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Friday, November 8, 2013

Dought & clear,- What is the fault of children born in a kaafir environment?.

People born and raised in different environments and religions
naturally develop different temperaments and identities. A person born
in a Hindu family becomes a Hindu upon growing up. For him the Hindu
religion is perfect. For such a person it is ingrained into his nature
from his childhood that he is a Hindu first and last. Supposingly he
receives the message of Islam. What are the chances that he will give
up his religion, his identity and accept a new one. Isn't it tough for
this person to become Muslim as compared to someone born a Muslim. It
scares me to think that if I were born into some other faith than
Islam where would I be today. So why is it not the law that everyone
does have an equal opportunity to experience and accept Islam from the
cradle. It this a matter of Allah's will, Sprituality (Hidayah) or
Human Psychology. Please respond with references from Quran and
hadith.
Praise be to Allaah.
Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
"So set you (O Muhammad) your face towards the religion (of pure
Islamic Monotheism) Haneef (worship none but Allaah Alone). Allaah's
Fitrah (i.e. Allaah's Islamic Monotheism) with which He has created
mankind. No change let there be in Khalq-illaah (i.e. the religion of
AllaahIslamic Monotheism), that is the straight religion, but most of
men know not"[al-Room 30:30]
It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him)
that the Messenger of Allaah(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
him) said: "Every child is born in a state of fitrah (the natural
state of man, i.e., Islam), then his parents make him into a Jew or a
Christian or a Magian." (Agreed upon).
The correct view is that what is meant by fitrah is the religion of
Islam, as stated in the hadeeth narrated by Muslim from the Messenger
of Allaah(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), who said:
"Allaah said: 'I created My slaves as haneefs (believers in pure
monotheism), then the Shaytaan misled them from their religion; he
forbade them what I had permitted to them and commanded them to
associate others with Me for which I had not sent down any
authority.'" What it means when it is said that a child is born as a
Muslim is that he is born inherently ready, when he reaches the age of
discretion, if he is given the choice between Islam and its opposite,
to prefer Islam over its opposite and to choose Islam as his religion,
so long as there is nothing to prevent him from doing so, such as his
whims and desires or tribalism. Following his desires makes him prefer
falsehood so that he may attain some share of leadership or wealth,
and tribalism or racial pride makes him follow his forefathers or
elders, even if they are not following true guidance. Allaah says
(interpretation of the meaning):
"Nay! They say: 'We found our fathers following a certain way and
religion, and we guide ourselves by their footsteps'"[al-Zukhruf
43:23]
And Allaah tells us what the followers among the people of Hell will
say (interpretation of the meaning):
"And they will say: 'Our Lord! Verily, we obeyed our chiefs and our
great ones, and they misled us from the (Right) Way'"[al-Ahzaab 33:67]
If every child is born in a state of fitrah, then obviously there will
be some who will be influenced in ways that are in accordance with
that fitrah and will strengthen it, such as those who are born to
Muslim parents and grow up in a Muslim society. And there will be some
whose fitrah is changed, such as those who are born to kaafir parents
and group up among the kuffaar, be they Jews, Christians, Magians or
mushrikeen. Undoubtedly the one who is born in Islam has means of
guidance and happiness which are not available to others who are born
and grow up in kaafir societies. Being given easy access to the means
of faith and guidance is a blessing from Allaah which He gives to
whomsoever He wills. It should also be noted that the person whose
fitrah has been changed from Islam will not be punished for the sins
of another; rather he will be punished if the call of the
Messenger(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) reaches him and
he does not accept it out of stubbornness, arrogance or tribalistic
pride in the religion of his forefathers and countrymen, because proof
is established against him when the call of the Messenger reaches him,
and in such a case, if he persists in his kufr then he deserves to be
punished. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
"And We never punish until We have sent a Messenger (to give
warning)"[al-Israa' 17:15]
What you say in your question, "It scares me to think...", is correct
and is wise, for it is the blessing of Allaah upon you that you were
born in Islam. If you had been born into another religion, there would
have been the fear that you might remain in that false religion, but
when Allaah wills good for His slave, He makes it easy for him to have
the means of guidance which will bring him from the religion of kufr
to the religion of Islam. The entire matter is up to Allaah.
But when you say in your question, "So why is it not the law that...?"
this is a false question caused by unawareness of the wisdom of Allaah
and His ways of dealing with His creation. Of course it is impossible
for the same opportunities to be available to all, because there are
so many different human religions, and guidance to Islam happens when
a person chooses to be guided, because Allaah has given man the
ability to distinguish between truth and falsehood, between what is
beneficial and what is harmful, by means of the reason that He has
instilled in him, and the explanations with which He has sent His
Messengers. At the same time, the will of the person is subject to the
will of Allaah, for He is the One Who sends astray whomsoever He wills
by His justice and wisdom, and He guides whomsoever He will by His
grace and wisdom.
Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
"Verily, this (the Qur'aan) is no less than a Reminder to (all) the
'Aalameen (mankind and jinn)
To whomsoever among you who wills to walk straight.
And you cannot will unless (it be) that Allaah wills the Lord of the
'Aalameen (mankind, jinn and all that exists)"[al-Takweer 81:27-29]

Dought & clear,- Meaning of the hadeeth; “Then the divine decree overtakes him and he does the deeds of the people of Hell”.

I would like you to explain the meaning of this Hadeeth:
Narrated Abi Abdurrahman Abdullah bin Mas'ud, May Allah is pleased with him:
Allah's Apostle, the true and truly inspired said, "(The matter of the
Creation of) a human being is put together in the womb of the mother
in forty days, and then he becomes a clot of thick blood for a similar
period, and then a piece of flesh for a similar period. Then Allah
sends an angel who breathes the soul into him, and is ordered to write
four things. He is ordered to write down his (i.e. the new creature's)
deeds, his livelihood, his (date of) death, and whether he will be
blessed or wretched (in religion). So, by Allah the One, a man amongst
you may do good deeds till there is only a cubit between him and
Paradise and then what has been written for him decides his behavior
and he starts doing (evil) deeds characteristic of the people of the
(Hell) Fire. And similarly, a man amongst you may do (evil) deeds till
there is only a cubit between him and the (Hell) Fire, and then what
has been written for him decides his behavior, and he starts doing
deeds characteristic of the people of Paradise." Narrated by
Al-Bukhari.
To be honest with you I feel bad sometimes that I may do good deeds
while it is written that I am from the people of hell. I wish you
answer me, thanks a lot for your efforts, may Allah greaten your
reward.
Praise be to Allaah.
Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
Those who are ignorant of Allaah and His names and attributes
misinterpret their true meanings and turn people against Allaah and
put obstacles between the people and loving Allaah and drawing close
to Him without realizing.
We will mention some examples of that, such as that they try to make
people with shallow knowledge (or weak faith) think that no acts of
obedience towards Allaah will do any good, even if that is done for a
long time and a person has tried his utmost to do it properly both
outwardly and inwardly; and that a person cannot be safe from the plot
of Allaah, rather it is Allaah's way to take the obedient one who
fears Allaah out of the mosque and into the brothels, and from Tawheed
and tasbeeh to shirk and flutes, and turn his heart from pure faith to
kufr. They narrated sound reports concerning this that they do not
understand properly, and false reports that the Prophet never said,
and they claim that this is the essence of Tawheed. End
quote.Al-Fawaa'id(159).
Then he (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: ... So this poor person no
longer sees actions as being good or bad, so he does not feel
comfortable when doing good, or feel distressed when doing bad. Is
there any more effective way of putting people off Allaah and making
them hate Him than this?! If all the heretics strive hard to make
people hate religion and put them off Allaah, they could never have
come up with anything worse than this.
The one who has this belief thinks that he is reinforcing the ideas of
Tawheed and the divine will and decree, and refuting the innovators
and supporting Islam, but by Allaah, a wise enemy is less harmful than
an ignorant friend. All the revealed Books and all the Messengers bear
witness to the opposite of that, especially the Qur'aan. If those who
seek to call others to Allaah follow the method that is established by
Allaah and His Messenger in calling people to Islam, the whole world
would be reformed in such a way that there would be no corruption
after that.
Allaah tells us - and He is the One Who is truthful and fulfils
promises - that He only judges people on the basis of their actions,
and recompenses them for their deeds, and the one who does good should
not fear any injustice or unfairness; He will never cause the deeds of
any doer of good to be lost, no matter how small, or wrong any soul in
the slightest."But if there is any good (done), He doubles it, and
gives from Him a great reward" [al-Nisa' 4:40]. Even if it is the size
of a grain of mustard seed, He gives reward for it and does not cause
it to be lost. He recompenses bad deeds with the like thereof, and
cancels them out if a person repents, regrets it and seeks forgiveness
and does good deeds, or if calamities befall him. But He rewards a
good deed anything from ten fold to seven hundred fold or more.
He is the One Who reforms the misguided and turns back to Him the
hearts of those who turn away; He accepts the repentance of sinners,
guides the misled, saves the doomed, teaches the ignorant, guides the
confused, reminds the heedless, gives refuge to the lost. When He
sends a punishment, it is only after severe rebellion and stubborn
turning away, and after calling the people to turn back to Him. End
quote.
Al-Fawaa'id(161).
There follows a great hadeeth which was narrated by al-Bukhaari (3208)
and Muslim (2643) from Ibn Mas'ood (may Allaah be pleased with him).
Some people were confused about the words of the Prophet(peace and
blessings of Allaah be upon him) "one of you may do the deeds of the
people of Paradise until there is nothing between him and it but a
cubit, then the decree overtakes him and he does a deed of the people
of Hell and enters it. And one of you may do the deeds of the people
of Hell until there is nothing between him and it but a cubit, then
the decree overtakes him and he does a deed of the people of Paradise,
and enters it."
This is an example of what Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on
him) tried to point out of saheeh reports which are not understood
properly.
The answer to this is that it applies to the one who does not do deeds
with sincerity and faith, rather he does deeds of the people of
Paradise as it appears to people only, as is explained in another
version of the hadeeth that was narrated by al-Bukhaari (4207) and
Muslim (112) from Sahl who said: The Prophet(peace and blessings of
Allaah be upon him) and the mushrikeen met in battle and fought. When
the Messenger of Allaah(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)
went back to his camp and the others went back to their camp, there
was among the companions of the Messenger of Allaah(peace and
blessings of Allaah be upon him)a man who killed anyone (of the enemy)
who got in his way. They said: No one has done better today than So
and so. The Messenger of Allaah(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
him) said, "Rather he is one of the people of Hell." A man said: I am
going to follow him. So he went out with him; every time that man
stopped, he stopped with him, and when he hastened, he hastened with
him. He said: The man was badly wounded, so he sought to hasten his
death. He put the handle of his sword on the ground and its tip in the
middle of his chest, then he leaned [on his sword] and killed himself.
The man went to the Messenger of Allaah(peace and blessings of Allaah
be upon him) and said: I bear witness that you are the Messenger of
Allaah (S). He said: "Why is that?" He said: The man who you said was
one of the people of Hell and the people were astounded by that. I
said, I will find out about him for you. So I followed him until he
was badly wounded, then he sought to hasten his death. He put the
handle of his sword on the ground and its tip in the middle of his
chest, then he leaned on it and killed himself. The Messenger of
Allaah(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "A man may do
the deeds of [the people of] Paradise, or so it seems to the people,
although he is one of the people of Hell, and a man may do the deeds
of [the people of] Hell, or so it seems to the people, although he is
one of the people of Paradise."
As for the one who does the deeds of the people of Paradise in a real
sense, sincerely and on the basis of faith, Allaah is too just,
merciful and generous to let him down at the end of his life.
Rather these are the ones who are guided, directed and helped to
persist, as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
"Allaah will keep firm those who believe, with the word that stands
firm in this world (i.e. they will keep on worshipping Allaah Alone
and none else), and in the Hereafter. And Allaah will cause to go
astray those who are Zaalimoon (polytheists and wrongdoers), and
Allaah does what He wills"
[Ibraaheem 14:27]
"As for those who strive hard in Us (Our Cause), We will surely guide
them to Our paths (i.e. Allaah's religion -- Islamic Monotheism). And
verily, Allaah is with the Muhsinoon (good-doers)."
[al-'Ankaboot 29:69]
"Verily, he who fears Allaah with obedience to Him (by abstaining from
sins and evil deeds, and by performing righteous good deeds), and is
patient, then surely, Allaah makes not the reward of the Muhsinoon
(good-doers) to be lost"
[Yoosuf 12:90]
"They rejoice in a grace and a bounty from Allaah, and that Allaah
will not waste the reward of the believers"
[Aal 'Imraan 3:171]
Ibn al-Qayyim said inal-Fawaa'id(p. 163): With regard to the fact that
a man may do the deeds of the people of Paradise until there is
nothing between him and it but a cubit, then the decree overtakes him,
this refers to the actions of the people of Paradise as they appear to
other people. If it was a righteous deed that is acceptable to Allaah,
then Allaah would love it, accept it and not cancel it out. Someone
may say that this phrase, "until there is nothing between him and it
but a cubit", does not support what we have suggested; the answer to
that is that if deeds are to be judged by the way they end, this man
did not have enough patience to complete his deeds properly; rather
there was a hidden problem and something wrong with his deeds, by
means of which he was let down towards the end of his life, so that
hidden, serious, fatal problem caused his downfall at the time of
need. If there was no problem and no insincerity, Allaah would not
have turned his faith into disbelief. And Allaah knows better than all
people what they do not know of each other. End quote.
Ibn Rajab (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
The words "as it appears to people" indicate that what is hidden may
be different from what is apparent to people, and that a bad end is
because of a hidden problem in a person that people are not aware of,
whether it is a bad deed and the like, so that hidden quality may lead
to a bad end at death.
Similarly, a man may do a deed of the people of Hell, but inwardly he
has some good quality, and that prevails at the end of his life, and
leads to a good end for him.
'Abd al-'Azeez ibn Abi Rawaad said: A man was dying and he was being
prompted to sayLaa ilaaha ill-Allaah, but the last words he said were,
"He does not believe in what you are saying" (referring to himself),
and he died like that!
He said: I asked about him, and found that he was addicted to alcohol!
'Abd al-'Azeez used to say: Beware of sins for it is sins that led him
to this bad end.
In general, how people end up is the consequences of what went before,
and all of that has been previously written in a Book, hence the salaf
greatly feared a bad end, and some of them would feel anxious when
remembering previous sins.
It was said that the hearts of the righteous are concerned about how
their life will end, and they always wonder: how will our end be?
The hearts of those who are close to Allaah are concerned about
previous sins, and say: How will our sins affect our ends? Sahl
al-Tastari said: The one who has started his journey towards Allaah
fears that he may fall into sin and the one who is close to Allaah
fears that he may end fall into kufr (disbelief).
Hence the Sahaabah and the righteous salaf who came after them feared
that they might become hypocrites, and their fear and anxiety were
intense. So the believer fears lesser hypocrisy for himself, and
worries that it might prevail at the end of his life, and take him
into a state of major hypocrisy, as it was mentioned above that hidden
problems may lead to a bad end. End quote.
Jaami' al-'Uloom wa'l-Hukam(1/57-58).
Shaykh Ibn 'Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: The hadeeth
of Ibn Mas'ood, "until there is nothing between him and it but a
cubit" means, Paradise. It does not mean that his deeds bring him to
this position until there remains nothing but a cubit, because if he
were doing the deeds of the people of Paradise in a true sense, Allaah
would not let him down because Allaah is more generous than His
slaves. Imagine a person devoted to Allaah, and there is nothing but a
cubit between him and Paradise: would Allaah turn him away?! This is
impossible. Rather the meaning is that he does the deeds of the people
of Paradise as it appears to others, until when there is nothing left
of his lifespan but a little, his heart drifts away - Allaah forbid;
we ask Allaah to keep us safe and sound. This is the meaning of the
hadeeth of Ibn Mas'ood: when there is nothing left between him and
Paradise but a cubit with regard to his lifespan, otherwise he was not
doing the deeds of the people of Paradise in the first place.
We ask Allaah not to misguide our hearts. (So the person referred to)
is striving but in his heart there is some hidden evil that leads to
his doom when there is only one cubit left when he dies. End quote
fromal-Liqa' al-Shahri(13/14).
Some scholars suggested that the person mentioned in the hadeeth may
be striving in a true sense, until when his lifespan nears its end, he
meets a bad end, and dies in a state of kufr or sin, but this is rare.
This also goes back to something hidden or some serious evil quality
that the person persisted in, such as corrupt belief or a major sin
that dooms one to Hell, which led to his bad end. We ask Allaah to
keep us safe and sound. So the hadeeth is to be understood as a
warning that no one should rely too much on his deeds and we should
ask Allaah for steadfastness until death, for hearts are between two
fingers of the Most Merciful and He turns them as He wills.
Al-Nawawi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in Sharh Muslim: What is
meant by a cubit is an indication of how close he is to death, and
whether he will enter Paradise or Hell after that, and that there is
nothing between him and his reaching that abode except a cubit, like
that which remains between him and his reaching any spot on earth.
What this hadeeth means is that this may happen in rare cases to some
people, not that it is the norm. Moreover it is a sign of Allaah's
kindness and mercy that people may revert from evil to good in many
cases. As for their reverting from good to evil, this is very rare and
hardly ever happens. This is like the words of Allaah [in the hadeeth
qudsi]: "My mercy precedes My wrath and prevails over My wrath." That
includes those who turn to the deeds of Hell by disbelieving or
sinning, but they (the scholars) differ with regard to whether they
will abide therein forever or not. The kaafir will abide in Hell
forever, but the sinner who dies believing in Tawheed will not abide
therein forever, as stated above. In this hadeeth there is a clear
confirmation of the divine decree, and that repentance erases all sins
that came before it, and that whatever state a person dies in, he will
be judged accordingly, whether it is good or bad, but those who commit
sins other than kufr are subject to the will of Allaah. End quote.
What should be noted in this context is that the same hadeeth which
confused you also contains the answer to this confusion. That is
because it does not only confirm the concept of the divine decree and
Allaah's prior knowledge of His creation and His prior writing of
their deeds, but in this and similar texts, in addition to all that,
there is also affirmation of His commands and prohibitions, and that
Allaah does not punish them or bless them on the basis of His
knowledge concerning them only, but rather on the basis of what they
did and earned themselves.
Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
This hadeeth and similar reports point to two concepts:
1 - The prior decree, which means that Allaah already knows who are
the people of Paradise and who are the people of Hell before they do
any deeds. This is true and must be believed in. Indeed the imams,
such as Maalik, al-Shaafa'i and Ahmad, have stated that the one who
denies this is a kaafir. Rather we must believe that Allaah knows
everything that is going to happen before it happens, and we must
believe in what He has told us that He has decreed will happen and has
told us of it before it happens.
2 - That Allaah knows all things the way they are, and He has made for
things means that may lead to these things. So He knows that these
things could result from these means, as He knows that this man may
have a child by means of having intercourse with a woman that makes
her pregnant. If this man says: Allaah knows that I am going to have a
child so there is no need for me to have intercourse, then he is a
fool, because Allaah knows that it will come about by means of what He
has decreed of intercourse. Similarly a man knows that crops will grow
as the result of his watering the seeds that he has planted, but if he
says: He knows that it will happen so there is no need to plant seeds,
then he is ignorant and misguided because Allaah knows what will come
about by those means.
Similarly, if He knows that this one will be blessed in the Hereafter
and that one will be doomed, we say: it is because that one does the
deeds of the doomed, so Allaah knows that he will be doomed because of
his deeds. If it is said that he is doomed even if he does not do
anything, this is false, because Allaah does not admit anyone to Hell
except for his sin, as Allaah says (interpretation of the
meaning):"That I will fill Hell with you [Iblees (Satan)] and those of
them (mankind) that follow you, together" [Saad 38:85]. So He swore to
fill it with Iblees and his followers, and those who follow Iblees
have disobeyed Allaah, may He be exalted, but Allaah does not punish
anyone for what He knows he will do until he does it.
Similarly Allaah has decreed Paradise for the people who believe in
Him and obey Him, so the one who is decreed to be one of them is
guided by Allaah to believe and obey. The one who says, I will enter
Paradise whether I am a believer or a disbeliever, if He knows that I
am one of its people, is fabricating a lie against Allaah. Allaah
knows that he will be admitted to it by faith, so if he does not have
faith he will not be the one who Allaah knew would enter Paradise,
rather he will be not a believer but a kaafir, and Allaah knows that
he will be one of the people of Hell, not one of the people of
Paradise.
Hence Allaah commanded people to pray, seek forgiveness from Allaah
and other means. The one who says, I will not pray or ask, and I will
rely on the divine decree, is also mistaken, because Allaah has made
praying and asking means of attaining His forgiveness, mercy,
guidance, support and provision. If He has decreed some good for a
person to be attained by means of du'aa' that will not be attained it
without du'aa'. What Allaah has decreed and knows about people's
situations and how their lives will end, it is only decreed through
the means that lead to that specific outcome. Nothing in this world or
in the Hereafter happens except through means, and Allaah is the
Creator of the means and the ends.
With regard to this matter, two types of people go astray. There are
those who believe in the divine decree and think that it is sufficient
to attain one's aims, so they turn away from the prescribed means and
righteous deeds. They will end up disbelieving in the Books of Allaah,
His Messengers and His religion.
(The other group) ask for reward from Allaah as a hired man asks for
his wages from his employer, relying on their own power, strength and
deeds. These people are ignorant and misguided, because Allaah has not
enjoined His commands upon people out of need, and He has not imposed
His prohibitions out of stinginess, rather He has enjoined what is in
their best interests and He has forbidden that which is bad for them.
As He says: "You will never be in a position where you are able to
harm Me and you will never be in a position to benefit Me."
The one who turns away from the commands and prohibitions, promises
and warnings, and focuses only on the divine decree has gone astray,
and the one who strives to follow the commands and prohibitions and
ignores the divine decree has gone astray. Rather the believer is as
Allaah says:"You (Alone) we worship, and You (Alone) we ask for help
(for each and everything)" [al-Faatihah 1:5], so we worship Him by
following the command, and we seek His help on the basis our belief in
the divine decree. End quote.
Muqtatafaat min Majmoo' al-Fataawa(8/66 ff).
And Allaah knows best.

For children, - 10 brief points Christians should know about Jesus and MuslimsProphet Jesus (peace be upon him)

1. Muslims love Prophet Jesus. We also love Prophet Abraham, Prophet
Moses, and Prophet Noah, to name just a few other Prophets Muslims
revere. May God's peace be upon all of these great messengers of God.
2. Muslims also love the mother of Prophet Jesus, the Virgin Mary. We
believe she was a pious and noble woman chosen over all of the women
of the world.
3. Muslims believe that Prophet Jesus was born miraculously of a
virgin mother and no father. His birth is miraculous like the birth of
Prophet Adam, the first human being, who was created with neither
mother nor father.
4. Muslims do not believe that Prophet Jesus was the son of God. God
is so powerful and self-sufficient that He does not need a son or any
kind of partner.
5. In Arabic Bible the name for God is Allah. Therefore all Arab
Christian call God Allah as Muslim do as well.
6. Prophet Jesus did not die on the cross. Rather, God saved him as
his enemies were confused about him. Prophet Jesus was taken up by God
to Heaven.
7. Prophet Jesus is called Isa (pronounced Eesa) in Arabic and the
spirit of God (Roohullah) is his title.
8. Prophet Jesus performed miracles by the Will of God, like healing
the blind and those with leprosy.
9. Prophet Jesus prayed to the same God as all Prophets and we Muslims pray to.
10. Prophet Jesus will return before the end of the world during the
time of Imam al-Mahdi, the embodiment of the Messiah or the saviour.

For children, - Prophet Isa (Jesus, peace upon him) in Islam, Maryam (Mary, mother of Jesus) and Muslims

Muslim beliefs and traditions still remain a mystery to many
non-Muslims. Between ignorance and outright malicious lies, Muslims
need to find a common ground with others. Non-Muslims, especially
Christians, are often surprised to discover that Muslims also believe
in Prophet Jesus (peace be upon him). This web page aims to not only
provide the Islamic perspective on this great Prophet Jesus (peace be
upon him) and Maryam (Mary), the mother of Prophet Jesus (peace be
upon him), but also to bring forward the common ground between Muslims
and Christians.
Muslims are required by Allah (SWT) to believe in all of the Prophets.
These include Prophet Isa (Jesus Christ) and Prophet Yahya (John the
Baptist) peace be upon them. The Noble Qur'an, the Islamic holy book,
also instructs Muslims to believe in the books revealed to every
Prophet as well. The book given to Prophet Isa (Jesus, peace upon him)
is called Injeel in the Noble Qur'an.
According to the Noble Qur'an, Prophet Jesus (peace be upon him) was
one of Allah's (SWT) most beloved messengers, a precursor to Prophet
Muhammad (61:6)and was sent to guide the Children of Israel. In the
Noble Qur'an, stories about the life and teachings of Prophet Isa
(Jesus, peace upon him) are abundant. The Noble Qur'an recalls his
miraculous birth, his teachings, the miracles he performed by Allah's
(SWT) permission, and his life as a great prophet of Allah (SWT). The
Noble Qur'an speaks of Maryam (Mary) not only as the mother of Prophet
Isa (Jesus, peace upon him), but as a righteous woman in her own
right.
Muslims believe that Prophet Isa (Jesus, peace upon him) was the son
of Maryam (Mary), and was immaculately conceived without the
intervention of a human father. The Noble Qur'an describes that an
angel appeared to Maryam (Mary), to announce to her the "gift of a
holy son" (19:19). Maryam (Mary) was astonished at the news, and
asked: "How shall I have a son, seeing that no man has touched me, and
I am not unchaste?" (19:20). When the angel explained to her that she
had been chosen for the service of Allah (SWT), and that Allah (SWT)
had ordained the matter, she devoutly submitted herself to His will.
The Noble Qur'an further describes that Maryam (Mary, mother of Jesus)
retreated from her people (outside the city), and gave birth to
Prophet Isa (Jesus, peace upon him) underneath a remote date palm
tree. The date palm tree miraculously provided nourishment for Maryam
(Mary) during labor and birth. (See Chapter 19 of the Noble Qur'an for
the entire story. The chapter has aptly been named "The Chapter of
Maryam (Mary, mother of Jesus)")
However, the Noble Qur'an repeatedly reminds us that Prophet Adam, the
first human being, was born with neither a human mother nor a human
father. Therefore Prophet Isa (Jesus, peace upon him) miraculous birth
affords him no higher standing or presumed partnership with God. When
God ordains a matter, He merely says, "Be" and it is so. "The
similitude of Jesus before God is as that of Adam. He created him from
dust, then said to him: "Be!" And he was" (3:59). In Islam, Prophet
Isa (Jesus, peace upon him) is regarded as a human prophet and
messenger of God, not part of God Himself. The Noble Qur'an also
denies that Prophet Isa (Jesus, peace upon him) was crucified.