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Sunday, March 29, 2015

Kind Treatment of Spouses, - Dought & clear, - * She lives in a different country from her husband; should she leave that country and go to her husbandin his country?












I've been married for 1 year now. I am not sure as to whether i should find a job and sponsor my husband to live with me in the UK or i should just leave the UK to live with him in Pakistan. He (my husband) has not given me any specific orders that i could follow, i have a 2 bedroom flat here in london owned by the council, and i am living on money (Income Support) which the government gives. So in the Islamic view my husband does not fulfill any of my rights and im also not able to give him his rights, if i sponsor him it means i have to work in a mix sexes environment which want to avoid, is it permissible for me to work in such an environment when i perfectly know that my husband is in good health and can provide me with enough to live on in Pakistan? 1) Should i move to Pakistan and let him fulfill all my rights and vise versa? 2) Should he pay for my ticket every time he wants me to visit him? 3) Is it right for me to ask him to give my share of money (i.e. that he should be spending on me according to Quran and Sunnah) as zakah or save it for when i visit him? 4) Is what im taking from the government haraam for me beacause i have a husband in pakistan who can provide me with money, clothes and a roof over my head? 5) What rights does my daughter have on my husband and vise versa? (my daughter's father is in the UK and happily provides for her each week).
Praise be to Allaah.
Married life cannot become stable without working together and coming together in love, goodness, friendship and sincerity, and co-operating in matters that have to do with this world and the Hereafter.
It makes no sense for you to be in one country and your husband to be in another country.
He is not the one who is giving you your rights on a reasonable basis, and you are not the one who is taking care of her husband as enjoined by Allah.
So it is essential to hasten to bring the family together so that it may be filled with love and harmony.
If your husband coming to join you means that you will be the one who works in a mixed environment and your husband will be left without work, undoubtedly working in an environment where men and women mix is haraam, and has negative consequences for one’s religious commitment, morals and family.
So long as your husband is able to spend on your maintenance in Pakistan, then it is better for you to live together in Pakistan.
With regard to the costs of your travelling to join him, he is the one who should pay for that. In fact, if possible he should travel to join you then take you back with him so that you will not be travelling without a mahram.
Of course it is not appropriate for the price of the ticket to form a barrier preventing you from joining your husband.
With regard to what you are taking from the government of financial assistance, reference should be made concerning that to the conditions of entitlement to that assistance.
With regard to your daughter, she has no rights over your husband with regard to spending on her maintenance; rather her maintenance is due in full from her father, according to what he can afford. Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):
“Let the one who is rich spend according to his means, and the one on whom his provision is set according to bare needs — so he will spend (according to his means) out of what Allah has given to him. Allah does not burden a Nafs except (for) that which He has given (capacity) to her. Soon Allah will establish, after hardship, easiness.”
[at-Talaaq 65:7].
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Kind Treatment of Spouses, - Dought & clear, - * Important advice to the spouses concerning discussions between them











Sometimes my wife wants to discuss an issue with me and she has a valid point but I do not want to discuss it with her. That leads to her getting upset and it ends in an argument. Despite that I do not admit that it was my fault until she comes and tries to reconcile me. Please note that she knows that I am the one who is in the wrong.
Praise be to Allaah.
What you have to do is treat your wife kindly. Part of kind treatment is listening properly to what she is saying and responding properly. Being right is not limited to men; it may be your wife’s view that is correct and her suggestions and advice may be good. What is preventing you from letting her express her views and discussing them with her in a friendly manner?
Remember how the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) listened to the advice of his wife Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) and adopted it in a matter of great importance. That was during the well-known Treaty of al-Hudaybiyah, when she suggested to him that he should go out and not speak to anyone among his Companions until he had slaughtered his hadiy (sacrificial animal) and shaved his head. Our Prophet Muhammad (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did as his wife (may Allah be pleased with her) suggested and there was a great deal of good in that.
Hence we advise you to be the one to start a discussion between you and your wife and open your heart and mind to what she has to say, and listen attentively. Then you can either accept what she says and thank her, or reject it gently whilst also thanking her. Do not forget that she is your life partner and the one who is helping you to raise your children and organise your household. So it is not appropriate to close the doors of discussion to her. You should not be too proud of your opinion and or feel that you do not need to discuss with her and hear her opinion. Do not neglect the words of your Prophet Muhammad (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him): “The best of you is the one who is best to his wife.” Narrated by at-Tirmidhi, 3895; classed as saheeh by Shaykh al-Albaani inSaheeh al-Jaami‘, 3314. Over and above that, do not forget the words of Allah (interpretation of the meaning):“And live with them honourably” [an-Nisa’ 4:19]. Discussion between the spouses increases the love between them and strengthens the bond between them; it also helps to reach the right decision in matters of married life and household and family affairs.
Remember that the consequences of this attitude towards your wife may backfire on you; she may refuse to give you any advice so long as you do not accept what she offers you and is forced to agree with you even if you are wrong. Thus you will be depriving yourself of a great deal of good and beneficial advice. It suffices us to say to you: This attitude, in which you insist on your opinion, do not admit your mistakes and do not acknowledge that your wife could be right is the very essence of arrogance, as the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) defined it.
It was narrated from ‘Abdullah ibn Mas‘ood (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “No one will enter Paradise who has an atom’s weight of arrogance in his heart.”
A man said: What if a man likes his garment to look nice and his shoes to look nice?
He said: “Allah is Beautiful and loves beauty. Arrogance is rejecting truth and looking down on people.” Narrated by Muslim, no. 91
What is meant by rejecting truth is denying it out of arrogance and pride.
Looking down on people means scorning them and thinking little of them.
Don’t you see that this is the essence of what you are doing with your wife?
Are you content to have this attitude and hence this fate may be yours?
May Allah protect you from that, O slave of Allah.
It is not the attribute of the wise and mature man to insist when he is in the wrong that his wife should be the one to apologise. Rather he is the one who should hasten to admit his mistake, apologise for it and ask his wife to forgive him. And her duty is to apologize to her husband if she is the one who is in the wrong. It is in this way that married life takes a correct course and lasting love and compassion are strengthened between the spouses. Abu’d-Darda’ (may Allah be pleased with him) said to his wife: “If you see me angry, try to calm me down, and if I see you angry I shall try to calm you down, otherwise we cannot live together.”
See also the answer to question no. 145463
You could also benefit by reading the bookThe Muslim Home: 40 Recommendations, which you can find in the Articles and Books section of this website. (Link: /en/books/17)
We ask Allah to guide you and your wife to that which He loves and is pleased with, and to bring you together in the best of ways.
And Allah knows best.






















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Saturday, March 28, 2015

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Menstruation and Post-Natal bleeding, - Dought&clear, - * Blood spots that appear prior to Menstruation











Before my menstrual period I spot for about five days . I would like to know can I pray and fast ? I know already that after my menstrual period if I'm spotting then I should pray but this is before starting my period.
Al-hamdu lillaah.
If yellowish or brownish secretions and red blood spots appear regularly before and after your period then they are considered part of your period so long as the total number of days does not exceed 15 days. Consequently, you cannot pray nor fast during this time.
Yet if your period actually stops and the secretions appear after 1 or more days after your period has ended then these secretions are not considered part of the menstruation. In which case you can fast and pray, as you are considered in a state of istihaadah not menstruation, but you will need to perform ablution for each prayer, after the athaan (prayer call) or corresponding time has come.






















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