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A thirty-year-old woman married a fifty-five-year old widower who has three children from his previous marriage. She stipulated having children and he agreed, but after four years of marriage she did not have any yet. The doctors told her that there is nothing wrong with her, but her husband refuses to be examined, arguing that he already had three children with his late wife. What should she do especially since she wants to have children?
Answer
All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammadis His slave and Messenger.
This case bears two possibilities: that the wife stipulated having children in any case or that she stipulated that he should utilize the available means and seek treatment to have children. If she has stipulated having children in any case, it is regarded as an invalid condition since she is stipulating what is not within the human being’s control or power. If she has stipulated that he should utilize the available means and seek treatment to have children, then it is a valid condition that does not contradict the very purposes of marriage in Islam; rather, it is one of the main purposes of marriage in Islam. Ma‘qil ibn Yasaarreported that the Prophet, said:“Marry the loving and prolific woman; for I will outnumber the nations by you.”
In another wording of the same narration, the Prophet, said:“I will boast of your large numbers in front of other nations )on the Day of Judgment(.”]Abu Daawood, An-Nasaa’i and Ahmad[
Usaamah ibn Shareeknarrated that the Prophet, said:“Seek treatment for there is no disease that Allaah The Almighty has created except that He also has created its treatment except one single disease: old age."]Abu Daawood and At-Tirmithi[
Hence, it is an obligation on this husband, and one of his wife’s rights over him, to undergo the necessary medical examinations and the due treatments to the best of his abilities. If he does so and they do not have children, then it is not incumbent on him to do anything further. However, if he insists on his refusal to undergo treatment, the wife has the right to seek divorce.
Allaah Knows best.
Question
A thirty-year-old woman married a fifty-five-year old widower who has three children from his previous marriage. She stipulated having children and he agreed, but after four years of marriage she did not have any yet. The doctors told her that there is nothing wrong with her, but her husband refuses to be examined, arguing that he already had three children with his late wife. What should she do especially since she wants to have children?
Answer
All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammadis His slave and Messenger.
This case bears two possibilities: that the wife stipulated having children in any case or that she stipulated that he should utilize the available means and seek treatment to have children. If she has stipulated having children in any case, it is regarded as an invalid condition since she is stipulating what is not within the human being’s control or power. If she has stipulated that he should utilize the available means and seek treatment to have children, then it is a valid condition that does not contradict the very purposes of marriage in Islam; rather, it is one of the main purposes of marriage in Islam. Ma‘qil ibn Yasaarreported that the Prophet, said:“Marry the loving and prolific woman; for I will outnumber the nations by you.”
In another wording of the same narration, the Prophet, said:“I will boast of your large numbers in front of other nations )on the Day of Judgment(.”]Abu Daawood, An-Nasaa’i and Ahmad[
Usaamah ibn Shareeknarrated that the Prophet, said:“Seek treatment for there is no disease that Allaah The Almighty has created except that He also has created its treatment except one single disease: old age."]Abu Daawood and At-Tirmithi[
Hence, it is an obligation on this husband, and one of his wife’s rights over him, to undergo the necessary medical examinations and the due treatments to the best of his abilities. If he does so and they do not have children, then it is not incumbent on him to do anything further. However, if he insists on his refusal to undergo treatment, the wife has the right to seek divorce.
Allaah Knows best.
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