The greatest and most important of all the favors and blessings
bestowed by Allaah is Islaam and the honorableIslamic law, which is
derived from the Book ofAllaah and the Prophetic Sunnah. This Law has
outlined all that which is beneficial for mankind inthis life and the
Hereafter.
One of the virtues of this Law is that its rules and regulations have
clearly laid out preventions of allevil and immorality, and all the
roads that lead to it which is a protection ofthe truth and morality.
There are many issues forwhich this Law has laid out preventative
measures so that people will not fall into evil, for example on some
of the issues of faith, acts of worship and transactions.
However, the most obvious of all of these preventative measures are
those related to women and the limits that Allaah has defined for them
not to exceed. Islaam has clearly laid theguidelines for the
Muslimwoman to adhere to so that her personality remains distinct and
her safety, purity, and good conduct are assured.
The correct dress and covering for women and the prohibition of them
intermixing with men arethe two most important interconnected
preventative measures that Islaam has laid out. Muslims must submit to
the rulings which oblige women to properly coverin order to protect
their chastity and purity, maintain shyness and protect them from
being harassed or bothered, as Allaah Says (what means): "O Prophet!
Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to
bring down over themselves [part] of their outer garments. That is
more suitable that they will be known [as chaste believing women] and
not be abused. And ever is AllaahForgiving and Merciful" [Quran 33:
59].
In this verse, Allaah addressed the wives of the Prophet , who were
the furthest from immorality and evil actions; they were purestand
most pious women ever and were honored by the virtue of being married
to the Prophet .
Muslims must also adhereand submit to the rulings which prohibit
intermixing mixing between men and women. There are many Islamic texts
in this regard, such as the Hadeeth which is narrated by 'Uqbah Ibn
'Aamir that the Prophet , said: "Do not enter into the presence of
women." A man from the Ansaar then retorted: 'What about our in-laws'
- referring to the relatives of a woman's husband such as his
brothers, cousins, and their children, so the Prophet , replied: "The
in-laws are death" [Al-Bukhaari & Muslim] which means that they are
more harmful to women than death is to the soul. The previous evidence
came from the Prophet , whose words were nothing but revelation. So
how could anybody ever accept anyone else's opinion over this?
Why is it that the Prophet lined up the rows of men for prayers in the
mosque separate from the women, and described the rows, as narrated by
Abu Hurayrah by saying: "The best rows [in the mosque] are the first
rows, and the worst are the last, and the best rows [inthe mosque] for
women are last the rows, and the worst are the first." [Muslim]. This
affirmsthe obligation of separating men from women, and keeping them
far apart. If this is the way believing men and women should be during
an act of worship inside the mosque, then how much more so is it
necessary in places outside the mosques, where gatherings might
include evil and sinful people along with the good people?
The Muslim nation must not slight these texts because the evil
consequences which these texts are aiming to prevent society from
still very much exist, and there is nothing that would prevent such
evils from occurring in our time which did not exist at the time of
the Prophet
Moreover, the people whom the Prophet addressed in these narrations
were the best generation of the Muslim nation according to his own
testimony, as was mentioned in many narrations. So, has the need for
such texts and their warnings vanished in our time? Is it not a clear
fact that in fact we need these texts and warnings even more than that
generation did? This is especially so because of the dangers of evil
in our time becoming more widespread and its means being more diverse.
It is usually the case that people honor any set of laws which they
perceiveas being beneficial to them, especially when these laws
prevent evil orharm from befalling them when applied; moreover, people
do not mind if these laws include certain restrictions on their
freedom and impose penalties for those who disobey or transgress the
defined limits. Why is it the case that some of those who believe in
Allaah and His Messenger deal with Islamic Law with suspicion and
uncertainty. Some of these people even go as far as to demand that it
should be abolished, despite the fact that this Law includes all that
which is beneficial to mankind and prevents, or at least reduces, all
that which brings harm?
It is not permitted for anyone to discuss and pass judgment
regardingthis issue without having the proper Islamic knowledge to be
able to do so. Nor should they base their discussion and opinion on
unfounded claims with no evidence, or simply argue on the basis of
their base desires. Rather, one should be sincere and free themselves
from their base desires which will divert them far away from the
truth. In addition, one must have a broad knowledge of Islam and
possess the ability to differentiate between authentic and weak
evidences, possess a clear understanding of the relevant evidences as
well as the ability to properly extract Islamic rulings from these
evidences; only then can a person become eligible to discuss this
issue.
The outcome of what we say or write is the matter which we must fear
the most, and are extremely wary of its consequence, as the Prophet ,
clarified to Mu'aath Ibn Jabal after he had asked with
astonishment:"Will we be held responsible for all that we say?" The
Prophet , replied: "What do you think makes people land on their faces
or noses into the Hellfire more than the product of their tongues?"
[Ahmad, Abu Daawood & At-Tirmithi].
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Improper dress for women and intermingling between sexes
His wife is accusing himof harassing her sister and he said to her: If I touch your sister then our marriage is invalid. Then he touched her again with desire.
Dought & clear, - My wife and I where having an argument. She was
telling me that she does not like the way I talk to her sister and
going on about it etc. I told her "you knowif I even touch suraya (my
wifes sister) nikah breaks". I am certain that i had no intention of
any talaq. When I made that statement"you know if I even touch suraya
(my wifes sister) nikah breaks" I was like just lying/making up for it
toseem that that is the islamic ruling. I just told her that to give
her like assurance that I wont dowrong actions with her sister. After
some time about couple of months afterwards I touched my wifes sister
with lust. Then after some months I may have touched her with lust
again. Now I get waswasa that when Imade that statement I had
intention of talaq. I am 99.9% sure that I hadno intention of talaq
butthis waswasa is making me feel as though I had intention. The only
intention I may have hadwas not to touch my sister in law and only to
give my wife assurance that Im not allowed to do wrong with her
sisterand that I won't do wrong with her sister . I am certain I had
NO intention of talaq. Is there any talaq in this situation? If there
is talaq how many talaqs take place?
Praise be to Allah.
Firstly:
You should realise that what has happened of you touching your
wife'ssister with desire is something that is undoubtedly haraam. It
comes under the heading of zina (adultery) of the hand, of which the
Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) spoke.
Zina is not only zina of the private part; rather there is also zina
of the hand, which is haraam touching, and zina of the eye, which is
haraam looking, even though it is zina of the private part that incurs
the hadd punishment. After this, how can you claim that there is no
reason for suspicion andthat your wife has no right to be suspicious
about you. What you aredoing is very suspicious and is indicative of
bad intentions and a bad attitude.
It says in the hadeeth narrated by Abu Hurayrah from the Prophet
(blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) that he said: "Allah has
decreed for the son of Adam his share of zina, which he will
inevitably get. The zina of the eyes is looking and the zina of the
tongue is speaking. The heart wishes and hopes, and the private part
confirms that or denies it."
Narrated by al-Bukhaari,5889; Muslim, 2657.
According to a version narrated by Muslim: "Thezina of the eyes is
looking, the zina of the ears is listening, the zinaof the tongue is
speaking, the zina of thehands is touching, and the zina of the foot
is walking. The heart longsand wishes, and the private part confirms
that or denies it."
The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)
warned against touching a non-mahram woman and said: "If one of you
were to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle, thatwould be
better for him than touching a woman who is not permissible for him."
Narrated by at-Tabaraani from the hadeeth of Ma'qil ibn Yasaar;
classed as saheehby al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami', no. 5045.
If this is a sin and crime in the case of any woman, and means that
you cannot be trusted, then how about if it involves your wife's
sister, who is haraam to you so long as her sister is your wife?
What you must do is ask Allah, may He be exalted,to forgive you for
this sin and repent to Him; you must also resolve not to do that again
and to block all ways that may lead to fitnah or temptation with this
woman. So do not be alone with her, and do not be with her in any
place or in any situation that could lead you to goback to what you
had been doing.
Moreover, there is no need for you to speak to her, with or without
desire; if there is any reason for you to speak, her sister – namely
your wife – can take care of it.
Secondly:
With regard to your saying to your wife, "If I touch your sister then
our marriage is invalid ('nikah breaks')," this is a metaphor for
divorce. In the case of metaphors, divorce doesnot take place unless
there was the intention of divorce, as we have explained in fatwa no.
120947
So long as you did not intend divorce thereby –as you say in your
question, trusting what you said – then divorce has not taken place.
And Allah knows best.
telling me that she does not like the way I talk to her sister and
going on about it etc. I told her "you knowif I even touch suraya (my
wifes sister) nikah breaks". I am certain that i had no intention of
any talaq. When I made that statement"you know if I even touch suraya
(my wifes sister) nikah breaks" I was like just lying/making up for it
toseem that that is the islamic ruling. I just told her that to give
her like assurance that I wont dowrong actions with her sister. After
some time about couple of months afterwards I touched my wifes sister
with lust. Then after some months I may have touched her with lust
again. Now I get waswasa that when Imade that statement I had
intention of talaq. I am 99.9% sure that I hadno intention of talaq
butthis waswasa is making me feel as though I had intention. The only
intention I may have hadwas not to touch my sister in law and only to
give my wife assurance that Im not allowed to do wrong with her
sisterand that I won't do wrong with her sister . I am certain I had
NO intention of talaq. Is there any talaq in this situation? If there
is talaq how many talaqs take place?
Praise be to Allah.
Firstly:
You should realise that what has happened of you touching your
wife'ssister with desire is something that is undoubtedly haraam. It
comes under the heading of zina (adultery) of the hand, of which the
Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) spoke.
Zina is not only zina of the private part; rather there is also zina
of the hand, which is haraam touching, and zina of the eye, which is
haraam looking, even though it is zina of the private part that incurs
the hadd punishment. After this, how can you claim that there is no
reason for suspicion andthat your wife has no right to be suspicious
about you. What you aredoing is very suspicious and is indicative of
bad intentions and a bad attitude.
It says in the hadeeth narrated by Abu Hurayrah from the Prophet
(blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) that he said: "Allah has
decreed for the son of Adam his share of zina, which he will
inevitably get. The zina of the eyes is looking and the zina of the
tongue is speaking. The heart wishes and hopes, and the private part
confirms that or denies it."
Narrated by al-Bukhaari,5889; Muslim, 2657.
According to a version narrated by Muslim: "Thezina of the eyes is
looking, the zina of the ears is listening, the zinaof the tongue is
speaking, the zina of thehands is touching, and the zina of the foot
is walking. The heart longsand wishes, and the private part confirms
that or denies it."
The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)
warned against touching a non-mahram woman and said: "If one of you
were to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle, thatwould be
better for him than touching a woman who is not permissible for him."
Narrated by at-Tabaraani from the hadeeth of Ma'qil ibn Yasaar;
classed as saheehby al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami', no. 5045.
If this is a sin and crime in the case of any woman, and means that
you cannot be trusted, then how about if it involves your wife's
sister, who is haraam to you so long as her sister is your wife?
What you must do is ask Allah, may He be exalted,to forgive you for
this sin and repent to Him; you must also resolve not to do that again
and to block all ways that may lead to fitnah or temptation with this
woman. So do not be alone with her, and do not be with her in any
place or in any situation that could lead you to goback to what you
had been doing.
Moreover, there is no need for you to speak to her, with or without
desire; if there is any reason for you to speak, her sister – namely
your wife – can take care of it.
Secondly:
With regard to your saying to your wife, "If I touch your sister then
our marriage is invalid ('nikah breaks')," this is a metaphor for
divorce. In the case of metaphors, divorce doesnot take place unless
there was the intention of divorce, as we have explained in fatwa no.
120947
So long as you did not intend divorce thereby –as you say in your
question, trusting what you said – then divorce has not taken place.
And Allah knows best.
Ruling on making models of the Ka‘bah to explain the rituals of Hajj.
Dought & clear, - Is it haraam to make models of kaba and explain the
children the rituals of haj?
Praise be to Allah.
It should be noted that the basic principle concerning acts of worship
is that there should be taqwa in the heart and veneration of the
symbols and sacred things of Allah, may He be exalted; anything that
undermines that veneration of His symbols or turns them into something
commonplace, as peopledo and have become used to doing, should not be
allowed.
For that reason, more than one of the scholars have stated that it is
not allowed to make models of the Ka'bah, because that undermines the
veneration of the symbolin the heart.
Shaykh Ibn 'Uthaymeen (may Allah have mercy on him) was asked about a
school that teaches the students about Hajj and 'umrah but the
students do not understand properly; it is permissible to make a model
of the Ka'bah and holy places in the school so that they can learn in
practical terms and not just theoretically.
He replied:
This is not permissible and it is not appropriate at all. The teacher
can draw a picture of the Ka'bah on the blackboard and say, We
circumambulate it like this… But as for making a model, this to my
mindis turning acts of worship into mere movements with no impact on
the heart.
End quote from Majmoo'Fataawa wa Rasaa'il al-'Uthaymeen, 24/91
It says in a fatwa of the Standing Committee: It isnot permissible to
make models of the Ka'bah and the (green) dome that is over the grave
of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him).
End quote from Fataawa al-Lajnah ad-Daa'imah, 2(1/324)
And Allah knows best.
children the rituals of haj?
Praise be to Allah.
It should be noted that the basic principle concerning acts of worship
is that there should be taqwa in the heart and veneration of the
symbols and sacred things of Allah, may He be exalted; anything that
undermines that veneration of His symbols or turns them into something
commonplace, as peopledo and have become used to doing, should not be
allowed.
For that reason, more than one of the scholars have stated that it is
not allowed to make models of the Ka'bah, because that undermines the
veneration of the symbolin the heart.
Shaykh Ibn 'Uthaymeen (may Allah have mercy on him) was asked about a
school that teaches the students about Hajj and 'umrah but the
students do not understand properly; it is permissible to make a model
of the Ka'bah and holy places in the school so that they can learn in
practical terms and not just theoretically.
He replied:
This is not permissible and it is not appropriate at all. The teacher
can draw a picture of the Ka'bah on the blackboard and say, We
circumambulate it like this… But as for making a model, this to my
mindis turning acts of worship into mere movements with no impact on
the heart.
End quote from Majmoo'Fataawa wa Rasaa'il al-'Uthaymeen, 24/91
It says in a fatwa of the Standing Committee: It isnot permissible to
make models of the Ka'bah and the (green) dome that is over the grave
of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him).
End quote from Fataawa al-Lajnah ad-Daa'imah, 2(1/324)
And Allah knows best.
What he paid for the shade he enjoyed, Islamic Stories
Ibnul Muqaffa (may Allahhave mercy on him) usedto sit frequently in
the shadow of his neighbour's wall. He came to know that the neighbour
was in heavy debt and was about to sell his house to pay the debt. He
said that he always enjoyed the shadow of the neighbour's wall and
didnot pay anything for that; so, he presented to the neighbour the
price of his house and told him that, since he had received the price,
he should not sell it. Source:"Fadhail-e-Sadaqaa Part I" translated by
Prof. Abdul Karim.
Let us be good to our neighbours. The best way to treat them wouldbe
to bring them closer to Allah in a humble manner.
the shadow of his neighbour's wall. He came to know that the neighbour
was in heavy debt and was about to sell his house to pay the debt. He
said that he always enjoyed the shadow of the neighbour's wall and
didnot pay anything for that; so, he presented to the neighbour the
price of his house and told him that, since he had received the price,
he should not sell it. Source:"Fadhail-e-Sadaqaa Part I" translated by
Prof. Abdul Karim.
Let us be good to our neighbours. The best way to treat them wouldbe
to bring them closer to Allah in a humble manner.
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