I am ashia, syed muslim girl. When I was doing my bachelors, a guy who is sunni muslim fell in love with me. He followed me for 3 years, then I also felt that he was the man who loves me the most and he is committed. One day, his friend came and told me that he is very much interested in me, so why don’t I say yes to him? so I thought a lot about it, and I allowed him to call me he called me one evening. When I picked up the phone he was crying and begging me not to reject his love. So after a week or so, I also had a feeling of love for him. The only reason behind my falling in love with him was that he was extremely in love with me, and he was not able to forget me or leave me like this.
So we started talking to each other on mobile, but I told him on the very first day that I am shia and I am not a girl of friendship or dating etc; and if he is interested in me then propose me straight away but my parents will never accept him. So he was serious about marrying me and committed, and so was I. He sent a proposal ten times, but my father rejected him just because he is sunni. When I knew that my father would never accept him, we both did nikah secretly.
Then time was passing, and after my bachelors I did an MBA and also worked for 3 years. I was living with my father, and he was abroad. I think 7 or 8 years passed away. I met my husband may be 10-12 times in those 8 years. Now I am fed up living away from him, and he is also very disturbed.
Last week I again told my father to kindly accept his proposal, that I like him, I love him, and I can’t marry anyone else. But he again said that it’s a sin to marry a sunni man, and I am syed so prophet Mohammad (P.B.U.H) will not forgive me if I marry him.
Now I don’t know what to do. I am tired of praying. I prayed so much, I recited so many duas, I fasted so much…but Allah is not listening to me. He is not fulfilling my wish, so what can I do? Please suggest something to me; I can’t leave him because he loves me more than anything in this world and he is my husband now, so I can’t leave him. I didn’t tell my father that I did nikah with him. My father himself is not a very good man, and he has done so many muttas with prostitutes, so I don’t know why is he stopping me. Then he says muttah is halal in islam, but whatever I am doing is haram- marrying a sunni man he will never support me.
Help me! Please, what should I do now????????
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