Women site, - Priceless Gems: Advice forWomen from the Prophet

• The Messenger of Allaah, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, said:"If a
woman performs the five )obligatory( prayers, fasts the month )of
Ramadan(, maintains her chastity and obeys her husband, )on the Day of
Judgment( it will be said to her, 'Enter Paradise from whichever gate
you like'."]Ibn Hibbaan[ ]Al-Albaani: Saheeh[
• The Messenger of Allaah, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, said:"O
company of women! Give charity even from your ornaments, for you
constitute the majority of the people of Hell on the Day of
Judgment."]Al-Bukhaari and Muslim[
• The Messenger of Allaah, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, further
said:"I advise you )O women( to adhere to Tasbeeh )to say 'Exalted be
Allaah'(, Tahleel )to say 'there is none worthy of worship except
Allaah'(, and Taqdees )to say 'Exalted be )Allaah( The Sovereign, The
Pure, Exalted and Pure be the Lord of angels and Holy spirit'(, and
count with the help of your fingers, for they will be questioned and
made to speak )to give witness to you(, and be not heedless )of Thikr
-- remembrance( lest you would forget )to seek( mercy."]Abu Daawood
and At-Tirmithi[
• It was narrated that the Messenger of Allaah, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa
sallam, asked a woman of the Ansaar )Helpers( called Umm Sinaan:"What
prevented you from performing Hajj with us?"She replied, "There were
only two camels used for carrying water owned by so-and-so )meaning
her husband(. He and his son offered Hajj on one, and the other was
left to be used for irrigation." He said )to her(:"Then, 'Umrah )to be
offered( in Ramadan is equal )in reward( to Hajj or Hajj with
me."]Muslim[
• The Messenger of Allaah, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, said:"May
Allaah have mercy upon a man who stands at night and offers
)supererogatory( prayers and then awakens his wife to offer prayer,
and if she refuses )to wake up(, he sprinkles water on her face; and
may Allaah have mercy upon a woman who stands at night and
offers)supererogatory( prayers and awakens her husband to offer
prayer, and if he refuses, she sprinkles water on his face."]Ahmad[
]Al-Albaani: Saheeh[
• It was narrated on the authority of Umm Humayd, the wife of Abu
Humayd As-Saa'idi, may Allaah be pleased with them, that she came to
the Prophet, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, and said, "'O Messenger of
Allaah! I like to offer prayers with you." He said:"I know that you
like to offer prayers with me; however, )you should know that( your
prayer in your sleeping place )inside your chamber( is better for you
than your prayer in your chamber; and your prayer in your chamber is
better for you than your prayer in your house; and your prayer in your
house is better for you than your prayer in the mosque of your people;
and your prayer in the mosque of your people is better for you than
your prayer in my mosque."]Ahmad[ ]Al-Albaani: Saheeh[
• It was narrated on the authority of 'Aa'ishah, may Allaah be pleased
with her, that she said, "I said, 'O Messenger of Allaah! We see that
Jihaad )struggle( is the best of deeds; should we not engage in
Jihaad?' He said,"For you )women(, the best act of Jihaad is to
perform Hajj that is accepted )by Allaah(."]Al-Bukhaari[
• It was said to the Prophet, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, "'O
Messenger of Allaah! Such-and-such a woman prays at night, fasts by
day, does such-and-such good deeds and gives charity. However, she
harms her neighbors with her tongue.' On that the Messenger of Allaah,
sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, said:"There is no good in her. She is
from the people of Hell."They further said, "And such-and-such a woman
performs only the )obligatory five( written prayers, and gives only
yogurt as charity. However, she harms no one." On that the Messenger
of Allaah, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, said:"She is from the
inhabitants of Paradise."]Al-Bukhaari: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad[ ]Al-Albaani:
Saheeh[
• The Messenger of Allaah, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, said:"By the
One in whose hand the soul of Muhammad is! A woman will not fulfill
the right of her Lord )perfectly( unless she fulfills the right of her
husband fully; and if her husband asks her to have sexual intercourse
while sitting on the back of a camel, she should not prevent him )from
doing so(."]Ibn Maajah[ ]Al-Albaani: Hasan[
• The Prophet, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, said:"If a woman spends
)gives charity( from the foodstuff of her house but not wastefully,
she will have a reward for what she spent, her husband will have a
reward for what he earned, and the storekeeper the like of that,
without reducing anything from the reward of each other."]Al-Bukhaari[
• It was narrated on the authority of Al-Husayn ibn Mihsan that one of
his paternal aunts came to the Messenger of Allaah, sallallaahu
'alayhi wa sallam, for a particular need, and when she finished her
need the Prophet, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, said to her:"Do you
have a husband?" She answered in the affirmative. He asked: "How are
you with him?"She said, "I am never negligent in fulfilling his right
except when I am incapable." On that, he said:"Then, regard your
position with him for he either leads you to Paradise or to
Hell."]Ahmad and Al-Haakim[ ]Al-Haakim and Ath-Thahabi: Saheeh[
• The Messenger of Allaah, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, said:"No
trouble, fatigue, anxiety, sadness, harm or distress befalls a Muslim,
even a prick that he receives from a thorn, but that for which Allaah
forgives some of his sins."]Al-Bukhaari and Muslim[
O Muslim sister, remember this Hadeeth )narration(, and hope for the
reward from Allaah The Almighty for whatever difficulties and troubles
you meet in your life, like pregnancy, post-partum bleeding, suckling,
raising children, menstruation, and so on, perchance your scale of
good deeds will be heavy, your sins will be forgiven, and your rank
will be elevated high in Paradise.