A Witness to Your Life

When seeking a marriagepartner, remember, a husband or wife is not
just some pretty face thatyou get to admire or possess, or show off to
your friends. This person is not a checkbook, a status symbol, a
servant, or a household maid. Thisis not someone that you'llsee for a
few minutes each day after work, and take to dinner parties.
You could marry someone only for looks or status then find yourself
miserable, harped on, arguing everyday, lonely within your marriage,
or abused. All you rich and attractive people don't take offense– you
might be perfectly lovely and sweet – I'm just saying that appearance,
wealth and lineage are no guaranteeof happiness, and if you focus on
those factors to the exclusion of the soul, then you will likely find
yourself mismatched, brokenhearted and forlorn.
A spouse is someone you abide with for the rest of your life, even
when you are wrinkled and bent. Someone to hold you when you're sad,
to support you when you'retired, to cool your forehead when you're
sick, to share in your joys,tell jokes and play frisbeewith; someone
to pray with in the still morning hours, and struggle with to achieve
Paradise.
This is someone to be a witness to your life, to know you intimately
and recognize your worth as a human being (not that we need someone
else toaffirm our value – but it's always nice to be recognized and
seen). Someone to love you unceasingly, like a great river, even when
you disagree. Someone to seeyour faults, and keep on loving you.
Make sure your priorities are in order. Look past the surface. Connect
withthe person's soul. Find someone who will make you smile, and with
whom you will be happy to share this strange journey we call life.

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And Allah Knows the Best!

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M NajimudeeN Bsc- INDIA

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