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Ramadan Article - Virtues of ‘Umrah Performed in Ramadan

Ibn 'Abbaasnarrated,"When the Prophetreturned after performing Hajj
)major pilgrimage(, he asked Umm Sinaan Al-Ansaariyyah,'Why did you
not perform Hajj?'She replied, 'The father of so-and-so]i.e., her
husband[ had two camels and he went on pilgrimage on one of them, and
the second is used for the irrigation of our land.' The Prophetsaid
]to her[:'An 'Umrah )minor pilgrimage( in Ramadan is akin to Hajj with
me]in terms of reward[.'"]Al-Bukhaari and Muslim[ According to another
narration, he told her:"When Ramadan comes, do 'Umrah as ]the
rewardfor[ it then is equivalent to Hajj."
Likewise, it was reported by Umm Ma'qilthat the Prophet,, said to
her,"Perform 'Umrah in Ramadan, as it is equal toHajj."]Abu Daawood[
SimilarHadeeths werealso narrated on the authority of Jaabir, Anas,
Abu Hurayrah and Wahb ibn Khanbashall.
Ibn Battaalcommented on the aforementionedHadeeths, saying:
The sentence that'Umrah"then is equivalent to Hajj", proves thatthe
Prophet,, was actually encouraging her to perform a voluntaryHajj, as
the wholeUmmah)Muslim nation( has unanimously agreed that the'Umrahcan
never be a substitute for the obligatoryHajj. Moreover, what he,,
meant is that they are like each other in reward, butvirtues cannot
truly be perceived through analogy; and Allaah The Almighty bestows
His Bounty upon whom He Wills.
Benefits and rulings ]derived from theseHadeeths[:
1-The mercy and bounty bestowed by Allaah The Almightyupon His slaves
is great, as He granted them huge rewards in return for small good
deeds; so, we praise Him abundantly for that.
2-The Prophet,, was keen on ensuring the welfare of hisUmmahand would
ask after those under his rule. Just as he was the sincerest confidant
to allpeople, any slave whom Allaah The Almighty puts in charge of
subjects should treat them leniently, advise them, check on their
conditions and serve their worldly and religious benefits.
3-'Umrahdone during the monthofRamadancannot be a substitute for the
obligatoryHajj, i.e., they are equal in reward, but the former does
not replace the latter as a fulfillment of the obligation that is
unanimously agreed upon by the scholars.
4-The reward of good deeds increases in proportion to the virtue of
the time they are performed in, as well as one's heartfelt devotion
and dedication.
5-ThisHadeethis similar to the narration that says,"The Chapter
Al-Ikhlaas )Purification( equals one third of the Quran"; it indicates
that it is equivalent in terms of the reward of recitation,not that
reciting it could, or should, substitute actually reciting ]that much
or[ the wholeof the Quran.
6-The'Umrahhere is considered equal to theHajjin reward, when it is
performed during the monthofRamadan, which is a great season for good
deeds. Hence, whoever performs it then, enjoysthe virtue of the place
]i.e., the Sacred Mosque in Makkah[ and time ]i.e.,Ramadan[; this is
also the case with one who performsHajj, as he is also in the same
holy place and in a blessed time]i.e., months ofHajj[.
In addition, doing'Umrahin the month ofRamadanis more difficult. That
is because one maybe fasting while performing it or break his fast due
to the traveling involved, and then have to make up for it. This is
not the case when one performs'Umrahduring any other month. The
Prophet,, said to 'Aa'ishahonce, when he ordered her to
perform'Umrah,"It ]i.e., its reward[ is according to your effort", or,
as per another narration,"according to your expenditure."]Muslim[
7-This great reward is granted towhoever performs the'Umrahduring the
month ofRamadan, even if he ]or she[ returns immediately thereafter
and does not prolong his ]or her[ stay in Makkah.
8-TheseHadeethsdo not mean that it is recommended for one to
perform'Umrahmany times inthe month ofRamadanor in a single day of it.
This practice, which has become common today, differs from
theSunnahand traditions of the honorable Companionsas it was not
reported that any of them used to perform many'Umrahs duringthe same
journey to Makkah.
9-Whoever performs'UmrahinRamadanand intends to stay at the Holy
Mosque during the whole month or its last ten nights, should guard
himself against committing any prohibition, because evil deeds are
more sacrilegious in Makkah than in any other place, not to mention,
during the month ofRamadan.
10-Whoever takes his family to stay at the Holy Mosque during the
month ofRamadan, should take care that they, too, do not fall into
committing any forbidden act; otherwise, he may return with sins that
exceed the reward he came to earn, due to his negligence towards his
wife and children.
11-If one entered the state ofIhraam)ritual consecration( with the
intention of performing'Umrahand reached Makkah while fasting, he has
the choice of either breaking his fast to be able to do it immediately
or waiting to do it until after sunset. It is better for him to break
his fast during the daytimeand perform'Umrahupon arrival,since
doing'Umrahright after reaching Makkah, is what the Prophet,, did.

Ramadan Article - Sexual Intercourse During the Day in Ramadan

Abu Hurayrahsaid,
While we were sitting with the Propheta man came and said, "O
Messenger of Allaah, I amruined!" The Messenger of Allaahasked:"What
is the matter with you?"He replied, "I had sexual intercourse with my
wife while I was fasting." The Messenger of Allaahasked him:"Can you
afford to manumit a slave?"He replied in the negative. The Messenger
of Allaahasked him:"Can you fast for two successive months?"He replied
in the negative. The Prophetasked him:"Can you afford to feed sixty
poor persons?"He replied in the negative. The Prophetremained silent
and while we were in that state, a big basket full of dates was
brought to the Prophet. He asked:"Where is the questioner?"He replied,
"It's me." The Prophet said ]to him[:"Take this )basket of dates( and
distribute it in charity."The man said, "Should I give it to a person
poorer than I? By Allaah, there is no household between its )i.e.
Madeenah's( two mountains thatis poorer than my household." The
Prophetsmiled until his pre-molar teeth became visible and then
said:"Feed your family with it."]Al-Bukhaari and Muslim[
Benefits and rulings:
First:Whoever has sexual intercourse during the day inRamadanwithout
an excuse suchas traveling, forgetfulness or compulsion has disobeyed
Allaah The Almighty. Such a person must repent and abstain from food,
drink and sexual intercourse until sunset. The fasting of that day
becomes invalid and the due expiation must be observed.
Second:The form of expiation is to be decided in the following order;
first to manumit a slave, but if this is not possible or affordable,
then two successive months are to be fasted if the person has the
capability of doing so; otherwise, sixty poor persons are to be fed.
Third:The permissibility of informing others about the intimate
relations between the spouses in case of necessity.
Fourth:If a person who has sinned seeks aFatwa)ruling( concerning his
sin, he is not considered to be declaring his sin.
Fifth:One should be kind to thosewho have yet to learn and gentle
enough to draw them near to the religion. Acts of disobediencemust be
regretted over and fear of Allaah The Almighty must be present.
Sixth:The permissibility of giving the value of an expiation to a
single household.
Seventh:Thekeenness of the Companionsfor the purification of their
souls and saving themselves them from thecauses of punishment.
Eighth:If the expiator is poor, he or she and his or her poor
household may eat from the foodoffered as an expiation.
Ninth:A husband must provide for his family even if he is poor. Imaam
Al-Bukhaarientitled a chapter for thisHadeeth"Baab nafaqat al-mu'sir
'ala ahlihi)Chapter: The Obligation of Providing for One's Family Upon
its Male Head – Even if He is Poor.("
Tenth:This heavy expiation is exclusively for those who break their
fast by having sexual intercourse during the day inRamadan, and not
for those whobreak their fast by eating and drinking early, and this
is the opinion of Shaafi'i and Hanbali scholars and the adopted one.
Onthe other hand, the Hanafi and Maaliki scholars are of the opinion
that this heavy expiation is also applicable to those who break their
fast by eating and drinking early as well.
Eleventh:A mention of the joy that a leader feels at the fulfillment
of the worldly and Hereafter needs of his subjects.
Twelfth:It is permissible for a person to complain about his
conditions to those who can helphim as long as the complaint is not
said out of dissatisfaction with the decree of Allaah.
Thirteenth:If a person has sexualintercourse once of more during the
same day inRamadanand does not expiate, he should offer a single
expiation only. There is no difference among scholars regarding this
point.
Fourteenth:Having sexual intercourse on two days during the days
ofRamadannecessitatesthe offering of an expiation for each
day.However, Shaykh Ibn Jibreenheld a different opinion stating that
if a person has had intercourse on two days inRamadanand has not
expiatedfor one of them, then it is permissible for him to observe a
single expiation for the two days.
Fifteenth:If a person nullifies his fasting by having sexual
intercourse during a day in whichhe was fasting as makeup for a missed
day inRamadan, then thefasting becomes invalid and this day should be
made up for, but he should not offer any additional expiation as that
expiation )fasting sixty continuous days( is for the violation of the
sanctity of the month ofRamadan, according tothe sounder opinion, and
which does not apply to any other type of makeup day.
Sixteenth:If dawn breaks while a Muslim is having sexual intercourse
and if he immediatelystops, then his fast will be valid. If he
continues, then he commits a sin and should repent, offer thedue
expiation )mentioned above( and abstain from eating, drinking, and
having intercourse for the rest of the day.
Seventeenth:Whoever breaks his fast by eating or drinking during the
day inRamadanin order to have sexual intercourse has committed a sin
due to breaking his fast without a valid excuse and due to adopting
deceptive ways of evadingSharee'ahrulings. Such a person is
nonetheless not exempted from the defined expiation and must offer it.
Eighteenth:The flexibility and easiness of theSharee'ah. This is clear
in the case of this man, whocommitted a grave sin inRamadanand came in
a state of fear to the Prophet,, saying,"I am ruined."The words of
this man indicated his regret and repentance; consequently, Allaah
accepted his repentance and the Prophet,, gave him food to expiate for
his sin. In the end, he gave the expiatory food to his own household
due to their poverty, and therefore, the Prophet,, smiled.
Nineteenth:If a person does not realize that it is a day inRamadanand
has sexual intercourse, then the sounder opinion is that he need not
offer expiation.
Twentieth:If a person has sexual intercourse while in a state of
forgetfulness, his fasting is valid and neither expiation nor makingup
for the fast is due on him.

Ramadan Article - Virtuous deeds During Ramadan

The month of Ramadan isa great opportunity for devout worshippers to
utilize their days in reciting the Quran and teaching others and
utilizing their nights in feeding the needy, supplicating and
praying.The one whose today is exactly like his yesterday without any
improvement, is truly deprived.
A Muslim must utilize this blessed month to perform as many good deeds
as he can, and should strive to be in better condition during this
month than he was before it, and should be keen to become even better
after it, as this is how our righteous Salaf were.
Hammad Ibn Salamahsaid: "Whenever we went to see Sulaymaan At-Taymee
during a time during which one can be performing an act of obedience
we would find him performing some act of worship. If it was time to
pray he would be praying, if it was not he would either performing
ablution, visiting a sick person, following a funeral precession or
sitting in the mosque awaiting theprayer. People believed that this
man could neverdisobey Allaah"
Righteous deeds that the prophetand his companionsused to perform
during this great month were many, and the following are some of these
deeds:
Qiyaam )optional night prayers(:Abu Hurayrahreported that the
Prophetsaid:"Whoever establishes prayers during the nightsof Ramadan
out of sincere faith and hoping to attain Allaah's rewards, all his
previous sins will be forgiven"]Al-Bukhaari & Muslim[. Ibn Jurayjsaid:
"I accompanied 'Ataa' Ibn Abi Rabaahfor eighteen years, and he
continued to pray two hundred verses from chapter Al-Baqarah without
moving at all during his prayer despitehim reaching a very old age"
Supplication:The revelation of the verse ofsupplication
immediatelyafter the verses mandating the fast of Ramadan is a clear
indication of the importance of this act of worship during this month.
Allaah Says )what means(:"And when My slaves ask you, ]O Muhammad[,
concerning Me-indeed I am near. I respond to the invocation of the
supplicant when he calls upon Me. So let them respond to Me ]by
obedience[ and believe in Me that they may be]rightly[ guided."]Quran:
2: 186[. Supplication is the essence of worship and it indicates how
much man is in need of his Lord during all situations; it is named
"worship" in the text of the Quran as Allaah Says)what means(:"And
your Lord says, Call upon Me; I will respond to you." Indeed, those
who disdain My worship will enter Hell ]rendered[ contemptible"]Quran
40: 60[
I'tikaaf )i.e. residing in the mosque with the intention of
worship(:Ibn 'Umarreported:"The Prophetused to do I'tikaaf during the
lastten days of Ramadan"]Al-Bukhaari and Muslim[.Ibn
Al-Qayyimsaid:"The rectification of the heart revolves around the
slave focusing himself to please Allaah and fulfill His commands.
Moreover, unnecessary talking, eating, drinking and socializing weaken
the heart and divert it from its objective. Due to this, Allaah has
legislated fasting so that the slave abandons unnecessary eating and
drinking; and legislated I'tikaaf so that the slave's heart is focused
on Allaah alone and is detached from people and is exclusively devoted
to Allaah"
Generosity and recitationof the Quran:Ibn 'Abbaasstated:"The
Prophetwas the most generous of all the people, and he was the most
generous during the month of Ramadan when Jibreel met him. Jibreel
used to meet him every night of Ramadan to teach him the Quran, and
when he met him, hewould be more generous than the
stronguncontrollable wind )i.e. in readiness and haste to do
charitable deeds("]Al-Bukhaari and Muslim[.Ramadan is the month of
Quran, and thus one is supposed to exert extra efforts in reciting the
Quran. This is how our righteous Salafused to be; many of them usedto
finish the entire Quranonce every three nights during the optional
nightprayers, while others used to finish it every seven days. Some of
them used to finish it every two days, and yet some would finish it
all in a single day. Ibn Rajabsaid:"The prohibitionof not reciting the
Quran in less than three days is when one does this continuously, but
during virtuous times like the month of Ramadan, or virtuous places
like Makkah, one is encouraged to take advantage of this opportunity
and recite asmuch as he can"'Abdur-Razzaaqsaid:"Whenever the month of
Ramadan arrived, Imaam Sufyaanconcentratedonly on reciting the Quran
and left other acts of worship"
Performing 'Umrah:Ibn `Abbaasreported that the Messenger of Allaahsaid
to one of the women from the residents of Al-Madeenah:"When Ramadan
comes, go and perform 'Umrah, as doingso is equivalent to performing
Hajj"]Al-Bukhaari and Muslim[
Refraining from backbiting and other sins:Abu Hurayrahreported that
the Messenger of Allaahsaid:"Whoever does not give up false speech and
evil actions, Allaah is not in need of his leaving his food and
drink."]Al-Bukhaari[ Fasting is a great opportunity to giveup smoking,
evil company, late nights andother sins, as it trains oneto stick to
the mosque more than any other place.
Feeding the needy and poor:Allaah Says )what means(:"And they give
food in spite of love for itto the needy, the orphan,and the captive.
]Saying[,"We feed you only for the Countenance ]i.e. approval[ of
Allaah. We wish not from you reward or gratitude. Indeed, We fear from
ourLord a Day austere and distressful." So Allaah willprotect them
from the evil of that Day and give them radiance and happiness. And
will reward them for what they patiently endured]with[ a garden ]in
Paradise[ and silk]garments[."]Quran 76: 8-12[ Zayd Ibn Khaalid
Al-Jahnireported that the Messenger of Allaahsaid:"He who gives a
fasting person somethingwith which to break his fast will have a
reward equal to his )i.e. the fasting person( without his reward being
diminished in any respect."]At-Tirmithi and Ibn Maajah[

Ramadan Article - What Time To Stop And Start Fasting

Once the entire disk of the sun has disappeared, the fasting person
shouldbreak his fast, and not pay any attention to the red glow that
remains onthe horizon, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of
Allah be upon him) said:"Once night comes from there and the day
disappears from there, and the sun has set, the fasting person should
break his fast."(Reported by al-Bukhaari, al-Fath, no. 1954; the issue
is also mentioned in Majmoo' al-Fataawa, 25/216).
The Sunnah is to hasten in breaking the fast. The Prophet (peace and
blessings of Allah be upon him) would not pray Maghrib until he had
broken his fast, if only with a sip of water. (Reported by al-Haakim,
1/432; al-Silsilat al-Saheehah, 2110). If a fasting person cannot find
anything with whichto break his fast, he should have the intention in
his heart to break his fast, and he should not suck his finger, as
some of the common people do. He should beware of breaking the fast
before the correct time, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of
Allah be upon him) saw some people hanging from their hamstrings with
blood pouring from the corners of their mouths, and when he asked
about them, he was told that they were people who broke their fast
before it was time to do so. (The hadeeth is in Saheeh Ibn Khuzaymah,
no. 1986, and in Saheeh al-Targheeb, 1/420). If a person is certain,
or thinks it most likely, or is not sure whether he broke the fast
before the proper time, he should make up the fast later on,because
the basic principle is that the day isstill there and has not ended.
(Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa'imah, 10/287). He should beware of relying
on the word of small children or untrustworthy sources, and he should
also beware of the time differences between different cities and
villages when he hears the adhaan on the radio and so on.
When the dawn comes – which is the white light coming across the
horizon in the East – the fasting person must stop eating and drinking
straightaway, whether he hears the adhaan or not. If he knows that the
muezzin calls the adhaan at dawn, he has to stop eating and drinking
as soon as he hears his adhaan, but if the muezzin calls the adhaan
before Fajr, he does not have to stop eating and drinking when he
hears it. If he does not know the muezzin's usual practice, or there
are differences among the muezzins, and he cannot determine the time
of dawn for himself – as is usually the case in cities because of
lighting and buildings – he should take the precaution of referring to
a printed timetable, so long as he issure that the calculations on
which it is based are not incorrect.
The idea of being on the safe side by stopping eating and drinking a
certain time before Fajr, such as ten minutes before, is bid'ah. On
some timetables you can see one heading for"imsaak" (stopping
eatingand drinking) and another for Fajr; this is something that is
contrary to Islam.
The Muslims living in cities where there is a distinct alternation of
night and day in every twenty-four hour period are obliged to fast, no
matter how long the day is, so long as that distinction between night
and day is there. In some places there is no such distinction between
night and day; Muslims inthese places should fast according to the
times in the nearest city in which there is a distinct alternation of
night and day.

Ramadan Article - Sunnahs Neglected in Ramadhan

Question: "Could the Shaikh give us some words of benefit for the
blessed month of Ramadaan, on this fine occasion?"
Shaikh al-Albaanee, may Allah have mercy upon him replied:
"Allah, the Exalted and Most High, says in the Noble Quraan:
O you who believe! Fasting is prescribed for you as it was prescribed
for those before you, so that you may become people having
Taqwaa.Soorah al-Baqarah (2):183
So in thisaayah, as will not be hidden to all thosewho are present,
Allah, the Mighty and Majestic, informs theUmmahof Muhammad,sallAllahu
alaihi wa sallam,through thisaayah, that He has made Fasting
obligatory upon them just as He hadmade its like obligatory upon the
nations before us. This is a matter that iswell-known to all of the
Muslims who read thisaayah, and clearly understand its meaning. But
what I wish to speak about is something else, a matter which very few
of the general people notice-‹and this is the saying of Allah, the
Exalted and Most High, at the end of thisaayah:
So that you may become people havingTaqwaa.
So Allah, the Mighty and Majestic, when He commands His believing
servants, or obligates them with some Legislation, (then He) usually
just mentions the command, without explaining the wisdom for it. This
is because the general wisdom behind Allah, the Mighty and Majestic¹s,
placing duties upon His servants is that He should test them by it, so
that it should become apparent (as to) those who will obey Him and
those who will disobey Him, the Exalted and MostHigh.
However in thisaayah,Hementioned something that is not found
frequently in the Noble Quraan, which is that He mentioned the reason
forthe order to Fast, by His Saying:
So that you may become people ofTaqwaa.
So the wisdom behind the Believers to fast is notjust that they should
prevent themselves from enjoyable and permissible and good things,
even though this is an obligation upon theFasting person - but this is
not the only thing that is required and intended by this Fasting. So
Allah, the Mighty and Majestic, concluded His command to fast by His
Saying:
So that you may become people ofTaqwaa.
Meaning: that the wisdom behind the prescription of Fasting is that
the Muslim should increase in obedience to Allah, the Exalted and Most
High, in the month of Fasting, and become more obedient than he was
before it.
Then the Prophet,sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam,clearly stated and
completely clarified this point of divine wisdom, by his,sallAllahu
alaihi wa sallam,saying, as is reported in theSaheehofal-Bukhaaree
(no. 1903), that hesallAllahu alaihi wa sallam,said,"Whoeverdoes not
abandon falsehood in speech and action, then Allah has no need that he
should leave his food and drink."Meaning: that Allah, the Mighty and
Majestic, did not intend and desire, by the obligation of Fasting -
which is to withhold for a stated time, well known to you all - that
they should only withhold from eating and drinking. Rather they
should also withhold from that which Allah, the Mighty and Majestic,
has forbidden with regard tosins and acts of disobedience to Him;
andfrom that is falsehood in speech and action.
So the Messanger,sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam,is emphasizing theaayah:
So that you may become people ofTaqwaa.
i.e. that you should, as anact of worship to draw you closer to Allah,
the Mighty and Majestic, in addition to withholding from food and
drink, alsowithhold from forbidden actions such as backbiting,
carrying talesto cause harm to people, false witness, lying and so on,
with regard to those forbidden mannersthat we are all aware of.
Therefore it is obligatory that all the Muslims should be aware that
actions which disrupt theFast are not just the physical acts, which
are generally known, which are eating, drinking and sexual
intercourse. The Fast is not just that you withhold from this.
Therefore some of the scholars differentiate, and divide those things
which disrupt the Fast into two categories, and this is what I intend
by this talk of mine at this time that is blessed, if Allah wills.
This is especially important since those who deliverKhutbahsand
admonish the peopleduringRamadaan, when they speak about those things
which disrupt the Fast, then they only speakabout the material things,
those things that we have just mentioned (eating, drinking and sexual
intercourse). But what they should do, as sincere advisers and people
who give reminder to the Muslims in general, is to concentrate a great
deal upon the second category of things which disrupt the Fast. This
is because the people have become used to thinking that Fasting is
just to refrain from the first category, to withhold from the material
things. But there is another category of things which disrupt the
Fast, which we are able to call the non-material things which disrupt
the Fast.
So you have just heard his,sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam,saying,"Whoever
does not abandon falsehood in speech and action, then Allah has no
need that he should leave his food and drink."
Therefore every Fasting person should examine himself and see: is he
justwithholding from the material things, or is he also withholding
from those non-material things? Meaning: has he made his manners and
behaviour good when the blessed month ofRamadaancomes? If thatis the
case, then he has fulfilled the Saying of Allah, the Exalted and Most
High, at the end of theaayah:
So that you may become people ofTaqwaa.
But as for he one who restricts himself in his Fasting to just
withholding from food and drink, but who continues and persists upon
the evil manners which he was upon previously, before Ramadaan, then
this is not the Fasting that is desired and required from the wisdom
behind the legislation of this noble month, which our Lord, the Mighty
and Majestic indicates in His Saying:
So that you may become people ofTaqwaa.
Therefore we advise and remind our brother and sister Muslims that
they should remind this other category of things, those that are
non-material, which disrupt the Fast, and it is something which the
admonishers and those who seek to direct the people to the correct way
rarely speak about, not to mention the general people, who are not
aware of this category of things which disrupt the fast, i.e., the
non-material things.
This is what I wanted to remind our brothers and sisters who are
present inthis fine gathering about,if Allah wills, so that it may be
cause of their increasing in acts of worship seeking to draw closer to
Allah, the Exalted and Most High, in this blessed month, the month of
Fasting, which is such that we hope that Allah, the Exalted and Most
High, will guide andgrant us all the success offulfilling the due
right of this blessed month, which is that we withhold from both the
material and the non-material things which disrupt the Fast.
Then in addition to this word, I hope that you will pay attention to
some affairs which have been neglected by the majority of the general
Muslims, indeed and also by those having knowledge.
There is ahadeethwhich is very often neglected because of
anotherhadeeth, because the majority of people are unable to reconcile
in practice and application between them. So thishadeethis
his,sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam,saying,"My Ummah will continueto be
upon good for as long as they hasten to break the fast and delay the
pre-dawn meal."
So here two matters were mentioned, and they are neglected by most of
the people, and they are: hastening to break the fast, and delaying
the pre-dawn meal (Suhoor).
As for neglect of the first matter, which is hastening to break the
Fast, then in the view of some people it contradicts anotherhadeeth,
which is his,sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam,saying,"My Ummah will
continue to be upon good for as longas they hasten to pray the Maghrib
Prayer."
So here we have two commands, to hasten with two matters. So it
appears to some people that we cannot hasten to perform both of them
together.
But reconciling between the command to hasten with breaking the Fast
and the command to hasten to pray theMaghribPrayer is a very easy
matter. So it is something which our Prophet,sallAllahu alaihi wa
sallam,made clear to us by his action and practice. So
he,sallAllahualaihi wa sallam,used to break the Fast with three dates.
He would eat three dates. Then he would pray theMaghribPrayer, then
he would eat again if he found thathe needed to eat the evening meal.
But today we fall into two offences:
Firstly we delay theAdhaanfrom its legislated time. Then after this
delay comes another delay, which is that we sit down for a meal -
except for a few people who are eager and pray theMaghribPrayer in the
mosque. But the majority of the people wait until they hear
theAdhaan, and then they sit down to eat as if they are having a
dinner, or their evening meal, and not just breaking their fast.
So theAdhaanthese days - in most of the lands of Islaam, is,
unfortunately, Ihave to say, and not just in Jordan, and I have known
this from investigation, in most of the lands of Islaam -
theAdhaanforMaghribis given after the time it becomes due. And the
reason for this is that we have abandoned adhering to and applyingthe
Islamic rulings, and instead we have come to depend upon astronomical
calculations. We depend upon the timetable.
But these time-tables are based upon astronomicalcalculations which
count the land as being a singleflat plane. So they give a time for
this flat plain, whereas the reality is that the land, particularlyin
this land of ours varies,varying between the depression of valleys and
the elevation of mountains. So it is not correct that a single time
be given which covers the shore, the plains and the mountains. No,
each part of the land has its own time. So therefore whoever is able
in his place of residence, in his city or his village, to see the sun
set with his own eye, then whatever time it sets at, then that is the
hastening that we have been commanded with inhis,sallAllahu alaihi wa
sallam,saying, which we just mentioned,"My Ummah will continue to be
upon good as long as they hasten to break the fast."So the
ProphetsallAllahu alaihi wa sallam,was careful to implement
thisSunnahbyteaching it, and by putting it into practice.
As for his teaching, then he,sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam,said, in
thehadeethreported by al-Bukharee in hisSaheeh(no. 1954),"If the night
appears from this side,"and he pointed towards the east,"and the day
has departed from here,"and he pointed towards the west,"and the sun
has set, then the Fasting persons fast is broken."
What does,'the Fasting persons fast is broken'mean? It means he has
entered under the ruling that he should break his fast. So then comes
the previous ruling where the Messenger,sallAllahu alaihi wa
sallam,encouraged hastening tobreak the Fast, and the
Messenger,sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam,used to implement this, even
when he was riding on a journey.
So it is reported in theSaheehof al-Bukharee (no.1955) that the
Prophet,sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam,ordered one of his Companions to
prepare theIftaarfor him. So he replied, O Messenger of Allah it is
still daytime before us.¹ Meaning: the light of the sun, so even
though it had set, yet its light was still clear in the west. So the
Messenger,sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam,did not respond to what he had
said, rather he re-emphasised the command to him to prepare theIftaar.
So the narrator of thehadeethwho said, "We could see daylight in
front of us (meaning: the light of day, the light of the sun) when we
broke our fast," said, "If one of us had climbed onto his camel he
would have seen the sun." The sun had set from their location, and the
Messenger,sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam,ordered one of the Companions
toprepare theIftaar. Why? To hasten upon good"MyUmmah will continue
upon good for as long as they hasten to break the Fast."
So what is important is that we notice that theIftaarwhich is
legislated to be hastened must be done with a few dates. Then we must
hasten to perform the Prayer. Then after this the people can sit and
eat as they need.
This is the first matter which I wanted to remind of, and it is how to
reconcile the two matters which the Prophet,sallAllahu alaihi wa
sallam,commanded we should hasten to perform. The first being the
command to hasten the breaking of the Fast, and the second being
thecommand to hasten to perform theMaghribPrayer. So theIftaarshould
be done with some dates, as occurs in theSunnah, and if dates are not
available, then with some gulps of water. Then the Prayer should pray
in congregation in the mosque. Then the other matter which I want to
remind of is what occurs in the previoushadeeth,"And they delay the
pre-dawn meal" Meaning: what is required here is the opposite to the
case of theIftaar. So he,sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam,commanded us to
hasten to perform theIftaar. But as for theSuhoor, then it should
bedelayed. But what happens today is totally contrary to this, since
many people eat theirSuhoorbefore the appearance ofFajrby perhaps an
hour. This is not befitting. This is contrary to theSunnahshown by
the saying of the Prophet,sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam,and by his
practice. So the Companions of the Prophet,sallAllahu alaihi wa
sallam,used to leave theSuhoorso late, that one of them would almost
hear theAdhaanand he would still be eating. He delayed theSuhoor.
Indeed there is an authentichadeethreported from the
Prophet,sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam,which shows the ease afforded by
Islaam, which is to be counted as one of the principles of Islaam,
which the Muslims are proud of, especially with regard to the matter
of Fasting, since Allah, the Mighty and Majestic, concluded
theaayahsconcerning Fasting with His Saying:
Allah desires ease for you, and He does not desire to make things
difficult for you.
So from this ease is his,sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam,saying,"If one of
you hears the call to Prayer and the vessel is inthe hand of one of
you, then let him not put it down until he fulfils his need from it."
"If one of you hears the call to Prayer,"and he hashad his fill of
whatever he was eating, then it is not allowed for him to then have
any more, whether it be a drink, or some fruit."
But as for the one who hears theAdhaanand he has not yet taken what he
needs from the food and the drink, then the Messenger,sallAllahu
alaihi wa sallam,made that lawful for him. So heclearly said, in the
clear and eloquent Arabic language,"If one of you hears the call to
Prayer, and the vessel is in his hand, then let him not put it down
until he fulfils his need from it."
And what is meant here by the call is the second call, the
secondAdhaan. It is not the firstAdhaan, which they wrongly call
theAdhaanfor withholding (al-Imsaak).We must know that thereis no
basis for calling the firstAdhaantheAdhaanfor withholding (imsaak).
The secondAdhaanis when we are to withhold, and this is clearly stated
in the Quraan, since Allah, the Mighty and Majestic, says:And eat and
drink until the white thread of dawn becomes clear to you from the
black thread of the night.
So eating becomes forbidden at the start of the time of theFajrPrayer.
There is no separation between these two things. There isno
withholding from food and drink for a quarter of an hour, or less than
that, or more than that, before the start of the time for
theFajrPrayer. Not at all. Because the Prayer becomes due when the
true dawn appears, and food becomes forbidden for the Fasting person
when the true dawn appears. So there is no separation between these
two matters at all.
So therefore there occursin thehadeethagreed upon by al-Bukharee
andMuslim, from thehadeethof ¹Abdullaah ibn ¹Umar ibn
al-Khattaab,radiyAllahu ¹anhumaa, that the Prophet,sallAllahu alaihi
wa sallam,said,"Let not the Adhaan of Bilaal deceive you,"meaning, the
firstAdhaan,"because he gives the Adhaan in order to awaken the person
who is sleeping, and so that the person who wishes to eat the pre-dawn
meal can do so. So eat and drink until Ibn Umm Maktoon gives the
Adhaan."
Ibn Umm Maktoon, and his name was 'Amr, he was a blind man, and he was
the one about whomthe Saying of Allah, the Exalted and Most High, came
down:He frowned and turned away, that the blind man came to him."to
the end of theAayahs.
So he used to give the secondAdhaan, theAdhaanwhich means thateating
becomes prohibited, and that it is now time for theFajrPrayer.
How had he used to give theadhaanwhen he was blind? This is a question
which naturally occurs to some people. So 'Amr ibnUmm Maktoom used to
climb upon the roof of the mosque, and he could not see the dawn, but
he would wait until someone passing by saw the dawn. So when someone
saw that the dawn had appeared and spread across the horizon, then
they wouldsay to him, It is morning. It is morning. Then he would give
theAdhaan.
So you will notice here that theAdhaanof 'Amr ibn Umm Maktoom was
after theFajrhad appeared, and had been seen by the people whilstthey
were walking in the streets. So the when it was said to him, "It is
morning. It is morning," he would give theAdhaan.
So therefore there is latitude in the affair, since themuadhdhinwould
be delayed in giving theAdhaanuntil he heard the people telling him,
"It is morning, it is morning." And then Allah¹s Messenger,sallAllahu
alaihi wa sallam,said,"If one of you hears the call to Prayer and the
vessel is in his hand, then let him not put it down untilhe has
fulfilled his need from it."
So Allah, the Mighty and Majestic, spoke truly when He said at the end
of thoseAayahsrelating to Fasting:Allah desires tomake things easy for
you,and He does not desire tomake things difficult for you.
and,
And that you should complete the number of days, and that you
shouldglorify Allah by mentioningtakbeerfor His having guided you, and
that you should be thankful.
So therefore from theFiqhthat is to be criticised, and which
runscontrary to thisSunnah, is that a person says, "If someone hears
theAdhaanand has some food in his mouth, then he must spit it out."
So this is over-strictness, and(ghuluww) exceeding the limits in the
Religion, and the Lord of all of the creation admonished us, and
reminded us, in His Book and in theSunnahof His Prophet,sallAllahu
alaihi wa sallam,that we should not exceed the due limits in our
Religion.So He said, in the Noble Quraan:
O people of the Book! Do not exceed the limits in your religion, and
do not say anything about Allah except the truth.
And our MessengersallAllahu alaihi wa sallamsaid,"Beware of (ghuluww)
exceeding the limits in the Religion. Because those who came before
you were destroyed by their exceeding the limits in their Religion."
So when Allah¹s Messenger,sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam,has made it
clear to us that there is in the matter of apersons takingsuhoor,
latitude and a margin of ease, to the extent that he said,"If one of
you hears the call to Prayer whilst the vessel is in his hand, then
let him not put it down until he has completed his need from it."
So it is opposition to Allah and to the Messenger that a person says
that one who hears theadhaanwhilst he has food in his mouth must spit
it out upon the ground. This is not from theSunnah. Rather this
iscontrary to theSunnah, and is contrary to the clear command of the
Messenger,sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam. And I have been asked many
times, so I will not leave the need for such a question, but rather I
willprecede you in it, by stating that thishadeethis to be found in
some of the most famous books of theSunnah. From them being theSunanof
Aboo Daawood, and it is the third book from the well-known six books.
The first of which isSaheehul-Bukhaaree, thesecond beingSaheeh Muslim,
and the third being theSunanof Aboo Daawood.
Thishadeethis to be found in it, and it is likewise reported by Aboo
Abdullaah al-Haakim in hisMustadrak, and it is likewise reported by
the Imaam, the Imaam of theSunnahAhmad ibn Hanbal,rahimahullaah, in
his tremendous book known as theMusnadof Imaam Ahmad. So thehadethis
not a strangehadeeth, rather it is a well-knownhadeeth, and was
reported by the Imaams of thesunnahin the early times, and with an
authentic chain of narration.
So here I say, to concludethis talk, since perhaps some of you have
questions, which we will answer if Allah wills, so I conclude it with
his,sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam,saying"Allah lovesthat His allowances
be acted upon just as He loves that His prescribed duties be carried
out,"and in one narration,"Just as He hates that disobedience to Him
be committed."
So there are two narrations,"Allah loves that His allowances be acted
upon just as He loves that His prescribed duties be carried out", and
the second narrationis,"as He hates that disobedience to Him be
committed."
So therefore the Muslim should not practice false piety, and (as a
result) refrain from obeying the Prophet,sallAllahu alaihi wa
sallam,in that which he encouraged us upon and clarified to us.
And what has been said is sufficient, and all praise is for Allah, the
Lord of all of the creation."

Fathwa - How Can We Protect Ourselves From the Evil ofJinn

Question:
I am blind and I live by myself; every night, jinn come and I become
frightened. Now, when I take my copy of the Qur'aan and put it down in
a certain way, they go away. Some people say that I am debasing the
Qur'aan by the way I put it down. Please advise me.
Answer:
You must remember Allaah Almighty before going to sleep by readingAyat
Al-Kursi, Surat Al-Ikhlas, and the last two chapters(Surah)of the
Qur'aan. You should also say the following two supplications, three
times each, both in the morning and in the evening: "I seek refuge in
Allaah's perfect Wordsfrom the evil that He has created." "In the name
of Allaah, by whose name nothing is harmed, neither in the earth nor
in the sky, and He is All-Hearing, All-Knowing." By doing so, you
will, if Allaah wills, be protected from jinn. You should not however,
use a copy of the Qur'aan in any way that may debase it. We ask Allaah
Almighty to cure you and to protect us all fromShaytaan.
With Allaah is the facilitation to do what is right.
May Allaah send peace and blessings on Muhammad, his family, and his Companions.

Fathwa - The Effects of Jinn on Humans, and Seeking Protection From Them

Question:
Can jinn harm man? Howdo we protect ourselves from them?
Answer:
No doubt, jinn can do things to harm man, sometimes things that lead
to his death. Both the Sunnah and observed phenomena support this.
During a battle, the Messenger of AllaahSalallaahu alayhi wasallamgave
permission to one of his Companions to return to his family; that
Companion was young and recently married. When he returned to his
home, he saw his wife standing at their door, and he reproached her
for that. She told him to go inside, and when he entered, he saw a
snake on their blanket. He had a spear with him, and hepierced it into
the body of the snake until it died.However, the man died at the same
time, so that no one knew who died first: He or the snake. When the
news of the incident reached the Messenger of AllaahSalallaahu alayhi
wasallam, he forbade the killing of small sankes found in the house,
with the exception of the short tailed snake, and those with two black
stripes on the back.
This proves that jinn mayattack human beings. Sometimes a person will
go into a secluded place,where he sees no one, but he will hear voices
and sounds, or he will hear stones being thrown. When this happens, it
can very possibly be jinn. Jinn caneven enter the body of ahuman being
- because they are in love with him, or for any other reason. Allaah
Almighty says:
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Those who eatRiba(usury and interest) will not stand (on the Day of
Resurrection) except likethe standing of a person beaten
byShaytaanleading him to insanity[Al-Baqarah 2:275]
To protect ourselves from evil jinn, we shouldread those invocations
that the Messenger of AllaahSalallaahu alayhi wasallamtaught us to
read, such asAyat Al-Kursi, for when a person reads this verse during
the night, he is protected, andShaytaandoes not come near him until
the morning - and Allaah Almighty is the One who protects us.

Fathwa - How the Shaytaan Finds His Way into Somebody's Heart

Question:
Through what avenues does theShaytaanfind a way to make suggestionsto man?
Answer:
There are many avenues;he might try to incite someone to fornicate,
for example. He first incites his victim to be alone with women, then
to look at them, then to talk to them, then perhaps to listen to
themsing, and so on until he achieves his end: when his victim
fornicates.Shaytaanmay attack a person through his stomach, by
tempting him into eating what is unlawful, into drinking alcohol, or
even into taking drugs.Shaytaanmay find that a person has an
inordinate love for owning things, so he biguiles him into gaining
wealth through unlawful means: stealing, swindling, practicing usury,
usurping, cheating. He may find that a person has a great deal of
pride,so he will encourage him to belittle others, to be haughty with
those inferior to him in society, and the list ofShaytaan'stricks is
endless.
May Allaah send peace and blessings on Muhammad, his family, and his Companions.

The seven under the Shade of Allaah Almighty - II

4. Two men who love each other for Allaah's sake, meeting for that and
parting upon that:
Allaah Almighty Says)what means(:"The believers are nothing else than
brothers, so make reconciliation between your brothers, and fear
Allaah, that you may receive mercy."]Quran 49:10[
Having mutual love for the sake of Allaah is one of the great doors
leading to the good of the Hereafter and a causeof tasting the
sweetness of faith in this world. Loving one another for Allaah's sake
means that the Muslim does not love another except for the correctness
of his religion. So it does not matter what the person looks like,
what he wears, how rich or poor he is, where he comes from, or what
the color of his skin is - perhaps you dislike everything about him,
but you love him for his belief in Allaah: this is loving for Allaah's
sake. 'Allaah, the Mighty and Magnificent Says in a Sacred
Narration:"Those who have mutual love for the sake of My Glory will
haveminarets of light and will be envied the Prophets and
martyrs."]At-Tirmithi& Ahmad[
Imagine being envied by Allaah's chosen Messengers and those who were
slain in His Path! Such is the reward of those who love one another
for Allaah's sake.
5. A man who is called)seduced( by a woman of beauty and position but
he says: 'I fear Allaah':
Allaah Says )what mean(:"And come not near to the adultery. Verily, it
is a shameful )deed( and anevil way )that leads one to Hell(."]Quran
17:32[
This world is full of temptations that lead to burning in the Fire and
amongst them is that which comes from women. Many a man has led his
soul into destruction on account ofthe lure of a woman, which is why
the Prophetwarned his nation specifically about this. Hesaid:"The
world is sweet and green and verily Allaah is going to install you as
successors upon it in order to see how you act. So avoid the
allurement of women: verily the first trial for the Children of
Israa'eel was caused by women."]Muslim[
The most important provision which we needto protect ourselves from
this and all other temptations in life is the fear of Allaah. This
fact is alluded to in the following verse )what means(:"And as for him
who feared standing before his Lord and restrained himself from impure
evil desires, verilyParadise will be his abode."]Quran 79:40[
6. A man who gives in charity and hides it, such that his left hand
does not know what his right hand gives in charity:
This describes the type ofperson who goes to great lengths to protect
himself from ostentation and showing off in worship. Being
ostentations is to do deeds in order to earn the praise and
recognition of people. This sin destroys all the benefits that lie in
righteous deeds and brings on a serious punishment for the one who
commits it. It is particularly dangerous because it is in man's nature
to desire and enjoy the praise of others.
Thus, great care has to betaken to ensure that one's intentions begin
and remain pure whenever good actions)such as charity( are being done.
Allaah warns)what means(:"O you who believe! Do not render vain your
charity by reminders of your generosity or by injury, like him who
spends his wealth to be seen of menand he does not believe in Allaah
nor in the Last Day."]Quran 2:264[
7. A man who remembered Allaah in private and so his eyes shed tears:
Our noble Prophetinformed us:"If you knew what I knew, you would laugh
little and weep much."]Al-Bukhaari[ Crying is not a sissy thing to do!
The Prophetwho was the best of all creation, would weep, as would
allof his Companions. Tears are a genuine expressionof fear of
Allaah's Punishment and of our sincere love and awe of Him.
But how often do we remember Allaah in seclusion and are then moved to
tears? How much do we laugh and how little do we weep? The
Prophetsaid:"There is nothing more beloved to Allaah than two drops
and two marks: A tear shed due tofear of Allaah, and a dropof blood
spilled in the path of Allaah. And as for the two marks, then a mark
caused in the path of Allaah, and a mark caused by fulfilling one of
the duties made obligatory by Allaah."]At-Tirmithi[
Finally, through these seven types of people mentioned in the
narration, we have been given clear signposts of the way to attain
Allaah's pleasure and satisfaction.So you should devote yourself to
being one amongst those seven, for indeed fortunate will be those who
are granted Allaah's Shade on the Daywhen there will be no shade but
His.

The seven under the Shade of Allaah Almighty - I

On the Day of Resurrection, all people that ever lived will be
gathered before Allaah toawait His judgment for all they have done of
saidduring their lives. During this time, the sun will come very close
to the people )as close as one mile according to some narrations(.
People will want to get away from the heat of the sun but there will
be no Shade or shelter to goto and they will start sweating in
proportion to their sins. The more sins a person has the more he or
she will sweat.
During this traumatic time, however, the seven groups of people who
are mentioned in the following Hadeeth)Prophetic narration( will be
completely immune tothe sun's heat and they will be in complete
comfort.
These people will be in such comfort because they will be enjoying the
only shade available on that day and that is the Shade of Allaah. They
willenjoy such an honor because of their piety and obedience to Allaah
while they were in this life.
The Prophetsaid:"There are seven whom Allaah will shade in His Shade
on the Day when there is no shade except His Shade: a just ruler; a
youth who grew up in the worship of Allaah, theMighty and Majestic; a
man whose heart is attached to the mosques; two men who love each
other for Allaah's sake, meeting for that and parting upon that; a man
who is called by a woman of beauty and position ]for illegal
intercourse[, but be says: 'I fear Allaah'; a man whogives in charity
and hidesit, such that his left hand does not know what his right hand
gives in charity; and a man who remembered Allaah in private and so
his eyes shed tears."]Al-Bukhaari and Muslim[
In this beautiful narration, the Prophetspoke about small acts
ofworship which result in such a huge reward: shade on the Day when
there will be no shade except His Shade, i.e., the Shade of His
Throne.
This may not seem like much at first but then reflect upon the
following narration:"On the Day of Resurrection, the sun would draw so
close to the people that there would be left a distance of only one
mile.The people will be submerged in perspiration according totheir
deeds, some up to their ankles, some up to their knees, some up to the
waist and some would have the bridle of perspiration )and, while
saying this, the Messenger of Allaahput his hand towards his
mouth(."]Muslim[
Let us examine now the characteristics and virtues of these seven
categories of people whowill be worthy of such anexalted position on
the Day of Gathering.
1. A Just Ruler:
The concept of Justice in Islam is very important and it is something
which the Muslim - Ruler and the ruled - must apply in all matters
without exception. Justice means to give each the right he deserves:
Muslim or non-Muslim, relative or stranger, friend or enemy. Allaah
Says )what means(:"...And do not let hatred cause you to act unjustly,
that is nearer to piety."]Quran 5:8[
Unfortunately, even if weadmit this in theory, we quickly forget it in
practice. So we find that when we speak about our friends and loved
ones, we praise them beyond reason and whenwe speak about those whom
we hold difference with, we can find no good in them andwe just
capitalize on their bad points.
The Prophetsaid:"Allaah does not bless a people among whom a weak man
is not given his right."]At-Tirmithi[
The concept of justice is most important for the Ruler, since he is in
charge of his people and the primary disposer of justice in the land.
For this reason, the Ruler is given special mention as one of the
seven who will be honored with Allaah's Shade.
2. A youth who grew up in the worship of Allaah:
The great scholar, Imaam Ayyoob As-Sakhtiyaani)d.131H(stated: 'From
the success of a youth is that Allaah guides him to a scholar of the
Sunnah)to study under and learn from(.'
Indeed, it is a great blessing from Allaah for ayouth be guided
towardsworship and be befriended by the righteous, since it is in
youth that a person is most vulnerable to the temptations of life and
liable to drift away from the Islamic Path. This becomes apparent when
we look at society around us and we see that most of the worldly
distractions, such as music, games, clubs, fashion etc. are all
specifically targeted at the young.
'You're only young once!'they are told, which is why many Muslims
nowadays waste their youth thinking that they will pray, wear Hijaab
and go on Hajj, etc. whenthey are old, as if they have a guarantee of
longevity from Allaah! How well we would do toheed the Prophet'sadvice
when he said:"Take benefit of five before five: your youth before your
old age, yourhealth before your sickness, your wealth before your
poverty, your free time before you are preoccupied and your life
before your death."]Al-Haakim[
3. A man whose heart is attached to the mosques:
There is great encouragement in the Sunnah for men to pray in the
mosques and the reward associated with itis tremendous. Not only does
it make the person eligible for Allaah's Shadeon the day of
Judgement,but also: "he does not take a step ]towards the mosque
except that because of it, he is raised by one rank and one sin is
removed from him. Then when he prays, the Angels do not cease
supplicating for him]for[ as long as he remains at his place of Prayer
]sayings[: O Allaah send blessings upon him, O Allaah have mercy
uponhim..." ]Al-Bukhaari[
It must be emphasized here however, that all the narrations
encouraging the men to be attached to the mosques are not intended to
lead one to the conclusion that Islam is a Religion which should be
confined to themosques, as many peopleimagine. Nonetheless, the mosque
should be at the heart of the Muslim community, and the role of those
in authority of the mosques is vital here.They are the ones mainly
responsible for making the mosque a welcome refuge for the Muslims.
To be concluded

Makkah - The dearest of all lands to Allaah and His Messenger

The Value of Glorifying the SacredCity:
The importance of values lies in the fact that they are the criterion
by which people, ideologies,actions, positions and subjects can be
judged and measured; moreover,values decide the identityof the
community; the values in a given community have a direct effect and
influence on the manners and conductwhich the members of that
community adopt.
Whenever the values of acommunity originate from the teachings of its
faith, the behaviour and conduct of its people will reflect such a
faith and they will certainly enjoy fine and fulfilling lives within
their respective communities.
Strengthening the social values that Islam instructsand emphasises
upon is the safety valve that protects and guards the community, and
one of the greatest and most important of such values is to glorify
the symbols of Allaah. Indeed, such glorification results in lofty
social customs and etiquettes that guaranteethe stability of the
Muslimcommunity and assures happiness in this life and the Life to
come.
Allaah Almighty has madethis city a Sacred and Secure one and has
honoured His House )the Ka'bah(; He made glorifying this city one of
the most honourable actsof worship by which a person draws close to
Allaah; He says )what means(:"That ]is so[. And whoever honours the
symbols]i.e. rites[ of Allaah — indeed, it is from the piety of
hearts."]Quran 22: 32[
Glorifying what Allaah and His Messengerhave glorified results in
establishing great social values that will yield countless benefits to
the Muslims, and will reflect the unity of the Muslims - a nation that
direct themselves to one Qiblah)direction during prayer towards
Ka'bah(, believe in one religion and harbour the same objectives and
hopes, as if their hearts are that of a single person.
The Prophettaught us how to build this value ofglorifying Makkah -
since his prophethood started in Makkah itself - in a practical manner
that is away from fantasy and ina realistic manner that is easy to
comprehend, andmade it deeply rooted in the hearts in a way that
guaranteed the continuity of such glorification by those who reside in
the Sacred City and those who come to visit it. He did so with great
wisdom and with tender care which causedpeople to long to see
andglorify thisSacredCity.
Words and actions that reflects its love:
Imaam Al-Bukhaarireported on the authority of 'Aai`shahthat she said:
"When the Prophetcame to Al-Madeenah, both Abu Bakr and Bilaal became
sick. Whenever fever attacked Abu Bakr, he would recite the following
verses of poetry:
A person wakes up among his household-active he is
While death is in fact closer to him than his shoelaces
Whenever fever eased from Bilaal,he would recite the following verses of poetry:
Will I ever again go back to spenda night- only once
In the valley with Ith-khir and Jaleel )plants( in abundance?]1[
And will I one day again drink from the water of Mijannah? ]2[
And will again see )the mountains of( Tafeel and Shaamah? ]3[
Then he would say: 'O Allaah! Curse Shaybah binRabee'ah and 'Utbah bin
Rabee'ah and Umayyah bin Khalaf as they forced us from our land to a
land full of diseases'. Then the Prophetsaid:"O Allaah! Make
Al-Madeenah dear to our hearts just like you made Makkah dear to our
hearts, and even more so. O Allaah! Bless our Saa' and our Mudd]4[and
make it a healthy place for us, and move its fever to the area of
Al-Juhfah."Bilaalalso said: 'We arrived at Al-Madeenah and it was
aland full of diseases as thevalleyofBathaanwould have putrid water
running through it.'"
Ibn 'Abbaasnarrated: "The Prophetsaid, addressing Makkah:"How good you
are as a land and how dear you are to my heart! Had your people not
forced me out of you, I would have never come outand left you and
would have never resided in any other city but you."]At-Tirmithi & Ibn
Hibbaan[
Ibn 'Abbaasnarrated: "When the Prophetwas forced to leave Makkah he
headed out toa cave, turned around, and said, addressing Makkah:"You
are the most beloved land to Allaah, and you are the most beloved land
to me. Had the polytheists not forced me out of you, I would never
have come out and left you. The worst enemy is the one who
transgresses the sanctities of Allaah, or kills a soul without
dueright or kills a soul as revenge from the era of pre-Islaamic
ignorance."Then Allaah revealed the following verse )which means(:"And
how many a city was stronger than your city ]i.e. Makkah[ whichdrove
you out? We destroyed them; and there was no helper for them."]Quran
47:13["]Ibn Jareer At-Tabari[ Imaam Al-Qurtubisaid: "This is an
authenticnarration." ]End of quote[
Imaam At-Tirmithi, Ahmad and 'Abd bin Humaydreported that 'Abdullaah
bin 'AdiyyIbn Al-Hamraa'narrated: "I saw the Prophetstanding on a
hillock ]5[ and addressing Makkah, saying:"I swear by Allaah! You are
the best of the lands of Allaahand you are the most beloved land to
Allaah, and had it not been that I was forced to leave you, I would
have never left you."
Imaam Al-Faakihireported on the authority of 'Amr bin Shu'ayb, who
reported from his father who reported from his father that he )'Amr's
grandfather( said: "The Prophetsent 'Itaab binUsayd as a leader for
the people of Makkah and said to him:"Do you know where I am sending
you? I am sending you to the people )dear to( Allaah. There is no city
dearer to Allaah - the Almighty, the Glorified - and to myself than
thiscity, and had it not been that its people forced me out of it, I
would never have left it."
This is Makkah and this is its virtue. Will we win thehonour of
glorifying it and loving it with its due love and glorification?
Footnotes:
]1[ Jaleel: a weak plant that the residents of Makkah would use in their homes.
]2[ Mijannah: a place thatwas a few kilometres from Makkah which had a market.
]3[ Shaamah and Tafeel: Two mountains about 50 Km from Makkah.
]4[ Saa and Mudd: measures of weight for food
]5[ This small hill was at the lower end of the market overlooking Makkah.

Dought & clear - How can I call someone who wants to become Christian?

I have a friend whose father is Muslim and her mother is Christian,
and her father is separated from her mother. The daughter wants to
follow the Christian religion; how can I make her come back to Islam?
Praise be to Allah.
Perhaps one of the most difficult questions asked by many of those who
send questions to our website is that which is mentioned here, "How
can I make my friend come back to Islam?" That is because people's
hearts are in the hands of the Most Merciful, andno one holds the keys
to people's hearts except Him, may He be glorified and exalted.
Because weare keen to save all people from the doom of apostasy from
Islam, we feel sorry for the questioner and we hopethat Allah will
help her and enable her to speak the words of truth and sincerity that
will be a means of her friend becoming steadfast in Islam. We say to
her that no matter what words we write, whatever advice we give, even
if we were to do everything that is possible, the most successful way
to help her friend to become steadfast is being completely sincere in
advising her, being compassionate towards her and showing her love,
friendship and sincere words that will move her and revive in her
heart the faith that is diminishing. She should also pray sincerely
for her, asking Allah to save her from that. That can only be achieved
with a sincere heart and warm feelingstowards her. That is the only
thing that will makeher stop and think and look at her situation
andthe real reasons that are encouraging her to apostatise and become
Christian. If you do that, we do not doubt that she will decide to
remain in Islam and saveherself from great danger.
Throughout all that, you should be keen to discuss things with her and
make her ask questions about the reality of what she is going to do
and what it is that she is missing in Islam and has found in
Christianity?!
We think that you should focus on two important basic matters:
-1-
The great importance of Tawheed or affirming the Oneness of Allah.
Thisis the foundation of the religion of Islam and the basis of the
messages of all of the Prophets. This is the message that Allah
commanded His Prophet to address to the People of the Book:
"This is what We recite to you (O Muhammad SAW) of the Verses and the
Wise Reminder (i.e. the Qur'an).
Verily, the likeness of 'Eesa (Jesus) before Allahis the likeness of
Adam. He created him from dust, then (He) said to him: 'Be!' - and he
was.
(This is) the truth from your Lord, so be not of those who doubt.
Then whoever disputes with you concerning him ['Eesa (Jesus)] after
(all this) knowledge that has come to you, [i.e. 'Eesa (Jesus)] being
a slave of Allah, and having no share in Divinity) say: (O Muhammad
SAW): 'Come,let us call our sons and your sons, our women and your
women, ourselves and yourselves- then we pray and invoke (sincerely)
the Curse of Allah upon those who lie.
Verily! This is the true narrative [about the story of 'Eesa (Jesus)],
and, Laa ilaaha ill-Allah (none has the right to beworshipped but
Allah, the One and the Only True God, Who has neither a wife nor a
son). And indeed, Allah isthe All-Mighty, the All-Wise.
And if they turn away (and do not accept thesetrue proofs and
evidences), then surely, Allah is All-Aware of those who do mischief.
Say (O Muhammad SAW): 'O people of the Scripture (Jews and
Christians): Come to a word that is just between us and you, that we
worship none but Allah (Alone), and that we associate no partners with
Him, and that none of us shall take others as lords besides Allah.'
Then, if they turn away, say: 'Bear witness that we are Muslims.'
O people of the Scripture(Jews and Christians)! Why do you dispute
about Ibraheem (Abraham), while the Tawraat (Torah) and the Injeel
(Gospel) were not revealed till after him? Have you then no sense?
Verily, you are those who have disputed about that of which you have
knowledge. Why do you then dispute concerning that of which you have
no knowledge? It is Allah Who knows, and you know not.
Ibraheem (Abraham) was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a
true Muslim Haneefa (Islamic Monotheism - to worship none but Allah
Alone) and he was not ofAl-Mushrikoon.
Verily, among mankind who have the best claim to Ibraheem (Abraham)
are those who followed him, and this Prophet (Muhammad SAW) and those
who have believed(Muslims). And Allah is the Wali (Protector and
Helper) of the believers.
A party of the people of the Scripture (Jews and Christians) wish to
lead you astray. But they shallnot lead astray anyone except
themselves, and they perceive not.
O people of the Scripture! (Jews and Christians): Why do you
disbelieve in the Ayaat of Allah, [the Verses about Prophet Muhammad
SAW presentin the Tawraat (Torah) and the Injeel (Gospel)] while you
(yourselves) bear witness (to their truth).
O people of the Scripture(Jews and Christians): Why do you mix truth
with falsehood and conceal the truth while you know?"
[Aal 'Imraan 3:58-71].
-2-
Belief in all the Messengers of Allah, loving them and acknowledging
their status. If she were to ponder this matter, she would find that
Islam is the only religion that believes in all of the Messengers and
Prophets and acknowledges them as they should be acknowledged. It was
the final message that confirmed the Books and Messengers that came
before it and completed their laws and their message. When the people
are called on the Day of Resurrection, for those who believed in the
Prophets to enter Paradise, the Muslims will be the first to enter. As
for those followers of other religions, they disbelieved in Muhammad
(blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) completely, asdid those who
believed in Moosa (Moses) and did not believe in 'Eesa (Jesus). At
that time they will be in grave danger before Allah, may He be
glorified and exalted. Allah says (interpretationof the meaning):
"The Messenger (Muhammad SAW) believes in what has been sent down to
him from his Lord, and (so do) the believers. Each one believes in
Allah, His Angels, His Books, and His Messengers. They say,'We make no
distinction between one another of His Messengers' - and they say, 'We
hear, and we obey. (We seek) YourForgiveness, our Lord, and to You is
the return (of all)'"
[al-Baqarah 2:285].
Al-Bukhaari (3442) and Muslim (2365) narrated that Abu Hurayrah said:
The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)
said: "I am the closest of the people to 'Eesa ibn Maryam, in this
world and in the Hereafter. TheProphets are brothers; their mothers
are different but their religion is one"
We checked everything that we have published previously on our site
about calling non-Muslims and helping Muslims to remain steadfast in
Islam, and we found a good number of fatwas and questions that you can
learn from and makeuse of in your efforts to call your friend. They
also include a number ofimportant references concerning this matter.
These answers appear under the following numbers:
219, 2690, 10469, 12615, 12628, 12637, 14418, 154022, 182059, 182799
Take from the above whatever is appropriate to your friend's
situation, and strive to accompany that with sincere du'aa'
(supplication) for her in her absence; ask Allah, may He be glorified
and exalted, to guide her to the straight path, for du'aa' is the
weapon, but not everyone is aware of its importance.
And Allah knows best.

Dought & clear - What is the ruling on offering the regular Sunnah prayer that is usually offered after theobligatory prayer, before the obligatory prayer?

Is it permissible for someone to pray the 2 unit of sunnah of esha
salaah beforehand of the obligatory prayer ? If someone prayed it
without knowledge about the ruling, what is the stand ?
Praise be to Allah.
The regular Sunnah prayers are of two types:
1.The Sunnah prayers that are offered before the obligatory prayer.
They are: two rak'ahs before Fajr and four rak'ahs with two tasleems
(i.e., offered two by two) before Zuhr.
The time for this type of Sunnah prayer begins when the time for that
prayer begins, and lasts until one begins to offer the obligatory
prayer.
2.The Sunnah prayers that are offered after the obligatory prayer.
They are: two rak'ahs after Maghrib, two rak'ahs after 'Isha' and two
rak'ahs after Zuhr.
The time for this type of Sunnah prayer begins when the obligatory
prayer is over and lasts until the end of the time for that prayer.
Ibn Qudaamah (may Allah have mercy on him) said: With regard toevery
Sunnah prayer that is offered before the obligatory prayer, itstime
lasts from the beginning of the time for that prayer until the start
of the obligatory prayer. With regard to every Sunnah prayer that is
offered after the obligatory prayer, its time lasts from when that
prayer is finished until the end of that time.
End quote fromal-Mughni, 1/436
It says inal-Mawsoo'ah al-Fiqhiyyah(25/281-282): The regular Sunnah
prayers are connected to the obligatory prayers; someof them are
offered before the obligatory prayer, such as the Sunnah prayer of
Fajr and the Sunnah prayer that comes before Zuhr. And some of them
are offered after the obligatory prayer, such as the Sunnah prayer
that comes after Zuhr, the Sunnah prayers of Maghrib and 'Isha', Witr,
and qiyaam in Ramadan (i.e., Taraweeh).
With regard to whateverof these Sunnah prayers come before the
obligatory prayer, the time for them begins when the time for the
obligatory prayer begins, and ends when the iqaamah for the obligatory
prayer is given, if that iqaamah is given in a group or congregation
(jamaa'ah), because once the iqaamah is given for prayer, there isno
prayer except the prescribed obligatory prayer. But if an individual
is going to offer the prayer on his own, the time for the Sunnah
prayer lasts untilhe begins the obligatoryprayer.
With regard to the Sunnah prayers that come after the obligatory
prayer, such as the Sunnah prayer that comes after Zuhr and the Sunnah
prayers of Maghrib and 'Isha', the time for each of them begins when
the obligatory prayer has been completed and lasts until the time of
theobligatory prayer ends and the time for the nextprayer begins.
End quote.
Based on the above, if a person offers the Sunnah prayer that should
be offered after 'Isha' before he prays 'Isha', it is as if he has
performed that Sunnah before its time. Hence it will not be counted as
a regular sunnah prayer; rather it is a naafil prayer between the
adhaan and iqaamah, for which one earns the reward of a naafil prayer,
not a regular Sunnah prayer.
An-Nawawi (may Allah have mercy on him) said:It is mustahabb to pray
two rak'ahs or more before 'Isha', because of the hadeeth of
'Abdullahibn Maghfal, according to which the Prophet (blessings and
peace of Allah be upon him) said: "Between each two calls (the adhaan
and iqaamah) there should be a prayer, between each two calls there
should be a prayer, between each two calls there should be a prayer" –
and the third time he said, "for whoever wishes." Narrated by
al-Bukhaari and Muslim. What is meant by the two calls is the adhaan
and iqaamah, according to scholarly consensus.
End quote fromal-Majmoo', 3/504
For more information please see the answer toquestion no. 128164
With regard to the one who used to do that andwas unaware of the
ruling as mentioned above, then we hope that Allah, by His bounty and
grace, will grant him the reward of one who offered the regular Sunnah
prayer, because he was unaware of the ruling on that matter.
And Allah knows best.

Dought & clear - Can the husband’s cheating be justified by blaming his wife for refusing intimacy with him?

If a husband cheats on his wife, can he blame his wife for his sin or
be partially blamed? Not to say that they did not have intercourse for
months or so, but refrained from sexual intimacy for a much shorter
time (such as a week or more weeks, past the time the menstrual time
has ended and intimacy is possible but has not occurred for whatever
reason). Can he justify his actions by saying that she will get the
sin because he did not fulfill his desires? Can at any point the wife
be blamed, if it is a long period of time since sexual intimacy?
Praise be to Allah.
One of the worst things that the one who has been disobedient towards
Allah can do is trying to justify his sin by referring to something
that is worse than it and trying to justify his transgression of the
sacred limits by making up excuses when he knows that the truth of the
matter is that he was overcome bydesires, by his nafs (self) that
prompts him to do evil, lust that he could not control and a conscious
decision to commit this action.
And he does this at the time when what the onewho has committed an
action that is contrary toIslam should do is hastento admit his
shortcomings and ask Allah for forgiveness. Allah, may He be glorified
and exalted, loves for His slave who has slipped up and falleninto the
mire of immoralactions to hasten to regret it and turn to his Lord,
may He be glorified, and admit what he has done, then ask Allah, may
He be glorified and exalted, to forgive him, help to do righteous
deeds and protect him from evil deeds. Allah, may He be glorified and
exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):
"And turn in repentance and in obedience with true Faith (Islamic
Monotheism) to your Lord and submit to Him, (in Islam), before the
torment comes upon you, then you will not behelped"
[az-Zumar 39:54]
"And those who, when they have committed Fahishah (illegal sexual
intercourse etc.) or wronged themselves with evil, remember Allah and
ask forgiveness for their sins; - and none can forgive sins but Allah
- And do not persist in what (wrong) they have done, while they know"
[Aal 'Imraan 3:135].
We may ponder the story of our father Adam (peace be upon him) and how
he hastened to admit his sin and take responsibility for what he had
done and for his shortcomings. Allah, mayHe be exalted, says
(interpretation of the meaning):
"They said: "Our Lord! We have wronged ourselves. If You forgive us
not, and bestow not upon us Your Mercy, we shall certainly be of the
losers"
[al-A 'raaf 7:23].
So Allah, may He be glorified and exalted, rewarded him by accepting
his repentance and forgiving him, by His grace. Allah, may He be
glorified, says (interpretation of the meaning):
"Then Adam received from his Lord Words . And his Lord pardoned him
(accepted his repentance). Verily, He isthe One Who forgives (accepts
repentance), the Most Merciful"
[al-Baqarah 2:37].
This is a good example for all of us; we should remember the grace
andkindness of Allah, and we should put our trust in Him acknowledging
our sins and our wrongdoing towards ourselves, and we should hasten to
repent as Allah, may He be glorified and exalted, says (interpretation
of the meaning):
"If they (hypocrites), when they had been unjust to themselves, had
come to you (Muhammad SAW) and begged Allahs Forgiveness, and the
Messenger had begged forgiveness for them: indeed, they would
havefound Allah All-Forgiving(One Who accepts repentance), Most
Merciful"
[an-Nisa' 4:64].
As for the accursed Iblees, he persisted in hisdisobedience and did
not admit his shortcomings; rather he tried to pin the blame onothers
and he argued about his reasons for going against the command of
Allah, may He be glorified and exalted, as Allah tells us
(interpretation of the meaning):
"(Allah) said: 'What prevented you (O Iblees) that you did not
prostrate, when I commanded you?' Ibleessaid: 'I am better than him
(Adam), You created me from fire, and him You created from clay.'
(Allah) said: '(O Iblees) get down from this (Paradise), it is not for
you to be arrogant here.Get out, for you are of those humiliated and
disgraced.'"
[al-A'raaf 7:12-13].
On the other hand:
It is not permissible for the wife to try to justify her disobedience
by forsaking her husband's bed with made-up excuses. Marital
intimacyis a confirmed right and there is a stern warning against
wives who fall short in that regard. The Prophet (blessings and peace
of Allah be upon him) said: "If a man calls his wife to his bed and
she does not come to him, and he goes to sleep angry with her,
theangels will curse her until morning."
Narrated by al-Bukhaari (3237) and Muslim (1436).
This is a stern warning to every wife who refuses to share her
husband's bed for any reason other than a legitimate shar'i excuse
such as menses, nifaas (postpartum bleeding) or sickness. If she
refusesfor several weeks, then the sin is greater and more abhorrent,
and sheis required to repent and seek forgiveness, and also ask her
husband to forgive her, so as to turn over a new leaf and to create a
calm and happy family atmosphere in the home, filled with
tranquillity, respect and fulfilment of rights and duties.
And Allah knows best.

Anger management skills and techniques in Islam: Anger (Ghadab) and Islam

Do you find it hard to forgive someone who has done you wrong? Do you
often find yourself inheated arguments with the people with whom you
are closest? Have youever been so angry that you could not remember
what you said or did? Have you ever gotten so angry that you resorted
to physical violence, hitting people or breaking things?
If you answered 'yes' to any of these questions, you might have an
anger problem. These are just a few of the symptoms of anger
addiction. This article offers the anger management skills and
techniques according to Islamic teachings.
Anger is a completely normal, usually healthy, human emotion. But when
it gets out of control and turns destructive, it can lead to problems
- problems at work, in your personal relationships and in the overall
quality of your life. And it can make you feel as though you are at
the mercy of an unpredictable and powerful emotion.
Anger is complex, bodily and emotional response. Even before you begin
to shout, hit or scream, yourbody functions changes drastically. Your
brain goes into crisis mode andreleases powerful chemicals, telling
your body to prepare for attack. Your blood pressure skyrockets,
yourheart rate rapidly increases and all of the blood is directed
toward unnecessary bodily processes. Your vision sharpens and your
body literally prepares for battle.
This natural process enables human beings to be both courageous and
outrageous. Our physical response to anger equipsus to survive
dangerous circumstances. Our brainsand bodies mobilize quickly to
respond to attacks by wild animals and rescuing others fromdanger. But
the same effective response that allows human beings to escape a
grizzly bear attack also drives us to hurt other people and destroy
relationship. In addition to destroying relationships, constant anger
can lead to serious health problems like persistent headaches, high
blood pressure, heart disease and strokes. Anger, quite literally, can
kill you.
Some people keep their anger buried deep inside. It's not good to hide
your anger, so you should find a way to let itout without hurting
yourself or others. As a matter of fact, the real problem is not anger
itself; the real problem is the mismanagement of anger. Mismanaged
anger and rage is the major cause of conflict in our personal as well
as professional relationships. Because, never getting angry is
impossible. Instead, remember that how you act when you are angry can
make the situation better or worse. Don't let anger be the boss of
you.Take charge of it! Stop anger before it destroys your life and the
lives of those around you. Effective anger management skills and
techniques benefit your health and your relationships.
Please note: Don't make decisions when you're angry and don't make
promises when you're happy.

Why do we listen to Quran Lectures, even we can't remember everything?

A Masjid (Mosque) goer wrote a letter to the editor of a newspaper and
complained that it made no sense to go to Masjid (Mosque). "I've gone
for 30 years now," he wrote, "and in that time I have heard something
like 3,000 Lectures. But for the life of me, I can't remember asingle
one of them. So, I think I'm wasting my time and the Imams are wasting
theirs by giving Lectures at all."
This started a real controversy in the"Letters to the Editor" column,
much to the delight of the editor. It went on for weeks until someone
wrote this clincher.
"I've been married for 30 years now. In that time my wife has cooked
some32,000 meals. But for the life of me, I cannot recall the entire
menu for a single one of those meals. But I do know this:They all
nourished me and gave me the strengthI needed to do my work. If my
wife had not given me these meals, I would be physically dead today.
Likewise, if I had not gone to Masjid (Mosque) for nourishment, I
would be spiritually dead today!"
When you are DOWN to nothing.... Allah (SWT)is UP to something! Faith
sees the invisible, believes the incredible and receives the
impossible! Thank Allah (SWT) for our physical AND our spiritual
nourishment!