''Advise'':-/:-/Understanding Men In Relationships: Understand What Men Need From Women and What Men Want From Women! Discover What Men Won't Tell That Women Need To Know!

Get The Inside Scoop on Understanding Men In Relationsips, What Men
Need From Women and What Men Want From A Women!
Over the years, you've had many experiences (good and bad) with trying
to understand men.
Whil attempting to understand men you will begin to realize they
usually don't know what they want or need from a woman. They say one
thing and do another. Theysend mixed messages and confuse the mess out
of you!
I have confused many women during my lifetime but it was never on
purpose. I truly did not know what I wanted or needed from me, my life
oranyone else for that matter.
I ended up hurting people when I didn't mean too. And I am truly sorry
for thepain I unwillingly caused.
After many failed relationships, spending more time with me,
identifying what I desired out of life, talking with men and women and
observing people in relationships, I began to understand what men need
and want from a woman!
Thousands of men will spend years trying to identify and understand
what they want and need. Some will succeed but most will not. Just
look around you! I am sure you know a lot of confused men you don't
understand.
What you're about to read may piss you off. You will call me a few
names beforeyou are finished. How do I know? People have written to me
saying,"..stop spreading this crap. It's just garbage." Can't please
everyone!
And there are those who thank me for the insights and how it helped
them in understanding men.
What I find intriguing is not the insults but the fact that many
people find it difficult to believe there are millions of men in the
world who think this way. Yet, they believe they trulywant to
understand men! They are only fooling themselves!
I'm just telling what I've witnessed over the past 20years from men in
the Boardroom, Wall Street, Post Office, etc.
One thing you must keep in mind is I'm not talking about all men. I
would estimate, based on my experience, 85% of good men may feel this
way. Notice I said, "good men."
That should scare you because if "good men" feel this way then how do
the other men feel who are not good men? Unfortunately, you should
know as you may have gotten involved with a fewof them!
You are going to take a journey into the mind of good men and how to
understand men. Some of it may seem too simple. Other times, you'll
think I'm crazy. And there will beinstances when you think I've really
lost my mind. Yet, I tell you I've witnessed these behaviors over and
over again. If you truly want to understand men read the information
with an open mind.
Unlike many women, I don't listen to what men say. I watch their
actions. And it's their actions that tell me what they really want and
need from a woman. I just gave you a major hint on how to understand
men. Read the previous two sentences again.
For example, if I know a man has a good woman at home and he's out
cheating that tells me a lot about him and what he really wants from a
woman.
If he treats his woman nicewhen company is around and call her all
sorts of names in private or treats her like crap, I know what he
really wants from a woman.
If he spends more time at work, with his friends or doing other things
withouthis woman that tells me what he really wants from a woman
One thing you should keep in mind is this course is for entertainment
purposes only. We are going to take an entertaining look at how to
understand men, what men need and want from women.
While I have witnessed and experienced what I'm about to reveal to
you, I can't guarantee other men will fit this model. Although I may
be off in a few areas I'm usually consistent and accurate.
The only way to truly find out if I'm on target is to read it, think
about the previous and current men in your life and see if there is
some validity to what I'm saying.
Your experience is more important than mine. I'm just providing you
with theframework to make sense of, and understand, men./

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Qur'an Ayath - Explanation :-/Details of the Grandeur of Creation:

I take refuge with Allaah from the accursed devil.
بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَـنِ الرَّحِيمِ
Bismillah-ir-Rahman-ir-Raheem: In the name of Allah, the
Compassionate, the Merciful.
Welcome to my blog and praise the Magnificent Lordas you enter:
Allahu Akbar: Allah is the Greatest .
May the Peace and Blessingof Allah Azza wa Jal, our Lord Glorified and
Praised be He, be upon our beloved Prophet, his Family, and
Companions.
Details of the Grandeur of Creation.
أَلَمْ تَرَ إِلَى رَبِّكَ كَيْفَ مَدَّ الظِّلَّ وَلَوْ شَآءَ
لَجَعَلَهُ سَاكِناً ثُمَّ جَعَلْنَا الشَّمْسَ عَلَيْهِ دَلِيلاً
(45. Have you not seen how your Lord spread the shadow. If He willed,
He could have made it still — but We have made the sunits guide.)
ثُمَّ قَبَضْنَـهُ إِلَيْنَا قَبْضاً يَسِيراً
(46. Then We withdraw it towards Ourselves — a gradual withdrawal.)
وَهُوَ الَّذِى جَعَلَ لَكُمُ الَّيْلَ لِبَاساً وَالنَّوْمَ سُبَاتاً
وَجَعَلَ النَّهَارَ نُشُوراً
(47. And it is He Who makes the night a coveringfor you, and the
sleep (as) a repose, and makes the day Nushur.)
Surah 25 Al Furqan Verse 45-47
Tafsir Ibn Kathir
Here Allah begins explaining the evidence forHis existence and His
perfect power to create various things and pairs of opposites. Allah
says:
(Have you not seen how your Lord spread the shadow.) Ibn `Abbas, Ibn
`Umar, Abu Al-`Aliyah, Abu Malik, Masruq, Mujahid, Sa`id bin Jubayr,
An-Nakha`i, Ad-Dahhak, Al-Hasan, Qatadah, As-Suddi and others said,
"This refers to the period from the beginning of the dawn until the
sun rises."
(If He willed, He could havemade it still) meaning, immobile, never
changing. This is like the Ayat:
(Say : "Tell me! If Allah made the night continuousfor you…") (28:71)
(but We have made the sun its guide.) means, wereit not for the sun
rising, it would not be there, for a thing can only be known
incontrast to its opposite. Qatadah and As-Suddi said,"The sun is a
guide which follows the shade until the shade disappears. "
(Then We withdraw it towards Ourselves — a gradual withdrawal.) This
refers to the shade.
(gradual) meaning slowly. As-Suddi said: "A gentle, concealed,
withdrawal until there is no shade left on earth except under a roof
or a tree, and the sun is shining on whatever is above it."
(a gradual withdrawal.) Ayyub bin Musa said: "Littleby little.
(And it is He Who makes the night a covering for you,) It covers and
concealsall things. This is like the Ayah:
(By the night as it envelops) (92:1).
(and the sleep a repose,) means, a halt to movement so that bodies may
rest. For the faculties and limbs get tired from their constant
movement during the day when one goes out to earn a living. When night
comes, and it becomes quiet, they stop moving, and rest; so sleep
provides a rejuvenation forboth the body and the soul.
(and makes the day Nushur) meaning, people get up and go out to earn a
living and attend to their business. This is like the Ayah:
(It is out of His mercy that He has made for you the night and the day
that you may rest therein and that you may seek of His bounty…)
(28:73)
وَهُوَ الَّذِى أَرْسَلَ الرِّيَـحَ بُشْرَى بَيْنَ يَدَىْ رَحْمَتِهِ
وَأَنزَلْنَا مِنَ السَّمَآءِ مَآءً طَهُوراً
(48. And it is He Who sendsthe winds as heralds of glad tidings, going
before His mercy; and We send down pure water from the sky,)
لِّنُحْيِىَ بِهِ بَلْدَةً مَّيْتاً وَنُسْقِيَهِ مِمَّا خَلَقْنَآ
أَنْعَـماً وَأَنَاسِىَّ كَثِيراً
(49. That We may give life thereby to a dead land, and We give to
drink thereof many of the cattle and men that We have created.)
وَلَقَدْ صَرَّفْنَـهُ بَيْنَهُمْ لِيَذَّكَّرُواْ فَأَبَى أَكْثَرُ
النَّاسِ إِلاَّ كُفُوراً
(50. And indeed We have distributed it among them in order that they
may remember the grace of Allah, but most men refuse (out of)
gratitude.)
Surah 25 Al Furqan Verse 48-50
Tafsir ibn Kathir
Allah sends the winds as heralds of glad tidings, i.e., they bring the
clouds behind them. The winds are of many different types, depending
on the purpose for which they aresent. Some of them form the clouds/

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''Advise'':-/:-/Some sisters say :

"I can't stop listening to music…
I can't stop watching movies and TV series…
I know it's Haram but I can't leave my boyfriend…
my friendship with boys will be ended when I will find a husband …
I will wear Hijab when I will grow older…"
Dear sisters, why is it so hard for you to leave Haram enjoyment of Dunya?
Look to the answer of a handsome Dutch young man (who reverted to
Islam 5 years ago) when hewas asked about his previous life as a non
Muslim
Shaikh Mohammad 'Irifi asked him:"how could you forget your previous
life just like that? You were certainly surrounded by girls everywhere
so: How could you forget the life of sex, music, wine, and forbidden
enjoyment?!"
he answered him:"Allah (subhanahu wa ta'ala) simply removed it from
myheart the moment I said "the Shahadah" of Twahid and became a
Muslim"
The moment he became a Muslim he surely knew that2 loves can't be
together ina believer's heart : love of Allah and love of Haram
in shaa Allah all Muslimat will realize this fact too

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''Advise'':-/:-/

When you choose Allah over everything else, He will most certainly
take care of you. So when you are given two choices, remember Allah
and choose wisely. Choose truth over falsehood, piety over desire,
mercy over harshness, justice over oppression, and choose Him over
yourself... then sitback and watch how beautifully Allah chooses for
you and runs the affairsof your life ever so beautifully.

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