Soul Purification, - Bashfulness: An Asset of the Righteous Wife

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Bashfulness is the asset of the believing woman that helps her preserve her honor, dignity and status. All righteous wives are bashful in their behavior and in everything else - their clothing, their movement, their speech, their dealings and their manners. The bashfulness of the believing wife makes her more adherent to the Islamic dress code, whether it beHijaabor the face cover. She does not wear any thing that is transparent, tight, similar to men’s clothes, ostentatious, scented or enticing. How can she not do all this when it is an obligation and she would bear sins if she did not abide by these rules? Allaah The Almighty Says )what means(:
}and to wrap ]a portion of[ their headcovers over their chests{]Quran 24:31[
}O Prophet, tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to bring down over themselves ]part[ of their outer garments. That is more suitable that they will be known and not be abused.{]Quran 33:59[
}and do not display yourselves as ]was[ the display of the former times of ignorance{]Quran 33:33[
How can a woman display herself as righteous while she displays her charms to every eye in order to attract attention? What would she then keep special for her husband? The Prophet,sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said:“Bashfulness and faith are inseparable; if one of them is missing, the other will be missing as well.”The woman who exposes her beauty is not bashful as she does not have this essential characteristic of Islam. The Prophet,sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said:“Every religion has distinctive morals and bashfulness is the distinctive moral in Islam.”Moreover, the bashfulness of the believing woman makes her lower her gaze. Allaah The Almighty Says )what means(:}And tell the believing women to reduce ]some[ of their vision and guard their private parts and not expose their adornment except that which ]necessarily[ appears thereof.{]Quran 24:31[
The righteous believing woman also knows what Allaah The Almighty says through the words of the Prophet,sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam:“The ]forbidden[ gaze is one of the poisonous darts of Iblees ]Satan[. The one who avoids it out of fear of Me will be granted such faith that he feels its sweetness in his heart.”Giving free rein to the gaze brings nothing but harm as the forbidden gaze is the seed of all evil and can only lead to evil as it is one of the gates of the devil. The righteous woman does not underestimate this. The Prophet,sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said to Umm Salamah and Maymoonah, may Allaah be pleased with them:“Are you blind? Do you not see him?”when they were looking at ‘Abdullaah ibn Umm Maktoom, who was a blind man.
The bashfulness of the righteous woman is also exhibited in the way she speaks. Allaah The Almighty Says )what means(:}Then do not be soft in speech ]to men[, lest he in whose heart is disease should covet.{]Quran 33:32[ The bashfulness of the believing woman is clear in her behavior, movement and way of walking. Thus, every Muslim woman should be an embodiment of bashfulness. The best example of bashfulness is that of the two girls who met Moosa )Moses(, may Allaah exalt his mention. Their bashfulness prevented them from mixing with men at the well of Madyan. They said )what means(:}“We do not water until the shepherds dispatch ]their flocks.[”{]Quran 28:23[ This is the example of the righteous woman who stays at home, and if she leaves it for a dire necessity then she does so while being bashful.

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