Women site - Travelling Women

Travel Without a Male Guardian
The Prophet (Peace be upon Him) said:
"A woman must not travel alone without a mahram . No man may enter the
house of a woman unless there is a mahram with her."
A man stood up and asked Allah'sProphet (Peace be upon Him): "O
Messenger of Allah! My wife is going on Hajj ( pilgrimage), while I
want to participate in a battle, what should I do?" The Prophet of
Allah (Peace be upon Him) said:"Go out with her."
[Bukhari #1763]
For the protection of the person and honor of women, the Islamicrule
encompassed in this tradition forbids any woman, whether she be young
or old, single or married, to travel alone without ( mahram ) as a
travel companion. This man must be of those to whom she is permanently
prohibited to marry due to their close blood relationship, such as a
father, a brother, an uncle, an elder son ornephew after he has
reached puberty, or a husband, etc. Some people might say that this
regulation restricts the freedom of the woman and her basic rightof
movement. The purpose of this rule is not to prevent her ravel but to
free her from harm and molestation, and thus to maintain and preserve
her right of dignity.
Traveling entails many hardships and dangers, and since women are
physically weaker than men, and moreover she may have circumstances of
pregnancy, menses, nursing and childcare, orsome ailments, she is in
more need of help and service. Also women are generally more emotional
and impressionable; they are more susceptible to unscrupulous and
characterless men in search of victims. The Prophet of Allah (Peace be
upon Him) expressed this most eloquently when he said to a man singing
travel songs with a beautiful masculine voice in orderto help the
steady movement of the riding and pack animals, as per the custom of
travelers:
"Go gently, O Anjashah, you're urging on the delicate glassware."
[Bukhari #5857]
The phrase "delicate glassware" describes the fragileness and softness
of the women's nature, who were the riders in that caravan, easily
broken or disturbed.
There are, as we all know, wickedminded, evil and violent men who lurk
about and seek to take advantage of women whom they find susceptible,
gullible or traveling alone. Such wicked-minded men are of course
either interested in robbery, trickery, seduction, or rape. Therefore,
a woman is very much in need of someone to care for, protect and
fulfill her special needs while traveling, providing her the needed
security, service and attention to help her in the difficulties and
ward off strangers and potential predators. The "mahram" of a woman in
Islam protects and serves with utmost sincerity since this is a
natural obligation on him, rewarded by Allah (The Almighty).
We find that many civilizations have similar rules about escorting
women in travel, but often they allow other than the "mahram" to
escort her since they do not differentiate between a "mahram" and a
"non - mahram" in their cultures, which results in terrible stories.
Therefore, and upon this line of reasoning, forbidding a woman to
travel alone, and mandating a male escort who must be a "mahram" , is
not in any way a humiliating restriction or insult to her abilities,
but, in fact, is an honor that she is served, protected and given
companionship by a male escort who has to give her preference over his
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On Honor Killings

In some traditional and tribal custom based societies, custom gives
the male such a dominant role that if the honor of his womenfolk are
perceived, even without proper verification, to have been violated by
an action of promiscuity on her part, the man kills her to protect his
honor. This situation has been hyped up in the media because some
unscrupulous people who continue to do this and others who allow it to
continue.
The answer to this is simple. To begin with, people are not allowed to
take the law into theirown hands and punish in this manner based on
unverified accusations of promiscuity, as the rules of testimony in
Islam are very strict. Therefore, this is a direct violation of the
Islamic law. If the court assesses the case as an outright
premeditatedmurder, after considering all circumstances and receiving
proofs conclusively, it becomes punishable by the Islamic law of
equity and retribution in cases of premeditated murder.
The unfortunate reality is that because secular laws are in place in
these countries, and because politicians appease tribal and other
leaders for political advantages, these unjust customs are allowed to
continue.If the Islamic laws were established and executed, the severe
punishments for fornication, adultery, murder, etc,would satisfy the
Muslim population; that justice has been done, and this would curtail
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Women site - Wife Discipline

Allah, the Exalted, stated in the Glorious Qur'an:
(... As to those women on whose part you see ill-conduct, admonish
them (first), (next,) refuse to share their beds, (and last,) beat
them (lightly, if it is useful). But if they return to obedience, seek
not against themmeans (of annoyance). Surely, Allah is Most High, Most
Great.)
[4:34]
Islam forbids beating women and warns strictly against it. The Prophet
(Peace be upon Him) never beat any of his wives or servants, as his
wife Aishah (may Allah exalt their mention) reported in an authentic
tradition(Bukhari #2328). Women are, in general, weaker than men in
their physique and stamina. Women are often unable to defend
themselves against violence. Although beating of women is generally
forbidden, Islam permits the beating of wives in a restricted and
limited sense only as a final solution and acceptable valid reason
when all else fails. This is analogous to spanking children when all
else fails and they must learn a lessonin obedience for their own
protection and success.
In the verse we quoted, Allah deals with the case of a wife whobehaves
immorally towards her husband's rights. The treatment of this
extremely sensitive issue comes in gradual stages, as we have noticed
from the verse. Medicine, or treatment of any ailment, can be very
bitter at times. But an ill person will take the remedy gladly and
bear the bitterness of the medicine in order to be cured from his
illness.The remedy to treat a wife blameworthy of immoral behavior, as
we have noticed, comes in three gradual stages:
1. First stage: The stage of advice, counseling and warning
againstAllah's punishment. A husband must remind his wife of the
importance of protecting his rights in Islam. This stage is a very
kind and easy one. But, if this treatment does not work and proves to
be ineffective, then the husband may resort tothe next stage.
2. Second stage: To leave the wife's bed. Or, if one sleeps in the
same bed with her, he will turn his back to her, not touch her, talk
to her or have intercourse with her. This stage, as noticed, combines
both strictness and kindness, although it is a very harsh practice on
both. But, if this treatment does not work, then the husband may
resort to the final stage of discipline explained below.
3. Third and final stage: Beating without hurting, breaking a bone,
leaving black or blue marks on the body, and avoiding hitting the face
or especially sensitive places at any cost. The purpose of beating her
is only to discipline and never retaliation or with desire to hurt by
any means. Islam forbids severe beating as punishment.
The Prophet (Peace be upon Him) said:
"None of you should beat his wifelike a slave-beating and then
haveintercourse with her at the end of the day".
[Bukhari #4908]
This treatment is proved to be very effective with two types of women,
as psychologists have determined:
The first type: Strong willed, demanding and commandeering women.
These are the type of women who like to control, master and run the
affairs of their husbands by pushing them around, commanding them and
giving them orders.
The second type: Submissive or subdued women. These women may even
enjoy being beaten at times as a sign of love and concern.
G. A. Holdfield , a European psychologist, in his book Psychology and
Morals states the following:
"The instinct of submission strengthens at times, in the human being
so much that a submissive person will enjoy seeing someone
overpowering him, over-ruling him and being cruel to him. Such a
submissive person bears the consequences of his submission due to the
fact that he enjoys the pain. This is a wide spread instinct amongst
women, even if they do not realize it. For this very reason, women are
well known for bearing more pain than men. A wife, from this type of
women, becomes more attracted and admiring of her husband when he
beats her. Nothing, on the other hand, will sadden some women, as much
as a soft, very kind and very obedient husband who is never upset
regardless of being challenged!"
Beating, according to the Islamic teachings, is listed as the last
andfinal stage of disciplining methods. Islam does not permit, allow
or even condone beating unless the first two stages are proven to be
ineffective. Moreover, beating must not be employed as a remedy, if a
wife prefers to be divorced.
The three stages of discipline stated in the verse of the
GloriousQur'an are only meant to be a means of discipline for the
protection of the family unit. One form of destruction of a family is
when the wife becomes a victim of divorce. Islam aims to relieve
unnecessary pains, problems and conflicts.
The practice of beating wives is inother non-Muslim societies is far
more brutal and frequent. Wife beatings in theses societies are often
with intent to inflict pain and harm to the wife; something strictly
prohibited in Islam as mentioned previously. Recent statistics show
that in Britain, the number of wives who have been brutally beaten by
their husbands has risen from 6,400 in 1990 to 30,000 in 1992. This
number jumped to 65,400 women in 1995. Statisticians expect this
number to double 124,400 towards the end of the twentieth century!
These statistics, as the report says, were based on information
gathered from the police department. But, what about theunreported
cases of wife beating,and the beating of women in general, which are
not reported!
Mrs. Annie Besant compared Islamic Laws and Western legislation on
women's rights and said:
"Islamic Laws are among the best laws known to the world, insofar as
woman is concerned. Itis the most fair and just legislation. It
exceeds the Western legislation concerning real estate, inheritance
and divorce laws. It acts as a guardianfor women's rights. Phrases
such as One Wife is Sufficient for a man, and Polygamy, mystified
people and turned them away from the real misery which Western women
suffer from and live through. Many husbands left their wives after
they got what they wanted from them. In fact such men show no care,
concern or mercy for their wives."

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Darwinists' confessions about the mutations

There is no evidence mutations create new structures. They merely
alter existing ones.
Davis and Kenyon , Of Pandas and People, p. 11
To propose and argue that mutations even in tandem with 'natural
selection' are the root-causes for 6,000,000 viable, enormously
complex species, is to mock logic, deny the weight of evidence, and
reject the fundamentals of mathematical probability."
Cohen, I.L. (1984)"Darwin Was Wrong: A Study in Probabilities ", New
York: New ResearchPublications, Inc., p. 81.
Micro-mutations do occur, but the theory that they can account
forevolutionary change is either falsified or else it is an
unfalsifiable, hencemetaphysical, theory. Suppose that nobody will
deny that it is a great misfortune if an entire branch of science
becomes addicted to a false theory. But this is what has happened in
biology:… I believe that one day the Darwinian myth will be ranked the
greatest deceit in the history of science. When this happens, many
people will pose the question; How did this ever happen?" …
Soren Lovtrup, (1987) Darwinism: The Refutation of a Myth, London:
Croom Helm, p. 422
It is a considerable strainon one's credulity to assume that finely
balanced systems such ascertain sense organs (the eye of vertebrates,
or the bird's feather) could be improved by random mutations. This is
even more true of some ecological chain relationships.
Mayr, Ernst (1942) Systematics and the Origin of Species , p. 296
What is the use of their unceasing mutations, if they do not [produce
evolutionary] change? Insum, the mutations of bacteria and viruses are
merely hereditary fluctuations around a median position; a swing to
the right, a swing to the left, but no final evolutionary
effect.(Pierre Paul Grasse, Evolution of Living Organisms, 1977, p.
87)
Stephen Jay Gould:
You don't make new species by mutating the species. . . . A mutation
isnot the cause of evolutionary change.
Stephen J. Gould, speech at Hobart College, February 14, 1980.
Prof. Richard B. Goldschmidt (University of California at Berkeley):
It is true that nobody thus far has produced a new species or genus,
etc., by macromutation [a combination of many mutations]; it is
equally true that nobody has produced even a species by the selection
of micromutations [one or only a few mutations]. Inthe best-known
organisms, like Drosophila, innumerablemutants are known. If we were
able to combine a thousand or more of such mutants in a single
individual, this still would have no resemblance whatsoeverto any type
known as a [new] species in nature.
Richard B. Goldschmidt, "Evolution, as Viewed by One Geneticist,"
American Scientist , Vol. 40 (January 1952), p. 94
. . I took a little trouble to find whether a single amino acid change
in a hemoglobin mutation is known that doesn't affect seriously the
function of that hemoglobin. One is hard put to find such an
instance."—*George Wald, in *Paul S. Moorehead and *Martin M. Kaplan,
Mathematical Challenges to the Darwinian Interpretation of Evolution,
pp. 18-19.
"The opportune appearance of mutations permitting animals and plants
to meet their needs seems hard to believe. Yet the Darwinian theory is
evenmore demanding: a single plant, a single animal would require
thousands and thousands of lucky, appropriate events. Thus, miracles
would become the rule: events with an infinitesimal probability could
not failto occur.... There is no law against day dreaming, but science
must not indulge in it."
Grasse, Pierre-Paul (1977) Evolution of Living Organism Academic Press
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