Said ibn Aamir al-Jumahi was one of thousands who left for the region
of Tanim on the outskirts of Makkah at the invitation of the Quraysh
leaders to witness the killing of Khubaybibn Adiy, one of the
companions of Muhammad whom they had captured treacherously.
With his exuberant youthfulnessand strength, Said jostled through the
crowd until he caught up with the Quraysh leaders, men like Abu Sufyan
ibn Harb and Safwan ibn Umayyah, who were leading the procession.
Now he could see the prisoner of the Quraysh shackled in his chains,
the women and children pushing him to the place set for his death.
Khubayb's death was to be in revenge for Quraysh losses in the battle
of Badr.
When the assembled throng arrived with its prisoner at the appointed
place, Said ibn Aamir took up his position at a point directly
overlooking Khubayb as he approached the wooden cross. From there he
heard Khubayb's firm but quiet voice amid the shouting of women and
children.
"If you would, leave me to pray two rakaats before my death." This the
Quraysh allowed.
Said looked at Khubayb as he faced the Kabah and prayed. How beautiful
and how composed those two rakaats seemed! Then he saw Khubayb facing
the Quraysh leaders.
"By God, if you thought that I asked to pray out of fear of death, I
would think the prayer not worth the trouble," he said.
Said then saw his people set about dismembering Khubayb's body while
he was yet alive and taunting him in the process.
"Would you like Muhammad to be in your place while you go free?"
With his blood flowing, he replied. "By God, I would not want to be
safe and secure among my family while even a thorn hurts Muhammad."
Peopleshook their fists in the air and the shouting increased. "Kill
him. Kill him!"
Said watched Khubayb lifting hiseyes to the heavens above the wooden
cross. "Count them all, O Lord," he said. "Destroy them and let not a
single one escape."
Thereafter Said could not count the number of swords and spears which
cut through Khubayb's body.
The Quraysh returned to Makkah and in the eventful days that followed
forgot Khubayb and hisdeath. But Khubayb was never absent from the
thoughts of Said, now approaching manhood. Said would see him inhis
dreams while asleep and he would picture Khubayb in front of him
praying his two rakaats calm and contented, before the wooden cross.
And he would hear the reverberation of Khubayb's voice as he prayed
forthe punishment of the Quraysh. He would become afraid that a
thunderbolt from the sky or some calamity would strike him.
Khubayb, by his death, had taught Said what he did not realize
before--that real life was faith and conviction and struggle in the
path of faith, even until death. He taught him also that faith which
is deeply ingrained in a person works wonders and performs miracles.He
taught him something else too, that the man who is loved by his
companions with such a love as Khubayb's could only be a prophet with
Divine support.
Thus was Said's heart opened to Islam. He stood up in the assembly of
the Quraysh and announced that he was Rex from their sins and burdens.
He renounced their idols and their superstitions and proclaimed
hisentry into the religion of God.
Said ibn Aamir migrated to Madinah and attached himself tothe Prophet,
may the peace and blessings of God be upon him. He took part with the
Prophet inthe battle of Khaybar and other engagements thereafter.
After the Prophet passed away to the protection of his Lord, Said
continued active service under his two successors, Abu Bakr and Umar.
He lived the unique and exemplary life of the believer who has
purchased the Hereafter with this world. He sought the pleasure and
blessings of God above selfish desires and bodily pleasures.
Both Abu Bakr an(l Umar knew Said well for his honesty and piety. They
would listen to whatever he had to say and follow his advice. Said
once came to Umar at the beginning of his caliphate and said.
"I advise you to fear God in dealing with people and do not fear
people in your relationship with God. Let not your actions deviate
from your words for the best of speech is that which it confirmed by
action. Consider those who have been appointed over the affairs of
Muslims, far and near. Like for them what you like for yourself and
your family and dislike for them whatyou would dislike for yourself
and your family. Surmount any obstacles to attain the truth anddo not
tear the criticisms of those who criticize in matters prescribed by
God.
"Who can measure up to this, Said?" asked Umar. "A man like yourself
from among those whom God has appointed over the affairs of the Ummah
of Muhammad and who feels responsible to God alone," replied Said.
"Said," he said, "I appoint you tobe governor of Homs (in
Syria).""Umar," pleaded Said, "I entreat you by God, do not cause me
to go astray by making me concerned with worldly affairs."
Umar became angry and said,"You have placed the responsibility of the
caliphate onme and now you forsake me.""By God. I shall not forsake
you,"Said quickly responded.
Umar appointed him as governor of Homs and offered him a gratuity.
"What shall I do with it, O Amir al Mumineen?" asked Said. "The
stipend from the have al-mal will be more than enough for my needs."
With this, he proceeded to Homs.
Not long afterwards, a delegation from Homs made up of people in whom
Umar had confidence came to visit him in Madinah. He requested them to
write the names of the poor among them so he could relieve their
needs. They prepared a list from him in which the name Said ibn Aamir
appeared.
"Who is this Said ibn Aamir?" asked Umar
"Our amir" they replied.
"Your amir is poor?" said Umar, puzzled.
"Yes," they affirmed, "By God, several days go by without a fire being
lit in his house."
Umar was greatly moved and wept. He got a thousand diners, put it in a
purse and said,"Convey my greetings to him and tell him that the Amir
al Mumineen has sent this money to help him look after his needs."
The delegation came to Said with the purse. When he found that it
contained money, he began to push it away from him,saying, "From God
we are and toHim we shall certainly return."
He said it in such a way as if some misfortune had descendedon him.
His alarmed wife hurriedto him and asked, "What's the matter, Said?
Has the Khalifah died~"
"Something greater than that."
"Have the Muslims been defeated in a battle?"
"Something greater than that. The world has come upon me tocorrupt my
hereafter and create disorder in my house. "
"Then get rid of it," said she, notknowing anything about the diners.
"Will you help me in this?" he asked.
She agreed. He took the diners, put them in bags and distributed them
to the Muslim poor.
Not long afterwards, Umar ibn al-Khattab went to Syria to examine
conditions there. Whenhe arrived at Homs which was called little Kufah
because, like Kufah, its inhabitants complained a lot about their
leaders, he asked what they thought of their Amir. They complained
about him mentioning four of his actions each one more serious than
the other.
"I shall bring you and him together," Umar promised. "AndI pray to God
that my opinion about him would not be damaged. I used to have great
confidence in him."
When the meeting was convened, Umar asked what complaints they had against him.
"He only comes out to us when the sun is already high," they said.
"What do you have to say to that, Said?" asked Umar.
Said was silent for a moment, then said, "By God, I really didn'twant
to say this but there seemsto be no way out. My family doesnot have a
home help so I get upevery morning and prepare dough for bread. I wait
a little until it rises and then bake for them. I then make wudu and
go out to the people."
"What's your other complaint?" asked Umar.
"He does not answer anyone at night," they said.
To this Said reluctantly said, "By God, I really wouldn't have liked
to disclose this also but I have left the day for them and the night
for God, Great and Sublimeis He."
"And what's your other complaint about him?" asked Umar.
"He does not come out to us from one day in every month," they said.
To this Said replied, "I do not have a home help, O Amir al-Mumineen
and I do not have any clothes except what's on me. This I wash once a
month and I wait for it to dry. Then I goout in the later part of the
day."
"Any other complaint about him?" asked Umar.
"From time to time, he blacks out in meetings," they said.
To this Said replied, "I witnessedthe killing of Khubayb ibn Adiy when
I was a mushrik. I saw theQuraysh cutting him and saying,"Would you
like Muhammad to be in your place?" to which Khubayb replied, "I would
not wish to be safe and secure among my family while a thorn hurts
Muhammad." By God, whenever I remember that day and how I failed to
come to his aid, I only think that God would not forgive me and I
black out."
Thereupon Umar said, "Praise beto God. My impression of him has not
been tainted." He later sent a thousand diners to Said to help him
out. When his wife saw the amount she said."Praise be to God Who has
enriched us out of your service. Buy some provisions for us and get us
a home help."
"Is there any way of spending it better?" asked Said. "Let us spend it
on whoever comes to us and we would get somethingbetter for it by thus
dedicating itto God." "That will be better," she agreed.
He put the diners into small bags and said to a member of his family,
"Take this to the widow of so and so, and the orphans of that person,
to the needy in that family and to the indigent of the family of that
person."
Said ibn Aamir al-Jumahi was indeed one of those who deny themselves
even when they are afflicted with severe poverty.
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A new Muslimah is asking about problemsin her marriage
Im worried if my marriage is valid, the ceremony was in english but
the witnesses did Notunderstand english!(i even stopped the wedding
but was told one was an imam, one hafiz!but not english speaking!)
2)the mahr was not given(and i didnt agree to delay)
3)the marriage was not properly consumated we found out on wedding
night that he has "retarded ejaculation" (this means no chance of
children or real satisfaction)
4) 2 days after marriage he left to do 40 days dower with tablighi
jamaat i only had 1 fone call, to me this is not howto look after your
family and how can you pay to do dower but not pay mahr? help i am a
convert and need some advice please!
the appointed wali also conducted the ceremony and is my husbands
friend. as i am revert i dont have family for maharam. i am doing so
much dua but feel ashamed and embarrassed .
Praise be to Allaah.
Firstly:
We ask Allah to make yousteadfast in adhering to His religion and to guide you.
We are happy to hear of your coming to Islam andemerging from the
darkness of kufr to the light of faith.
"Say: 'In the Bounty of Allah, and in His Mercy (i.e. Islam and the
Quran);-therein let them rejoice.'That is better than what (the
wealth) they amass"
[Yoonus 10:58].
Secondly:
Having witnesses to the marriage contract is one of the conditions of
it being valid, but announcing the marriagedoes away with the needfor
witnesses, because it serves the same purpose and more. See the answer
to question no. 112112 .
Thirdly:
The marriage contract is valid if done in a language other than
Arabic, but it is stipulatedthat the witnesses shouldknow that
language, because the witness is going to bear witness to what he
hears; if he cannot understand anything, his witnessing is not valid.
But announcing the marriage does away withthe need for witnesses
asstated above. So if the marriage was announcedand become known among
a number of Muslims, then the marriage is valid.
Fourthly:
If the marriage contract was done without statingthe mahr, then it is
valid. In that case the woman isentitled to a mahr like that of her
peers (other women like her).
It says in al-Mawsoo'ah al-Fiqhiyyah (39/151): The mahr is obligatory
in all marriages, because Allah, may He be exacted, says
(interpretation of the meaning):
"All others are lawful, provided you seek (them in marriage) with Mahr
(bridal money given by the husband to his wife at the time of
marriage) from your property"
[an-Nisa' 4:24].
So the permissibility of marriage is connected to it, although
mentioning the mahr in the marriagecontract is not a condition of the
marriage being valid. So it is permissible to do the marriage contract
without naming the mahr, according to the consensus of the fuqaha'.
See also the answer to question no. 111127
Fifthly:
It is not valid for a woman to get married without a guardian, because
the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: "There is
no (valid) marriage without a guardian."
Narrated by Abu Dawood,2085 and others; classed as saheeh by
al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood.
If there is no guardian present or he is not qualified to be the
woman's guardian, then guardianship with regard to her marriage passes
to the ruler or the one who acts on his behalf. If there is no Muslim
ruler either, the director of the Islamic Centre, the imam of the
mosque or one of the scholars may act as her guardian in marriage. If
none of these are available, then a Muslim of good character may act
as her guardian in marriage with her permission.
The scholars of the Standing Committee for Issuing Fatwas said:
If the woman does not have a Muslim guardian, whether he is a relative
or otherwise, then the director of the Islamic Centre in your country
may act as her guardian in marriage, because he takes the guardian's
place in cases such as this. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah
be upon him) said: "The ruler is the guardianof the one who has no
guardian." The head of the Islamic Centre has authority in his
locality, because there are no Muslim judges in that locality. End
quote.
Fataawa al-Lajnah ad-Daa'imah, 3/387
What appears to be the case is that your marriage is valid, because
this man who did the marriage contractacted as your guardian for the
purpose of the marriage contract, as youdid not have a guardian.
But it would have been better had the marriage been performed by the
director of the Islamic Centre in your city.
For more information please see the answer to question no. 48992
Sixthly:
Jamaa'at at-Tabligh is an Islamic organisation that is prominent and
active in the Islamic field and it has done a lot of good work in
calling people to Allah, but there are some points to be noted with
regard to matters of 'aqeedah (belief), ideology and level of
scholarship. For information on that, please see the answer to
questions no. 8674 , 39349 , 47431
Going out with them and leaving you during the first days of your
marriage is something that your husband shouldnot have done.
But it is essential to think positively of him; his going out with
them twodays after getting married indicates that the man is eager to
call people to Allah.
Seventhly:
Having a wedding party is not a condition of the marriage being valid.
Whether it is done correctly or otherwise makes no difference to the
validity of the marriage. But it is essential to make it free of evils
that are all too common in wedding parties, such as indecent songs,
music, free mixing,showing of adornment and so on.
Eighthly:
The fact that your husband suffers from problems in ejaculation or
that the possibility of having children from himis low, and that
sexual satisfaction is also low are all problems that can be treated
by going to a specialist doctor.
We advise you to be patient, careful and wise in making decisions. You
are in a situation in which it might not be appropriate at all to
think of leaving him. If it is possible for the imam of the mosque who
was present at your wedding or another trustworthy Muslim who is known
to be knowledgeable to intermediate with your husband and advise him
of his duty to treat his wife kindly and take careof her rights, that
may bea good idea.
We ask Allah, may He be exalted, to reconcile between you and set
things straight between you.
And Allah knows best.
the witnesses did Notunderstand english!(i even stopped the wedding
but was told one was an imam, one hafiz!but not english speaking!)
2)the mahr was not given(and i didnt agree to delay)
3)the marriage was not properly consumated we found out on wedding
night that he has "retarded ejaculation" (this means no chance of
children or real satisfaction)
4) 2 days after marriage he left to do 40 days dower with tablighi
jamaat i only had 1 fone call, to me this is not howto look after your
family and how can you pay to do dower but not pay mahr? help i am a
convert and need some advice please!
the appointed wali also conducted the ceremony and is my husbands
friend. as i am revert i dont have family for maharam. i am doing so
much dua but feel ashamed and embarrassed .
Praise be to Allaah.
Firstly:
We ask Allah to make yousteadfast in adhering to His religion and to guide you.
We are happy to hear of your coming to Islam andemerging from the
darkness of kufr to the light of faith.
"Say: 'In the Bounty of Allah, and in His Mercy (i.e. Islam and the
Quran);-therein let them rejoice.'That is better than what (the
wealth) they amass"
[Yoonus 10:58].
Secondly:
Having witnesses to the marriage contract is one of the conditions of
it being valid, but announcing the marriagedoes away with the needfor
witnesses, because it serves the same purpose and more. See the answer
to question no. 112112 .
Thirdly:
The marriage contract is valid if done in a language other than
Arabic, but it is stipulatedthat the witnesses shouldknow that
language, because the witness is going to bear witness to what he
hears; if he cannot understand anything, his witnessing is not valid.
But announcing the marriage does away withthe need for witnesses
asstated above. So if the marriage was announcedand become known among
a number of Muslims, then the marriage is valid.
Fourthly:
If the marriage contract was done without statingthe mahr, then it is
valid. In that case the woman isentitled to a mahr like that of her
peers (other women like her).
It says in al-Mawsoo'ah al-Fiqhiyyah (39/151): The mahr is obligatory
in all marriages, because Allah, may He be exacted, says
(interpretation of the meaning):
"All others are lawful, provided you seek (them in marriage) with Mahr
(bridal money given by the husband to his wife at the time of
marriage) from your property"
[an-Nisa' 4:24].
So the permissibility of marriage is connected to it, although
mentioning the mahr in the marriagecontract is not a condition of the
marriage being valid. So it is permissible to do the marriage contract
without naming the mahr, according to the consensus of the fuqaha'.
See also the answer to question no. 111127
Fifthly:
It is not valid for a woman to get married without a guardian, because
the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: "There is
no (valid) marriage without a guardian."
Narrated by Abu Dawood,2085 and others; classed as saheeh by
al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood.
If there is no guardian present or he is not qualified to be the
woman's guardian, then guardianship with regard to her marriage passes
to the ruler or the one who acts on his behalf. If there is no Muslim
ruler either, the director of the Islamic Centre, the imam of the
mosque or one of the scholars may act as her guardian in marriage. If
none of these are available, then a Muslim of good character may act
as her guardian in marriage with her permission.
The scholars of the Standing Committee for Issuing Fatwas said:
If the woman does not have a Muslim guardian, whether he is a relative
or otherwise, then the director of the Islamic Centre in your country
may act as her guardian in marriage, because he takes the guardian's
place in cases such as this. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah
be upon him) said: "The ruler is the guardianof the one who has no
guardian." The head of the Islamic Centre has authority in his
locality, because there are no Muslim judges in that locality. End
quote.
Fataawa al-Lajnah ad-Daa'imah, 3/387
What appears to be the case is that your marriage is valid, because
this man who did the marriage contractacted as your guardian for the
purpose of the marriage contract, as youdid not have a guardian.
But it would have been better had the marriage been performed by the
director of the Islamic Centre in your city.
For more information please see the answer to question no. 48992
Sixthly:
Jamaa'at at-Tabligh is an Islamic organisation that is prominent and
active in the Islamic field and it has done a lot of good work in
calling people to Allah, but there are some points to be noted with
regard to matters of 'aqeedah (belief), ideology and level of
scholarship. For information on that, please see the answer to
questions no. 8674 , 39349 , 47431
Going out with them and leaving you during the first days of your
marriage is something that your husband shouldnot have done.
But it is essential to think positively of him; his going out with
them twodays after getting married indicates that the man is eager to
call people to Allah.
Seventhly:
Having a wedding party is not a condition of the marriage being valid.
Whether it is done correctly or otherwise makes no difference to the
validity of the marriage. But it is essential to make it free of evils
that are all too common in wedding parties, such as indecent songs,
music, free mixing,showing of adornment and so on.
Eighthly:
The fact that your husband suffers from problems in ejaculation or
that the possibility of having children from himis low, and that
sexual satisfaction is also low are all problems that can be treated
by going to a specialist doctor.
We advise you to be patient, careful and wise in making decisions. You
are in a situation in which it might not be appropriate at all to
think of leaving him. If it is possible for the imam of the mosque who
was present at your wedding or another trustworthy Muslim who is known
to be knowledgeable to intermediate with your husband and advise him
of his duty to treat his wife kindly and take careof her rights, that
may bea good idea.
We ask Allah, may He be exalted, to reconcile between you and set
things straight between you.
And Allah knows best.
Is there a set age for marriage in Islam?
I would like to know whether there is a set age for marriage in
Islamfor men and women? I hope you can explain with reference to the
Qur'aan and saheeh hadeeths.
Praise be to Allaah.
Firstly:
Islam does not give a specific age for marriage,either for the husband
orfor the wife. Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the
meaning):
"And for such of your women as despair of menstruation, if ye doubt,
their period (of waiting) shall be three months, along with thosewho
have it not"
[al-Talaaq 65:4].
Al-Sa'di (may Allah have mercy on him) said: "along with those who
have it [menses] not" means minors, those whohave not yet started to
menstruate. Adult women who have never menstruated at all are like
those who "despair of menstruation" (i.e., have passed
menopause);their 'iddah is three months. End quote.
Tafseer al-Sa'di, p. 870
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) married
'Aa'ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) when she was six years old
and the marriage was consummated when she was nine years old. Narrated
by al-Bukhaari (4840) and Muslim (1422).
Ibn Qudaamah (may Allahhave mercy on him) said in al-Sharh al-Kabeer, 7/386:
With regard to females, the father may give his minor, virgin daughter
who has not yet reached the age of nine in marriage, and there is
nodifference of opinion concerning that, if he gives her in marriage
to someone who is compatible. Ibn al-Mundhir said: All of those
scholars from whom we acquired knowledge unanimously agreed that it is
permissible for a father to give his minor daughter in marriage if he
arranges her to someone who is compatible, and it is permissible for
him to do that even if she is reluctant. End quote.
Secondly:
No one may give a minor daughter in marriage except her father
according to the view of Maalik and Ahmad. This was also the view of
al-Shaafa'i, but he regarded the grandfather as being likethe father
in that regard. Abu Haneefah said – and it was also narrated from
Ahmad – that it is permissible for a guardian other than the father to
give (the minor girl) in marriage, but the more correct view is the
former one.
See: al-Mughni, 7/33
Thirdly:
The father should not give a minor daughter in marriage except in a
casewhere he thinks it is in her best interests. Just as he may only
dispose of her wealth in that which is in her best interests, the same
applies with regard to arranging her marriage. Islam only permits that
to the Muslim father who is pious and pays proper attention to the
best interests of his children, and who understands very well that he
is a shepherd and that he is responsible for his flock.
Ibn Wahb narrated that Maalik said, with regard to a man arranging a
marriage for an orphan girl under his care: If he thinks that (the
husband)is a man of virtue, righteousness and wisdom, it is
permissible for him to do that.
Ahkaam al-Qur'aan by al-Jassaas, 2/342
Fourthly:
A man should not consummate marriage with his young bride until she is
physically ableto bear intercourse. This varies from one time, place
and environment to another.
What young men and guardians of girls should do is hasten to arrange
marriages, so as to guardchastity and protect honour, and so as to
attain the great purposesfor which Allah ordained marriage.
And Allah knows best.
Islamfor men and women? I hope you can explain with reference to the
Qur'aan and saheeh hadeeths.
Praise be to Allaah.
Firstly:
Islam does not give a specific age for marriage,either for the husband
orfor the wife. Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the
meaning):
"And for such of your women as despair of menstruation, if ye doubt,
their period (of waiting) shall be three months, along with thosewho
have it not"
[al-Talaaq 65:4].
Al-Sa'di (may Allah have mercy on him) said: "along with those who
have it [menses] not" means minors, those whohave not yet started to
menstruate. Adult women who have never menstruated at all are like
those who "despair of menstruation" (i.e., have passed
menopause);their 'iddah is three months. End quote.
Tafseer al-Sa'di, p. 870
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) married
'Aa'ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) when she was six years old
and the marriage was consummated when she was nine years old. Narrated
by al-Bukhaari (4840) and Muslim (1422).
Ibn Qudaamah (may Allahhave mercy on him) said in al-Sharh al-Kabeer, 7/386:
With regard to females, the father may give his minor, virgin daughter
who has not yet reached the age of nine in marriage, and there is
nodifference of opinion concerning that, if he gives her in marriage
to someone who is compatible. Ibn al-Mundhir said: All of those
scholars from whom we acquired knowledge unanimously agreed that it is
permissible for a father to give his minor daughter in marriage if he
arranges her to someone who is compatible, and it is permissible for
him to do that even if she is reluctant. End quote.
Secondly:
No one may give a minor daughter in marriage except her father
according to the view of Maalik and Ahmad. This was also the view of
al-Shaafa'i, but he regarded the grandfather as being likethe father
in that regard. Abu Haneefah said – and it was also narrated from
Ahmad – that it is permissible for a guardian other than the father to
give (the minor girl) in marriage, but the more correct view is the
former one.
See: al-Mughni, 7/33
Thirdly:
The father should not give a minor daughter in marriage except in a
casewhere he thinks it is in her best interests. Just as he may only
dispose of her wealth in that which is in her best interests, the same
applies with regard to arranging her marriage. Islam only permits that
to the Muslim father who is pious and pays proper attention to the
best interests of his children, and who understands very well that he
is a shepherd and that he is responsible for his flock.
Ibn Wahb narrated that Maalik said, with regard to a man arranging a
marriage for an orphan girl under his care: If he thinks that (the
husband)is a man of virtue, righteousness and wisdom, it is
permissible for him to do that.
Ahkaam al-Qur'aan by al-Jassaas, 2/342
Fourthly:
A man should not consummate marriage with his young bride until she is
physically ableto bear intercourse. This varies from one time, place
and environment to another.
What young men and guardians of girls should do is hasten to arrange
marriages, so as to guardchastity and protect honour, and so as to
attain the great purposesfor which Allah ordained marriage.
And Allah knows best.
The Concept of Brotherhood
Another fundamental element in the value system of Islam is the value
of human brotherhood. This value also is founded on the same
principles which have been discussed in connection with freedomand
equality. Besides those foregoing principles, human brotherhood in
Islam is based on an unshakable belief in the Oneness and Universality
of God the worshipped, the unity of mankind the worshippers, and the
unity of religion the medium of worship. For the Muslim, God is One,
Eternal and Universal. He is the Creator of all men, the Provider for
all men, the Judge of all men, and the Lord over all men. To Him,
social status, national supermanship, and racial origin are
insignificant. Before Him,all men are equal and brothers of one
another.
The Muslim believes in the unity of mankind with regard to the
sourceof creation, the original parentage, and the final destiny. The
source of creation is God Himself. The original common parentage is
that of Adam and Eve. To this first parentage, every human being
belongs and of it he partakes. As for the final destiny, there is no
doubt in the Muslim's mind that it will be to God, the Creator, to
Whom all men shall return.
The Muslim believes in the unity of God's religion. This means that
God does not confine His religion or favors to any particular nation,
race, orage. It further means thatthere can be no contradiction or
fundamental differences in the Religion of God. When all this is
interpreted properly, it will leave no ground for pretended supremacy
or presumptuous exclusivity. And when it isimparted into the
humanmind, it will provide man with a clear concept and a solid basis
of human brotherhood. Because the Muslim believes in the Oneness of
God, the unity of mankind, and the unity of religion, he believes in
all the Messengers and Revelations of God without discrimination.
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of human brotherhood. This value also is founded on the same
principles which have been discussed in connection with freedomand
equality. Besides those foregoing principles, human brotherhood in
Islam is based on an unshakable belief in the Oneness and Universality
of God the worshipped, the unity of mankind the worshippers, and the
unity of religion the medium of worship. For the Muslim, God is One,
Eternal and Universal. He is the Creator of all men, the Provider for
all men, the Judge of all men, and the Lord over all men. To Him,
social status, national supermanship, and racial origin are
insignificant. Before Him,all men are equal and brothers of one
another.
The Muslim believes in the unity of mankind with regard to the
sourceof creation, the original parentage, and the final destiny. The
source of creation is God Himself. The original common parentage is
that of Adam and Eve. To this first parentage, every human being
belongs and of it he partakes. As for the final destiny, there is no
doubt in the Muslim's mind that it will be to God, the Creator, to
Whom all men shall return.
The Muslim believes in the unity of God's religion. This means that
God does not confine His religion or favors to any particular nation,
race, orage. It further means thatthere can be no contradiction or
fundamental differences in the Religion of God. When all this is
interpreted properly, it will leave no ground for pretended supremacy
or presumptuous exclusivity. And when it isimparted into the
humanmind, it will provide man with a clear concept and a solid basis
of human brotherhood. Because the Muslim believes in the Oneness of
God, the unity of mankind, and the unity of religion, he believes in
all the Messengers and Revelations of God without discrimination.
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And Allah Knows the Best!
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