'' Our Lord ! grant us good in this world and good in the hereafter and save us from the torment of the Fire '' [Ameen]
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{in Arab} :->
Rabbanaa aatinaa fid-dunyaa hasanatan wafil aakhirati hasanatan waqinaa 'athaaban-naar/-
(Surah Al-Baqarah ,verse 201)
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to treat their neighbors in a gentle way that reflects the true and
genuine spirit of Islam as exemplified in its tolerant aspect
especially with people of other faiths. It makes no difference whether
the neighbors are Muslim or non-Muslim. Ayesha, the Mother of the
Believers, stated that she once asked Prophet Muhammad (peace and
blessings be upon him), "O Messenger of Allah! I have two neighbors.
To whom shall I send my gifts?" Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings
be upon him) said, "To the one whose gate is nearer to you."
It is clear from the above Prophetic Hadith that Muslims are
encouraged to not only treat our neighbors kindly, but also to
exchange gifts with them. The wording of the Hadith does not indicate
whether the one with whom we exchange gifts is a Muslim or not.
Below are ten tips on how to approach your non-Muslim neighbors in a
kind way that exemplifies Islamic manners:
1. Being good to neighbors is not only restricted to those who share
the same building with you. Your roommate at the dorm is your
neighbor; the person sitting behind you or next to you in a bus or at
a bus stop is your neighbor; the one sharing your office at work is
your neighbor; the person enjoying fresh air next to you in a public
garden is also a neighbor. You ought to treat all of those people
kindly and socialize with them within the permitted scope of Shariah
Islamic Law.
2. Introduce yourself and your family to your neighbors when you move
into a new place or when new neighbors move in. This will also help to
relieve any fears or tensions they may have about Muslims. Also, don't
forget to say good-bye when you or they move away.
3. Care for them continually, especially at times of need and
distress, as "the neighbor in need is a neighbor indeed." If a
neighbor is elderly or chronically ill, offer to run errands or shop
for him or her.
4. In dealing with neighbors, it is safer to deal with those of the
same sex as yourself. This does not mean that you should stop
socializing at work or school with your non-Muslim workmates or
classmates of the opposite sex, but be aware of satanic snares.
After-hours socializing should be with your same sex.
5. While socializing with non-Muslims, be cautious of becoming too
lenient at the expense of your creed and principles. For example,
don't go out drinking with them. They will respect you more for
sticking to your principles than for breaking the rules.
6. In addition to sharing ideas, you can share meals with them by
inviting them to dinner on the weekend or accepting their invitation
to the same, provided that you let them know about your dietary
restrictions (Halal and Haram) as a Muslim.
7. Conduct mutual visits so that the families can interact in a
constructive way. If the discussion does turn to religion, focus on
areas of common ground. For example, if your neighbors are Christian,
then you should not enter into a futile argument with them about
whether Jesus is God incarnate or not. Rather, tell them to what
extent Islam honors all God's Prophets and Messengers as a whole, and
that Jesus is granted a special status among God's Prophets and
Messengers.
8. While socializing with neighbors, present your religion (Islam) in
the best way. If you are faced with a difficult question or a
distortion about Islam, do not be ashamed to stop for a while and tell
them that you will try to contact a more knowledgeable person to seek
the guidance regarding the issue raised. Thus, common grounds should
be enhanced, and areas of dissension should never be raised.
9. If your neighbors show an interest in Islam, invite them to attend
Islamic events, and even to accompany you to the mosque to see what it
is like. It may be that their hearts become softened to Islam, and if
they remain non-Muslim, at least you have succeeded in breaking the
barrier. You can also visit the church where your neighbors pray if
they invite you to do that, but here you should be cautious not to
perform any act that your religion prohibits. In brief, be only a
watchful monitor.
10. Always keep in mind the mighty reward that is in store for you in
the Hereafter when you show kindness to a neighbor.
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