Story, - My impossible love

Hi guys. honestly i don't know if i did the right stuff on sharing my
love story with u but i need todo it.So everything started as hi! can
u do mea favor. and ofc he did but talking with him on face book make
me feel something strong . as stupids on the first day after talking
together he was telling very romanticwords to me and i asked him:Do
feel something for me ? and he was like:i love u . he asked me thesame
and i decided to listen my heart for the first time on my life and i
said i also love u. the problem was that we were oceans away to each
other, but that didn't stop us for being together. and after a while
he proposes me to be his girlfriend and his princes forever and ever
and ofc i accepted. on that period i was very happy to be his love but
all happened on internet we talked on skype nearly everyday. u know
whats funny. one day we have talked to each other24 h without
interruptions and we didn't get bored we werenever wordless.every
second we said each howmuch we love and u know he was my prince. but
for some reasons thati cant tell but that are very serious i was
between to loves for my family and for him that was the first boy on
my life and i wanted him to be my man my boyfriend my husband cause he
already was my everything. that's what i regret i lost or better i put
away the person wholoves me more on these world. our song was
breathing .
some of the lyrics were:I ONLY MISS U WHEN i'M BREATHING I ONLY MISS U
WHEN MY HEART IS BEATING U ARE THE REASONTHAT I'M LEAVING .
and in fact he is my breath i swear i cant sleep without him i cant
breath without him . i feel like i have no powersi cant live without
him saying he loves me . without waking up with his good morning
words;Morning my princess. without me he had decided to go to army and
after 6 years ill have him back. and we are decided to fight for our
love . we don't talk toeach other very fluently but we are sure bout
something. were gonna fight for our love cause its the best feeling in
the world. cause i wanna be only his women and he will be only my man.
all i dream is being his wife and the mum of his kid. i want to wake
up every morning of my life on his arm. i wanna be every second of my
life by his side. I wanna be his friend his love his wife his partner
his lover his kid's mum, well in short i wanna be his everything and i
know i already am..I wish u all the best my love and please make sure
we're gonna fight together for these amazing feeling cause our love is
an miracle of life.

Fathwa, - One must perform Hajj before paying for someone else's Hajj

Question
asslamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakaatuhu.my question is i made a
promise to allah to send somone for hajj.now im told since i have not
performed hajj myself i cannot send somone untill i have done it
myself.i wanted to send somone this year as promised.what should i do?
Answer
All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify
that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad,
is His Slave and Messenger.
Hajj is obligatory upon the Muslim individual who is physically and
financially capable without delay as clarifiedin Fatwa 87129. Thus, if
you are physically and financially capable to perform Hajj, then you
have to hasten to perform it without delay.This actually takes
precedence over paying the expenses of the Hajj of someone else.
If you have much money in a way you can fulfill your promise and
perform Hajj in the same year, then do that; otherwise, give
precedence to what Islamobligated you to do, i.e. perform Hajj on your
own behalf.
If you made a promise to Allaah The Almighty with a wording that
indicates commitment to pay for that person the expenses of Hajj this
year, then youshould pay an expiation of breaking an oath if you
cannot fulfill it, and pay the money for that person whenever you
areable to do so. However, ifyou did not utter a wording that
indicates commitment, then you are not obliged to do so. Allaah Knows
best.

Fathwa, - A man is not obligated to tell his family about his marriage

Question
Asalamu Alaikum. Jazakallah for your time beforehand in reading and
replying. I was married for around 1.5 years, in an arranged marriage
through family,unfortunately this marriage ended in divorce, my mother
became extremely unwellafter this news of my divorce, and i was
disowned by family, although at this point our relationship is
better.My question is that i got married again shortly after my
divorce, in secret without anyone knowing, i have not told my parents
about this because due to culture and my mothers health, itwould cause
a huge amount of problems, am iobliged to tell them when i am hiding
it to avoid arguments and fighting, and i am moving to a different
country with my wife, although i have told my parents i am moving but
not the reason why, is this wrong of me? I am still keeping relation
with my family and meet them all often.
Answer
All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify
that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad,
is His Slave and Messenger.
It is not obligatory upon you to tell your family about your marriage
or about the reason behind moving from your country, rather it is
obligatory upon you to be dutiful towards your parents and obey them
inwhat is good.
However, if you can tell them about your marriage without causing any
harm, then this will be better.
Allaah Knows best.

Fathwa, - Inheritance of wife, mother and full sister

Question
Assalaamu 'Alaykum; Please calculate the inheritance according to the
following information -Does the deceased have male relatives who are
entitledto inherit: )A full paternaluncle( Number 4 )A cousin from a
full paternal uncle( Number 2-Does the deceased have female relatives
who are entitled to inherit : )A mother( )A wife( Number 1 )A full
sister( Number 1
Answer
All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify
that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad,
is His Slave and Messenger.
If the deceased did not have any heirs except those mentioned in the
question, then the wife will get one-fourth of theinheritance due to
the lack of the children of thedeceased. In this regard, Allaah The
Exalted says)what means(: }And for the wives is one fourth ofwhat you
leave if you leave no child.{]Quran 4:12[
The full sister will get the half for Allaah The Almighty says )what
means(: }If a man dies, leaving no child but]only[ a sister, she will
have half of what he left.{]Quran 4:176[
The mother will get one-third for Allaah The Almighty says )what
means(: }But if he had nochildren and the parents]alone[ inherit from
him, then for his mother is one third.{]Quran 4:11[
Based on that, the estate should be divided into 13shares. Originally,
it is 12 shares but exceeded to 13 )because there is whatwe call in
Arabic 'Awl, which means that the shares of the inheritance)one fourth
3/12, one half6/12 and one third 4/12 =13/12( exceed the sum of the
total inheritance and by applying the laws of 'Awl the inheritance
will be divided into 13 shares)and not only 12 shares( 6shares for the
sister, 4 shares for the mother, and 3 shares for the wife.
Nothing will be given to the four paternal uncles because they inherit
onlyby Ta'seeb )i.e. by virtue of having a parental relation with the
deceased and they got what is left after the allotted shares have
beendistributed(. Here, the allotted shares have consumed the whole
estate and thus nothing remained for the paternal relatives. Also, the
two cousins will inherit nothing at all because, in principle, they
are prevented from the inheritance by the existence of the paternal
uncles.
Finally, we wish to notify the questioner that the issue of
inheritance is a very serious and dangerous matter. As such, it is not
sufficient torely solely on a Fatwa provided by a Mufti based on the
question heis asked. Rather, you must raise this issue in the Islamic
courts so that they might look into it and verify it. There mightbe an
heir unknown untilafter a proper investigation. Also, there could be
wills or debts or other obligations of which the heirs are unaware. It
is known that those rights precede the rights of heirs in the
inheritance, so it is not correct to divide the inheritance without
first consulting the Islamic courts, if they exist, in order to
confirm the rights of the living and the dead.
Allaah Knows best.