Am I committing sin by chatting with a Christian guy who wants to become Muslim and marry me?

Salam alaykum, dear brothers and sisters!
I have to hear your opinion about my case. I am 20 years old and very
devoted Muslima, alhamdulillah. I pray 5 times a day and fast Ramadan,
wear hijab, don't and never had a boyfriend and practice Islam in
every segment in my life. I even avoid to talk to boys. Because I know
it is haram and to save my chastity.
Anyway, 2 months ago, onthe internet, I met a guy who is not Muslim.
Probably, I wouldn't be talking to him if he didn't tell me that he
respects Islam even more than his religion (Christianity). Therefore;
following the obligation of us Muslims, I have tried to present him
Islam the best I can. Meanwhile, he started asking me questions about
myself, my hobbies, my views to life, to other religions, love,
marriage. I answered him to these questions according to beliefs of my
faith. we chatted every day; and he told me that he started to like
me very much and even considering to convert to Islam because of me.
He told me that he never met a girl like me and thatit is amazing how
Islam is similar to Christianity. The interesting fact about him that
somehow he lives likea Muslim, he doesn't eat pork, doesn't drink
Alcohol, didn't have sex before marriage. He says every day that, I
miss him. I chat with him for 2 months.
My question are;
1. Should I continue to chat with him in order to convert him to Islam
(I don't intend anything bad like dating, relationship)?
2. He fell in love with me, Idon't know what to answer him?
3. Did I commit sin because I have been chatting with him all this time?
4. He wants to meet me inpersonal, is it haram for me to meet him
regardingthe fact that still he did not convert to Islam?
Please answer, what should I do in this situation because sometimes I
feel that I have started to like him too. May Allah reward you all!
Jaci.
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The Quran amazes a sailor

"(The unbelievers' state) is like a vast deep ocean, overwhelmed with
waves,one over the other, and above it is a cloud of darkness upon
darkness, one above another; if a man stretches out his hand, he can
hardly see it; For anyone to whom Allahgives no light, there is no
light." Al Quran, Surah An-Noor ( 24:40)
Gary Miller in his book,"The Amazing Quran" stated the following
story:A Muslim gave a copy of the Holy Quran to a man who was a
merchant marine. This man knew nothing about the history of Islam.
When he finishedreading the Holy Quran, heasked his Muslim
friend:"This man Muhammad RasulAllah (SAW), was he asailor? When he
was told that Muhammad RasulAllah (SAW) lived in adesert and probably
did not even see an ocean during his whole life, he embraced Islam on
the spot. He acknowledged that this description of theHoly Quran could
only be described by one who hadactually seen sea storms many times,
whereas Muhammad RasulAllah (SAW) never witnessed this phenomenon.

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Upon Her Return

There was a young man inDamascus who planned toleave his country to
study. His mother was very caring and supportive of him. She raised
him alone through toil and hardship. And, at last, she felt that after
all the hard work--she was proud of her son as any mother would.
"Ah! The joys of motherhood!" she said to herself. The pleasure of
staring at this little man, who once held onto her dress begging to be
carried and to be tightly clenched by her arms. She recalled the days
when he was small and helpless, and yet there he was--embarking on a
journey to be the man he was raised to be.
The young man's flight was scheduled to leave early in the morning,
thus his mother prepared food and all that was needed for this long
trip. Her acts of kindness and loyalty displayed his mother endearing
love for him. Hisexcitement as a young man, and her hopefulness as a
proud mother, is something we can all relate to.
That morning, she heard over the news that there was a storm headed
their way. Out of fear that her son might die on this journey, she
decided not to wake him. Instead she left early for the market hoping
to surprise him with his favorite food laterthat morning.
Upon her return, she calledout his name in anticipation and
excitement--for she had a few more days with him before he would
continue on with this journey. But to no avail, there was no response
from him. Allah had taken his soul away and he died in his sleep that
morning. Story obtained from Al Qaseem Newspaper.
Allah Ta'ala says: Say (to them): 'Verily, the death from which you
flee will surely meet you, then you will be sent back to (Allah),the
All-Knower of the unseen and the seen, and He will tell you what you
used to do.' Al Quran [62:8]

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Being a true believer

Salih ibne Mismar (ra) narrates: Rasulullah (SAW) asked Harith ibne
Malik (RA): How are you, O Haright ibne Malik? He replied: By the
grace of Allah, I am a Mu'min (in a state of Imam). Rasulullah (SAW)
asked: A true Mu'min? He replied: A true Mu'min. Raslulullah (SAW)
said: For every truth, thereis a reality. So what is the reality of
the truth of that (which you claim)? He replied, I have turned myself
away from the world, and passed my nights awake (in worship) and
passed my days in thirst (fasting). It is as if I am seeing the Arsh
(Throne) of my Rabb (Sustainer) when it shall be brought, and it is as
though I am seeing the people of Paradise visitingone another therein,
and itis as if I am hearing the howling of the people of the Fire! At
that Rasulullah(SAW) said: (Harith is such)A Mu'min whose heart has
been enlightened. Source: Musannaf Abdur Razzaq.
May Allah give us the ability to bring such faith into ourselves also.

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