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Thursday, October 12, 2017

Bad behaviour, - * He was fasting and he told someone that he was not fasting; what is the ruling on his fast?, * Bad attitude on the part of the daa‘iyah is an obstacle to da‘wah

* He was fasting and he told someone that he was not fasting; what is
the ruling on his fast?
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I was fasting on one of the days in Ramadan, but I deliberately told
someone that I was not fasting. What is the ruling on my fast?
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Praise be to Allah
If when you said "I am not fasting", you intended to inform him that
your intention was no longer to fast, and that you had now broken your
fast, then you did break your fast, whether you ate something or not.
In the answer to question no. 95766, we explained that if a person
forms the intention to break the fast whilst he is fasting, and has
firmly resolved to do that, without any hesitation, then his fast
becomes invalid, and he has to make up that day.
But if when you said "I am not fasting", you were simply lying and you
did not intend to stop fasting, then this comes under the heading of a
lie, but you did not break your fast because of merely saying it.
The one who breaks the fast is the one who breaks it by eating,
drinking, having intercourse or otherwise, or who forms the intention
to break the fast and has decided and firmly resolved to do that. But
if someone says that and is lying, he has not broken the fast.
You have to repent to Allah for having told a lie, because lying is a
blameworthy characteristic that detracts from the reward of the fast.
And Allah knows best.
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* Bad attitude on the part of the daa'iyah is an obstacle to da'wah
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The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)
said: "There is nothing that will weigh more heavily in the balance of
the believer on the Day of Resurrection than a good attitude, and
verily Allah hates the foulmouthed person who speaks in an offensive
manner." And he (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said:
"Shall I not tell you of the dearest of you to Allah, and the ones who
will be seated closest to me on the Day of Resurrection?" They said:
Yes, O Messenger of Allah. He said: "The best of you in attitude."
Does a bad attitude invalidate faith or cancel it out? Does a bad
attitude nullify good deeds? Or is bad attitude a sign of weakness of
faith?
What if a person who is a practising Muslim persists in having a bad
attitude after being advised and warned? Is such a person regarded as
persisting in sin? What is the harmful impact of a bad attitude on
da'wah or calling people to Allah, may He be glorified and exalted?
Finally, what do we say to practising Muslims who persist in their
shameful bad attitude and show bad manners towards Muslims who are
sinners, and non-Muslims?
Please advise us about these issues, may Allah bless you.
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Praise be to Allah.
Firstly:
At-Tirmidhi (2002) narrated – and classed the report as saheeh – from
Abu'd-Darda' that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon
him) said: "There is nothing that will weigh more heavily in the
balance of the believer on the Day of Resurrection than a good
attitude, and verily Allah hates the foulmouthed person who speaks in
an offensive manner." Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani inSaheeh
at-Tirmidhi.
At-Teebi (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
The phrase, "and verily Allah hates the foulmouthed person who speaks
in an offensive manner" balances the phrase "the heaviest thing that
may be placed in the balance", so as to indicate that the lightest
thing that may be placed in the balance is a bad attitude, and that a
good attitude is the dearest of things to Allah, and a bad attitude is
the most hateful of things, because offensive and foulmouthed talk are
the worst thing in the scale of bad manners.
End quote fromMirqaat al-Mafaateeh(8/3177)
Ahmad (6735) narrated from 'Amr ibn Shu'ayb, from his father, from his
grandfather, that he heard the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah
be upon him) say: "Shall I not tell you of the dearest of you to me
and the ones who will be seated closest to me on the Day of
Resurrection?" The people remained silent, and he repeated it two or
three times, then the people said: Yes, O Messenger of Allah. He said:
"The best of you in attitude."
Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani inSaheeh at-Targheeb(2650)
At-Tirmidhi (2018) narrated – and classed the report as hasan – from
Jaabir that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be
upon him) said: "Among the dearest of you to me and those who will be
seated closest to me on the Day of Resurrection are the best of you in
attitude, and the most hateful of you to me and those who will be
seated furthest away from me on the Day of Resurrection are those who
talk too much, those who talk down to people in an affected manner,
and those who are long winded and pompous."
Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani inSaheeh at-Tirmidhi.
Al-Bukhaari (6035) and Muslim (2321) narrated from 'Abdullah ibn 'Umar
that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)
said: "Verily the best of you are the best of you in attitude."
An-Nawawi (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
This hadith offers encouragement to develop a good attitude and
highlights the virtue of the one who has it, for it is a trait of the
Prophets and close friends of Allah, may He be exalted. Al-Hasan
al-Basri said: The definition of a good attitude is to do acts of
kindness, refrain from harming others and to show a cheerful
countenance. Al-Qaadi 'Iyaad said: It means mixing with people in a
gentle and cheerful manner, being friendly and compassionate towards
them, being forbearing towards them and overlooking their mistakes,
being patient with them at times of difficulty, not being arrogant or
putting oneself above them, and avoiding harshness, anger and censure.
End quote.
Secondly:
A good attitude increases faith, whereas a bad attitude decreases
faith, but does not invalidate it altogether, because faith increases
with acts of obedience and decreases with acts of disobedience.
Part of perfect faith is a good attitude; the Muslim who has a bad
attitude is lacking in faith.
Abu Dawood (4682) narrated that Abu Hurayrah said: The Messenger of
Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: "The most
perfect of the believers in faith are the best of them in attitude."
Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani inSaheeh Abi Dawood
Ahmad (20831) narrated that Jaabir ibn Samurah said: The Messenger of
Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: "Obscene words
and deeds are not part of Islam; the best of the people in Islam are
the best of them in attitude."
Classed as hasan by al-Albaani inSaheeh at-Targheeb(2653)
This is what indicates that a bad attitude detracts from obligatory faith.
Please see the answer to question no. 10809for more information on
things that detract from faith.
Thirdly:
The basic principle is that righteous deeds are not rendered invalid
by anything except the ascription of partners to Allah, may He be
exalted. Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the
meaning):"And whosoever disbelieves in the Oneness of Allah and in all
the other Articles of Faith (i.e. His (Allah's), Angels, His Holy
Books, His Messengers, the Day of Resurrection and AlQadar (Divine
Preordainments)), then fruitless is his work, and in the Hereafter he
will be among the losers" [al-Maa'idah 5:5].
One of the main differences between Ahl as -Sunnah and the groups who
follow innovation, such as the Khaarijis, Mu'tazilis and others of
that ilk, is that they believe that acts of obedience may be rendered
invalid by sin.
Ahl as-Sunnah, on the other hand, say that major sin does not render
righteous deeds invalid, although faith is decreased by sins just as
it is increased by acts of obedience.
However, it is narrated in the texts that there are some sins for
which Allah warns of invalidation of good deeds for the one who
commits them, but that does not apply to every sin; rather it applies
to some specific sins, concerning which this specific warning was
narrated. This ruling should be limited to that, and no analogy can be
drawn applying it to other sins, as Allah, may He be exalted, says
(interpretation of the meaning):"O you who believe! Raise not your
voices above the voice of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be
upon him), nor speak aloud to him in talk as you speak aloud to one
another, lest your deeds may be rendered fruitless while you perceive
not" [al-Hujuraat 49:2].
In the answer to question no. 81874, we explained that sins and
innovations invalidate the reward for their counterparts among good
deeds, by way of punishment.
Please see also the answer to question no. 107241
Fourthly:
The practising Muslim who adheres to Islamic etiquette cannot have a
bad attitude; rather a bad attitude only results from going against
the teachings of Islam and keeping company with bad people. Worse than
that is the failure to try to correct the bad attitude that one has
and not accepting the advice of anyone who advises him and calls him
to do that. Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the
meaning):
"And march forth in the way (which leads to) forgiveness from your
Lord, and for Paradise as wide as are the heavens and the earth,
prepared for Al-Muttaqoon (the pious).
Those who spend (in Allah's Cause - deeds of charity, alms, etc.) in
prosperity and in adversity, who repress anger, and who pardon men;
verily, Allah loves Al-Muhsinoon (the good-doers).
And those who, when they have committed Faahishah (illegal sexual
intercourse etc.) or wronged themselves with evil, remember Allah and
ask forgiveness for their sins; - and none can forgive sins but Allah
- And do not persist in what (wrong) they have done, while they know"
[Aal 'Imraan 3:133-135].
Fifthly:
A bad attitude is very harmful to efforts to call people to Allah
(da'wah), because people will be put off by the one who has a bad
attitude and treats people badly; they will reject his advice and will
say, "Let him advise himself first!" But people will like the one who
has a good attitude and treats them kindly; they will accept his
advice and listen to what he says.
Whoever has a bad attitude will adversely affect da'wah efforts and
will make people think badly of practising Muslims, and will make them
think that they do not treat people well, and that will put them off.
A bad attitude will also lead to bad consequences when dealing with
non-Muslims, because a bad attitude will put them off Islam and
Muslims.
So let people fear their Lord, lest their attitude and deeds be a
cause of turning people away from the path of Allah or being put off
from Islam and Muslims.
It was narrated that Abu Mas'ood al-Ansaari said: A man came to the
Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and
said: I keep away from Fajr prayer because of So and so, because he
makes it too long for us. I have never see the Prophet (blessings and
peace of Allah be upon him) so angry in exhortation as he was that
day. He said: "O people, there are among you some who put others off.
Whoever among you leads the people in prayer, let him be brief, for
among them are the elderly, the weak and those with urgent needs."
Narrated by al-Bukhaari (702) and Muslim (466).
Al-Mannaawi (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
A bad attitude will lead to trouble and evil consequences for the
individual and others, because it leads the individual to shame in
this world and, in the hereafter, to the Fire. The poet said:
How many young men have been hindered by a bad attitude, so they ended
up blameworthy, with little to be praised for.
And they said that whoever develops a bad attitude should be forsaken.
And they said that a bad attitude is indicative of an evil nature and
meanness of character.
And they said that people with bad attitudes could almost be regarded
as being among the animals.
Whoever is blessed with a good attitude, congratulations to him,
otherwise he should deal with his bad attitude until it is gone.
End quote fromat-Tayseer(2/121).
However, we would like to point out the following:
Many people are unfair towards religious people and they do not view
them in a just manner; when they see a small fault in them, they
regard it as abhorrent and evil. Rather, even if a religious person
does something that is permissible, or seeks some worldly matter that
is allowed, they attack him viciously and start gossiping about him.
If he makes a minor mistake, or falls into something that no human is
completely safe from, they go all out and raise a hue and cry. Some
people want religious people to be like the Prophets themselves!
Some of them watch out for the religious person to make a mistake and
slip up, so that they can launch a heavy attack on him, and on the
religion and the people who adhere to it. Allah, may He be exalted,
loves justice and fairness, and enjoins everyone to treat everyone
else fairly, no matter who he is.
Allah enjoins His slaves to regard people and treat them as they would
like others to regard and treat them.
Muslim narrated in hisSaheeh(1844) that 'Amr ibn al-'Aas (may Allah be
pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of
Allah be upon him) said: "There was no Prophet before me but it was
his duty to tell his ummah of the best of what he knew was good for
them and warn them about the worst of what he knew was bad for them.
The time of peace and security for this ummah has been made in its
first era, and its last era will be afflicted with trials and things
that you will be confused about. Fitnah (tribulation) will come in
waves, one after another. A fitnah will come and the believer will
say, 'This is going to cause my doom.' Then when it ends, another
fitnah will come, and the believer will say, 'This is the one.'
Whoever would like to be delivered from Hell and enter Paradise, let
him die believing in Allaah and the Last Day, and let him treat people
as he would like to be treated
And Allah knows best.
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Tuesday, October 10, 2017

Marriage Contract, - * Getting married in the embassy with two non-Muslim witnesses


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I got married in a non-Muslim country in the embassy of the country that my wife is from, so that she would have a wali (guardian), but the witnesses were not Muslim. Is my marriage permissible despite that?.
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Praise be to Allaah.
In order for a marriage to be valid, it is essential to have two Muslim witnesses of good character, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “There is no marriage except with a wali and two witnesses of good character.” Narrated by al-Bayhaqi from the hadeeth of ‘Imraan and ‘Aa’ishah; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani inSaheehal-Jaami’, no. 7557
Ibn Qudaamah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: Marriage cannot be done except with two Muslim witnesses, whether the couple are both Muslims, or only the husband is Muslim. This was stated by Ahmad, and it is the view of al-Shaafa’i, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “There is no marriage except with a wali and two witnesses of good character.” End quote fromal-Mughni(7/7).
The majority of scholars are of the view that having witnesses is essential to the validity of the marriage, except the Maalikis who say that it is permissible to delay the witnessing of the marriage until before consummation, and it is not necessary for it to be at the time the marriage contact is done. Based on this, if two Muslim witnesses testify to your marriage now, before consummation, it is valid. SeeHaashiyat al-Dasooqi(2/216).
Some of the scholars are of the view that having the marriage witnessed is not an essential condition, rather it is sufficient to announce the marriage; if the marriage is proclaimed and announced, it is valid. This is the view of al-Zuhri and Imam Maalik.
This view was favoured by Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah and was regarded as more correct by Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him). See:al-Sharh al-Mumti’, 12/94.
Shaykh al-Islam (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: Undoubtedly a marriage that is announced is valid even if it is not witnessed by two witnesses. But if it is concealed and witnessed that is subject to further discussion.
If it is both witnessed and announced, there is no dispute as to its validity.
If it is neither witnessed nor announced, then it is invalid according to most scholars; even if some held a different view, they are very few. End quote fromal-Ikhtiyaaraatal-Fiqhiyyah, p. 177.
Based on this, if the marriage was announced and became known, then it is valid, but it is better to repeat the marriage contract in the presence of the wali and two witnesses of good character who are Muslims, based on the view of the majority.
And Allaah knows best.





















Monday, October 9, 2017

Marriage Contract, - * What is the time for the wedding feast (waleemah)?











I am going to get married, in sha Allah, and I want to follow the Sunnah of the Messenger (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) by offering a wedding feast (waleemah). My question is: when is the right time to do it? What is the number of people to be invited? Please note that in our country the invitation and offering food is done before the marriage contract is done. Is this regarded as a waleemah and will this duty then be waived if one does that?.
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Praise be to Allaah.
Firstly:
It is best to do the wedding feast (waleemah) after the marriage is consummated, following the example of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). But if that is not possible, then there is nothing wrong with doing it before the marriage is consummated, or when the marriage contract is done, or after that.
The matter is broad in scope, but it is better to pay attention to what is usually done in your country, because there is no shar‘i text to indicate that it is obligatory or mustahabb to do it at a certain time.
Al-Haafiz Ibn Hajar said: The salaf differed concerning the time (for the wedding feast): should it be at the time of the marriage contract, or after it, or just before consummation of the marriage, or after that; it could be at any time from when the marriage contract is first done until after the marriage is consummated. There are several scholarly opinions. End quote.
Fath al-Baari, 9/230
As-San‘aani said:
Al-Mawardi, one of the Shaafa‘is, stated that it should be just before consummation of the marriage.
As-Sibki said: What has been narrated concerning the action of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) is that it comes after consummation of the marriage.
It is as if he was referring to the story of the marriage of Zaynab bint Jahsh, because Anas said: When the day dawned, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was a bridegroom to Zaynab, and he invited the people (to a meal).
Al-Bayhaqi included this hadeeth under the heading: Chapter: The time of the waleemah.
End quote fromSubul as-Salaam, 1/154
The hadeeth of Anas was narrated by al-Bukhaari (4793) and Muslim (1428) as follows: When the day dawned the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was a bridegroom to Zaynab bint Jahsh, whom he married in Madinah, and he invited the people to eat in the forenoon.
According to a version narrated by al-Bukhaari (5166): When the day dawned, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was a bridegroom to her, then he invited the people and they had some food.
Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said: The time and description of the waleemah in the hadeeth of Zaynab indicate that it followed consummation of the marriage. End quote.
Al-Ikhtiyaaraat al-‘Ilmiyyah, p. 346
Al-Haafiz Ibn Hajar said: The hadeeth of Anas clearly indicates that it came after consummation, because he said: “When the day dawned, he was a bridegroom to Zaynab and he invited the people …”
Some of the Maalikis regarded it as mustahabb for it to just before consummation, which should come after it, and this is what people do nowadays. End quote.
Fath al-Baari, 9/231
Al-Mardawi said: It is better to say that the recommended time is flexible; it may be at any time from when the marriage contract is done until the end of the days of the wedding.
That is because there is a report to support that, and because joy is greatest after consummation. But the custom nowadays to do it shortly before consummation. End quote.
Al-Insaaf, 8/317
Al-Bukhaari said: Chapter on the duty to accept invitations to wedding feasts; the one who gives a waleemah for seven days and the like; the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did not specify that it should be for one or two days.
Al-Haafiz said: i.e., he did not set a specific time for the waleemah or say that it is obligatory or mustahabb; that may be understood from the general meaning of the hadeeth.
Ad-Dameeri said: The fuqaha’ did not set a specific time for the wedding feast, but the correct view is that it should be after consummation of the marriage. The shaykh (i.e., as-Sibki) said: It is permissible to do it before or after; the matter is flexible and it may be done at any time after the marriage contract is done, as was stated by al-Baghawi
Al-Najm al-Wahhaaj, 7/393
Ibn Tuloon said: The more correct view is that one should refer to what is customary.
End quote fromFass al-Khawaatim fima qeela fi’l-Walaa’im, p. 44
Shaykh Saalih al-Fawzaan said: The time for giving the wedding feast flexible, starting from the time of the marriage contract until the end of the days of the wedding.
End quote fromal-Mulakhkhas al-Fiqhi, 2/364
Secondly:
There is no set number of guests to be invited; rather that depends on what a person can afford.
Ibn Battaal said: The waleemah (wedding feast) is obligatory, according to one’s means. There is no minimum number of people that must be invited.
End quote fromSharh Saheeh al-Bukhaari, 13/283
And he said:
The more you add (to the number of guests) at the wedding feast the better, because that helps to announce the marriage more widely and increases the supplications for blessing of one’s family and wealth.
End quote fromSharh Saheeh al-Bukhaari, 13/282.
And Allah knows best.




























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Sunday, October 8, 2017

Invalid Marriages, - * Her husband reviles Islam and does not pray, but if she gets divorced from him, she will be forced to work and take off her hijab


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I have been married for thirteen years to a husband who is thirty years older than me. The problem is that from the first day, we have not got on at all. I have thought of divorce, but I have three children. I was not religious before, but now – praise be to Allah – I never miss any prayer and I am raising my sons in Islam. Even though we are living in Belgium, praise be to Allah my children speak Arabic well. The problem is that my husband never prays, not even in Ramadan, and he has never entered a mosque in his life, and he always reviles Islam. By Allah, I am fed up with this life, but if I get divorced I will be forced to go out to work and take off my hijab. I have not let him be intimate with me for two months, since I read your fatwa on this website. Now we are living in one house, but it is as if he is not here; we do not speak and we do not sleep in the same room.
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Praise be to Allah.
If your husband reviles Islam and does not pray, then it is not permissible for you to stay married to him, because the one who reviles Islam is a disbeliever according to scholarly consensus, and the one who does not pray out of laziness is also a disbeliever, according to the more correct of the two scholarly opinions.
If the marriage contract was done at a time when the husband was not praying or when he was reviling Islam, then the marriage was never valid in the first place.
If the status of disbelief came after the marriage contract, and the husband continued in his disbelief until your ‘iddah ended, then you are completely separated from him, and you are not permissible for him except with a new marriage contract, on condition that he repent and come back to Islam.
Based on that, it is not permissible for you to let him be intimate with you or to be alone with you; rather he is a non-mahram to you. Complete separation does not depend on him issuing a divorce (talaaq); you are not permissible for him whether he issues a divorce or not.
Now you have two options:
1. To live with your children in the same house that this husband is living in, on condition that you be separated completely from him and that there be no risk of intimacy occurring, and that you tell him that you are not permissible for him, and that intimacy with him when he is still behaving this way is haraam;
2. To become completely independent and to look for work and accommodation. Undoubtedly this is better and safer for you; perhaps when you look you will find permissible work where you will not be forced to take off your hijab.
If the problem is a choice between taking off the hijab and staying with this husband who is not permissible for you, and there is the fear that you may commit forbidden actions with him, then taking off the hijab is less serious, but we hope that you will not be forced to choose one of these two options and that Allah will bless your husband by enabling him to repent and mend his ways, or that you will find a job where you do not have to take off your hijab. There are many ways of earning a living, such as teaching children in your house or their house, or working as a seamstress or typist or translator, or working in an Islamic centre, even if you have to move to another city, or you could go back to a Muslim country.
Keep asking Allah may He be exalted, and beseeching Him, and do a lot of righteous deeds.
We ask Allah to grant you relief and to take away your worry and distress, and to protect you and your children.
And Allah knows best.