of Bali. Others are busy
with their own activities - each as if - as if no one was around them
and silence the little boy lost in reverie.
Arrived - he heard a loud scream of a grandmother calling out his
name, "Ketut ,,,, Ketut ,,,, come here Boy a minute?" That Boys
briefly turned toward the voice and the half lazy to move from where
he was sitting day dreaming, looking at a stretch of verdant rice
fields. "What's Grandma ,,,, call Me?" "Go into the village for a
while, take this order Mr. Wayan, ask for money wages to make this
tool, then go to the market, there are some foods that need to be
purchased is also a pack of cigarettes for your grandfather, huh?"
So the boy went to the village to bring a few pieces of equipment
ordered. She ran to the shack and take an old bike the relic - the
only of his parents. Slowly but surely, he's riding a bike to a
straight path toward the village.
Arrived half way through the narrow, high-speed truck hit the little
boy ,,,, Bike boy bounced wrecked and he himself fell into the river
which luckily was not too big river. Very unfortunate fate of the
little boy because after crashing truck, they run into the city.
A gentle breeze , sting sun falls on the face, making Ketut slowly -
land eye-opening. Feels sting of sunlight piercing eyes, yet he could
see clearly but he felt a tiny hand to touch the forehead, soft and
cold, also rubbed - rub the hands and feet were full of sores. Of
course a beautiful girl there.
"My name is Putu, do you good - right? I was just about to go to town
but arrived I saw you fall in the river, I was worried and trying to
help you." "Yeah,,,, I'm fine , I remember I hit a truck but the truck
was probably scared and fled, leaving Me alone,,,, Thanks for helping
me."
The girl was taking a bottle of water and a piece of cake and gave it
to Ketut. Ketut greedily drank and ate cake. The higher the sun
shining on the earth accompanied by wind gusts brought exuberant rural
two small children who take shelter under the shade of mango trees.
"You're better now ,,,,, If so, should we fast - get out of here,
we'll see a doctor check you because it looks serious injury, let I
help you up." Smiling, the girl reached out his hand to help his - was
standing. Then they walked hand in hand toward the village.
That's a little friendship started with a bottle of water and a piece
of cake, chuck sincere and help given to a friend, make a beautiful
day.
And birds - the birds were chirping again, singing hymns Bali,
describe how wonderful the atmosphere at the foot of Bukit Bali,,,,,
and closing twilight,,,, they both split up, go home - each with a
glimmer of hope tomorrow will be more beautiful of the day.

Fathwa, - Niqab in Ihram

Question:
Is it necessary for a woman to cover her face during Ihram (during
Umrah/Hajj)? Will she be excused for not covering her face due to the
difficulties associated with niqabs hanging from baseball caps?
Insha'Allah as soon as my state of Ihram is complete, I would wear the
Niqab but what about during the days of ihram?
Answer:
In the name of Allah, Most Compassionate, Most Merciful,
The ruling in the Hanafi Madhhab (and even in other madhhabs) is that,
although the face is not considered to be part of one�s nakedness
(awra), it is necessary to cover it, due to the fitna involved in not
doing so. This is the transmitted position in the Hanafi School, as
mentioned in virtually all the major fiqh books.
Some contemporary scholars have a more lenient approach to this issue,
especially in the West. However, my understanding is (according to
what I have learnt from my teachers) that a woman is required to cover
her face even in the west except in dire situations.
As such, if you are travelling for Hajj, and you normally cover your
face at home, then you must cover it whilst in the state of Ihram
also. However, if it becomes very difficult, in that it becomes
virtually impossible to wear the niqab (even with a cap, etc), and you
fear harm onto yourself, then in such a case you will be excused in
leaving the face exposed, but try to keep the face away from
non-Mahram men whenever reasonably possible.
And Allah knows best

Fathwa, - Hajj and Menstruation

Question:
1.If a woman and her husband are planning on making Hajj next year but
the woman is sure that she may get her period during the time of Hajj
what are the alternatives she can consider that wouldn't be haram? For
example is she allowed to take some medication that postpones her
menstrual cycle, or does she just attend Hajj hoping that she
calculated her cycle wrong?
Answer:
Walaikum assalam wa rahmatullah,
1. The problem that normally arises in Hajj with menstruation relates
to the Obligatory Tawaf (tawaf al-rukn/al-ziyara).
This is because this Obligatory Tawaf has four conditions:
1) Intention
It is sufficient to simply intend performing tawaf, though it is best
to specify the intention of the Obligatory Tawaf�this also avoids the
difference of opinion of the Hanbalis. [Kasani, Bada�i` al-Sana�i`,
2.128; Ibn Qudama, al-Mughni, 3.441]
2. To perform the Tawaf around the Kaaba from within the Masjid al-Haram.
3) That the Obligatory Tawaf occur after:
i) entering into a state of ihram;
ii) standing at `Arafa
4) That it be performed in its specified time.
� This time starts from Fajr time on the 10th day of Dhu�l Hijja (yawm al-nahr).
� It is not valid before this.
o It is best to perform it on the very first day (the 10th), after the
Throwing (ramy) and Trimming of one�s hair.
� There is no end time for this Obligatory Tawaf.
� However, it is necessary (wajib) to perform during the Days of
Slaughtering (10th to 12th of Dhu�l Hijja), if one has the capacity
and ability to do so.
o Delaying it beyond this without excuse (such as menstruation)
requires expiative slaughter, but it must still be performed in order
to fulfill the obligation and to fully leave one�s state of Ihram.
o The one who did not have the capacity or ability to perform the
Obligatory Tawaf within this necessary time is not sinful, but it
remains obligatory for them to perform it. [Marghinani, al-Hidaya,
2.180; Ibn Abidin, Radd al-Muhtar, 2.250]
One should plan one's Hajj in a way that does allows one to perform
this Obligatory Tawaf:
� Normally, this would entail performing it within its specified
necessary time (between the 10th and 12th of Dhu�l Hijja).
� When one is not able to do so, such as when menstruating, it is
obligatory to perform this tawaf after these days.
Thus, one should either:
a) Make travel arrangements such that one has enough time to be able
to perform the Obligatory Tawaf if one is menstruating during those
days; or
b) To take the medical means to delay one�s period�in order to fulfill
the obligation.
Such medical means are permitted, though normally better to avoid. See:
Would it be permissible to take birth control to stop her
menstruation in order to avoid menstruation during Hajj?
And Allah alone gives success.