True stories - Desperate in love

:-)Hi, I am here today to share with you my story, Ihave been
searching for love since I was a kid, I am now 29 years and I was not
good in relationship, I am now onmy bed writing to you and crying,
feeling defeated and angry, wishi can do something to hurt the one i
loved just to make him feel what i feel now.
I met this guy last year, and he touched my heart very deeply. I was
afraid to go on with him because i do not want to be hurt again.
He kept telling me that i wont regret my life with him, we had so much
fun and truly loved each other, we had the best year together. He was
afraid to leave him, because he kept telling me how much he loves me.
One day he told me that he had a chance to leave the country for a job
and he will be away for a long time, he told me to wait for him,
because he loves me and he will never love anyone but me.
We said goodbye i told him that i love him and illbe waiting for him
to getmarried and to live happily ever after.
after one month he changed, he send me a pic of him on viber and i was
shocked that also sent it to another girl sheused to work with him. I
have asked him y he sent it, he told me by mistake in that time i felt
that he is cheating on me and all the promises he made to me was a big
lie, we had a fight, we did not contact for almost 12 days, I sent him
and told him if this is a break up, he text me back and told me that
he wants to be alone and wants to focus more in his new work and we
can be just friends, when i got this i was angry and sad, i do not
know what to do, I still in shock i wish i can chim again and tell him
how much i really love him and i can forget the old days we have
spend.
I wish him back because ineed him so much.

True stories - Unrequited love or soemthing else?

:-)This could be along story and to someone who willlisten I can go
through everything but let's cut tothe chase. When I was 14 I met a
guy. He was incredible and 3 years older than me. I knew I didn't have
a chance but when I was 15 yrs old he started showing interest.
By the age of 16 I was dating him pretty steady. At the age of 17 with
alotof turmoil in my life I left the state and moved. I had contact
with him butit became bitter. I married, then divorced after 17 years.
I found the guy on a website andleft amessage. He contacted me a few
days later and said he was the ne I left the message for. Now he talks
about pictures he has of me when I was younger and how cute I was.
Well some of his comments lead me to beleive that 23 years after the
fact he's still gotit bad for me. It could possibly love and he's
never gotten over me. He's not a man of many words so soemtimes it's
hard to comprehend if I'm imagining things or I'm reading just what he
means. Help!!!

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The Malaaikah (Angels) of Allah (S.W.T)

1. Angels are the creationof Allah Ta'ala, made from "Noor" (Light).
2. Angels are "Masoom" (sinless). They are purefrom all types of small
and large sins.
3. Malaa'ikah are obedient servants of Allah Ta'ala. They do what
Allah Ta'ala commands them.
4. They are countless in number. Only Allah Ta'ala knows how many
Angels there are.Allah Ta'ala has also shown their exact numbers to
his special servants like the Ambiya (Prophets) and Awliya (Saints).
5. Angels are neither male nor female.
6. They have been given the strength by Allah Ta'ala to turn into
whatever shape or form they wish, whether it be of a human or of
another creation.
7. Allah Ta'ala has given the Malaa'ikah many types of duties: some
Angels have a fixed duty of taking out the soul, some to give
rain,some have been given the task to create the face of a child in
the mother's womb, some to write the deeds of an individual, writing
our daily actions, attending Islamic functions like Zikr,
Moulood-un-Nabi (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) , Urs Shareef, sending
Durood and Salaams upon our Nabi Muhammad (sallal laahu alaihi
wasallam) , and taking our Durood and Salaams tohim. Some are in the
constant position of Sajdah, Ruku, and Qiyaam and are busy remembering
AlmightyAllah Ta'ala all the time, etc.
8. There is a river in Heaven wherein whenever Jibraeel (alaihis
salaam) submerges his wings and shakes it, small droplets of water
drip from it. From each droplet, an Angel is created. Indeed, one
cannot estimate the droplets of water that drip from the wings of
Hazrat Jibraeel (alaihis salaam) . Why? Simply, because Hazrat
Jibraeel (alaihis salaam) has 600 wings and each wing is so huge that
when it spreads out, it casts a shadow over the entire sky.
9. Hazrat Jibraeel (alaihis salaam) is the Leader of the Angels.
10. The names of the fourfamous Angels are: Hazrat Jibraeel (alaihis
salaam), Hazrat Mikaaeel (alaihis salaam), Hazrat Izraeel (alaihis
salaam), and Hazrat Israfeel (alaihis salaam).
11. The names of a few more Angels are: Kiraaman Khaatibeen,Munkar and
Nakeer, Ridwaan and Maalik.
12. To believe that the Malaa'ikah as "Kadeem" (always have been in
existence or always will be in existence) or to believe them as the
creators is Kufr.
13. The slightest form of insult for an Angel is also Kufr.
14. Some people call their enemies or oppressors as "the Angel of
death". To say such things is not allowed and close to Kufr
(infidelity).
15. To reject the existence of Angels orto say that the strength of
all good isknown as Angels and that there are no suchthings as Angels
are both acts of Kufr.

What is Destiny (Taqdir) ?

1. Within the Knowledge of Allah Ta'ala, He wrote what was going to
happen in the worldand whatever His servants were going todo.
2. Allah Ta'ala wrote good in some people's fate and wrote bad in
another person's fate.
3. He did not make the person helpless by writing this down, but wrote
down what the servant was going to do.
4. An example of this is that if Allah Ta'ala wrote bad for Zaid, then
it was because Heis aware that Zaid is going to do bad, and ifZaid was
to do good, then He would have written good for Zaid, thus His Writing
and His Knowledge did not make any person compelled.
5. After performing bad deeds you should not say that this happened
because it was Allah Ta'ala's will and therefore it was in my destiny,
but all good things are done with the Pleasure of Allah Ta'ala and all
bad deeds are done with the pleasure of one's desires.
6. To believe yourself as totally without will or totally helpless is
a misguided belief. The Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam)
has referred to those who do not believe in Taqdir to be like
fire-worshippers of hisUmmah.
7. It is forbidden to discuss or debate the subject of destiny. A
person should only think that they are not helpless like stones and
therefore cannot do anything according to their will, but actually
Allah Ta'ala has given humans the power to do as they please and the
reward and sin is based upon this power of will. Hazrat Abu Bakr
Siddique and Hazrat Umar-e-Farooq (radi Allahu anhuma) were prohibited
from discussing Taqdir.