obligations towards their families. They who fear Allah will do their
best to direct theway his wife and children live by educating himself
and his family to living according to the Sunnah of the
Prophet(Sallallahu alaiyhi wassallam) and the Holy Qur'an, the final
word of Allah.
The Prophet(Sallallahu alaiyhi wassallam) said, "The best of you is
the best one to his family." [Al-Tabarani]
To share food with her, to provide her with (decent) clothes as he
provides himself, to refrain from smacking her, and not ignoring
herbut in the house. [Ahmad]
One should not hate his believer wife. If he dislikes some of her
attitudes, he would (surely) like others (attitudes). [Muslim]
Woman was created from a bent rib and will not be made straight for
you on one way (that you like). If you want to enjoy her, you enjoy
her while she is still bent. If you want to straighten her up, you
will break her. Breaking her is divorcing her. [Al-Bukhari & Muslim]
Do (volunteer) fasting (some days) and do not fast (in other days),
pray at night (some nights) and sleep (in other nights). Your body has
a right on you (to rest), your eye has a right on you (to sleep), and
your wife has a right on you. [Al-Bukhari & Muslim]
Fear Allah in (treating) women. [Muslim]
Be advised to treat women righteously. [Al-Bukhari & Muslim]
And live with them honorably. If you dislike them, it may be that you
dislike a thing that Allah brings through it a great deal of good.
[4:19]
The Prophet (Sallallahu alaiyhi wassallam) said,"ADinar (a currency)
that you spend on your family, a Dinar that you spend on a poor person
and a Dinar that you spend in the sake of Allah. The one that carries
the most reward is the one that you spendon your family." [Muslim]
The Prophet(Sallallahu alaiyhi wassallam) said toSaaid ibn Abi
Waqqas,"Know that no charity that you give whether small or large, for
the sake of Allah, but you will be rewarded for it, even the bite (of
food)that you put in your wife's mouth." [Bukhari& Muslim]
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