For children, - Why do we find fault with others?

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Maybe you know the saying, "When you point one finger, there are three fingers pointing back to you." Prophet Jesus (pbuh) had a version of this wisdom when he said, "Don't focus on the speck in your brother's eye while ignoring the log in your own eye." Why do we do this? Because criticisms are always centered around ourselves. When we criticize others, we do not expose them, but expose ourselves. We broadcast our own weakness and smallness.
A story in the Mahabharata illustrates the difference in mentality between the good and the bad. Krishna, met with both Yudhishthira and Duryodhana. Krishna asks Yudhishthira to go out into the kingdom and return after finding someone less qualified than himself. Then he asks Duryodhana also to go out into the kingdom and return after finding someone better than himself.
When wicked Duryodhana returns, he tells Krishna that he couldn't find anyone better than himself. Whereas the saintly Yudhishthira tells that he was unable to find anyone inferior to himself.
Moral of the story is something about human psychology. Good people always look at there own short comings and faults and consider themselves inferiors to others. Where as bad people always look at the short comings and faults of others and consider themselves superiors to others.

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