True stories » Am I jealous or is he a philanderer?

I am trying to answer thisquestion, but trust me, it's very difficult!
I love my husband very much; we have been married for 8 years now, the
first three of which we were separated, because we used to live in
different countries. But now we are already together.
It was all perfect at the beginning and I was even scared to share it,
because we all know the saying that "Too much good is not good".
I started noticing that whenever we are in a company with lots of
handsome men around, my husband stays close and is very kind to me. I
find this normal and it actually really pleases me.I think this is the
normal way to treat your wife. I love showing people how much I love
my husband and it makes mehappy when they see it, and when I do it.
The problem is that when we are in a company with lots of pretty
women, he changes completely: he doesn't touch me at all, even more,
he keeps away from me or if I manage to somehow demonstrate that he is
my husband and I love him, he acts unpleasantly surprised and stands
still, but with the other women he is smiling and more than friendly.
Sometimes he would talk to a woman over my seat for 10-15 minutes and
never even look at me, not to mention to includeme in the
conversation. I sometimes think of leaving the place in orderto see
how much time it would take him to realizethat I'm gone.
I think it would take him at least an hour, if in the meantime he
doesn't see a handsome man close by.
Every time he is introduced to a woman, he would hug her, which I find
normal, but then hewould look her over fromhead to toe while talkingto
her. Another thing, whenever a woman calls him on the phone he is so
enthusiastic, and if you hear him you would think it's the happiest
day of his life, but then when I call him, he is awfully indifferent,
it is so terrible. He acts the same way when I tell himhis favorite
team won over their biggest competitor for the title.
Having described that (I have plenty more cases to share, it's so sad
that the unpleasant memoriesare now more than the pleasant ones)
please help me understand if I am being too jealous.
I need your advice badly, because I am on the edgeof a divorce!
Thank you in advance!