Salaam brothers and sisters,
I recently went through a divorce and going throughpain.
I know there are many people whom have broken hearts whether through a
separation, divorce or lost someone inlife.
I was wondering if people can give tips how to overcome the pain,
hurt, sleepless nights, worry and unhappiness.
We are all Muslims and weshould try to help each other.
May Allah bless everyone whom reply
Jazak Allah
Help Me.
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As Salamualaikum,
Sister, you're right. Everyone has some or the other pain. Allah tests
us all. We need to have patience and keep our trust in Him. I advise
you the same.
I'll insha Allah mention some duas which will insha Allah help you
alleviate the grief you are going through.
1. In al-Saheehayn it was
reported from Ibn 'Abbaas that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and
blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to say, when he felt distressed:
"La ilaaha ill-Allaah al-'Azeem ul-Haleem, Laa ilaaha ill-Allaah Rabb
il-'arsh il-'azeem, Laa ilaaha ill-Allaah Rabb is-samawaati wa Rabb
il-ard wa Rabb il-'arsh il-kareem
(there is no god except Allaah, the All-Mighty, the Forbearing; there
is no god except Allaah, the Lord of the Mighty Throne;there is no god
except Allaah, Lord of the heavens, Lord of the earth and Lord of the
noble Throne)."
2. And it was reported from Anas (may Allaah be pleased with him) that
theProphet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to say,
when something upset him:
"Yaa Hayyu yaa Qayyoom, bi
Rahmatika astagheeth
(O Ever-Living One, O Everlasting One, by Your mercy I seek help)."
3. It was reported from 'Abd-Allaah ibn Mas'ood that the Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:
"No person suffers any anxiety or grief, and says:
'Allaahumma innee 'abduka
wabnu (you say wabnatu instead of wabnu) 'abdika wabnu (you say
wabnatu) amatika, naasiyati bi yadika,
maadin fiyya hukmuka, 'adlun fiyya qadaa'uka, as'aluka bi kulli ismin
huwa laka sammayta bihi nafsaka aw anzaltahu fi kitaabika aw
'allamtahu ahadan min
khalqika aw ista'tharta bihi fi
'ilm il-ghaybi 'andak an taj'ala al-Qur'aana rabee' qalbi wa noor
sadri wa jalaa'a huzni wa dhahaabahammi
(O Allaah, I am Your slave, son (you say daughter) of Your slave, son
(you say daughter) daughter of Your female slave, my forelock is in
Your hand, Your command over me is forever executed and Yourdecree
over me is just. I ask You by every Name belonging to You which You
named Yourself with, or revealed in Your Book, or You taught to any of
Your creation, or You havepreserved in the knowledge of the unseen
with You, that You make the Qur'aan the life of my heart and the light
of my breast, and a departure formy sorrow and a release for my
anxiety)'
- but Allaah will take awayhis sorrow and grief, and give him in their
stead joy."
I pray that Allah eases the situation for you and givesyou strength to
deal them.
Aameen
Wassalamualaikum
EDITOR
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