he left for a trip and came back a changed person. We have four
children and he says that there are no feeling of love, compassion or
attraction left for me.
He is a very kind and gentle person but has changed into a moody,
negative person who has given up on our relationship. I have prayedand
prayed and asked Allah to forgive me for my sins. Does anyone know
anything about nazar or black magic. Does this sound like it?
Thanks
-ruby
One answered :Salamu'alaikum sister,
I am sorry for what you are facing. I'd like to mention that there are
different possibilities:
1. He has seen something, heard something, or somebody has told him
something that made him behave so.
2. He was frustrated with something that happened with him, and
couldn't control his anger. Shaitaanmade use of this and made him
speak ill to you.
3. Someone who is jealousof your relationship looked at you with an
evil eye (what you call Nazar)
4. Someone who is jealousof you did magic on your husband.
I mentioned magic last, because it is always considered last. And
before you make any conclusion, beware, it need not necessarily be
magic. As of now, considerthat it is either of the first two. This is
so that the Shaitaan does not lead you astray. You may not know and do
wrong, if you do not do this.
Now, what has to be done?
First, speak to him politelyand ask him the reason and look at his
behavior. Does he give any valid reason or just ignores it and goes
away/shouts andmoves away? If he gives a reason, you'll have your
answer, insha Allah. Otherwise, it could be an evil eye. Allah's
Messenger Sallallahu 'Alaihi wasallam said (in one of the Saheeh
Ahadeeth) that the evil eye is true . It is possible. Hence, recite
the followingDu'a to him:
اعيذك بكلمات الله التامات من كل شيطانٍ و هآمة ومن كل عينٍ لآمَة
"'U'eezuka bi Kalimaatillahit Taammaati min Kulli Shaitaanin wa
Haammah. Wa min Kulli 'Aynin Laammah"
(I seek refuge for you with Allaah's perfect words from every Shaytaan
(devil) and poisonous creature and every evil eye)
(From Bukhari)
And ask min to read the same du'a, with a little change: instead of
U'eezuka (اعيذك) he should say A'oozu (اعوذ).
And there are other ways in the Qur'aan and the Sunnah (I'll mention
aboutthis below insha Allah).
If it is none of this, then there is a "possibility" thatit be
"magic". But know that magic and black magic are different. If it is
magic, then possibly it is something like that mentioned in Surah al
Baqarah, Aayah 102:
They followed what the Shayatin (devils) gave out (falsely of the
magic)in the lifetime of Sulaiman (Solomon). Sulaiman did not
disbelieve, but the Shayatin (devils) disbelieved, teaching men magic
and such things that came down at Babylon to the two angels, Harut and
Marut, but neither of these two (angels) taught anyone (such things)
till they had said, "We are only for trial, so disbelieve not (by
learning this magic from us)." And from these (angels) people learn
that by which they cause separation between man and his wife, but they
could not thus harm anyone except by Allah's Leave. And they learn
that which harms them and profits them not. And indeed they knew that
the buyers of it (magic) would have no share in the Hereafter. And how
bad indeed was that for which they sold their ownselves, if they but
knew.
Keep reciting Surah al Baqarah, because according to Saheeh Ahadeeth,
Shaitaan runs from a home where Surah al Baqarah is recited.
If you are not able to conclude on this, then make sure that you do
notdirectly conclude it to be magic. Instead, have it confirmed from a
Scholar from the Ahlus Sunnah wal Jamaa'ah, who specializes in this or
has knowledge about this.
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