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சோமு : வரணும்னுதான் சார் நினைச்சேன். அதுக்குள்ள வேற கஷ்டம் ஒண்ணு வந்துட்டுது!!

Rulings on Marriage, - * He married a woman who was a new Muslim without the permission of her parents, then they gave their approval after that

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I got married almost 3 years ago but I have always questioned myself if my marriage is valid or not. I have always considered myself a religious man who follows the 5 pillars of Islam and does a lot of dawah. Previously I went to work and offered my assistance at a Masjid and Madrassa in another country for approximately 2 years. After the first year I was interested in getting married to a 22 year old new Muslimah convert from the country I was working in who also used to volunteer sometimes in the same madrassa I was working in. Because she was a new convert and her family was not Muslim, she did not have a Wali. She told her parents that she wanted to get married to me and they agreed at first but they wanted to talk to the Imam of the Masjid I was working in since he was the only Islamic authoritative figure in that country. They wanted to hear from the Imam if Islam permits their daughter to get married to me so soon. So the parents and her went to the Masjid together to meet with the Imam and the Imam told them that she should not get married to me and that she should delay her marriage until he finds someone from the same nation and just to be my friend but not more. The parents took the Imam’s advice because they already thought she shouldn’t get married since it was strange to get married so soon in their culture. The Imam just supported them by telling them what they wanted to hear (that she shouldn’t get married). I and other brothers were very disappointed at this because the Imam was preventing us to get married and we thought this was not fair or right. I have read some articles from your website saying a new Muslim convert does not have to inform her non- Muslim parents if she is getting married to a Muslim and an Imam can act as her Wali. So I thought it would be okay to not tell her parents and get married to her by having my local Imam in my country act as her Wali since the imam in her country told her and her parents not to marry me. We took the liberty of flying to my home country and marrying there through my local imam in front of 3 Muslim witnesses. However, I’m not sure if what I did was permissible or not and if my marriage is valid because she traveled with me to my home country without a Mahram. Her parents found out later that we got married and they have no problem with us being married now and we have been living together now for almost 3 years. However, I still need some clarification in this matter and need to know if I did the right thing. Could you please help and advise me?.
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Praise be to Allaah.
First of all, we share your astonishment at the answer of this imam whose was not wise and was not appropriate to the case that was presented to him. Yes, a person could advise one who wants to get married in ordinary circumstances to marry someone from the same country or region as himself, so as to avoid differences in customs, traditions and so on, which can cause a lot of family problems, let alone the possible consequences of staying away from one’s country, such as severing of family ties and the like.
But with regard to your problem, the matter is different in all aspects. Hence the advice of this imam was not appropriate. Moreover, giving advice is one thing and explaining the Islamic ruling to one who is asking about it is something else. If the imam was being asked for Islamic advice, he should have explained the ruling of Islam on the matter being referred to him, then after that he could give his advice in the light of what he thinks is in the best interests of the questioner.
Secondly:
If you did your marriage contract with this Muslim girl, with the proposal and acceptance as prescribed in sharee‘ah, and all the pillars or essential requirements of marriage were fulfilled, and the marriage contract was done by the imam of the neighbourhood in which you live or by the director of the Islamic Centre in your locality, then your marriage to this girl is valid. But in fact you did not need to travel with her without a mahram; this is something that was not permissible for you. And you should not have married her far away from her family, because they were not opposed to your marrying her and they were not opposed to her in her choice of religion. You could have brought her family to where you live or brought some of them, and the marriage could have been done in the proper Islamic fashion and in an appropriate social environment, so that her family could have attended and it would not have appeared to exclude them or go against their wishes.
But whatever the case, so long as the matter is done and there have not been any problems with your wife’s family, then the marriage is valid even though there was the issue of your travelling with her without a mahram, which against the teachings of Islam. May Allah forgive you and her.
And Allah knows best.

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: शुक्रवार, 9 फरवरी, 2018 विवाह पर फैसलों, - * यह अनुमेय मेरी माँ के मामा की बेटी से विवाह करने है? ** IndonesiaArabicChinaEnglishSpanishFrenchItalianJapanKoreanHindiRussian Shareशेयर यह एक के दादा की बेटी से विवाह करने की अनुमति है? आपकी जानकारी के लिए, क्या मैं दादा ने यहां मतलब मेरी माँ की मामा है। दूसरे शब्दों में, यह मेरी माँ के मामा की बेटी से विवाह करने की अनुमति है ?. - स्तुति अल्लाह के लिए योग्य। यह प्रथागत में कुछ समाजों माँ के मामा "दादा" कॉल करने के लिए है, लेकिन यह या तो shar'i या भाषाई दृष्टि से सही नहीं है। माँ के मामा उसे और उसके सभी वंशजों के लिए एक मामा है, और अपने बच्चों (awlaad khaal) है कि मां के बच्चों को मातृ चचेरे भाई के रूप में माना जाता है। उस आधार पर, अपनी माँ के मामा की बेटी अपने मातृ चचेरे भाई के रूप में माना जाता है, और (महिला) मातृ चचेरे भाई एक mahram नहीं है, इसलिए उससे शादी के साथ कुछ भी गलत नहीं है। अल्लाह, वह ऊंचा किया जा सकता है, का कहना है: "हे पैगंबर (मुहम्मद صلى الله عليه وسلم)! वास्तव में, हम आप के लिए वैध अपनी पत्नियों बना दिया है, जिसे आप अपने Mahr (दुल्हन-पैसा शादी के समय अपनी पत्नी को पति द्वारा दिए गए) का भुगतान किया है, और उन (दास) जिसे अपने दाहिने हाथ के पास - जिसे अल्लाह तआला है आप को दी, और अपने की बेटियों की Amm (पैतृक चाचा) और अपने की बेटियों की Ammaat (पैतृक चाची) और अपने Khaal (मामा) की बेटियों और अपने Khaalaat (मातृ चाचियों) की बेटियों " [al- 33:50 Ahzaab]। शेख़ 'अब्द अल Rahmaan अल Sa'di (अल्लाह उस पर दया हो सकता है) ने कहा: अल्लाह, वह ऊंचा किया जा सकता है, ने कहा कि जो उसके लिए अनुमेय (शादी के लिए) और साथ ही विश्वासियों के लिए था की उनकी मैसेंजर कह "और अपने की बेटियों की Amm (पैतृक चाचा) और अपने की बेटियों की Ammaat (पैतृक चाची) और अपने Khaal (मामा) की बेटियों और अपने Khaalaat (मातृ चाचियों) की बेटियों"। यह (की बेटियों) पैतृक चाचा और चाची, मामा और चाची, और दूर के पास भी शामिल है। अंत बोली। और अल्लाह सबसे अच्छा

Ruling on marriage

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