"GENERAL ARTICLES"
"BISMILLA HIRRAHMAAN NIRRAHEEM"
WELCOME! - AS'SALAMU ALAIKUM!! ******** ***** *****
[All] praise is [due] to Allah, Lord of the worlds; - Guide us to the straight path
*- -*
* * In this Blog; More Than Ten Thousand(10,000) {Masha Allah} - Most Usefull Articles!, In Various Topics!! :- Read And All Articles & Get Benifite! * Visit :-
*- WHAT ISLAM SAYS -* - Islam is a religion of Mercy, Peace and Blessing. Its teachings emphasize kind hear tedness, help, sympathy, forgiveness, sacrifice, love and care.Qur’an, the Shari’ah and the life of our beloved Prophet (SAW) mirrors this attribute, and it should be reflected in the conduct of a Momin.Islam appreciates those who are kind to their fellow being,and dislikes them who are hard hearted, curt, and hypocrite.Recall that historical moment, when Prophet (SAW) entered Makkah as a conqueror. There was before him a multitude of surrendered enemies, former oppressors and persecutors, who had evicted the Muslims from their homes, deprived them of their belongings, humiliated and intimidated Prophet (SAW) hatched schemes for his murder and tortured and killed his companions. But Prophet (SAW) displayed his usual magnanimity, generosity, and kind heartedness by forgiving all of them and declaring general amnesty...Subhanallah. May Allah help us tailor our life according to the teachings of Islam. (Aameen)./-
"INDIA "- Time in New Delhi -
''HASBUNALLAHU WA NI'MAL WAKEEL'' - ''Allah is Sufficient for us'' + '' All praise is due to Allah. May peace and blessings beupon the Messenger, his household and companions '' (Aameen)
NAJIMUDEEN M
Dua' from Al'Qur'an - for SUCCESS in 'both the worlds': '' Our Lord ! grant us good in this world and good in the hereafter and save us from the torment of the Fire '' [Ameen] - {in Arab} :-> Rabbanaa aatinaa fid-dunyaa hasanatan wafil aakhirati hasanatan waqinaa 'athaaban-naar/- (Surah Al-Baqarah ,verse 201)*--*~
Category - *- About me -* A note for me *-* Aa My Public Album*-* Acts of Worship*-* Ahlesunnat Wal Jamat*-* Asmaul husna*-* Belief in the Last Day*-* Between man and wife*-* Bible and Quran*-* Bioghraphy*-* Commentary on Hadeeth*-* Conditions of Marriage*-* Da'eef (weak) hadeeths*-* Darwinism*-* Dating in Islam*-* Description of the Prayer*-* Diary of mine*-* Discover Islam*-* Dought & clear*-* Duas*-* Eid Prayer*-* Engagment*-* Family*-* Family & Society*-* family Articles*-* Family Issues*-* Fasting*-* Fathwa*-* Fiqh*-* For children*-* Gender differences*-* General*-* General Dought & clear*-* General hadeeths*-* General History*-* Hadees*-* Hajj*-* Hajj & Umrah*-* Hazrat Mahdi (pbuh)*-* Health*-* Health and Fitness*-* Highlights*-* Hijaab*-* Holiday Prayer*-* I'tikaaf*-* Imp of Islamic Months*-* Innovations in Religion and Worship*-* Islamic Article*-* Islamic History*-* Islamic history and biography*-* Islamic Months*-* Islamic story*-* Issues of fasting*-* Jannah: Heaven*-* jokes*-* Just know this*-* Kind Treatment of Spouses*-* Links*-* Making Up Missed Prayers*-* Manners of Greeting with Salaam*-* Marital Life*-* Marriage in Islam*-* Menstruation and Post-Natal bleeding*-* Miracles of Quran*-* Moral stories*-* Names and Attributes of Allaah*-* Never Forget*-* News*-* Night Prayer*-* Notes*-* Other*-* Personal*-* Personalities*-* Pilgrimage*-* Plural marriage*-* Prayer*-* Prayers on various occasions*-* Principles of Fiqh*-* Qanoon e Shariat*-* Qur'an*-* Qur'an Related*-* Quraanic Exegesis*-* Ramadan Articles*-* Ramadan File*-* Ramadhan ul Mubarak*-* Sacrifices*-* Saheeh (sound) hadeeths*-* Schools of Thought and Sects*-* Seerah of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh)*-* Sex in Islam*-* Sharia and Islam*-* Shirk and its different forms*-* Sms, jokes, tips*-* Social Concerns*-* Soul Purification*-* Story*-* Sufi - sufi path*-* Supplication*-* Taraaweeh prayers*-* The book of Prayer*-* Tips & Tricks*-* Tourist Place*-* Trust (amaanah) in Islam*-* Welcome to Islam*-* Women in Ramadaan*-* Women site*-* Women Who are Forbidden for Marriage*-* Womens Work*-* Youth*-* Zakath*-*
*- Our Nabi' (s.a.w) Most Like this Dua' -*
"Allahumma Salli'Alaa Muhammadin Wa 'Alaa'Aali Muhammadin, kamaa Sallayta 'Alaa' Ibraheema wa 'Alaa 'Aali 'Ibraheema, 'Innaka Hameedun Majeed. Allahumma Baarik'Alaa Muhammadin Wa 'Alaa'Aali Muhammadin, kamaa Baarakta 'Alaa' Ibraheema wa 'Alaa 'Aali 'Ibraheema, 'Innaka Hameedun Majeed." ******
"Al Qur'an - first Ayath, came to our Nabi (s.a.w)
"Read! In the name of yourLord Who created. Created man from clinging cells. Read! And your Lord is Most Bountiful. The One Who taught with the Pen. Taught man what he did not know." (Qur'an 96: 1-5) - ~ - ~ - lt;18.may.2012/friday-6.12pm:{IST} ;(Ayatul Kursi Surah Al-Baqarah, Ayah 255/)
*- Al Qur'an's last ayath came to Nabi{s.a.w} -*
Allah states the following: “Thisday have I perfected your religion for you, completed My favour upon you, and have chosen for you Islam as your religion.” [Qur’an 5:3]
Surat alAhzab 40; Says Our Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w) is the final Prophet sent by Allah'
↓TRANSLATE THIS BLOG↓
IndonesiaArabicChinaEnglishSpanishFrenchItalianJapanKoreanHindiRussian
ShareShare

Follow Me

* A Precious DUA' *
Dua' - '' All praise is due to Allah'. May peace and blessings beupon the Messenger, his household and companions '' - - - O Allah, I am Your servant, son of Your servant, son of Your maidservant; my forelock is in Your hand; Your command over me is forever executed and Your decree over me is just; I ask You by every name belonging to You that You have named Yourself with, or revealed in Your book, ortaught to any of Your creation, or have preserved in the knowledge of the unseen with You, that You make the Qur'an thelife of my heart and the light of my breast, and a departure for my sorrow and a release from my anxiety.
- Tamil -- Urdu -- Kannada -- Telugu --*- ShareShare
**
ShareShare - -*-
tandapanahkebawah.gifbabby-gif-240-240-0-24000.giftandapanahkebawah.gif400692269-4317571d76.jpeg wall-paper.gif story.gif
*: ::->
*

Saturday, November 17, 2012

The Sacred Month of Muharram

Muharram is the month with which the Muslims begin their lunar
(Hegira) Calendar. It is one of the four sanctified months about which
the Holy Quran Says (what means): {Indeed, the number of months with
Allah is twelve [lunar] months in the register of Allah [from] the day
Hecreated the heavens and the earth; of these, four are sacred…}
[Quran 9: 36]
These four months, according to the authentic traditions (Prophetic
narrations), are Thul-Qi'dah, Thul-Hijjah, Muharram and Rajab. All the
commentators of the Noble Quran are unanimous on this point, because
the Noble Prophet declared in his sermon on theoccasion of his last
Hajj (pilgrimage to Makkah): "One yearconsists of twelve months, of
which four are sanctified months,three of them are in sequence;
Thul-Qi'dah, Thul-Hijjah, Muharram, and the fourth is Rajab."
The specific mention of these four months does not mean that any other
month has no sanctity, because the month of Ramadhaan is admittedly
the most sanctified month in the year. But these four months
werespecifically termed as sanctified months for the simple reason
that even the pagans of Makkah accepted their sanctity.
The sanctity of these four monthswas established right from the day
Allaah created the universe. Since the Pagans of Makkah attributed
themselves to Ibraaheem (Abraham) who observed the sanctity of these
months, they also observed the sanctity of these four months and
despite their frequent tribal battles, they held it unlawful to fight
in these months.
In Islam, the sanctity of these months was upheld and the Holy Quran
referred to them as the"sanctified months". Muharram has certain other
characteristics special to it, which are stated below:
Fasting during the month:
The Noble Prophet said: 'The best fasts after the fasts of Ramadhaan
are those of the month of Muharram."
Although the fasts of the month of Muharram are not obligatory, yet
one who fasts in these days out of his own will is entitled to agreat
reward by Allaah Almighty. The Hadeeth cited above signifies that the
fasts of the month of Muharram are most rewardable ones among the
voluntary fasts. It does not mean that the award promised for fasts of
Muharram can be achieved only by fasting for the whole month. On the
contrary, each fast during this month has merit. Therefore, one should
avail of this opportunity as much as he can.
The day of 'Aashooraa':
Although Muharram is a sanctified month as a whole, yet, the 10th day
of Muharram is the most sacred among all its days. The day is named
'Aashooraa'. According to Ibn 'Abbaas the Prophet when he migrated
toMadeenah, found that the Jews ofMadeenah used to fast on the 10th
day of Muharram. They said that it was the day on which Prophet Moosa
(Moses) and his followers crossed the Red Sea miraculously and the
Pharaoh was drowned in its waters. On hearing this from the Jews, the
Prophet said, "We are worthier of Moosa than you," anddirected the
Muslims to fast on the day of 'Aashooraa' . [Abu Daawood]
It is also reported in a number of authentic traditions that in the
beginning, fasting on the day of 'Aashooraa' was obligatory for the
Muslims. It was later that the fasts of Ramadhaan were made obligatory
and the fast on the day of 'Aashooraa' was made optional. 'Aa'ishah
said: "When the Prophet came to Madeenah, he fasted on the day of
'Aashooraa' and directed the people to do likewise. But when the fasts
of Ramadhaan were made obligatory, the obligation of fasting was
confined to Ramadhaan and the obligatory nature of the fast of
'Aashooraa' was abandoned. Whoever so desires should fast on it and
any other who so likes can avoid fasting on it." [Abu Daawood]
However, the Prophet used tofast on the day of 'Aashooraa' even after
the fasting in Ramadhaan was made obligatory. Abdullaah Ibn Moosa
reports that the Prophet preferred the fast of 'Aashooraa' on the
fasts of other days and preferred the fasts of Ramadhaanon the fast of
'Aashooraa'. [Al-Bukhaari and Muslim]
Misconceptions and Innovations:
However, there are some legendsand misconceptions with regard to
'Aashooraa' that have managed to find their way into the minds of the
unlearned, but have no support of authentic Islamic sources, some very
common of them are these:
· This is the day on which Aadam was created.
· This is the day when Ibraaheem was born.
· This is the day when Allaah accepted the repentance of Aadam .
· This is the day when Doomsday will take place. Whoever takes a bath
on the day of 'Aashooraa' will never get ill.
All these and other similar whimsand fancies are totally baseless and
the traditions referred to in this respect are not worthy of any
credit. Some people take it asSunnah (established recommended
practice) to prepare a particular type of meal on the day of
'Aashooraa'. This practice, too, has no basis in the authentic Islamic
sources.
Some other people attribute the sanctity of 'Aashooraa' to the
martyrdom of Al-Hussayn . Nodoubt, the martyrdom of Al-Hussayn is one
of the mosttragic episodes of our history. Yet, the sanctity of
'Aashooraa' cannot be ascribed to this event for the simple reason
that the sanctity of 'Aashooraa' was established during the days of
the Prophet much earlier than the birth of Al-Hussayn . On the
contrary, it is one of the merits of Al-Hussayn that his martyrdom
took place on this blessed day.
Another misconception about themonth of Muharram is that it is an evil
or unlucky month, for Al-Hussayn was killed in it. It is for this
misconception that somepeople avoid holding marriage ceremonies in the
month of Muharram. This is again a baseless concept, which is contrary
to the teachings of the Holy Quran and the Sunnah (Prophetic
Tradition). If the deathof an eminent person on a particular day
renders that day unlucky for all times to come, one can hardly find a
day of the year free from this bad luck because every day is
associated with the demise of some eminent person. The Holy Quran and
the Sunnah of the Prophet have liberated us from such superstitious
beliefs.
Lamentations and mourning:
Another wrong practice related to this month is to hold the
lamentation and mourning ceremonies in the memory of martyrdom of
Al-Hussayn . Asmentioned earlier, the event of Karbalaa' is one of the
most tragic events of our history, but the Prophet has forbidden us
from holding the mourning ceremonies on the death of any person. The
people of Pre-Islamic ignorance era used to mourn over their deceased
through loudlamentations, by tearing their clothes and by beating
their cheeks and chests. The Prophet prevented the Muslims from doing
all this and directed them to observe patience by saying"Inna lillaahi
wa inna ilayhi raaji'oon" (To Allaah We belong, and to Him is our
return). A number of authentic narrations are available on the
subject. To quote only one of them: "He is not from us who slaps his
checks,tears his clothes and cries in the manner of the people of
jahiliyyah (Pre-Islamic ignorance)". [Al-Bukhaari]
All the prominent jurists are unanimous on the point that the mourning
of this type is impermissible. Even Al-Hussayn shortly before his
demise, had advised his beloved sister Zaynab not to mourn over
hisdeath in this manner. He said,"My dear sister! I swear upon you
that in case I die you shall not tear your clothes, nor scratch your
face, nor curse anyone for me or pray for your death." (Al-Kaamil, Ibn
Katheer vol. 4 pg. 24)
It is evident from this advice, thatthis type of mourning is condemned
even by the blessed person for the memory of whom these mourning
ceremonies are held. Every Muslim should avoid this practice and abide
by the teachings of the Prophet .

--

- - - - -

And Allah Knows the Best!

- - - - -

Published by :->
M NajimudeeN Bsc- INDIA

¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤

stories LOCKED IN A DARK ROOM CRYING FOR HELP

Im a young women 24 who was in love with a older guy 34.
This story can go on for days im just going to get to it.I have a
son(toddler)and i currently had to move out of where i was staying and
i had no where to go so i moved in with my son\' father.The first two
weeks was good then things started changing he started treating me
like he owned me.Out of seven days in a week he comes home two,if i
say something things get outof hand and he want\'s to fight.
He calls me every name inthe book.I know his cheating on me.But just
recently I learn that i have a heart problem so im scared to really
say any thing to him and foolaround and have a heart attack I have a
son to livefor.
He put me out the house every other week i so scared i need help but
imscared to call the cops ANSWER ME WHAT SHOULD I DO I NEED SOME ONE
TO TALK TO IT GETS DEEPER THAN THIS BUT IT\'S ONLY BUT SO MUCH I CAN
SAY!!!

stories When there is no way out... you start looking for a way in

It is a long story but I wish to present it in 10 lines and I'll try!
Just 5-6 years ago I had a happy marriage with 2 beautiful children.
Then SHE appeared, and turned our life into HELL, but, as it seems,
adultery is something normal these days.
The triangle is obvious!
I can't see a way out of the situation, so obviously I have to seek
away in. But how and where?
My husband doesn't feel well lately. He doesn't want to abandon me
andhe also has twinges of conscience, but he doesn't have the
strengthto leave HER too.
After all, 5-6 years is quitea long time for a relationship. In these
years I've changed both psychically and physically. I became stronger,
more confident in myself, etc. This change was noticed.
Anyway or another HE didn't put an end to his relationship – I
understand him! I myself feel bad when I see his condition. I even
don't know on what stage their affair is and I don't want to know.
The only thing I know forsure is that I need somebody beside me, and
obviously that's not him!
How can I help him and what is the best thing to be done for both of
us? I gave him a great while tolive through his relationship, but this
didn't sort matters out. We have so much that connects us…. and 20
years of marriage!
IS THERE SOMEBODY WHO CAN SHOW ME THE WAY IN?

--

- - - - -

And Allah Knows the Best!

- - - - -

Published by :->
M NajimudeeN Bsc- INDIA

¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤

Asceticism is the Way to be Loved

The Righteous Follow the Way of the Prophets
The righteous follow the way of the Prophet as he was the model
example. 'Ali said, "All goodness is for those who are ascetic in this
worldly life and those who incline to the Hereafter. They are those
who took the land as their rug, its dust as their mattress, its water
as their perfume, the Quran as their slogan, and supplication as their
garment. They completely renounced the worldly life."
Abu Ad-Dardaa' wrote a letterto some of his friends, saying, "I advise
you to fear Allaah, to be ascetic in this worldly life, and to desire
what is with Allaah. If you do so, Allaah will love you for your
desire for what is with Him, and people will love you for leaving
their worldly lives for them. As-Salaamu Alaykum."
'Urwah ibn Az-Zubayr reported that the Mother of the Believers,
'Aa'ishah once received eighty thousand Dirhams from Mu'aawiyah and by
that evening she did not have even a single Dirham left. Her maid said
to her, "Should younot have bought a Dirham's worth of meat for us?"
She replied, "If you had reminded me,I would have done."
Ibn Mas'ood said, "The worldly life is the home of those who have no
home and the wealth of those who have no wealth. The one who has no
knowledge accumulates in it."
When 'Umar reached Ash-Shaam (greater Syria), his soldiers met him
while he was wearing a lower garment, a pair of leather socks and a
turban. He was pulling along his riding animal and walking in puddles.
The soldiers said to him, "O commander of the believers, Will the
soldiers and patriarchs of Ash-Shaam meet you while you are in this
state?" He replied, "Weare people whom Allaah has honored by Islam, so
we will not seek honor in anything else."
A man visited Abu Tharr and looked around at his house and said, "O
Abu Tharr, I do not see any belongings or furniture in your house!" He
replied, "We haveanother house [i.e., his house in Paradise] to which
we send our good belongings." He added, "The owner of the house [i.e.,
Allaah] will not leave us in this house."
'Amr ibn Al-'Aas said in a sermon that he delivered in Egypt, "What a
huge difference there is between your way and the guidance of your
Prophet ! He was the most ascetic of people in this worldly life while
you are the most inclining of people towards it."
'Ali said, "I married Faatimah while we had no bedding but theskin of
a ram that we would sleep on at night and place the fodder for the
camel on it during the day. I had no one to serve mebut her, and she
would get so exhausted that her forelock would fall on the edge of the
bowl when she kneaded."
When Mu'aath ibn Jabal was about to die, he said, "O Allaah, You know
that I did not love this worldly life and longevity in it for the sake
of digging rivers or planting trees [i.e., the sustenance in this
worldly life]. Rather, [I wanted it] for the sake of fasting during
the day, performing voluntary prayers at night, and attending the
assemblies of remembering Allaah, despite them being crowded."
Imaam Ahmad ibn Hanbal mentioned that the best person from the
generation that succeeded that of the Companions of the Prophet
interms of knowledge was Sa'eed ibn Al-Musayyib but the finest in
general was 'Uways Al-Qarni . 'Uways would say, "Take death as a
pillow whenyou go to sleep and put it before your eyes when you are
awake."
Maalik ibn Dinaar said, "A person intends to marry the most beautiful
woman in the district, so she says to him. 'I want garments made of
wool', then she takes away his religion."
Many of the righteous predecessors would refuse to take lawful money
that was offered to them and would say, "We will not take it lest it
ruins our religion."
Hammaad ibn Salamah would open his shop, and if he earned just two
Dirhams, he would close it.
Sa'eed ibn Al-Musayyib wouldtrade in oil, and after his death he left
four hundred Dinaars, saying, "I left them to protect myhonor and
religion."
Sufyaan Ath-Thawri said, "Asceticism in this worldly life is to not
have the hope of a long life, rather it is to eat rough food or wear
rough clothes."
Ash-Shaafi'i also dispraised this worldly life and being attached to it.
Abu Sulaymaan Ad-Daaraani would say, "All that distracts youfrom
Allaah The Almighty, whether family, wealth or children, is a
misfortune."
People Far Better than Us were Deprived of the Pleasures of this Worldly Life
It is enough to know that being ascetic is a part of taking the
Prophet and his companions as examples. This act is perfect reliance
upon Allaah The Almighty and instills contentment in the heart, which
in turn leads to the comfort of this worldly life and the happiness of
the Hereafter. The ascetic person is loved by Allaah The Almighty and
by other people. Therefore, if you have possessions, praise Allaah The
Almighty and do not let your heart be attached to the worldly life.
Likewise, if you are poor, be patient, for people who were better than
you were deprived of the pleasures of this worldly life. Our Prophet
would sleep on amat such that its marks appearedon his body, and he
died while there was no provision on the shelf of 'Aa'ishah except a
handful of barley that she would eat from. If one were to enter
therooms of his wives, his head would touch the ceiling. 'Umar ibn
Al-Khattaab the caliph of the Muslims, once delivered a sermon wearing
a garment that had twelve patches.
* ¤ <a href="http://aydnajimudeen.blogspot.com/?m=0">Click -
for imp. Islamic Articles </a> ¤ * These people were not
deprived of the pleasures of this worldly life because of their
abasement inthe sight of Allaah The Almighty, rather because of the
abasement of the worldly life in His sight, which does not even equal
the weight of a wing of a mosquito; and the two voluntary units of
prayer before Fajr prayer are better than this worldly life and what
it contains. In order for onenot to despair over what has eluded him,
he should not exult in pride over what Allaah The Almighty has given
him. The believer does not become disappointed over being disgraced in
it nor compete with others over its glory, as he has his own concern
and they have other concerns.
Be the slave of Allaah The Almighty at times of hardship and ease, and
at times of activity and suffering. Whether the worldly life
approaches you or turns away from you, its approaching is refraining
and its turning away is approaching. Thebasic rule is that it
approaches you with what you dislike, and when it approaches you with
what you like, this is an exception.

--

- - - - -

And Allah Knows the Best!

- - - - -

Published by :->
M NajimudeeN Bsc- INDIA

¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤ ¤