Advice for Husband

Discussion between the spouses increases the love between them and
strengthens the bond between them; it also helps to reach the right
decision in matters of married life and household and family affairs.❤
When starting a discussion between you and your wife , open your heart
and mind to what she has to say, and listen attentively. Then you can
either accept what she says and thank her, or reject it gently whilst
also thanking her. ❤
Do not forget that she is your life partner and the one who is helping
you to raise your children and organise your household. So it is not
appropriate to close the doors of discussion to her. ❤
You should not be too proud of your opinion and or feel that you do
not need to discuss with her and hear her opinion. ❤
Do not neglect the words of your Prophet Muhammad (blessings and peace
of Allah be upon him): ❤ "The best of you is the one who is best to
his wife." ❤
Narrated by at-Tirmidhi, 3895; classed as saheeh by Shaykh al-Albaani
in Saheeh al-Jaami', 3314.
Over and above that, do not forget the words of Allah (interpretation
of the meaning):
❤ "And live with them honourably" [an-Nisa' 4:19] ❤.
Husbands who do not admit their mistakes and do not acknowledge
thattheir wives could be rightis the very essence of arrogance, as the
Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) defined it . It was
narrated from 'Abdullah ibn Mas'ood (may Allah be pleased with him)
thatthe Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said:
❤ "No one will enter Paradise who has an atom's weight of arrogance in
his heart." ❤
It is not the attribute of the wise and mature manto insist when he is
in thewrong that his wife should be the one to apologise. Rather he is
the one who should hasten to admit his mistake, apologise for it and
ask his wife to forgive him. And her dutyis to apologize to her
husband if she is the one who is in the wrong. It is in this way that
married life takes a correct courseand lasting love and compassion are
strengthened between the spouses. Abu'd-Darda'(may Allah be pleased
with him) said to his wife:
❤"If you see me angry, tryto calm me down, and if Isee you angry I
shall try to calm you down, otherwise we cannot livetogether." ❤
❤ We ask Allah to guide all married couples to that which He loves and
is pleased with, and to bring them together in the best of ways.❤
Ameen!

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