fill while his neighbor remains hungry by his side." (Baihaqi)
"By Allah, he has no faith (the Prophet [SAW] repeated it three times)
whose neighbors are not safe from his wickedness." (Bukhari)
Ramadan is a great opportunity to share Islam and more specifically,
its values of spirituality, generosity and kindness with others,
especially your neighbors. It's a great time to do Dawa. And Dawa is
very much needed in the current atmosphere of anger, tension and
sadness.
Here are some ideas on how you can share the joy with your neighbors
this Ramadan.
01.Begin with Dua
Make Dua that Allah give you and your family the sincerity, strength,
motivation and wisdom to do this. Dawa is hard work, and it needs
preparation, commitment and organization.
02.Put up a Ramadan banner on your door
This can be something handmade or something more formal.
But don't stop there. Print out a fact sheet on Ramadan and stick that
on the door to educate readers passing by aboutthe blessed month and
what it means to Muslims.
03.Send neighbors Iftar snacks
Include a note with the food that the month of Ramadan is here and
youare sharing your joy withthem.
You can offer snacks that are not just "Muslims" but also
"non-Muslims" (i.e. American, African, Middle Eastern, Indo-Pakistani,
etc.). You can include index cards with the snacks listing all of the
ingredients. This will help neighbors avoidfood that causes allergies.
04.Give kids Ramadan Mubarak balloons and candy
Let your neighbors' kids also feel the happiness ofRamadan by
including chocolate and candy among your snacks. Balloons also add a
nice touch, and if you can get some printed which have"Ramadan
Mubarak" written on them, they may remember the blessed month even
afterit has passed.
05.Publish Ramadan information in your neighborhood newsletter
If you are part of a tenants' association, a group within your housing
complex or your neighborhood block parents' association and they
publish a newsletter, inform them about Ramadan and prepare a short
write-up about the month. This is a great way of informingmany more
neighbors about Ramadan.
06.Have a neighborhood Iftar gathering
You don't have to invite everyone. Perhaps just the closest neighbors
canattend this event. Send handmade invitations foran "Iftar
gathering" at most a week in advance (avoid the word "party" as it may
be misunderstood to mean agathering including alcohol, loud music,
etc.).
Ask about allergies or other food issues before establishing the menu.
Include vegetarian, American and "ethnic" food.
Be sure to invite Muslim family and friends who are comfortable
interacting with non-Muslims to this event, and brief them about how
they should properly share Ramadan with the neighbors. Also, have some
written material on Ramadan available for your guests.
At the gathering:
Be cordial, generous and friendly, but maintain Islamic rules of
behavior and modesty. This shouldnot be a "party" in the common
understanding, but more of a religious celebration that is spiritual
and respectful to all.
Don't impose information. Just let non-Muslim guests ask questions, if
they want to. As well, be ready for questions about Islam and
violence/terrorism, the oppression of women, etc.Give neighbors the
benefit of the doubt and clarify their misunderstanding in a calm,
gentle manner.
07.Get your kids on it
Tell your kids to inform other neighbors' kids what Ramadan is all
about and have the children invite their classmates to your Iftar
gatherings.
08.Talk about what Ramadan means to you
What's it like to fast? How do you work/go to school and still fast?
These are some questionsyou may be asked. Don't just point your guests
to the pamphlets. Tell them and use some personal examples they can
relate to.
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