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As for the phrase, 'by the ink of His words' this encompasses all
three types; the ink of His words have no end to their measure,
description or number. Allāh says, 'Say: If the sea were ink for
(writing) the words of my Lord, the sea would be exhausted before the
words of my Lord were exhausted, even if We brought the like of it as
a supplement. [3] Allāh also says, 'and if whatever treesupon the
earth were pens and the sea (was ink), replenished thereafter by seven
(more) seas, the words of Allāh would not be exhausted. Indeed,
Allāhis Exalted in Might and Wise. [4]
The meaning of the verse isthat if we were to imagine the seas to be
ink and add a further seven seas to extend it, all of them
representing ink and then all the plants of the earth were pens - this
includes any plant or vegetation that stands on a stem - andthe pens
draw from that ink, the seas and the pens would be exhausted whereas
the words of the Lord would not expire. How does this compare to one
who describes Him as He who has not spoken, does not speak and that
nospeech occurs from Him at all? Or one who describes His speech as
being a singlemeaning that is not distinctnor in parts; that it is not
described as being part or whole; nor is it sūrahs and āyāt or letters
and words?
The point is that this glorification includes descriptions of
perfection and attributes of grandeur that necessitate it to be better
than other forms of remembrance and that if other words were to be
weighed against it would measure against them and outweigh them. This
is a portion of what these words contain in relation to the
understanding of Allāh; praise of Him through exaltation and
veneration, along with the link to praising (ḥamd) thatcomprises of
three fundamentals. The first is the affirmation of perfect attributes
for Him subḥānahu, and praise of Him. The second is love of Him and
contentment withHim. When this praise (ḥamd) is added to this
glorification (tasbīḥ) and exaltation in the best possible manner;
with the greatest level, greatest quantity and greatest description,
and the servant recalls all of this when glorifying (Allāh) andsuch
understanding dwells in his heart; these words ofremembrance will
contain such merit and excellence that outstrip others forms, and with
Allāh lies all success. [5]

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''Advise'':-/:-/ Let’s Love Ourselves First:

We can get so caught up intrying to fix other people's problems, that
we forget to fix ourselves. We can spend all our time helping family
members, running around, "sacrificing", while our own souls are weary,
discouraged and approaching despair. We can champion important causes,
or do vital work in our jobs, while we cover upor ignore wounds from
ourpast, until we cannot even look at ourselves with respect or love.
I suppose we all have our coping mechanisms. For me, it's martial
arts. When I'm troubled or unhappy, I tend to immerse myself in my
martial arts practice. It occupies my mind, allows me to forget my
problems, and wears out my body so I can sleep.
Others may plunge themselves into their work,or distract themselves
withbooks, music or television, or busy themselves with other people's
problems. But you can only keep this up for so long. If you don't face
what's going on internally, the darkness willeventually spread and
blot everything else out.
We have to come to terms with ourselves, or happiness will elude us forever.

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''Advise'':-/:-/Everything is possible for those who believe:

Nourish your dreams. To achieve anything requires faith in Allah,
belief in yourself, imagination, vision, persistence, hard work, and
sometimes blood and tears.
The will of Allah and the power of your heart and mind make an
unbeatable combination. Everything is possible for those who believe –
anything you can envision, and many things you can't.
I'm thinking of a ragtag group of desert Arabs, who,in the course of a
single generation, transformed the world forever. I am speaking of
course of the Prophet Muhammad (peacebe upon him) and his companions.
What they didwas impossible – there's noother word for it. But through
the power of Allah, and the tremendous determination of one man, and
the faith of those who followed him, the impossible became possible.
Because of their faith and sacrifices, you andI can utter the words, "
Laa ilaha-il-Allah " and put them into practice in our lives.
Your dreams don't have to be that grand. Whether you dream of building
a new masjid for your community, writing a novel, competing in sports,
becoming a doctor, doing charity work overseas, memorizing the Quran,
or any other good and meaningful goal – it can beachieved by the will
of Allah. But you can't just sit back and wait for it to happen. Feed
your dream as you would feed a newly planted seed. Care for it, devote
time to it, don't give up, and watch it grow before your eyes.

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Advice:->Zina is not only the Haram sexual relationship, it's actually more than that!

Zina is not only the Haram sexual relationship, it's actually more than that!
Prophet Mohammad (salaAllahu alaihi wa sallam) said:"The fornication
of the two eyes is an evil glance. The fornication of the two ears is
the obscene talk. The fornication of the tongue and hand is the touch
and grasp. And the fornication of the two feet is the steps taken
towards evil. The heart desires and longs andthe private parts abide
with or does contrary to it". (Mishkat ul Masabih, Abu Dawood)
so you must know that looking at opposite genderwith lust, either in
pictures,images, at colleges or at work, watching pornography or other
indecent acts either openly or in the privacy of the home or on the
internet is ALL forbidden.

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