Women site, - Etiquettes of Supplicating- II

The Prophet, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, used to invoke Allaah The
Exalted saying:"Allaahumma anta rabbi la ilaaha illa ant, khalaqtani
wa ana 'abduk, wa ana 'ala 'ahdika wa wa'dika mastata't, a'oothu bika
min sharri maa sana't, aboo'u laka bini'matika, wa aboo'u laka
bithanbi faghfir lee fa innahoo la yaghfiru ath-thunooba illa ant )O
Allaah, You are my Lord, there is none worthy of worship except You.
You Created me and I am Your slave; and I abide by Your Covenant and
Promise as best I can. I take refuge in You from the evil that I
committed and I am grateful to You for the blessing that You Conferred
on me. I acknowledge my sin, so forgive me, for verily none can
forgive sins except You(."]Al-Bukhaari[ The Prophet, sallallaahu
'alayhi wa sallam, also said,"Allaahumma inni a'oothu bika min ash
shiqaaqi wan nifaaqi wa soo'u al akhlaaq )O Allaah, I seek refuge with
you from dissension, hypocrisy and bad morals."]An-Nasaa'i[
• Avoiding exaggeration in making an invocation rhyme: A Muslim should
not exaggerate in making a supplication rhyme because this is a state
of humility and submissiveness. Ibn 'Abbaas, May Allaah Be Pleased
with him, said, "Avoid rhymes in supplication for the Prophet,
sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, and his Companions, May Allaah Be
Pleased with them, used to avoid it." ]Al-Bukhaari[
Some of the righteous people said, "Invoke Allaah The Exalted with a
humble and mild tongue, not one that is eloquent and quick."
• Invoking Allaah The Almighty for one's self and then for others.
Allaah The Almighty Says )what means(:}"Our Lord, Forgive us and our
brothers who preceded us in faith and Put not in our hearts ]any[
resentment toward those who have believed. Our Lord, indeed You are
Kind and Merciful."{]Quran 59:10[ The Prophet, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa
sallam, used to invoke Allaah The Almighty for himself first before
invoking Him for any other person. ]At-Tirmithi[
• Avoiding supplicating Allaah The Almighty against one's self,
family, wealth or children. The Prophet, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa
sallam, said,"Do not supplicate Allaah against yourselves, your
children or your wealth."]Muslim[
• Supplicating Allaah The Exalted for fellow brothers in their
absence. The Messenger of Allaah, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam,
said,"The supplication of a Muslim for another Muslim in his absence
is accepted by Allaah. He has an appointed angel at his head and every
time he supplicates good for his brother, the angel would say: "Aameen
and for you the same."]Muslim[
• Invoking Allaah The Almighty for whoever does you a favor. The
Prophet, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, said,"If a favor is performed
for someone and he says to the one who performed it, 'May Allaah
Reward you.' He would be rewarding him perfectly."]At-Tirmithi and
An-Nasaa'i[ The Prophet, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, also
said,"Whoever does you a favor, reward him for it. And if you cannot
find the means of doing so, then keep supplicating for him until you
think that you have rewarded him adequately."]Abu Daawood and
An-Nasaa'i[
• Asking righteous people for supplications. A Muslim should ask his
fellow brothers to supplicate Allaah The Almighty for him especially
the righteous people. It was narrated that 'Umar ibn Al-Khattaab, May
Allaah Be Pleased with him, said, "I asked the Prophet, sallallaahu
'alayhi wa sallam, for permission to perform 'Umrah and he granted it
to me and said, 'O brother, remember us in your supplication and do
not forget us.' The words he said pleased me more than could all that
is in the life of this world." ]At-Tirmithi and Ibn Maajah[
• Avoiding supplicating Allaah The Almighty for a sin or the severance
of kinship. The Prophet, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, said:"A
servant shall continue to have his supplications answered so long as
he does not supplicate for sins or the severance of kinship."]Muslim[
• Remembering Allaah The Exalted, obeying Him and performing good
deeds. Being conscious of Allaah The Exalted, diligent on performing
acts of worship, abandoning sins and evils and hastening to repentance
makes supplication more likely to be answered. Allaah The Almighty
Says )what means(:}"Indeed, Allaah only Accepts from the righteous
]who fear Him[.{]Quran 5:27[ It was narrated that Allaah The Almighty
said in the Qudsi Hadeeth,"Whoever keeps himself busy with the Quran
and remembering Me, I Will Give him the best of all those who ask of
Me."]At-Tirmithi[
• Being keen on having lawful sustenance. The Prophet, sallallaahu
'alayhi wa sallam, said,"O people, Allaah Is Good and He Accepts only
that which is good. And Allaah Commanded the believers as He Commanded
the Messengers by saying )what means(:}"O messengers, eat from the
good foods and work righteousness. Indeed, I, of what you do, Am
Knowing.{"]Quran 23:51[ And He Says )what means(:}O you who have
believed, eat from the good things which We have provided for you and
be grateful to Allaah if it is ]indeed[ Him that you worship.{]Quran
2:172[He then mentioned )the case of( a man who has travelled a long
distance – unkempt and dusty – and raises his hands towards the
heavens and says: 'O Lord, O Lord, while his food, drink, clothing are
from unlawful means and he is fed with unlawful food. Then how could
his supplication be answered?"]Muslim[
Ibraaheem ibn Adham, May Allaah Have mercy upon him, was once asked,
"Why are our supplications to Allaah The Exalted not answered?" He
answered, "Because your hearts have died due to ten things."
"1- You know Allaah The Almighty but do not obey Him.
2- You know the Prophet, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, but do not
follow his Sunnah )tradition(.
3- You recite the Quran but do not act upon it.
4- You enjoy the Blessings of Allaah The Exalted without giving thanks.
5- You know of Paradise but do not exert any effort to enter it.
6- You know of Hell but you do not exert any effort to escape it.
7- You know of Satan but do not oppose him.
8- You know of death but do not prepare for it.
9- You bury your dead but do not learn from their example.
10- And in your state of slumber, you focus your attention on the
shortcomings of others while neglecting your own."