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Saturday, November 23, 2013

Islamic Marriage Articles, - (Choosing a Spouse, -) Questions to Ask a Prospective Marriage Partner


























The following questions are offered in the interest of helping Muslims to think through issues important to marriage. You may wish to ask these questions when you’re considering someone for marriage, either of them or just of yourself. You may also wish to ask them of an intermediary, who may be able to provide you an unbiased perspective. Some of the questions may seem "unIslamic", but they deal with the reality of today's social situation, and NOT asking a question may ultimately prove to be a bigger mistake than asking it.
GENERAL QUESTIONS:
*.Why are you interested in marrying at this time?
*.How would you describe yourself?
*.What do you consider your greatest achievement to date?
*.Describe three experiences you’ve had that you’ve benefited/learned from.
*.What has been the hardest obstacle you’ve faced thus far in life? How has it affected you?
*.If there was one thing you would like to change about yourself, what would it be?
*.What are your goals for this life? What would you like to accomplish before you die?
*.What are you looking for in a spouse?
DECIDING WHETHER TO MARRY:
*.What role do you think parents should play in helping to select your spouse?
*.What process do you want to use to determine whether you have found the right spouse? Phone? E-mail? Chaperoned or unchaperoned in person? How much time do you want to decide?
DEEN (ISLAMIC LIFESTYLE):
*.What do you do to feel close to Allah (swt)?
*.How to you hope to get closer to Allah (swt) through marriage?
*.What do you want to improve about yourself Islamically?
*.How many times per day do you pray? What about while at work?
*.How much Qur’an have you memorized?
*.To what extent are you involved in the Islamic community?
*.Do you fast during Ramadan?
*.How do you determine how to distribute Zakat? How do you give in Sadaqa?
*.Have you been on Hajj or Umrah? When would you like to go?
*.Are you affiliated with a particular masjid or Islamic group?
*.How important do you think it is to only eat Halal meat?
*.How important do you think it is for women to wear hijab? What about men?
*.How do you like to celebrate religious holidays?
*.Do you go for jummah prayers?
LIVING AS A MUSLIM MINORITY:
*.Do you have non-Muslim friends?
*.What do you think Muslims should do on American holidays?
EXTENDED FAMILY:
*.What do you think parents/extended family’s role should be in making important decisions: wedding planning, child rearing, vacations, where you will live?
*.What do you do if there is a conflict between your spouse and your family?
*.Are you comfortable living with extended family, particularly as they age? Are other accomodations possible?
*.How much time do you anticipate spending with your extended family, in person or by phone?
*.Would you describe the character of your family members?
*.What have you learned from observing your family that you do or do not want to incorporate into your marriage?
PROFESSION:
*.What career path do you plan on taking?
*.Will both husband and wife work outside the home?
*.Under what conditions would you be willing to move to further your or your spouse’s professional growth?
*.How much time do you spend at work?
*.How do you plan to balance time at work and time with the family?
*.What kind of business functions will you ask each other to host/attend?
*.Would you encourage/support the idea of me going back to school for advanced degrees?
*.How would we support ourselves if we both had to be in school?
INTERESTS/ACTIVITIES:
*.How do you like to spend your free time?
*.How much time do you spend watching TV?
*.What interests would you like to share with your spouse?
*.How much time alone would you like to have?
*.How do you feel about separate vacations? Business trips? Conferences?
SOCIAL LIFE:
*.How much time do you want to spend with friends? By yourself? As a couple?
*.How would you feel about your spouse having friends of the opposite gender?
WHERE TO LIVE:
*.Where do you want to live? Why?
*.Will you want to live near your extended family?
*.Do you prefer city? Suburb? Countryside?
*.Do you want to live in the U.S. or abroad?
*.How important is it to live in a large Muslim community?
CHILDREN:
*.How many children do you want to have?
*.When do you think you’ll be ready to have children?
*.How will you distribute responsibility for child rearing? Diapering?
*.What do you think it is important to teach children?
*.What is your view on raising children? Do you spank?
*.To what extent would you be willing to utilize family members, friends, baby sitters or day are to watch your children?
*.How will you ensure your children have a good Islamic education?
*.What would you do if you could not have children?
*.Do you want your children to grow up bilingual? In what languages?
MONEY:
*.How many personal savings/checking accounts would you want?
*.Who should be responsible for paying bills?
*.What about prior assets?
*.How will you determine how much should be spent on the household? On personal items? On charity?
*.How much should either person be able to spend by themselves without consulting the other?
*.How much should be paid out in maher (dowry)? Up front versus deferred?
*.If we were on an uncomfortably tight budget, and your brother asked you for a generous loan for a third attempt at a start-up when the first two had failed, would you give it to him?
*.What would be your top five criteria for developing a financial plan?
LAST NAMES:
*.Should the wife change her last name?
*.What last name should the children carry?
HOUSE:
*.How do you feel about cleanliness, neatness and housework?
*.How do you feel about knickknacks and artwork?
*.Who is responsible for work around the house?
*.What are the household chores you are used to doing?
*.Have you ever lived alone? Have you ever had a roommate? Have you always lived with your parents?
*.How do you feel about pets?
*.What are your preferences in terms of food? Mostly from your own ethnic group, or a more diverse palate? Only home-made, or also convenience or from restaurants? Meat or vegetarian?
*.If we were both working and we both got home about the same time, would you expect the wife to always be the cook?
*.How do you feel about smoking?
DIFFERENCES:
*.What are your pet peeves?
*.How should disagreements be resolved?
*.How do you act when you get upset?
*.How would you go about making you spouse happy when s/he was feeling down?
*.What would you want your spouse to do if you disagreed about something?
*.What if the disagreement is over an interpretation of Islam?
*.Who would be your choice of arbiters, or how do you feel about arbitration?
*.How do you feel about marriage counseling?
MONOGAMY/FIDELITY/HONESTY:
*.What are your views?
*.What is your experience with families with a second wife?
*.Will infidelity automatically end the marriage?
CULTURE:
*.What role does culture play in your life?

















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Story, - Knowing love



















Life is so unpredictable. U never know what would be happen in life.My life is also concave in this world.
I was very shy person.A gal who lives with her own virtues,her own rules.I never thought I would be in luv. I met him as friends or can say a collegiate who studied college with him.we were introduced with common friends.we met mostly for our projects.As days were passing. Our college been planed for trip.I suddenly found myself unknown world. I didn't know what was going to me.As we never had talked to much. I realised that something is happen to me. i just wanted to be with him.I was just wanted to talk with him.My eyes was just searching for him.And Then I realised I fallen luv with him. I never thought I would be in luv.
As days were going I was never had courage to tell my feelings to him but from days to years.But never told him about it. But some how I confess to him but our destiny never given chance to be together.I always pray for him.I always were with him but as his friends.As three years has been passed but still my heart waits for him.Still I pray for him. I Always ask GOD dat Shall v be together or can U give me 1chance ?
Wats Ur opinion Friends?
























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Story, - Love makes life beautiful






















My love story starts different stages and diffrnt roles. Love give both happy and painful, but love is so great why?
Every men and womens love at certain age i.e feeling in u r heart. Love is told somebody infactuation and attraction. This is also true but somebody love strong both oneside and twoside love. Her and him wait untill success them love.
Love will do but luv is not life. My love story starts at studying eighth class, her so beautiful, but i dont know what is love, every day i will seen in class room and followed. She also looks this process up to ningth class. I will join another school but but i don't proposed some feeling in my heart every day remembering and feel some days. This love end.
Intermediate no can do love, not coeducation, i interested on study. Am studying average. Next love begin in engineering. One girl chose, i will do sincerly, me only luv not her. She don't know luv to him. I cant prpose in b.tech, after i prpose but her told u not like





















PUBLISHER The fact that Islamic moral values do not yet rule the world must stir all Muslims
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