Fathwa - Marriage and Engagement, - The Suitable Age For Marriage

Question:
What is the suitable age for marriage for men and women, because some
young women do not accept marriage from those who are older than them?
Likewise, some men do not marry women who are older than them. We
request a response and may Allaah reward you with goodness.
Answer:
I advise young women not to refuse marriage from a man due to his age,
such as being ten, twenty or thirty years older than her. This is not
a reason, because the Prophet, sallallaahu alayhi was salam, married
'A'ishah, may Allaah be pleased with her, when he was fifty-three
years old and she was a girl of nine years old. So being older does
not harm. There is no sinin the woman being older, nor any sin in the
man being older, because the Prophet, sallallaahu alayhi was salam,
married Khadijah,may Allaah be pleased with her, when she was forty
years old and he was twenty-five years old, before the Revelation came
to him, sallallaahu alayhi was salam; that is, she, may Allaah be
pleased with her, was fifteen years older than him. Then he married
'A'ishah, may Allaah be pleased with her, when she was small - six or
seven years old and he was fifty-three years old.
Many of those who speak on the radio or television deter people from
marriage between men and women of differing ages - this is all wrong &
saying such things is not permissablefor them. It is obligatory for a
woman to look at the (prospective) husband, and if he is righteous and
suitable, she should agree, even ifhe is older than her. Similarly, a
man should devote himself to finding a righteous, religious woman,
even ifshe is older than him, if she is still young and stillfertile.
In short, the age should not be an excuse and it should not be
considered something shameful, as long as the man is righteous and
thewoman is righteous. MayAllaah reform the situation of us all.

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