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Friday, March 28, 2014

Dought & clear, - She repented from a haram relationship in which she lost her virginity. Should she marry who fornicated with her?















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I am in a relationship with a man who took my virginity. I repented from such evil deeds and ask Allah to accept my repentance. This man proposed to me, but he is not religious, he smokes cigarettes and hashish and drinks alcohol. What should I do, he knows my matter. Or shall I leave him and have a hymen repair operation done and marry a religious man? I was pregnant and I aborted the baby. Allah knows how sincere my repentance is.
Praise be to Allaah.
Firstly:
Zina (fornication or adultery) is a major sin. Allaah has forbidden doing the things that lead to it and has prescribed the hadd punishment for the one who does it, and He has warned adulterers of punishment in the Hereafter.
Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And come not near to unlawful sex. Verily, it is a Faahishah (i.e. anything that transgresses its limits: a great sin), and an evil way that leads one to hell unless Allaah forgives him”
[al-Isra’ 17:32].
Ibn Jareer al-Tabari (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
“And come not near” O people
“to unlawful sex. Verily, it is a Faahishah (i.e. anything that transgresses its limits: a great sin)”. Zina (translated here as “unlawful sex”) is a great sin.
“and an evil way” i.e., the way of zina is an evil way, because it is the way of the people who disobey Allaah and go against His command; what a bad way is the way that leads a person to the fire of Hell.
Tafseer al-Tabari(17/438).
Shaykh ‘Abd al-Rahmaan al-Sa’di (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
The prohibition on approaching it is more eloquent than a simple prohibition on doing it, because that includes the prohibition on all the things that lead to it and promote it, because “the one who grazes his flock around a protected areas will soon transgress upon it,” especially in a matter of this nature when the motive is very strong. Allaah describes zina as abhorrent, as He says “it is a Faahishah (i.e. anything that transgresses its limits: a great sin)”, i.e., it is a sin which is abhorrent according to sharee’ah, reason and common sense, because it is a transgression against Allaah, and against the woman and her family or husband, and it leads to immorality, confusion of lineages and other evil consequences.
“and an evil way” means: what an evil way is the way of the one who dares to commit this grave sin.
Tafseer al-Sa’di(p. 457).
See also the answers to questions no. 76060, 20983and 95754.
Secondly:
With regard to the abortion, if the soul had been breathed into the foetus, then this is another crime in addition to the crime of zina. If the soul had not yet been breathed into the foetus then it is less serious.
For a detailed discussion on that, please see the answers to questions no. 11195, 13319, 13331and 90054.
Thirdly:
We praise Allaah for having enabled you to repent, and we hope that it is sincere repentance. The conditions of sincere repentance include: regretting the sins that you have committed, and immediately giving up that immoral action, and everything that leads to it such as contact, correspondence and dates. The conditions of repentance also include resolving not to return to this deed.
You also have to do a lot of righteous deeds, such as prayer, reading Qur’aan and fasting, so as to strengthen your faith and piety. Good deeds erase bad deeds and sincere repentance erases that which came before it, and turns bad deeds into good deeds. Allaah says – after mentioning the sins of shirk (associating others with Allaah), murder and zina – (interpretation of the meaning):
“Except those who repent and believe (in Islamic Monotheism), and do righteous deeds; for those, Allaah will change their sins into good deeds, and Allaah is Oft‑Forgiving, Most Merciful”
[al-Furqaan 25:70].
Fourthly:
With regard to marrying that criminal, you should understand that in order for the marriage of a man and woman who had committed zina to be valid, it is essential that they repent sincerely. It seems to us from your questions that he has not repented from what he did, rather he had added to the first calamity the other bad things that he is doing, such as smoking hasheesh and drinking intoxicants. What we think is that one who is like this also does not pray. If this is indeed the case, then it is definitely not permissible to accept him as a husband, because not praying is kufr that puts a person beyond the pale of Islam, and it is not permissible for a Muslim woman to marry a kaafir.
For a more detailed discussion on the issue of marrying a zaani (one who commits fornication or adultery), please see the answers to questions no. 85335, 87894and 96460.
Fifthly:
With regard to having an operation to repair the hymen, this is haraam, because it is deceiving the one who marries you.
For a detailed discussion of this matter, please see the answer to question no. 844.
With regard to telling your future husband that you lost your virginity in this haraam relationship, that is not permissible, because it is exposing your faults, and the Muslim is required to conceal his faults. You can use double entendres in your speech. It is well known that the hymen may be broken by means of something other than intercourse in some cases, so you can make the most of that by using a double entendre.
See the answer to question no. 42992.
But if it is possible to encourage this person to repent sincerely and pray regularly, and he shows sincerity and signs of repenting and praying regularly, then there is nothing wrong with accepting him as a husband. Undoubtedly this solution would be easier for you, and more concealing for you, but how could one believe a person like that?!
We ask Allaah to accept your repentance and set your affairs straight, and to conceal our faults and yours in this world and in the Hereafter.
And Allaah knows best.











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Dought & clear, - Her father did not allow her to marry a man, then she committed zina with him















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I have been facing a serious problem for approximately one year. I am a Turkish girl, twenty-one years old, and I live in Germany. Although my family are not religiously committed, I am trying – praise be to Allah – to adhere to the teachings of Islam. But despite that there are many problems between me and my family, because they object to me adhering to religious observances such as wearing hijab and so on. Now I want to get married to an Afghan man who is also religiously committed. I told my father about that, but he is a fanatic nationalist, and he rejected this marriage, and he beat me for this reason. I can no longer put up with it and my mother cannot help me, because she is very afraid of my father. We have been waiting for a year, and he has not agreed to the marriage yet. During this period we committed zina, and we do not know what to do. We feel distraught, and we want to get married, but we cannot do that without my father’s agreement. Hence I do not know what to do. Is it permissible to get married without the consent of the girl’s father?
Praise be to Allah.
Firstly:
We are very surprised when you say that you are trying to adhere to the teachings of Islam, then we see that you have squandered the most precious thing a girl possesses after her religious commitment, which is her chastity and honour! How could you accept to sink to such a level and commit this evil action?! How could you have surrendered your honour to be violated by a stranger (non-mahram)? Does the fact that your family does not agree to marriage to a particular man make it permissible for you to fall into zina and commit this grave major sin?!
We are also surprised by a religiously committed man who tempted you to commit this evil action, or who fell into this evil action with you. To be honest, we do not know what religious commitment is in your opinion!
What you must do now is repent sincerely from what you have done. That requires you to regret what has happened, to resolve not to commit such a sin again, and to cut off ties completely with that evildoer and sinner. It is not permissible for you to talk to him or correspond with him, let alone meet him. This is what is required by sincere repentance which Allah, may He be exalted, has enjoined upon the sinners, as He says (interpretation of the meaning):
“O you who believe! Turn to Allah with sincere repentance! It may be that your Lord will remit from you your sins, and admit you into Gardens under which rivers flow (Paradise)…”
[at-Tahreem 66:8].
Secondly:
You should understand that the action that you have both committed has made it haraam for you to marry, even if your father agrees to the marriage. That is because Allah, may He be exalted, has prohibited marriage of the man and woman who commit zina, unless they both repent.
Ibn Qudaamah (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
If a woman commits zina, it is not permissible for the one who is aware of that to marry her, unless two conditions are met:
1. That her ‘iddah has ended; if she became pregnant as a result of zina, then her ‘iddah ends when she gives birth, and it is not permissible to marry her before that.
2. That she should repent from zina.
He also said:
If these two conditions are met, it is permissible for her to marry the zaani or someone else, according to most of the scholars, including Abu Bakr, ‘Umar, Ibn ‘Umar, Ibn ‘Abbaas, Jaabir, Sa‘eed ibn al-Musayyab, Jaabir ibn Zayd, ‘Ata’, al-Hasan, ‘Ikrimah, az-Zuhri, ath-Thawri, ash-Shaafa‘i, Ibn al-Mundhir, and ashaab ar-ra’y. End quote.
Al-Mughni, 7/108, 109
We have previously discussed the ruling on this matter in the answers to the following questions: 11195, 85335, 96460, 87894and 14381
Therefore, if Allah enables you to repent sincerely from this obvious sin and immoral action, then it will be possible for you to marry this man, if you think that he has repented sincerely too, and if you can convince your father or he (the man) can try to win him over. If that is not possible, then perhaps Allah will give you someone better than him instead.
Thirdly:
With regard to parents and guardians in general, we advise them: fear Allah with regard to the girls under your care, and do not do anything that you will regret afterwards for the rest of your lives, when regret will not benefit you. “If there comes to you one with whose religious commitment and character you are pleased, then give (your daughter or female relative under your care) to him in marriage.” This is the advice of your Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). “For if you do not do that, there will be tribulations on earth and much corruption,” as it says in the rest of the hadeeth. So if someone comes to you, wanting to marry your daughter or sister, do not put obstacles in his path; do not give precedence to language, nationality, race or colour over religious commitment. Do not give the Shaytaan any opportunity to cause your daughters and female relatives to fall into his traps. Beware lest the Shaytaan tempt them to do two serious things, two grave sins, namely zina or marrying without a wali (guardian) one who came to propose marriage to her and was rejected by you, because that (marrying without a wali) makes the marriage contract invalid. Here you have seen the real-life story that is mentioned in this question; the girl ended up committing zina with the man who had proposed to her, and now she is asking about getting married without the permission of her wali. This is not an excuse for her, but what will your excuse be before your Creator when He calls you to account for the trust that He commanded you to take care of? What will be your excuse before Allah when you rejected a religiously-committed man who wanted to marry your daughter or your sister in accordance with the Qur’an and Sunnah?
We are not making any excuse for that girl who has committed a grave sin; if she gets married without the permission of her wali, then her marriage will be invalid. But at the same time, we are blaming the guardians who do not fear their Lord, may He be exalted, and who neglected that which was entrusted to them.
We also say to the girl: It may be better for you if your family reject some of those who want to propose to you, if they think that this is better with regard to your religious commitment and your worldly affairs, so you should not insist on a particular person. Guardians who prevent their daughters or female relatives from getting married at all are sinning, and in that situation she may refer her case to the shar‘i judge or whoever is acting in his stead, so that guardianship may be passed to someone other than that guardian who is refusing to arrange her marriage. If there is no one else who is deserving of guardianship, then the shar‘i judge or whoever is acting in his stead then assumes the role of guardian (wali) and he may arrange her marriage himself. But if a woman does the marriage contract for herself without any guardian (wali) at all, then her marriage contract is invalid.
For more information on this matter, see the following questions: 7193, 10196, 36209, 2127and 7989.
In the questions referred to there is a discussion of the evidence for the marriage contract being invalid if it is done without the consent of the guardian (wali), as well as a discussion of what the woman should do if her guardian (wali) is preventing her from getting married, and so on.
See also the answer to question no. 20162 for the stories of some women who went against their families’ opinions and married the men they wanted to marry.
And Allah knows best.








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For children, - Envy in Islam, Jealousy and Islam












So you don't like a person because he/she possesses some thing you imagine to be good that you don't have? You feel 'sick' whenever you see him/her; hear people talking about him/her or even when you think of him/her while you are alone. This is because he/she is smarter or wealthier or more knowledgeable or intelligent or virtuous than you are. And you are not able to appreciate his/her unique talent or possession or popularity. And by your behavior you try to downgrade, avoid, or defame him/her, feel happy when he/she suffers a loss or is in a difficulty. But you hide this feeling inside yourself. Do you know that this condition is a sickness of soul and heart and it also harms your physical health is called as Envy, Destructive Jealousy (Hasad)?
Hasad (destructive jealousy) is among the most destructive emotions or feeling which a man may have towards his fellow human being. It causes him to wish evil for others and to be happy when misfortune befalls them. On the other hand, what Islam permits in contrast to Hasad (destructive jealousy) is Ghibtah (envy that is free from malice), which means neither loving the loss of the blessing nor hating for it to remain with the person, but desiring the same for oneself without the removal of the blessing from others.
The Prophet of Allah (SWT)said: Beware of envy because indeed envy destroys good deeds in the same manner as fire destroys wood
Imam al-Baqir (as) said: Verily envy destroys faith like fire destroys wood
The Prophet of Allah (SWT) said: Envy appears to take over destiny
The Prophet of Allah (SWT) said: Allah (SWT) the Almighty said to Musa bin Imran (as), Oh son of Imran, don't be envious of what I have given to people from my grace and don't enchant your eyes with the blessings and don't put your soul in search of them, because the envious person is unhappy at my blessings that I have distributed among my servants
The Prophet of Allah (SWT) said: Beware! Don't be enemy of blessings of Allah (SWT). (He was asked: Oh Prophet of Allah (SWT) "who are those who keep enmity with the blessings of Allah (SWT)?" The Prophet of Allah (SWT) replied: "Those who are envious."
The Prophet of Allah (SWT) said: Beware! Indeed a disease that afflicted past nations before you has reached you like an ant and that is envy because it doesn't eat hair but eats away (your) religion
The Prophet of Allah (SWT) said: Don't be desirous of achieving blessings except from two: A person whom Allah (SWT) has bestowed wealth and he spends it (in the way of Allah (SWT)) day and night and the other person is the one whom Allah (SWT) has given knowledge of Noble Qur'an and he keeps it up with him day and night
Imam Ali (as) said: Envy is a disease without remedy
Imam Ali (as) said: Envy is worst of diseases
Imam Ali (as) said: The envious person is permanently sick
Imam Ali (as) said: The health of body is in absence of envy






















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Thursday, March 27, 2014

Fathwa, - Primary problems of humanity - - -- - * visit for more detailed Articles- http://aydnajimudeen.blogspot.com/═◘◘◘◘◘◘◘◘◘◘◘◘◘ - -

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In your opinion, what are the primary problems of humanity?
Answer
Praise be to Allah, the Lord of the Worlds; and may His blessings and
peace be upon our Prophet Muhammad and upon all his Family and
Companions.
Turning away from the Divine Guidance and straight path constitute the
main problem of humanity. Human beings lead a life full of caprices,
lusts and whims and ignore the wisdom behind their creation:, i.e.
they worship other than Allah and forget about Allah's worship, which
is the goal of life.
Allay says;}And I )Allâh( created not the jinns and humans except they
should worship Me )Alone(.{]51:56[
They pay no attention to the teachings of Islam in daily life. So,
they become Muslims in name only, and this causes injustice and
aggression among them. Life will not be orderly and sound unless
people )especially Muslim( adhere to Islam.
Allah says:}.... then whoever follows My Guidance shall neither go
astray, nor fall into distress and misery.][ "But whosoever turns away
from My Reminder )i.e. neither believes in this Qur'ân nor acts on its
orders, etc.( verily, for him is a life of hardship, and We shall
raise him up blind on the Day of Resurrection."{]20:123, 124[
}It is those who believe )in the Oneness of Allâh and worship none but
Him Alone( and confuse not their belief with Zulm )wrong i.e. by
worshipping others besides Allâh(, for them )only( there is security
and they are the guided.][{]6:82[
}"And verily, this )i.e. Allâh's Commandments mentioned in the above
two Verses 151 and 152( is my Straight Path, so follow it, and follow
not )other( paths, for they will separate you away from His Path. This
He has ordained for you that you may become Al-Muttaqûn )the pious -
see V.2:2(."{]6:153[
}Whoever works righteousness, whether male or female, while he )or
she( is a true believer )of Islâmic Monotheism( verily, to him We will
give a good life )in this world with respect, contentment and lawful
provision(, and We shall pay them certainly a reward in proportion to
the best of what they used to do )i.e. Paradise in the
Hereafter(.{]16: 97[
Islam is the religion of sound nature and straight disposition and the
true religion, which leads its followers )and others if they follow
it( to happiness Here and Hereafter. It is suitable for all times, all
places and all nations. It gives the best solutions to the chronic
problems of humanity. It is the religion which Allah has chosen and
accepted for Muslims and all His servants.
He says:}....This day, I have perfected your religion for you, completed
My Favour upon you, and have chosen for you Islâm as your religion.
....{]5: 3[
Allah knows best.