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Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Akhlaq, Islamic Behavior, Good Conduct, Morality, Good Manners, Islamic Etiquette

Akhlaq is an Arabic term referring to the practice of virtue, morality
and good manners in Islamic Theology and Philosophy (Falsafah). It is
most commonly translated in English as; islamic behavior, disposition,
good conduct, nature, temper, ethics, morals or character (of a
person).
Akhlaq is the plural for the word Khulq which means
disposition."Disposition" is that faculty (Malakah) of the soul (Nafs)
which is the source of all those activities that man performs
spontaneously without thinking about them. Malakah is a property of
the soul which comes into existence through exercise and repetitive
practice and is not easily destroyed.
A particular disposition (Malakah) may appear in human beings because
ofone of the following reasons:
1.Natural and physical make up (Fitrah): It is observed that some
people are patient while others are touchyand nervous. Some are easily
disturbed and saddened while others show greater resistanceand
resilience.
2.Habit (Ada): It is formedbecause of continual repetition of certain
acts and leads to the emergence of a certain disposition.
3.Practice and conscious effort: Which if continued long enoughwill
eventually lead to the formation of a disposition.
Even though the physical make-up of an individualproduces certain
dispositions in him, it is by no means true that man has no choice in
the matter and is absolutely compelled to abide by the dictates of his
physical make-up. On the contrary, since man has the power to choose,
he can overcome the dictates of his physical nature through practice
and effort, and can acquire the disposition ofhis choice.
Of course, it should be admitted that those dispositions which are
caused by the mental faculties such as intelligence, memory, mental
agility and the like, are not alterable. All other dispositions,
however, may be changed according to man's will. Man can control his
lust, anger and other emotions and desires, and channel them to edify
himself andpropel himself along the path of perfection and wisdom.
When we speak of man's capacity to bring about changes in his
dispositions, we do not mean that man should destroy his instincts of
reproduction or self-preservation. Man could not exist without these
instincts. What we mean is that one should avoid going to either
extremes in regard to them, and maintain a condition of balance and
moderation so that they may perform their functions properly. Just as
the seed of a date grows into a fruitful tree through proper care, or
awild horse is trained to serve his master, so also can man attain
perfection and wisdom through self-discipline and intelligent
perseverance.
Human perfection has many levels. The greater the amount of
self-discipline and effort on the part of the individual, the higher
thelevel of perfection that he would attain. In other words, he stands
between two extreme points, the lowest of which is below the level of
beasts and the highest of which surpasses even the high station of
angels. The human movement between these two extremes is discussed by
ilm al-Akhlaq (Science of Ethics). It is the goal of ethics to raise
and guide man from the lowest animal state to that exalted position
superior to that of the angels.
In a hadith from Imam Ali (as)is related as saying, Allah (SWT)
created Angels with intellect but without anger or desire. And created
animals withanger and desire but without intellect. And created man
with intellect (reason), anger and desire. If man's reason over powers
his anger and desires, he rises to the status of that higher than
angels. But ifhis anger and desires overpower his intellect and reason
he becomes lower in status than that of an animal.
The importance of ethics is thus revealed. And it is because of the
reasons mentioned above that ethics is considered to bethe most
exalted and valuable of sciences; Moreover, we know that man is the
noblest of creatures, the ultimate purpose of whose existence is to
attain perfection; therefore, it follows that ethics is the noblest of
all sciences.

Tuesday, July 23, 2013

Ramadan Articles - Blessings of Qiyaam in the Nights of Ramadan – I

Blessings of Qiyaam in the Nights of Ramadan – I
Monday 01/08/2011 Print
1- It was narrated that Abu Hurayrahsaid that the Prophet,, used to
encourage performingQiyaam)voluntary night prayer( inRamadanwithout
firmly enjoining it. Then, he says:"Whoever performs Qiyaam in )the
nights of( Ramadan out of sincere faith and hoping to attain the
reward of Allaah, his pastsins will be forgiven."TheProphet,, died
leavingthe situation as such –i.e.Taraaweeh)voluntary night prayer(
was performed individually not in congregation. It continued this way
during the caliphate of Abu Bakrand at the beginning of the caliphate
of 'Umar.
It was narrated that 'Amr ibn Murrah Al-Juhanisaid that a man from the
Qudhaa'ah came to the Prophet,, and said,"'OMessenger of Allaah! If I
testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah and that
you are Muhammad the Messenger of Allaah, perform the five)obligatory(
prayers, fast the month )of Ramadan(, observe Qiyaam in Ramadan and
pay Zakaah )obligatory charity(?' So, the Prophetsaid:'Whoever dies
onthat will be one of the affirmers of truth and themartyrs.'"
Determining the Night ofAl-Qadr:
2- The best night inRamadanis the Night ofAl-Qadrfor the Prophet,,
said:"Whoever establishes Qiyaam in theNight of Al-Qadr –and manages
to reach it – outof sincere faith and hoping to attain the reward of
Allaah, his pastsins will be forgiven."
3- Most probably, it is thenight of the twenty-seventh day. The
majority ofHadeeths)narrations( support this view. Zirr ibn
Hubayshsaid: Ubayy ibn Ka'bwas told: 'Abdullaah ibn Mas'oodsaid,"He
who stands )for the nightprayer( throughout the year will hit upon the
Night of Al-Qadr!Whereupon, Ubayysaid,
"May Allaah have mercy upon him; he said these words with the
intentionthat people might not rely only on one night. I swear by
Allaah, besides Whom there is none worthy of worship but Him, that the
Night of Al-Qadr is in Ramadan )Heswore without reservation(. By
Allaah, I know the night; it is the night on which the Messenger of
Allaahcommanded us to perform Qiyaam. It is thatwhich precedes the
morning of the twenty-seventh day and its indication is that the sun
rises bright on that day white and without rays."
This was also reported to have been said by the Prophet,. ]Muslim and others[
Permissibility of prayingQiyaamin congregation:
4- PerformingQiyaamin congregation is permissible inRamadan. Rather,
it is better than performing it individually for the Prophet,,
performed it himself and explained its virtue in the narrationof Abu
Tharrin which he says,
"We fasted Ramadan with the Prophetand he did not lead us in Qiyaam at
all. When seven nights remained, he led us in Qiyaam until a third of
the night had passed. When six nights remained, he did not lead us in
Qiyaam. When five nights remained, he led us in Qiyaam until half of
the night had passed. I )Abu Tharr( said,'O Messenger of Allaah, I
wish you had continued until the end of the night.' So, he
said:'Whoever prays with the Imaam till the Imaam leaves will be
rewarded as if he performed Qiyaam all night.'When four nights
remained, he did not lead us in Qiyaam. When three nights remained, he
gathered his family, wives and people and ledus in Qiyaam till we were
afraid to miss Suhoor)pre-dawn meal(. Then, he did not lead us in
Qiyaam for the rest of themonth."]Authentic[ ]At-Tirmithi, An-Nasaa'i,
Abu Daawood and Ibn Maajah[
The reason why the Prophet,, did not continue to pray it in congregation:
5-The Prophet,, did not lead them inQiyaamthe rest of the month outof
fear that night prayersinRamadanmight become obligatory for them so
they might not be able to perform it as mentioned by 'Aa'ishahin the
twoSaheehs. After the death of the Prophet,, this fear no longer
existed, as Allaah The Almighty had made theSharee'ah)Islamic
legislation( complete. Hence, abandoning congregation in
theQiyaam)voluntary night prayer( ofRamadanno longer applied and the
previous ruling, which is the permissibility of congregation,
remained. That is why it was revived by 'Umaras mentioned in the
authentic narrations of Al-Bukhaari and others.
Permissibility of congregation for women:
6- It is permissible for women to attend it as mentioned in the above
narration of Abu Tharr. Rather, it is permissible for them to have a
differentImaamother than that of men. Itwas proved that when
'Umargathered people forQiyaam, he appointed Ubayy ibn Ka'banImaamfor
men and Sulaymaan ibn Abu HathmahanImaamfor women. It wasnarrated that
'Arfajah Ath-Thaqafi, may Allaah be pleased with him, said,"'Ali ibn
Abi Taalibused to command people to perform Qiyaam in Ramadan and
appoint an Imaam for men and another for women. I )'Arfajah( was the
Imaam of women."This applies if the mosque is vast so that neither of
them would distract the other.

Ramadan Articles - Gateways of Goodness in Ramadan-III

1-Invoking prayers on the Prophet,.The Prophet,, said:"Whoever invokes
prayers on me once, Allaah will return it to him ten times."]Muslim[
2-Calling to Allaah The Almighty and to goodness."Whoever calls people
to guidance, shall receive a reward equal to that of those who
followed him without affecting their rewards in the least."]Muslim[
3-Relieving people. The Prophet,, said:"Whoever relieves a Muslim from
distress in this world, Allaah will relieve him from distress on the
Day of Resurrection."]Muslim[
4-Avoiding harming Muslims. TheProphet,, was asked,"Who are the best
Muslims?"He said:"The one whom Muslims are safe from his tongue and
hand."]Al-Bukhaari and Muslim[
5-Helping good people. The Prophet,, said:"There is charity required
from man's joints every day. Whoever helps a man to ride on his mount
or carry his luggage on it, this would be charity."]Al-Bukhaari[
6-Fulfilling people's needs. The Prophet,, said:"Intercede and you
will be rewarded, and Allaah decrees what He wills by the tongue of
His Messenger )i.e. it is by the will of Allaah that the
Prophetaccepts the intercession or not(."]Al-Bukhaari[
7-Doing righteous deeds, even small ones, on a regular basis. The
Prophet,, said:"The best deeds in the sight of Allaah are those done
regularly even if they are small."]Muslim[
8-Kindness to neighbors. The Prophet,, said:"Whoever believes in
Allaah and the Last Day, let him be kind to his neighbor."]Muslim[
9-Returning rights taken unjustlyand asking forgiveness of their
owners. The Prophet,, said:"Whoever has wronged his brother, let him
ask his forgiveness before the time )i.e., the Day of Resurrection(
when hewill have neither a dinar nor a dirham. If he has done some
good deeds, a portion equal to his wrong doings will be subtracted
from them; but if he has no good deeds, he will be burdened with the
evil deeds of the one he had wronged in the same
proportion."]Al-Bukhaari[
10-Following a bad deed with a good one. The Prophet,, said:"Fear
Allaah wherever you are, do good deeds after doing bad ones since the
former will wipe out the latter, and behave kindly towards
people."]Ahmad and Al-Haakim[
11-Returning trusts and keeping covenants. The Prophet,, said:"There
is no faith in the one who is not honest, nor is there a religion for
the one who breaches his covenant."]Ahmad[
12-Showing mercy to the young and honoring the old. The
Prophet,said:"Whoever does not show mercy to the young or respect the
old is not from us."]Ahmad and At-Tirmithi[
13-Dealing with people compassionately and mercifully and taking care
of their affairs as much as possible. The Prophet,, said:"The
believers in their love, mercy, and compassion are like one body; when
an organ aches, the whole body responds in wakefulness and
fever."]Al-Bukhaari and Muslim[
14-Silence and guarding the tongue except from saying good words. The
Prophet,, said:"Whoever believes in Allaah and the Last Day should say
good words or keep silent."]Al-Bukhaari[
15-Defending people's honor. The Prophet,said:"Whoever defends his
brother's honor, Allaah will protect his face from the fire on the Day
of Resurrection."]At-Tirmithi[
16-Purity of the heart and avoiding rancor. The Prophet,said:"The
gates of Paradise are opened on Mondays and Thursdays, and then every
slave)of Allaah( is granted forgiveness if he does not associate
anything with Allaah in worship. But the person in whose heart there
is rancor against his )Muslim( brother, they will not be pardoned and
with regard to them it will be said: 'Hold both ofthem until they are
reconciled with each other.'"]Muslim[
17-Justice between people. The Prophet,said:"There is charity required
from people's joints every day the sun rises, andwhen he judges
between people justly, this would be charity."]Al-Bukhaari[
18-Accepting the invitation of the one who calls to goodness and
giving to the one who asks. The Prophet,, said:"Grant shelter to him
who begs for it in the Name of Allaah, give to him who asks in the
Name of Allaah, accept the invitation of him who invites you, and
requite him who does a favor to you."]Ahmad, An-Nasaa'i and Abu
Daawood[
19-Gratefulness for the favor andrewarding the one who does it. This
indicates the Muslim's good manners. The Prophet,, said:"Reward the
one who does you afavor, and if one does not find anything to give,
let him praise the one who did the favor. If he praises him, he will
have thankedhim; otherwise, he would be ungrateful to
him."]Al-Bukhaari inAl-Adab Al-Mufrad[
20-Striving in worship during thelast days ofRamadan."When thelast ten
days of Ramadan come, the Prophetused to pray all night, awaken his
wives, and avoid intercourse with his wives."]Al-Bukhaari and Muslim[
21-Performing prayer on the Night ofAl-Qadrwith faith and in hope for
reward. The Prophet,, said:"Whoever performs voluntary prayers on the
Night of Al-Qadr with faith and in hope forreward, his past sins will
be forgiven."]Al-Bukhaari and Muslim[
22-I'tikaaf)staying in seclusion(."The Prophetused to make I'tikaaf
during the last ten days of Ramadan."]Al-Bukhaari[
23-GivingZakaat-ul-Fitr)charity due before the 'Eed prayer( at its due
time."The Prophetmade Zakaat-ul-Fitr compulsory so that those who
fasted may be purifiedof their idle deeds and ill speech)committed
during Ramadan( andso that the poor may be fed. Whoever gives it
before the 'Eed Prayer, will have it accepted as Zakaah, while he who
gives it after 'Eed Prayer, has given charity."
24-Finally, attain the rewards of fasting for one's entire lifetime by
fasting six days ofShawwaal. The Prophet,, said:"Whoever observes
fasting throughout the whole month of Ramadan and follows it by
fasting six days of Shawwaal, it would be like fasting throughout
one's whole life."]Al-Bukhaari and Muslim[

Ramadan Articles - Gateways of Goodness in Ramadan-II

1-RecitingThikr)remembrance ofAllaah( afterFajrprayer until sunrise.
The Prophet,, said:"Whoever performs Fajr prayer in congregation, then
stays remembering Allaah till the sun rises, then performs two
Rak'ahs,will have the reward of Hajj and 'Umrah in
full."]At-Tirmithi:Hasan[
2-Performing Friday prayers regularly. The Prophet,, said:"The five
daily prayers, and from one Friday prayer to the )next( Friday prayer,
and from Ramadanto Ramadan are expiations for the sins committed in
between)their intervals(, provided major sins are not
committed."]Muslim[
3-Seeking the hour in which supplications are answered on Friday. The
Prophet,, said:"There is a time on Friday during which a Muslim, while
he )or she( is performing prayer and is supplicating, will be granted
whatever he )or she( is supplicating for.'']Al-Bukhaari and Muslim[
4-ReadingSurat Al-Kahf. The Prophet,said:"A Muslim who reads Surat
Al-Kahf on Friday, a light will shine for him between this Friday and
the next one."]An-Nasaa'i and Al-Haakim[
5-Giving charity frequently."Charity extinguishes sin as water
extinguishes fire."]At-Tirmithi[
6-The best charity is that of the poor. The Prophet,, was asked: "What
is the best charity?"and he said:"The best charity is that which is
given by a poor man, and start giving charity to those under your
care."]Abu Daawood, Ibn Khuzaymah, and Al-Haakim[
7-Giving charity in secret."Doing favors helps in saving from evil
deaths, secret charity puts out the anger of the Lord, and maintaining
kinship ties increases one's lifespan."]At-Tabaraani[
8-Obeying and being dutiful to parents. The Prophet,, said:"He is a
loser, he is a loser, he is aloser."It was said, "O Messenger of
Allaah, who is he?" He replied:"He who lives until his parents reach
old age, either one or both of them, and misses the chance to enter
Paradise )because of being dutiful to them(."]Muslim[
9-Supplicating for parents. The Prophet,, said:"Allaah The Almighty
raises the degree of therighteous slave in Paradise, and as a result
he asks, 'O my Lord, where did I get this from?' Allaahwill Say, 'This
is because of your son's asking forgiveness for you.'"]Ahmad[
10-Dutifulness to one's maternal uncles and aunts. The Prophet,,
said:"The maternal aunt is like the mother in position."]Al-Bukhaari[
11-Saying kind words. The Prophet,said:"Save yourself from Hell even
by giving half a date in charity, and if you do not find that, then by
saying a kind word."]Al-Bukhaari and Muslim[
12-Fulfilling people's needs. The Prophet,, said:"A man who goes to
fulfill ]the Muslim's[ need, )then he pointed with his finger(, it
will be better for him than making I'tikaaf )staying in seclusion( in
this Masjid of mine for two months."]Al-Haakim[
13-Visiting the sick. The Prophet,, said:"A man who visits an ailing
person will attain the fruitsof Paradise."]Muslim[
14-Maintaining kinship ties. The Prophet,, said:"Kinship ties are
hanging on the Throne, saying, 'whoever keeps ties with me, Allaah
will keep good connection with him; and whoever severs ties with me,
Allaah will sever connection with him.'"]Al-Bukhaari and Muslim[
15-Making Muslims happy. The Prophet,, said:"Whoever meets his Muslim
brother with what he likes seeking to make him happy with it, Allaah
will make him happy on the Day of Resurrection."]At-Tabaraani[
16-Making life easy for people in straitened circumstances. The
Prophet,, said:"A person who makes things easy for an insolvent
person, Allaah will make things easy for him in this life and in the
Hereafter."]Muslim[
17-Showing compassion and mercy to the weak. The Prophet,,
said:"Allaah will be Merciful with those who show mercy to others.
Show mercy to those on earth, and The One in Heaven will show mercy to
you."]Abu Daawood and At-Tirmithi[
18-Reconciling people. The Prophet,, said:"Shall I not inform you of
something more excellent in degree than fasting, prayer and
almsgiving?"The people replied, "Yes, O Messengerof Allaah." The
Prophetsaid:"It is reconciling people."]Abu Daawood and At-Tirmithi[
19-Forbearance, forgiveness, andsuppressing anger. Allaah The Almighty
Says )what means(:}And who restrain anger and who pardon the people -
and Allaah loves the doers of good.{]Quran 3:134[ The Prophet,, said
to Al-Ashajj ibn 'Abd Al-Qays: "You have two qualities that Allaah The
Almighty loves: forbearance and patience."]Muslim[
20-Shaking hands with love and a pure soul. The Prophet,, said:"No two
Muslims meet and shake hands with one another but Allaah will forgive
them before they leave."]Abu Daawoodand At-Tirmithi: Hasan[
21-A smiling face. The Prophet,said:"Smiling at your brotheris charity."
22-Lowering one's gaze from what Allaah The Almighty forbade. The
Prophet,, said:"The unlawful look is one of the poisonous arrows of
Satan, and whoever abstains from it out of fear from Allaah will find
its sweetness in his heart."]At-Tabaraani[
23-Enjoining good and forbidding evil. The Prophet,said:"Whoever sees
evil let him change it by his hand; if he is unable, let him change it
by his tongue; and if he is unable, let him abhor it in his heart and
this is the weakest level of faith."]Muslim[
24-Sitting with righteous and good people. The Prophet,, said:"No
people sit to mention Allaah The Almighty but the angels will circle
them, mercy will shower them, tranquility willdescend upon them, and
Allaah will mention them among those with Him."]Muslim[
25-Preserving one's tongue and private parts. The Prophet,,
said:"Whoever gives me a guarantee to safeguard what is between his
jaws and what is between his legs )his tongue andprivate parts(, I
shall guarantee him Paradise."]Al-Bukhaari and Muslim[