There is a hadith that states if you make haj properly its as if youve
returned sinless as a child( loose translation) and alhamdulillah i
havemade hajj and inshallah it was proper, but from time to time
during my prayer i remember a sin i have made before haj and i feel
tremendous remorse and i ask for forgiveness. should i be so
remorseful or should ibe more hopeful that i have forgiven and not try
to remember my sins.
Praise be to Allaah.
Firstly:
It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)
said: I heard the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)
say: "Whoever performs Hajj for the sake of Allah and does not utter
any obscene speech or do any evil deed, will go back (free of sin) as
his mother bore him."
Narrated by al-Bukhaari,1449; Muslim, 1350.
Here we should draw attention to two things:
1.
That this is the reward for an accepted Hajj. Whoever does Hajj
usingharaam money, or whose Hajj is not sincerely for the sake of
Allah, may He be exalted,or who utters any obscene speech or does any
evil deeds, his Hajj will not be accepted andhe will not go back as
onthe day his mother bore him.
Ibn 'Abd al-Barr (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
With regard to the accepted Hajj, it was saidthat it is that in which
there is no showing off or seeking reputation, and in which there is
no obscene speech or evil deeds, and it is done with halaal wealth.
Al-Tamheed lima fi'l-Muwatta' min al-Ma'aani wa'l-Asaaneed, 22/39
Some of the scholars said that the Hajj mabroor is that which is
accepted, and the sign of its acceptance is that the person does not
go back to disobeying his Lord, may He be exalted, and that he
restores rights to those who are entitled to them.
See the answer to question no. 26242
2.
Hajj does not mean that obligations such as expiation (kafaarah)
anddebts are waived, as has been explained previously in the answerto
question no. 138630
Secondly:
The Muslim whom his Lord, may He be exalted, honours by enabling him
to perform the rituals of Hajj should be concerned lest his Hajj has
not been accepted from him. This does not mean that he should despair
of his Lord's mercy; rather it is so thathe will not take it for
granted, and so that he will turn to his Lord, mayHe be exalted, with
sincere du'aa', asking that it be accepted from him, and so that he
will focus on doing righteous deeds that willincrease his balance of
good deeds on the Day when he meets his Lord, may He be exalted.
Allah,may He be glorified and exalted, says, describing the believers
(interpretation of the meaning):
"and those who give (their wealth and other possession) whatever they
gave, in a state thattheir hearts are overwhelmed (with the belief)
that they are to be those who return to their Nourisher-Sustainer —
It is these who race for the good deeds, and they are foremost in them
(e.g. offering the compulsory Salat (prayers) in their (early) stated,
fixed times and so on)"
[al-Mu'minoon 23:60-61].
It was narrated that 'Aa'isha, the wife of the Prophet (blessings and
peace of Allah be upon him) said: I asked the Messenger of Allah
(blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) about this verse: "and
those who give (their wealth and other possession) whatever they gave,
in a state thattheir hearts are overwhelmed" [al-Mu'minoon 23:60].
'Aa'ishah said: Are they those who drink alcohol and steal? He said:
No, O daughter of as-Siddeeq; rather they are those who fast, pray and
give charity, fearing that it will not be accepted from them. Those
are the ones who race for the good deeds.
Narrated by at-Tirmidhi, 3175; Ibn Maajah, 4198; classed as saheeh by
al-Albaani in Saheeh at-Tirmidhi
This fear of these believers does not make them despair of the mercy
of their Lord; rather they combine with it hope and positive thinking
of theirLord, may He be glorified and exalted, the hope that He will
reward them and honour them. Two things motivate those believing close
friends ofAllah to fear lest their good deeds not be accepted:
thinking negatively of themselveslest they have not done well, and
their great love for their Lord, may He be glorified and exalted.
Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
If he – i.e. the believer – is afraid, then it is more appropriate for
him to fear that he is not doing good enough and what makes him feel
that he isnot doing good enough is two things:
(i) Seeing his failings and shortcomings
(ii) The sincerity of his love (for Allah), forthe one
who loves sincerely draws close to his Beloved as much as he can,
whilst feeling that he is not doing enough and that he is too
embarrassed to meetHim with his deeds when he feels that He deserves
much more.
Madaarij as-Saalikeen, 2/325
To sum up:
What you have to do is combine two things and do not omit either of them:
1.
Do not think of your sins as being too great in comparison to the
forgiveness and mercy of Allah, may He be exalted. Rather what
thebeliever fears is his shortcomings in repentance and his
shortcomings in doing acts of obedience that expiate sins. So let this
fear of yours motivate you to do more acts of worship and to ask
Allah,may He be glorified and exalted, sincerely to accept your deeds
and make you among those who are close to Him. Beware of despairing of
the mercy of your Lord, may He be glorified and exalted.
2.
Think positively of Allah, may He be glorified and exalted, and hope
for Hisforgiveness, blessing, kindness and mercy that encompasses all
things. So long as you persist in obeying your Lord's commands,
respecting His laws and hastening to obey Him, you should also persist
in thinking positively of Him and that He will accept it from you and
make you steadfast in doing so.
Al-Haafiz Ibn Hajar (may Allah have mercy on him) said, commenting on
the hadeeth qudsi, "Allah, may He be exalted, says: 'I am as My slave
thinks I am'" (agreed upon):
Al-Qurtubi said in al-Mufhim: It was said that what is meant by "as My
slave thinks I am" is thinking that one will receive a response
whenoffering du'aa' (supplication), and thinking that it will be
accepted when one repents, and thinking that one will be forgivenwhen
asking for forgiveness, and thinking that one will berewarded when
doing acts of worship, fulfillingall their conditions and believing
sincerely in Hispromise. He said: that is supported by what he said in
another hadeeth:"Call upon Allah when you are certain of receiving a
response." Hence one should strive hard in praying qiyaam with the
certainty that Allah will accept it and forgive one, because He has
promised that and He does not break His promises. If he believes or
thinks that Allah will not accept it and that it is of no benefit,
this is despairing of the mercy of Allah, which is a majorsin. If a
person dies in such a state, he will be left to what he thought, as it
says in some narrations of the hadeeth quoted above: "Let My slave
think of Meas he wishes." As for thinking that one will beforgiven
whilst persisting in sin, that is pure ignorance and delusion, and
leads to the view of the Murji'ah.
Fath al-Baari, 13/386
We ask Allah to accept your righteous deeds from you, and to make your
Hajj accepted, and to grant you the best and greatest reward.
And Allah knows best.
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Wednesday, November 14, 2012
The Status of Woman in Islam
The status of woman in Islam constitutes no problem. The attitude of
the Qur'an and the early Muslims bear witness to the fact that woman
is, atleast, as vital to life as man himself, and that sheis not
inferior to him nor is she one of the lower species. Had it not been
for the impact of foreign cultures and alien influences, this question
would have never arisen among the Muslims. The status of woman was
taken for granted to be equal to that of man. It was a matter of
course, a matter of fact, and no one, then, considered it as a problem
at all.
In order to understand what Islam has established for woman, there is
no need to deplore her plight in the pre-Islamic era or in the modern
would of today. Islam has given woman rights and privileges which she
has never enjoyed under other religious or constitutional systems.
This can be understood when the matter is studied as a whole in a
comparative manner, rather than partially. The rights and
responsibilities of a woman are equal to those of a man but they are
not necessarily identical with them. Equality and sameness are two
quite different things. This difference is understandable because man
and woman are not identical but they are created equals. With this
distinction in mind, Thereis no problem. It is almostimpossible to
find even two identical men or women.
This distinction between equality and sameness is of paramount
importance. Equality is desirable, just, fair; but sameness is not.
People are not created identical but they are created equals. With
this distinction in mind, thereis no room to imagine that woman is
inferior to man. There is no ground to assume that she is less
important than he just because her rights are not identically the same
as his. Had her status been identical with his, she would have been
simply a duplicate of him,which she is not. The fact that Islam gives
her equalrights - but not identical -shows that it takes her into due
consideration, acknowledges her, and recognizes her independent
personality.
It is not the tone of Islam that brands woman as the product of the
devil or the seed of evil. Nor does the Qur'an place man as the
dominant lord of woman who has no choice but to surrender to his
dominance. Nor was it Islam that introduced thequestion of whether or
not woman has any soul in her. Never in the history of Islam has any
Muslim doubted the human status of woman or her possession of soul and
other fine spiritual qualities. Unlike other popular beliefs, Islam
does not blame Eve alonefor the First Sin. The Qur'an makes it very
clearthat both Adam and Eve were tempted; that they both sinned; that
God's pardon was granted to both after their repentance; and that
Godaddressed them jointly. (2:35-36;7:19, 27; 20:117-123). In fact the
Qur'an gives the impression that Adam was more to blame for that First
Sin from which emerged prejudice against woman and suspicion of her
deeds. But Islam does not justify such prejudice or suspicion because
both Adam and Eve were equally in error, and if we are to blame Eve we
should blame Adam as much or even more.
The status of woman in Islam is something unique, something
novel,something that has no similarity in any other system. If we look
to the Eastern Communist worldor to the democratic nations, we find
that woman is not really in a happy position. Her status is not
enviable. Shehas to work so hard to live, and sometimes she may be
doing the same job that a man does but her wage is less than his. She
enjoys a kind of liberty which in some cases amounts to libertinism.
To get to where she is nowadays, woman struggled hard for decades and
centuries. To gain the right of learning and the freedom of work and
earning, she had to offer painful sacrifices and give up many of her
natural rights. To establish her status as a human being possessing a
soul, she paid heavily. Yet in spite of all these costly sacrifices
and painful struggles, she hasnot acquired what Islam has established
by a Divine decree for the Muslim woman.
The rights of woman of modern times were not granted voluntarily or
out of kindness to the female. Modern woman reached her present
position by force, and not through natural processes or mutual consent
or Divine teachings. She had to force her way, and various
circumstances came to her aid. Shortage of manpower during wars,
pressure of economic needs and requirements of industrial developments
forced woman to get out of her home - to work, tolearn, to struggle
for her livelihood, to appear as an equal to man, to run her race in
the course of life side by side with him.She was forced by
circumstances and in turnshe forced herself through and acquired her
new status. Whether all women were pleased with these circumstances
being on their side, and whether they are happy and satisfied with the
results of this course is a different matter. But the fact remains
that whatever rights modern woman enjoys fall short of those of her
Muslim counterpart.
What Islam has established for woman is that which suits her nature,
gives her full security and protects her against disgraceful
circumstances and uncertain channels of life. We do not need hereto
elaborate on the statusof modern woman and the risks she runs to make
her living or establish herself. We do not even need to explore the
miseries and setbacksthat encircle her as a result of the so-called
rights of woman. Nor do we intend to manipulate the situation of many
unhappy homes which break because of the very "freedom" and"rights" of
which modernwoman is proud. Most women today exercise the right of
freedom to go out independently, to work and earn, to pretend to be
equal to man, but this, sadly enough, is at the expenseof their
families. This all known and obvious. What is not known is the status
of woman in Islam.An attempt will be made in the following passagesto
sum up the attitude of Islam with regard to woman.
Woman is recognized by Islam as a full and equal partner of man in the
procreation of humankind. He is the father; she is the mother, and
both are essential forlife. Her role is not less vital than his. By
this partnership she has an equal share in every aspect; she is
entitled to equal rights; she undertakes equal responsibilities, and
in her there are as many qualities and as much humanity as there are
in her partner. To this equalpartnership in the reproduction of human
kind God says:
O mankind! Verily We have created your from asingle (pair) of a male
and a female,m and made you into nations and tribes that you may know
each other... (Qur'an, 49:13; cf. 4:1).
She is equal to man in bearing personal and common responsibilities
and in receiving rewards for her deeds. She is acknowl-edged as an
independent personality,in possession of human qualities and worthy of
spiritual aspirations. Her human nature is neither inferior to nor
deviant from that of man. Both are members of one another. God says:
And their Lord has accepted (their prayers) and answered them
(saying): 'Never will I cause to be lost the work of any of you, be he
maleor female; you are members, one of another... (3:195; cf
9:71;33:35-36;66:19-21).
She is equal to man in the pursuit of education and knowledge. When
Islam enjoins the seekingof knowledge upon Muslims, it makes no
distinction between man and woman. Almost fourteen centuries ago,
Muhammad declared thatthe pursuit of knowledgeis incumbent on every
Muslim male and female. This declaration was veryclear and was
implemented by Muslims throughout history.
She is entitled to freedom of expression as much as man is. Her sound
opinions are takeninto consideration and cannot be disregarded just
because she happen to belong to the female sex. It is reported in the
Qur'an and history that woman not only expressed her opinion freely
but also argued and participated in serious discussions with the
Prophet himself as well as with other Muslimleaders (Qur'an, 58:1-4;
60:10-12). Besides there were occasions when Muslim women
expressedtheir views on legislative matters of public interest,and
stood in opposition to the Caliphs, who then accepted the sound
arguments of these women. A specific example took place during the
Califate of Umar Ibn al-Khattab.
Historical records show that women participated in public life with
the early Muslims, especially in times of emergencies. Women used to
accompany the Muslim armies engaged in battles to nurse the wounded,
prepare supplies, serve the warriors, and so on. Theywere not shut
behind iron bars or considered worthless creatures and deprived of
souls.
Islam grants woman equal rights to contract, to enterprise, to earn
andpossess independently. Her life, her property, herhonor are as
sacred as those of man. If she commits any offense, her penalty is no
less or morethan of man's in a similar case. If she is wronged
orharmed, she gets due compensations equal to what a man in her
position would get (2:178;4:45, 92-93).
Islam does not state theserights in a statistical formand then relax.
It has taken all measures to safeguard them and put them into practice
as integral articles of Faith. It never tolerates those who are
inclined to prejudice against womanor discrimination between man and
woman. Time and again, the Qur'an reproaches those who used to believe
woman to be inferior to man (16:57-59,62; 42:47-59; 43:15-19;
53:21-23).
Apart from recognition ofwoman as an independent human being
acknowledged as equally essential for the survival of humanity, Islam
has given her a share of inheritance. Before Islam, she was notonly
deprived of that share but was herself considered as property tobe
inherited by man. Out of that transferable property Islam made an
heir, acknowledging the inherent human qualifiesin woman. Whether she
is a wife or mother, a sister or daughter, she receives a certain
share of the deceased kin's property, a share which depends on her
degree of relationship to the deceased and the number of heirs. This
share is hers, and no one can take it away or disinherit her. Even if
the deceased wishes to deprive her by making a will to other relations
or in favor of any other cause, the Law will not allow him to do so.
Any proprietor is permitted to make his will within the limit of
one-third of his property, so he may not affect the rights of his
heirs, men and women. In the case of inheritance, the questionof
quality and sameness is fully applicable. In principle, both man and
woman are equally entitled to inherit the property of the deceased
relations but the portionsthey get may vary. In some instances man
receives two shares whereas woman gets one only. This no sign of
giving preference or supremacy to man over woman.The reasons why man
gets more in these particular instances may be classified as follows:
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First man, is the person solely responsible for the complete
maintenance of his wife, his family and any other needy relations.
Itis his duty by Law to assume all financial responsibilities and
maintain his dependents adequately.It is also his duty to contribute
financially toall good causes in his society. All financial burdens
are borne by him alone.
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Secondly, in contrast, woman has no financial responsibilities
whatsoever except very little of her personal expenses, the high
luxurious things that she likes to have. She is financially secure and
provided for. If she is a wife, her husband is theprovider; if she is
a mother, it is the son; if she is a daughter, it is the father; if
she is a sister; it is the brother, and so on. If she has no relations
on whom she can depend, then there is no question of inheritance
because there is nothing to inherit and there is no one to bequeath
anything to her. However, she will not be left to starve, maintenance
of such a woman is the responsibility of the society as a whole, the
state. She may be given aid or a job to earn her living, and whatever
money she makes will be hers. She is not responsible for the
maintenance of anybody else besides herself. If there is a manin her
position, he would still be responsible for his family and possibly
any of his relations who need his help. So, in the hardest situation
her financial responsi-bility is limited, while his is unlimited.
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Thirdly, when a woman gets less than a man does, she is not actually
deprived of anything that she has worked for.The property inherited is
not the result of her earning or her endeavors. It is something coming
to them from a neutral source, something addition-al or extra. It
issomething that neither man or woman struggled for. It is a sort of
aid, and any aid has to be distributed according to the urgent needs
and responsibilities especially when the distribution is regulatedby
the Law of God.
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Now, we have a male heir, on one side, burdened with all kinds of
financial responsibilities and liabilities. We have, on the other
side, a female heir with no financial responsibilities at all or at
most with very little of it. In between we have some property andaid
to redistribute by way of inheritance. If we deprive the female
completely, it would be unjust to her because she is related to the
deceased. Likewise, if we always give her a share equal to the man's,
it would be unjust to him. So, instead of doing injustice to either
side, Islam gives the man a larger portion of the inherited property
to help him to meet his family needs and social responsibilities. At
the same time, Islam has notforgotten her altogether, but has given
her a portion to satisfy her very personalneeds. In fact, Islam in
this respect is being more kind to her than to him. Here we can say
that when taken as a whole the rights of woman are equal to those of
man although not necessarily identical(see Qur'an, 4:11-14, 176).
In some instances of bearing witness to certain civil con-tracts, two
men are required or one man and two women. Again, this is no
indication of the woman being inferior to man. It is a measure of
securing the rights of the contracting parties, because woman as a
rule,is not so experienced in practical life as man. This lack of
experience may cause a loss to any party in a given contract. So the
Law requires that at least two women should bear witness with one man.
if a woman of the witness forgets something, the other onewould remind
her. Or if she makes an error, due to lack of experience, theother
would help to correct her. This is a precautionary measure to
guarantee honest transactions and proper dealings between people. In
fact, it gives woman a role to play in civil life and helps to
establish justice. At any rate, lack of experience in civil life does
not necessarily mean that women is inferior to manin her status. Every
human being lacks one thing or another, yet no one questions their
human status (2:282).
Woman enjoys certain privileges of which man is deprived. She is
exempt from some religious duties, i.e., prayers and fasting, in her
regular periods and at times of confinement. She is exempt from all
financial liabilities. As a mother, she enjoys more recognition and
higher honor in the sight of God (31:14-15;46:15). The Prophet
acknowledged this honor when he declared that Paradise is under the
feet of the mothers. She is entitled to three-fourths of the son's
love and kindness with one-fourth left for their father. As a wife
sheis entitled to demand of her prospective husband a suitable dowry
that willbe her own. She is entitled to complete provision and total
maintenance by the husband. She does not have to work or share with
her husband the family expenses. She is free to retain, after
marriage, whatever she possessed before it, and the husband has no
right whatsoever to any of her belongings. As a daughter or sister she
is entitled to security and provision by the father and brother
respectively. That is her privilege. If she wishes to work or be
self-supporting and participate in handling the family
responsibilities, she is quite free to do so, provided her integrity
and honor are safeguarded.
The standing of woman in prayers behind man does not indicate in any
sense that she is inferior to him. Woman, as already mentioned, is
exempt from attending congregational prayers which are obligatory on
man. But if she does attend she stands in separate lines made up of
women exclusively . This is a regulation of discipline in prayers, and
not a classification of importance. In men's rows the head of state
stands shoulder to shoulder to the pauper. Men of the highest ranks in
society stand in prayer side by side with other men of the lowest
ranks. The order of lines in prayers is introduced to help every one
to concentrate in his meditation. It is very important because Muslim
prayers are not simply chanting or the sing-a-song type. They involve
actions, motions, standing, bowing, prostration, etc. So if men mix
with women in the same lines, it is possible that something disturbing
or distracting may happen. The mind will become occupied by something
alien to prayer and derailed fromthe clear path of mediation. The
result willbe a loss of the purpose of prayers, besides an offense of
adultery committed by the eye, because the eye-by looking at forbidden
things - can be guilty of adultery as much as the heart itself.
Moreover, no Muslim man or woman is allowed during prayers to touch
the body of another person of the opposite sex. If men and women stand
side by side in prayer they cannot avoid touching each other.
Furthermore, when a woman is praying in front of a manor beside him,
it is very likely that any part of herdressed body may become
uncovered after a certain motion of bowing or prostrating. The man's
eye may happen to be looking at the uncovered part, with the result
that she will beembarrassed and he will be exposed to distractionor
possibly evil thoughts. So, to avoid any embarrassment and distraction
to help concentrate on mediation and pure thoughts, to maintain
harmony and order among worshippers, to fulfill the true purposes of
prayers, Islam has ordained the organization of rows, whereby men
stand in front lines, and women behind the children. Anyone with some
knowledge of the nature and purpose of Muslim prayers can readily
understand the wisdom of organizing the lines ofworshippers in this
manner.
The Muslim woman is always associated with an old tradition known as
the "veil". It is Islamic that the woman should beautify herself with
the veil of honor, dignity, chastity, purity and integrity. She should
refrain from all deeds and gestures that might stir the passions of
people other than her legitimate husband or cause evil suspicion of
her morality. She is warned not to display her charms or expose
herphysical attractions before strangers. The veilwhich she must put
on is one that can save her soul from weakness, her mind from
indulgence, her eyes from lustful looks, and her personality from
demoralization. Islam is most concerned with the integrity of woman,
with the safeguarding of her morals and morale and with the protection
of her character and personality (cf. Qur'an, 24:30-31).
By now it is clear that thestatus of woman in Islam is unprecedentedly
high and realistically suitable to her nature. Her rights and duties
are equal to those of man but not necessarily or absolutely identical
with them. If she is deprived of one thing in some aspect, she is
fully compensated for it with more things in many other aspects. The
fact that she belongs to the female sex has no bearing on her human
status or independent personality, and it is no basis for
justification of prejudice against her or injustice to her person.
Islam gives her as much as is required of her. Her rights match
beautifully with her duties. The balance between rights and duties is
maintained,and no side overweighs the other. The whole status of woman
is given clearly in the Qur'anic verse which may be translated as
follows:
And women shall have rights similar to the rights against them,
according to what is equitable; but man have a degree (of advantage as
in some cases of inheritance) over them (2:228).
This degree is not a title of supremacy or an authorization of
dominance over her. It is to correspond with the extra
responsibilities of man and give him some compensation for his
unlimited liabilities. The above mentioned verse isalways interpreted
in thelight of another (4:34).
It is these extra responsibilities that give man a degree over woman
in some economic aspects. It is not a higher degree in humanity or in
character.Nor is it a dominance of one over the other or suppression
of one by the other. It is a distribution of God's abundance according
to the needs of the nature of which God is the Maker. And He knows
best what is good for woman and what is goodfor man. God is absolutely
true when He declares:
mankind! reverence yourGuardian-Lord, Who created you from a
singleperson, and created of like nature his mate, and from them twain
scattered (like seeds) countless men and women (4:1).
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the Qur'an and the early Muslims bear witness to the fact that woman
is, atleast, as vital to life as man himself, and that sheis not
inferior to him nor is she one of the lower species. Had it not been
for the impact of foreign cultures and alien influences, this question
would have never arisen among the Muslims. The status of woman was
taken for granted to be equal to that of man. It was a matter of
course, a matter of fact, and no one, then, considered it as a problem
at all.
In order to understand what Islam has established for woman, there is
no need to deplore her plight in the pre-Islamic era or in the modern
would of today. Islam has given woman rights and privileges which she
has never enjoyed under other religious or constitutional systems.
This can be understood when the matter is studied as a whole in a
comparative manner, rather than partially. The rights and
responsibilities of a woman are equal to those of a man but they are
not necessarily identical with them. Equality and sameness are two
quite different things. This difference is understandable because man
and woman are not identical but they are created equals. With this
distinction in mind, Thereis no problem. It is almostimpossible to
find even two identical men or women.
This distinction between equality and sameness is of paramount
importance. Equality is desirable, just, fair; but sameness is not.
People are not created identical but they are created equals. With
this distinction in mind, thereis no room to imagine that woman is
inferior to man. There is no ground to assume that she is less
important than he just because her rights are not identically the same
as his. Had her status been identical with his, she would have been
simply a duplicate of him,which she is not. The fact that Islam gives
her equalrights - but not identical -shows that it takes her into due
consideration, acknowledges her, and recognizes her independent
personality.
It is not the tone of Islam that brands woman as the product of the
devil or the seed of evil. Nor does the Qur'an place man as the
dominant lord of woman who has no choice but to surrender to his
dominance. Nor was it Islam that introduced thequestion of whether or
not woman has any soul in her. Never in the history of Islam has any
Muslim doubted the human status of woman or her possession of soul and
other fine spiritual qualities. Unlike other popular beliefs, Islam
does not blame Eve alonefor the First Sin. The Qur'an makes it very
clearthat both Adam and Eve were tempted; that they both sinned; that
God's pardon was granted to both after their repentance; and that
Godaddressed them jointly. (2:35-36;7:19, 27; 20:117-123). In fact the
Qur'an gives the impression that Adam was more to blame for that First
Sin from which emerged prejudice against woman and suspicion of her
deeds. But Islam does not justify such prejudice or suspicion because
both Adam and Eve were equally in error, and if we are to blame Eve we
should blame Adam as much or even more.
The status of woman in Islam is something unique, something
novel,something that has no similarity in any other system. If we look
to the Eastern Communist worldor to the democratic nations, we find
that woman is not really in a happy position. Her status is not
enviable. Shehas to work so hard to live, and sometimes she may be
doing the same job that a man does but her wage is less than his. She
enjoys a kind of liberty which in some cases amounts to libertinism.
To get to where she is nowadays, woman struggled hard for decades and
centuries. To gain the right of learning and the freedom of work and
earning, she had to offer painful sacrifices and give up many of her
natural rights. To establish her status as a human being possessing a
soul, she paid heavily. Yet in spite of all these costly sacrifices
and painful struggles, she hasnot acquired what Islam has established
by a Divine decree for the Muslim woman.
The rights of woman of modern times were not granted voluntarily or
out of kindness to the female. Modern woman reached her present
position by force, and not through natural processes or mutual consent
or Divine teachings. She had to force her way, and various
circumstances came to her aid. Shortage of manpower during wars,
pressure of economic needs and requirements of industrial developments
forced woman to get out of her home - to work, tolearn, to struggle
for her livelihood, to appear as an equal to man, to run her race in
the course of life side by side with him.She was forced by
circumstances and in turnshe forced herself through and acquired her
new status. Whether all women were pleased with these circumstances
being on their side, and whether they are happy and satisfied with the
results of this course is a different matter. But the fact remains
that whatever rights modern woman enjoys fall short of those of her
Muslim counterpart.
What Islam has established for woman is that which suits her nature,
gives her full security and protects her against disgraceful
circumstances and uncertain channels of life. We do not need hereto
elaborate on the statusof modern woman and the risks she runs to make
her living or establish herself. We do not even need to explore the
miseries and setbacksthat encircle her as a result of the so-called
rights of woman. Nor do we intend to manipulate the situation of many
unhappy homes which break because of the very "freedom" and"rights" of
which modernwoman is proud. Most women today exercise the right of
freedom to go out independently, to work and earn, to pretend to be
equal to man, but this, sadly enough, is at the expenseof their
families. This all known and obvious. What is not known is the status
of woman in Islam.An attempt will be made in the following passagesto
sum up the attitude of Islam with regard to woman.
Woman is recognized by Islam as a full and equal partner of man in the
procreation of humankind. He is the father; she is the mother, and
both are essential forlife. Her role is not less vital than his. By
this partnership she has an equal share in every aspect; she is
entitled to equal rights; she undertakes equal responsibilities, and
in her there are as many qualities and as much humanity as there are
in her partner. To this equalpartnership in the reproduction of human
kind God says:
O mankind! Verily We have created your from asingle (pair) of a male
and a female,m and made you into nations and tribes that you may know
each other... (Qur'an, 49:13; cf. 4:1).
She is equal to man in bearing personal and common responsibilities
and in receiving rewards for her deeds. She is acknowl-edged as an
independent personality,in possession of human qualities and worthy of
spiritual aspirations. Her human nature is neither inferior to nor
deviant from that of man. Both are members of one another. God says:
And their Lord has accepted (their prayers) and answered them
(saying): 'Never will I cause to be lost the work of any of you, be he
maleor female; you are members, one of another... (3:195; cf
9:71;33:35-36;66:19-21).
She is equal to man in the pursuit of education and knowledge. When
Islam enjoins the seekingof knowledge upon Muslims, it makes no
distinction between man and woman. Almost fourteen centuries ago,
Muhammad declared thatthe pursuit of knowledgeis incumbent on every
Muslim male and female. This declaration was veryclear and was
implemented by Muslims throughout history.
She is entitled to freedom of expression as much as man is. Her sound
opinions are takeninto consideration and cannot be disregarded just
because she happen to belong to the female sex. It is reported in the
Qur'an and history that woman not only expressed her opinion freely
but also argued and participated in serious discussions with the
Prophet himself as well as with other Muslimleaders (Qur'an, 58:1-4;
60:10-12). Besides there were occasions when Muslim women
expressedtheir views on legislative matters of public interest,and
stood in opposition to the Caliphs, who then accepted the sound
arguments of these women. A specific example took place during the
Califate of Umar Ibn al-Khattab.
Historical records show that women participated in public life with
the early Muslims, especially in times of emergencies. Women used to
accompany the Muslim armies engaged in battles to nurse the wounded,
prepare supplies, serve the warriors, and so on. Theywere not shut
behind iron bars or considered worthless creatures and deprived of
souls.
Islam grants woman equal rights to contract, to enterprise, to earn
andpossess independently. Her life, her property, herhonor are as
sacred as those of man. If she commits any offense, her penalty is no
less or morethan of man's in a similar case. If she is wronged
orharmed, she gets due compensations equal to what a man in her
position would get (2:178;4:45, 92-93).
Islam does not state theserights in a statistical formand then relax.
It has taken all measures to safeguard them and put them into practice
as integral articles of Faith. It never tolerates those who are
inclined to prejudice against womanor discrimination between man and
woman. Time and again, the Qur'an reproaches those who used to believe
woman to be inferior to man (16:57-59,62; 42:47-59; 43:15-19;
53:21-23).
Apart from recognition ofwoman as an independent human being
acknowledged as equally essential for the survival of humanity, Islam
has given her a share of inheritance. Before Islam, she was notonly
deprived of that share but was herself considered as property tobe
inherited by man. Out of that transferable property Islam made an
heir, acknowledging the inherent human qualifiesin woman. Whether she
is a wife or mother, a sister or daughter, she receives a certain
share of the deceased kin's property, a share which depends on her
degree of relationship to the deceased and the number of heirs. This
share is hers, and no one can take it away or disinherit her. Even if
the deceased wishes to deprive her by making a will to other relations
or in favor of any other cause, the Law will not allow him to do so.
Any proprietor is permitted to make his will within the limit of
one-third of his property, so he may not affect the rights of his
heirs, men and women. In the case of inheritance, the questionof
quality and sameness is fully applicable. In principle, both man and
woman are equally entitled to inherit the property of the deceased
relations but the portionsthey get may vary. In some instances man
receives two shares whereas woman gets one only. This no sign of
giving preference or supremacy to man over woman.The reasons why man
gets more in these particular instances may be classified as follows:
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First man, is the person solely responsible for the complete
maintenance of his wife, his family and any other needy relations.
Itis his duty by Law to assume all financial responsibilities and
maintain his dependents adequately.It is also his duty to contribute
financially toall good causes in his society. All financial burdens
are borne by him alone.
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Secondly, in contrast, woman has no financial responsibilities
whatsoever except very little of her personal expenses, the high
luxurious things that she likes to have. She is financially secure and
provided for. If she is a wife, her husband is theprovider; if she is
a mother, it is the son; if she is a daughter, it is the father; if
she is a sister; it is the brother, and so on. If she has no relations
on whom she can depend, then there is no question of inheritance
because there is nothing to inherit and there is no one to bequeath
anything to her. However, she will not be left to starve, maintenance
of such a woman is the responsibility of the society as a whole, the
state. She may be given aid or a job to earn her living, and whatever
money she makes will be hers. She is not responsible for the
maintenance of anybody else besides herself. If there is a manin her
position, he would still be responsible for his family and possibly
any of his relations who need his help. So, in the hardest situation
her financial responsi-bility is limited, while his is unlimited.
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Thirdly, when a woman gets less than a man does, she is not actually
deprived of anything that she has worked for.The property inherited is
not the result of her earning or her endeavors. It is something coming
to them from a neutral source, something addition-al or extra. It
issomething that neither man or woman struggled for. It is a sort of
aid, and any aid has to be distributed according to the urgent needs
and responsibilities especially when the distribution is regulatedby
the Law of God.
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Now, we have a male heir, on one side, burdened with all kinds of
financial responsibilities and liabilities. We have, on the other
side, a female heir with no financial responsibilities at all or at
most with very little of it. In between we have some property andaid
to redistribute by way of inheritance. If we deprive the female
completely, it would be unjust to her because she is related to the
deceased. Likewise, if we always give her a share equal to the man's,
it would be unjust to him. So, instead of doing injustice to either
side, Islam gives the man a larger portion of the inherited property
to help him to meet his family needs and social responsibilities. At
the same time, Islam has notforgotten her altogether, but has given
her a portion to satisfy her very personalneeds. In fact, Islam in
this respect is being more kind to her than to him. Here we can say
that when taken as a whole the rights of woman are equal to those of
man although not necessarily identical(see Qur'an, 4:11-14, 176).
In some instances of bearing witness to certain civil con-tracts, two
men are required or one man and two women. Again, this is no
indication of the woman being inferior to man. It is a measure of
securing the rights of the contracting parties, because woman as a
rule,is not so experienced in practical life as man. This lack of
experience may cause a loss to any party in a given contract. So the
Law requires that at least two women should bear witness with one man.
if a woman of the witness forgets something, the other onewould remind
her. Or if she makes an error, due to lack of experience, theother
would help to correct her. This is a precautionary measure to
guarantee honest transactions and proper dealings between people. In
fact, it gives woman a role to play in civil life and helps to
establish justice. At any rate, lack of experience in civil life does
not necessarily mean that women is inferior to manin her status. Every
human being lacks one thing or another, yet no one questions their
human status (2:282).
Woman enjoys certain privileges of which man is deprived. She is
exempt from some religious duties, i.e., prayers and fasting, in her
regular periods and at times of confinement. She is exempt from all
financial liabilities. As a mother, she enjoys more recognition and
higher honor in the sight of God (31:14-15;46:15). The Prophet
acknowledged this honor when he declared that Paradise is under the
feet of the mothers. She is entitled to three-fourths of the son's
love and kindness with one-fourth left for their father. As a wife
sheis entitled to demand of her prospective husband a suitable dowry
that willbe her own. She is entitled to complete provision and total
maintenance by the husband. She does not have to work or share with
her husband the family expenses. She is free to retain, after
marriage, whatever she possessed before it, and the husband has no
right whatsoever to any of her belongings. As a daughter or sister she
is entitled to security and provision by the father and brother
respectively. That is her privilege. If she wishes to work or be
self-supporting and participate in handling the family
responsibilities, she is quite free to do so, provided her integrity
and honor are safeguarded.
The standing of woman in prayers behind man does not indicate in any
sense that she is inferior to him. Woman, as already mentioned, is
exempt from attending congregational prayers which are obligatory on
man. But if she does attend she stands in separate lines made up of
women exclusively . This is a regulation of discipline in prayers, and
not a classification of importance. In men's rows the head of state
stands shoulder to shoulder to the pauper. Men of the highest ranks in
society stand in prayer side by side with other men of the lowest
ranks. The order of lines in prayers is introduced to help every one
to concentrate in his meditation. It is very important because Muslim
prayers are not simply chanting or the sing-a-song type. They involve
actions, motions, standing, bowing, prostration, etc. So if men mix
with women in the same lines, it is possible that something disturbing
or distracting may happen. The mind will become occupied by something
alien to prayer and derailed fromthe clear path of mediation. The
result willbe a loss of the purpose of prayers, besides an offense of
adultery committed by the eye, because the eye-by looking at forbidden
things - can be guilty of adultery as much as the heart itself.
Moreover, no Muslim man or woman is allowed during prayers to touch
the body of another person of the opposite sex. If men and women stand
side by side in prayer they cannot avoid touching each other.
Furthermore, when a woman is praying in front of a manor beside him,
it is very likely that any part of herdressed body may become
uncovered after a certain motion of bowing or prostrating. The man's
eye may happen to be looking at the uncovered part, with the result
that she will beembarrassed and he will be exposed to distractionor
possibly evil thoughts. So, to avoid any embarrassment and distraction
to help concentrate on mediation and pure thoughts, to maintain
harmony and order among worshippers, to fulfill the true purposes of
prayers, Islam has ordained the organization of rows, whereby men
stand in front lines, and women behind the children. Anyone with some
knowledge of the nature and purpose of Muslim prayers can readily
understand the wisdom of organizing the lines ofworshippers in this
manner.
The Muslim woman is always associated with an old tradition known as
the "veil". It is Islamic that the woman should beautify herself with
the veil of honor, dignity, chastity, purity and integrity. She should
refrain from all deeds and gestures that might stir the passions of
people other than her legitimate husband or cause evil suspicion of
her morality. She is warned not to display her charms or expose
herphysical attractions before strangers. The veilwhich she must put
on is one that can save her soul from weakness, her mind from
indulgence, her eyes from lustful looks, and her personality from
demoralization. Islam is most concerned with the integrity of woman,
with the safeguarding of her morals and morale and with the protection
of her character and personality (cf. Qur'an, 24:30-31).
By now it is clear that thestatus of woman in Islam is unprecedentedly
high and realistically suitable to her nature. Her rights and duties
are equal to those of man but not necessarily or absolutely identical
with them. If she is deprived of one thing in some aspect, she is
fully compensated for it with more things in many other aspects. The
fact that she belongs to the female sex has no bearing on her human
status or independent personality, and it is no basis for
justification of prejudice against her or injustice to her person.
Islam gives her as much as is required of her. Her rights match
beautifully with her duties. The balance between rights and duties is
maintained,and no side overweighs the other. The whole status of woman
is given clearly in the Qur'anic verse which may be translated as
follows:
And women shall have rights similar to the rights against them,
according to what is equitable; but man have a degree (of advantage as
in some cases of inheritance) over them (2:228).
This degree is not a title of supremacy or an authorization of
dominance over her. It is to correspond with the extra
responsibilities of man and give him some compensation for his
unlimited liabilities. The above mentioned verse isalways interpreted
in thelight of another (4:34).
It is these extra responsibilities that give man a degree over woman
in some economic aspects. It is not a higher degree in humanity or in
character.Nor is it a dominance of one over the other or suppression
of one by the other. It is a distribution of God's abundance according
to the needs of the nature of which God is the Maker. And He knows
best what is good for woman and what is goodfor man. God is absolutely
true when He declares:
mankind! reverence yourGuardian-Lord, Who created you from a
singleperson, and created of like nature his mate, and from them twain
scattered (like seeds) countless men and women (4:1).
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* Sayyid-il-Istighfaar:
Sayyid-il-Istighfaar:
It is related that the Holy Prophet (Sallallahu AlaiheWasallam) once
remarked that the following prayer was Sayyid-il-Istighfaar (the
leader of all the prayer ofIstighfaar).
O Allah! Thou art my Lord.There is no God save thee. Thou art my
Creatorand I am Thy slave. I abide by Thy covenant and promise as best
as I can. I seek refuge in Theefrom the mischief of what I have
wrought. I acknowledge unto Thee Thy favour which Thou hast bestowed
upon me, I also confess my sins; so forgive me, for none forgiveth
sins save Thee.
Says the Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihe Wasallam):
"He who will offer repentance and beg the forgiveness of Allah
(Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) reciting this prayer with faith and sincerity
during day-timethen if he died on that day before nightfall, he shall
go to Heaven, and he who will recite it at night, with faith and
sincerity, and then if he died on that night, before day-break, he
shall go to Heaven."
The three Kalimahs of Taubah we have mentioned above are quite easy to remember.
"Blessed, indeed, is the man in whose record the profusion of Taubah
is written."
What has been stated in these lessons of this smallvolume will,
InshaaAllah, suffice for anyone for theattainment of Divine pleasure
and paradise. It seems appropriate here to give a brief resume of the
whole discussion before bringing the bookto a close.
The first principle of Islam and the most essential prerequisite of
deliverance and the attainments of paradise is that a man affirms his
faith in the Kalimah of After that, he should try to acquire knowledge
of the tenets of Islam at least as far as it is necessary to know them
in order to be a good Muslim. His constant endeavour should be to
observe the Islamic teachings faithfully and to carry outsincerely the
Divine commandments regarding the Rights of Allah (Subhaanahu
Wata'aalaa) as well as the Rights of man and good social and moral
behaviour. When there may occur a lapse on his part in respect of
these matters he should feel genuinely sorry over it and repent to
Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) and seek His forgiveness. He should
resolve honestly not to be guilty of the transgression again. If hehas
transgressed against a fellow being by violating his rights or doing
him any other harm he should seek his pardon and make amends for his
fault or misconduct or pay suitable compensation asthe case my be.
In the same way, the effort of a Muslim should always be that the love
of Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) and of His Apostle (Sallallahu Alaihe
Wasallam) and his Faith should be stronger in his heart than that of
anyone or anything else in the world. He should remain steadfast in
faith and waver not in the least form the path of duty to Allah
(Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) and the Prophet (Sallallahu AlaiheWasallam)
whatever the circumstances are. He should also, as a matter of duty,
take some part or another in the preaching and propagation of Islam.
It isan act of outstanding virtue and merit and a most special legacy
of theProphets. In the present age, particularly, its valueis
much greater than that of all other forms of prayers and worships
(other than obligatory) and when a person devotes himself to it, his
devotion to Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa), the Prophet (Sallalla!iu
Alaihe Wasallam) and the Faith also develops and becomes stronger.
Among the other prayers,if possible, one should develop the habit of
Tahajjud. Its auspiciousness is of the very highest.
One must always be on one's guard against sin, specially against the
major sins, like adultery, stealing, falsehood, drinkand dishonest in
monetary affairs.
It is advisable to do someZikr every day. In case it may not be
possible to spare more time for it, one should recite at least
Kalimah-i Tamjid.
Or only and Istighfaar and Durood Shareef, a hundred timeseach,
morning and evening.
Time should also be set aside for the daily reading of the Holy
Quraan. It should be done with due religious respect and reverence.
After every obligatory Salaah and at bedtime the
Tasbeehaat-i-Fatimahmay also be recited.
For those who aspire for more, the advice is to seek guidance from a
spiritual mentor who may be worthy of it. The last thing to be said in
this connection is that the company of true, pious and exalted
devotees of Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) and attachment and
devotionto them is the very elixir of religious and spiritual
existence. If this can fall to the lot of anyone all the rest will
follow automatically.
It is related that the Holy Prophet (Sallallahu AlaiheWasallam) once
remarked that the following prayer was Sayyid-il-Istighfaar (the
leader of all the prayer ofIstighfaar).
O Allah! Thou art my Lord.There is no God save thee. Thou art my
Creatorand I am Thy slave. I abide by Thy covenant and promise as best
as I can. I seek refuge in Theefrom the mischief of what I have
wrought. I acknowledge unto Thee Thy favour which Thou hast bestowed
upon me, I also confess my sins; so forgive me, for none forgiveth
sins save Thee.
Says the Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihe Wasallam):
"He who will offer repentance and beg the forgiveness of Allah
(Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) reciting this prayer with faith and sincerity
during day-timethen if he died on that day before nightfall, he shall
go to Heaven, and he who will recite it at night, with faith and
sincerity, and then if he died on that night, before day-break, he
shall go to Heaven."
The three Kalimahs of Taubah we have mentioned above are quite easy to remember.
"Blessed, indeed, is the man in whose record the profusion of Taubah
is written."
What has been stated in these lessons of this smallvolume will,
InshaaAllah, suffice for anyone for theattainment of Divine pleasure
and paradise. It seems appropriate here to give a brief resume of the
whole discussion before bringing the bookto a close.
The first principle of Islam and the most essential prerequisite of
deliverance and the attainments of paradise is that a man affirms his
faith in the Kalimah of After that, he should try to acquire knowledge
of the tenets of Islam at least as far as it is necessary to know them
in order to be a good Muslim. His constant endeavour should be to
observe the Islamic teachings faithfully and to carry outsincerely the
Divine commandments regarding the Rights of Allah (Subhaanahu
Wata'aalaa) as well as the Rights of man and good social and moral
behaviour. When there may occur a lapse on his part in respect of
these matters he should feel genuinely sorry over it and repent to
Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) and seek His forgiveness. He should
resolve honestly not to be guilty of the transgression again. If hehas
transgressed against a fellow being by violating his rights or doing
him any other harm he should seek his pardon and make amends for his
fault or misconduct or pay suitable compensation asthe case my be.
In the same way, the effort of a Muslim should always be that the love
of Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) and of His Apostle (Sallallahu Alaihe
Wasallam) and his Faith should be stronger in his heart than that of
anyone or anything else in the world. He should remain steadfast in
faith and waver not in the least form the path of duty to Allah
(Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) and the Prophet (Sallallahu AlaiheWasallam)
whatever the circumstances are. He should also, as a matter of duty,
take some part or another in the preaching and propagation of Islam.
It isan act of outstanding virtue and merit and a most special legacy
of theProphets. In the present age, particularly, its valueis
much greater than that of all other forms of prayers and worships
(other than obligatory) and when a person devotes himself to it, his
devotion to Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa), the Prophet (Sallalla!iu
Alaihe Wasallam) and the Faith also develops and becomes stronger.
Among the other prayers,if possible, one should develop the habit of
Tahajjud. Its auspiciousness is of the very highest.
One must always be on one's guard against sin, specially against the
major sins, like adultery, stealing, falsehood, drinkand dishonest in
monetary affairs.
It is advisable to do someZikr every day. In case it may not be
possible to spare more time for it, one should recite at least
Kalimah-i Tamjid.
Or only and Istighfaar and Durood Shareef, a hundred timeseach,
morning and evening.
Time should also be set aside for the daily reading of the Holy
Quraan. It should be done with due religious respect and reverence.
After every obligatory Salaah and at bedtime the
Tasbeehaat-i-Fatimahmay also be recited.
For those who aspire for more, the advice is to seek guidance from a
spiritual mentor who may be worthy of it. The last thing to be said in
this connection is that the company of true, pious and exalted
devotees of Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) and attachment and
devotionto them is the very elixir of religious and spiritual
existence. If this can fall to the lot of anyone all the rest will
follow automatically.
TAUBAH
Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) sent down His Apostles into the world
and revealed His Books through them so that men may learn to
distinguish good from evil, virtue from vice, andearn for themselves
Divine approbation and deliverence in the life to come by abstaining
from the wicked and the unlawful and adopting what was good and
virtuous. Thus those who reject the faith and refuse to believe in the
Prophets (Sallallahu Alaihe Wasallam) and theDivine guidence with
which they had been raised up their whole existence. So to speak, is
one of defiance and transgresion. They are totally indifferent to the
message sent down by Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa). They will have
nothing to do with it. Unless they believe in the Messengers and
Apostles raised up by Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) and in the Holy
Scriptures revealed by Him, and particularly in the Last of the
prophets. Prophet Muhammad (Sallallahu Alaihe Wasallam) and theDivine
Book he brought, i.e., the Holy Quraan and accept his guidance they
can never hope to attain the good pleasure of Allah (Subhaanahu
Wata'aalaa) and success and salvation in the Hereafter. The denial of
Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa), His Apostles and His Books is not
pardonable. It cannot be condoned. This fact has been made abundantly
clear by every prophet ofAllah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) during his
time. In any case it is essential for the salvationof the Apostates
and Polytheists that they first of all renounce Apostasy and
Polytheism and take to the path of Faith and Monotheism. Without it
salvation is not possible.
Those who believe in the prophets and affirm theirintention to live
according to their teachings also sometimesfall into error. They are
misled by the Devil or by their own baser instincts and impulses into
committing a sin. For such defaulters Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa)
has kept the door of Taubah (Repentance) open.
Taubah means that if a person slips into folly andbe guilty of a sin
or an act of transgression against the law of Allah (Subhaanahu
Wata'aalaa) he should feel genuinely sorry and ashamed over it, and
resolve sincerely not to do so again, and seek theforgiveness of Allah
(Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) with all his heart. It is stated in the Holy
Quraan and the Traditions that by doing only this much a man's sin is
forgiven and he succeeds in winning the pleasure of the Almighty.
It is essential to know that Taubah is not vocal penitence. It is not
at all a matter of uttering so many words of repentance. The sorrow
must be sincere, the shame must be felt in theheart and the resolution
not to repeat the folly and be guilty of the sin again must be totally
genuine.
It is like this, suppose in afit of temper or in a moment of acute
depression a person swallows poison with theintention of killing
himself. But when the poison begins to work and a thousand knives
begin to tear his intestines into pieces andhe knows that death is
near, he repents his folly and cries out in desperation for medical
relief. Now, at that time, his first thought will be that if he
survived he would never touch the poison again or think of committing
suicide. This exactly should be the state of the man who repents after
sin. His heart should be seized bythe fear of Divine Chastisement, the
resolution not to repeat the act again should be an honest resolution
and so also his entreaties to Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) for
forgiveness.
If such a state of feelings is realised by a person in any degree he
should be sure that the stain of sin has been washed way and the gates
of mercy have opened for him. After such a Taubah the sinner is
completely absolved of his sin, he is thoroughly sanctified and
becomes even dearer in the sight of Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) than
he was before, so much so that sometimes a person succeeds in
attaining, through Taubah, a place which would be hard to reach even
after a hundred years of prayer and fasting.
All this that we have said on the subject of Taubah was derived
entirely from the twin sources of the Holy Quraan and the Traditions.
We are going now to consider some of the relevant verses of theHoly
Quraan:
O ye who believe! Turn toAllah with sincere repentance: in the hope
that your Lord will remove from you your illsand admit you to Gardens
beneath which rivers flow. [LXVI:8]
Why turn they not to Allah, and seek His forgiveness? For Allah is
Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful. [V:74]
When those come to theewho believe in Our Signs,say: "Peace be on you!
your Lord hath inscribed for Himself (the rule of) Mercy: Verily, if
any of you did evil in ignorance,and thereafter repented, and amended
(his conduct). Lo, He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful." [VI:54]
"Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) says, 'O My Creatures! you commit
follies day and night and I can forgive them all. So,seek My
forgiveness. I will forgive."
"Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) extends the arms of Mercy and
Forgiveness every night so that the sinners of the day may repent and
seek His pardon and every dayso that the sinners of the night may
repent and seek His pardon and it shall be like this with Allah
(Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) till the sun rises from the West near the
Doomsday."
"A man committed a sin and then he prayed to Allah (Subhaanahu
Wata'aalaa), 'O Lord! I have sinned. Forgive me'.Upon this, the Lord
observed, 'My servant knows that there is a Lord, Allah (Subhaanahu
Wata'aalaa), who can punish him for his sin as well as forgive. I have
forgiven the sin of My servant.' The person abstained from sin as long
as the Lord wished after which he again went astray and fell into
transgression. He once again prayed to Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa),
'O Lord! I have sinned. Forgive me.'The Lord observed, 'My sinning
servant knows that there is a Lord, Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa), who
can chastise him for sinning as well as forgive. I have forgiven the
sin of My servant'. He remained free from sin as long as the Lord
wished and then was again guilty of it. Once again he prayed to Allah
(Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa), 'O Lord! I have sinned. Forgive me'.The Lord
observed, 'My servant knows for certainthat there is a Lord, Allah
(Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa), who can punish as well as forgive him for his
sin. I have forgiven the sin of My servant'."
"One who seeks Divine forgiveness after sin, becomes like one who has
never been guilty of a sin."
These Traditions show how Merciful and Oft-Forgiving is the Lord. To
get emboldened by them and to start indulging freely in sinful
activities on the strength of Taubah is not worthy of a Muslim. Such
verses and Traditions should, onthe contrary, lend greater strength to
the love of Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa). They should make one feel
that it really was the height of meanness to act against the wishes of
such a Compassionate and Benevolent Lord. If a master be of a most
kind and affectionate nature, would it become his servants to pay back
his kindness and affection by violating his wishes and disobeying his
commands?
What these verses and Traditions seek to conveyis that should a person
succumb to the temptations of the Devil or to his own ignoble desires
and inclinations and commit a sin he mustnot despair of the mercy of
the Lord and lose all hope of salvation. He should, on the other hand,
turn his back immediately on the lapseand try earnestly to remove its
stain through Taubah, by begging Allah(Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa), in all
sincerity, His forgiveness. The Almighty, in His Infinite Mercy, will
forgive and instead of being angry with him, Hewill become even more
pleased for regretting sincerely what he had done and turning to Him
hopefully for remission. ATradition states:
"When a man turns to Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) after sin and
repents sincerely for his folly it makes Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa)
even happier than a rider whose mount may have thrown him down in a
vast desert and fled awaywith all the journey's provisions laden on
its back, and, when the rider may have resigned himself to his fate
and satdown under a tree to wait for his death, the animal may return,
all of a sudden, with the provisions intact and the rider may catch
hold of itand blurt out (stupidly) in sheer joy, 'O Allah (Subhaanahu
Wata'aalaa), Thou, indeed, art my slave and me thy Master'." The
Prophet (Sallallahu AlaiheWasallam) says, "The pleasure, this person
feels after getting his mount back, Allah (Subhaanabu Wata'aalaa)
Almighty is pleased more than that ifhis sinner servant repents."
If, after knowing these verses and Traditions, someone still fails to
seekDivine forgiveness and approbation by offering repentance for his
sins through Taubah and resolving not to fall into error again he,
emphatically, is most unfortunate.
Many people are inclinedto take a most complacent attitude, towards
Taubah. They say, "We are healthy and strong, so what's the hurry? We
will do Taubahbefore dying." Brothers! This is an extremely dangerous
deception which the Devil practices on us. Deprived as he hashimself
of Divine Mercy and Beneficence and earned a permanent abode in the
Hell, he wants us also to go his way. No one knows when death may
strike. Thus, we should considerevery day to be the last day of our
lives and lose no time in begging the forgiveness of Allah (Subhaanahu
Wata'aalaa) if and when we have been guilty of an evil. This, alone,
is the path of wisdom. It is stated candidly in the Holy Quraan that:
Allah accepts the repentance of those whodo evil in ignorance, and
repent soon afterwards; to them will Allah turn in mercy, for Allah is
full of knowledge and wisdom. Of no effect is the repentance of those
whocontinue to do evil, until death faces one of them, and he says,
"Now have I repented indeed!" Nor ofthose who die rejecting faith: for
them have We prepared a punishment most grievous. [V:17-18]
We should catch time by the forelock and realise the value of life
that is left to us. We should not put off Taubah by a moment; we must
not procrastinate. We ought to set about, at once, reforming our ways.
Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) alone knowswhen death is going to make
its call on us, and then, it may be too late. Who can tell whether, at
that time, we will get theopportunity to offer Taubah or not?
Brothers! We all have seen people dying. The general experience is
that a person dies in the same state in which he has led his life. It
does not happen that a personmay have spent all his days in folly and
negligence and, then, suddenly repented and turned into a saint a day
or two before his death. Hence, a man who wants to die in a state of
Taqwaa, for him it is necessary to become pious in his lifetime. Then
alone can he hope to die as a good Muslim, by the grace of Allah
(Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa), and to be raised up with the faithful and the
righteous in the Hereafter.
If after offering repentance for a sin a person may be guilty of the
same sin again there is no need for him to feelso frustrated over it
as to lose faith in Divine Mercifulness. He should offer Taubah
quickly again, and if again he may break it, he should not hesitate in
offering itonce more even if it be a thousand times. Whenever he will
repent with a sincere heart it is the promise of Allah (Subhaanahu
Wata'aalaa) that He will accept his repentance and forgive him. The
benevolence of the Lord, and His Paradise, is infinite.
Words of Taubah
From the foregoing it would have been clear that in words or language
a person may offer Taubah Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) will listen
and accept his penitence.But the Holy Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihe
Wasallam) has laid down certain specific phrases or prayers in this
regard which he used to recite himself. These prayers, surely, are
most auspicious, most worthy of His acceptance and most pleasing to
Him. Weare reproducing some of these here for you to learn by heart
and recite for seeking divine forgiveness.
I beg the forgiveness of Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) save Whom there
is no God, the living, the Eternal. Unto Him do I turn penitent.
The Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihe Wasallam) has said, "Whoever will offer
penitence to Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) and implore His forgiveness
through this Kalimah, Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) will forgive him
even if he has fled ofJihad which is a most mortal sin in the sight of
Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa)."
And again: "Whoever willrecite this Kalimah thrice before going to
sleep Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) will forgive his sins even though
theymay be as profuse as the foam of the sea."
Sometimes the sacred Prophet (Sallallahu AlaiheWasallam) used to
recite only (I implore the forgiveness of the Lord). It is a very
brief phrase and we should try to cultivate the habit of repeating it
every now and then.
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and revealed His Books through them so that men may learn to
distinguish good from evil, virtue from vice, andearn for themselves
Divine approbation and deliverence in the life to come by abstaining
from the wicked and the unlawful and adopting what was good and
virtuous. Thus those who reject the faith and refuse to believe in the
Prophets (Sallallahu Alaihe Wasallam) and theDivine guidence with
which they had been raised up their whole existence. So to speak, is
one of defiance and transgresion. They are totally indifferent to the
message sent down by Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa). They will have
nothing to do with it. Unless they believe in the Messengers and
Apostles raised up by Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) and in the Holy
Scriptures revealed by Him, and particularly in the Last of the
prophets. Prophet Muhammad (Sallallahu Alaihe Wasallam) and theDivine
Book he brought, i.e., the Holy Quraan and accept his guidance they
can never hope to attain the good pleasure of Allah (Subhaanahu
Wata'aalaa) and success and salvation in the Hereafter. The denial of
Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa), His Apostles and His Books is not
pardonable. It cannot be condoned. This fact has been made abundantly
clear by every prophet ofAllah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) during his
time. In any case it is essential for the salvationof the Apostates
and Polytheists that they first of all renounce Apostasy and
Polytheism and take to the path of Faith and Monotheism. Without it
salvation is not possible.
Those who believe in the prophets and affirm theirintention to live
according to their teachings also sometimesfall into error. They are
misled by the Devil or by their own baser instincts and impulses into
committing a sin. For such defaulters Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa)
has kept the door of Taubah (Repentance) open.
Taubah means that if a person slips into folly andbe guilty of a sin
or an act of transgression against the law of Allah (Subhaanahu
Wata'aalaa) he should feel genuinely sorry and ashamed over it, and
resolve sincerely not to do so again, and seek theforgiveness of Allah
(Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) with all his heart. It is stated in the Holy
Quraan and the Traditions that by doing only this much a man's sin is
forgiven and he succeeds in winning the pleasure of the Almighty.
It is essential to know that Taubah is not vocal penitence. It is not
at all a matter of uttering so many words of repentance. The sorrow
must be sincere, the shame must be felt in theheart and the resolution
not to repeat the folly and be guilty of the sin again must be totally
genuine.
It is like this, suppose in afit of temper or in a moment of acute
depression a person swallows poison with theintention of killing
himself. But when the poison begins to work and a thousand knives
begin to tear his intestines into pieces andhe knows that death is
near, he repents his folly and cries out in desperation for medical
relief. Now, at that time, his first thought will be that if he
survived he would never touch the poison again or think of committing
suicide. This exactly should be the state of the man who repents after
sin. His heart should be seized bythe fear of Divine Chastisement, the
resolution not to repeat the act again should be an honest resolution
and so also his entreaties to Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) for
forgiveness.
If such a state of feelings is realised by a person in any degree he
should be sure that the stain of sin has been washed way and the gates
of mercy have opened for him. After such a Taubah the sinner is
completely absolved of his sin, he is thoroughly sanctified and
becomes even dearer in the sight of Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) than
he was before, so much so that sometimes a person succeeds in
attaining, through Taubah, a place which would be hard to reach even
after a hundred years of prayer and fasting.
All this that we have said on the subject of Taubah was derived
entirely from the twin sources of the Holy Quraan and the Traditions.
We are going now to consider some of the relevant verses of theHoly
Quraan:
O ye who believe! Turn toAllah with sincere repentance: in the hope
that your Lord will remove from you your illsand admit you to Gardens
beneath which rivers flow. [LXVI:8]
Why turn they not to Allah, and seek His forgiveness? For Allah is
Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful. [V:74]
When those come to theewho believe in Our Signs,say: "Peace be on you!
your Lord hath inscribed for Himself (the rule of) Mercy: Verily, if
any of you did evil in ignorance,and thereafter repented, and amended
(his conduct). Lo, He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful." [VI:54]
"Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) says, 'O My Creatures! you commit
follies day and night and I can forgive them all. So,seek My
forgiveness. I will forgive."
"Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) extends the arms of Mercy and
Forgiveness every night so that the sinners of the day may repent and
seek His pardon and every dayso that the sinners of the night may
repent and seek His pardon and it shall be like this with Allah
(Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) till the sun rises from the West near the
Doomsday."
"A man committed a sin and then he prayed to Allah (Subhaanahu
Wata'aalaa), 'O Lord! I have sinned. Forgive me'.Upon this, the Lord
observed, 'My servant knows that there is a Lord, Allah (Subhaanahu
Wata'aalaa), who can punish him for his sin as well as forgive. I have
forgiven the sin of My servant.' The person abstained from sin as long
as the Lord wished after which he again went astray and fell into
transgression. He once again prayed to Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa),
'O Lord! I have sinned. Forgive me.'The Lord observed, 'My sinning
servant knows that there is a Lord, Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa), who
can chastise him for sinning as well as forgive. I have forgiven the
sin of My servant'. He remained free from sin as long as the Lord
wished and then was again guilty of it. Once again he prayed to Allah
(Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa), 'O Lord! I have sinned. Forgive me'.The Lord
observed, 'My servant knows for certainthat there is a Lord, Allah
(Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa), who can punish as well as forgive him for his
sin. I have forgiven the sin of My servant'."
"One who seeks Divine forgiveness after sin, becomes like one who has
never been guilty of a sin."
These Traditions show how Merciful and Oft-Forgiving is the Lord. To
get emboldened by them and to start indulging freely in sinful
activities on the strength of Taubah is not worthy of a Muslim. Such
verses and Traditions should, onthe contrary, lend greater strength to
the love of Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa). They should make one feel
that it really was the height of meanness to act against the wishes of
such a Compassionate and Benevolent Lord. If a master be of a most
kind and affectionate nature, would it become his servants to pay back
his kindness and affection by violating his wishes and disobeying his
commands?
What these verses and Traditions seek to conveyis that should a person
succumb to the temptations of the Devil or to his own ignoble desires
and inclinations and commit a sin he mustnot despair of the mercy of
the Lord and lose all hope of salvation. He should, on the other hand,
turn his back immediately on the lapseand try earnestly to remove its
stain through Taubah, by begging Allah(Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa), in all
sincerity, His forgiveness. The Almighty, in His Infinite Mercy, will
forgive and instead of being angry with him, Hewill become even more
pleased for regretting sincerely what he had done and turning to Him
hopefully for remission. ATradition states:
"When a man turns to Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) after sin and
repents sincerely for his folly it makes Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa)
even happier than a rider whose mount may have thrown him down in a
vast desert and fled awaywith all the journey's provisions laden on
its back, and, when the rider may have resigned himself to his fate
and satdown under a tree to wait for his death, the animal may return,
all of a sudden, with the provisions intact and the rider may catch
hold of itand blurt out (stupidly) in sheer joy, 'O Allah (Subhaanahu
Wata'aalaa), Thou, indeed, art my slave and me thy Master'." The
Prophet (Sallallahu AlaiheWasallam) says, "The pleasure, this person
feels after getting his mount back, Allah (Subhaanabu Wata'aalaa)
Almighty is pleased more than that ifhis sinner servant repents."
If, after knowing these verses and Traditions, someone still fails to
seekDivine forgiveness and approbation by offering repentance for his
sins through Taubah and resolving not to fall into error again he,
emphatically, is most unfortunate.
Many people are inclinedto take a most complacent attitude, towards
Taubah. They say, "We are healthy and strong, so what's the hurry? We
will do Taubahbefore dying." Brothers! This is an extremely dangerous
deception which the Devil practices on us. Deprived as he hashimself
of Divine Mercy and Beneficence and earned a permanent abode in the
Hell, he wants us also to go his way. No one knows when death may
strike. Thus, we should considerevery day to be the last day of our
lives and lose no time in begging the forgiveness of Allah (Subhaanahu
Wata'aalaa) if and when we have been guilty of an evil. This, alone,
is the path of wisdom. It is stated candidly in the Holy Quraan that:
Allah accepts the repentance of those whodo evil in ignorance, and
repent soon afterwards; to them will Allah turn in mercy, for Allah is
full of knowledge and wisdom. Of no effect is the repentance of those
whocontinue to do evil, until death faces one of them, and he says,
"Now have I repented indeed!" Nor ofthose who die rejecting faith: for
them have We prepared a punishment most grievous. [V:17-18]
We should catch time by the forelock and realise the value of life
that is left to us. We should not put off Taubah by a moment; we must
not procrastinate. We ought to set about, at once, reforming our ways.
Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) alone knowswhen death is going to make
its call on us, and then, it may be too late. Who can tell whether, at
that time, we will get theopportunity to offer Taubah or not?
Brothers! We all have seen people dying. The general experience is
that a person dies in the same state in which he has led his life. It
does not happen that a personmay have spent all his days in folly and
negligence and, then, suddenly repented and turned into a saint a day
or two before his death. Hence, a man who wants to die in a state of
Taqwaa, for him it is necessary to become pious in his lifetime. Then
alone can he hope to die as a good Muslim, by the grace of Allah
(Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa), and to be raised up with the faithful and the
righteous in the Hereafter.
If after offering repentance for a sin a person may be guilty of the
same sin again there is no need for him to feelso frustrated over it
as to lose faith in Divine Mercifulness. He should offer Taubah
quickly again, and if again he may break it, he should not hesitate in
offering itonce more even if it be a thousand times. Whenever he will
repent with a sincere heart it is the promise of Allah (Subhaanahu
Wata'aalaa) that He will accept his repentance and forgive him. The
benevolence of the Lord, and His Paradise, is infinite.
Words of Taubah
From the foregoing it would have been clear that in words or language
a person may offer Taubah Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) will listen
and accept his penitence.But the Holy Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihe
Wasallam) has laid down certain specific phrases or prayers in this
regard which he used to recite himself. These prayers, surely, are
most auspicious, most worthy of His acceptance and most pleasing to
Him. Weare reproducing some of these here for you to learn by heart
and recite for seeking divine forgiveness.
I beg the forgiveness of Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) save Whom there
is no God, the living, the Eternal. Unto Him do I turn penitent.
The Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihe Wasallam) has said, "Whoever will offer
penitence to Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) and implore His forgiveness
through this Kalimah, Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) will forgive him
even if he has fled ofJihad which is a most mortal sin in the sight of
Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa)."
And again: "Whoever willrecite this Kalimah thrice before going to
sleep Allah (Subhaanahu Wata'aalaa) will forgive his sins even though
theymay be as profuse as the foam of the sea."
Sometimes the sacred Prophet (Sallallahu AlaiheWasallam) used to
recite only (I implore the forgiveness of the Lord). It is a very
brief phrase and we should try to cultivate the habit of repeating it
every now and then.
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