Monday, July 9, 2012

Am I committing sin by chatting with a Christian guy who wants to become Muslim and marry me?

Salam alaykum, dear brothers and sisters!
I have to hear your opinion about my case. I am 20 years old and very
devoted Muslima, alhamdulillah. I pray 5 times a day and fast Ramadan,
wear hijab, don't and never had a boyfriend and practice Islam in
every segment in my life. I even avoid to talk to boys. Because I know
it is haram and to save my chastity.
Anyway, 2 months ago, onthe internet, I met a guy who is not Muslim.
Probably, I wouldn't be talking to him if he didn't tell me that he
respects Islam even more than his religion (Christianity). Therefore;
following the obligation of us Muslims, I have tried to present him
Islam the best I can. Meanwhile, he started asking me questions about
myself, my hobbies, my views to life, to other religions, love,
marriage. I answered him to these questions according to beliefs of my
faith. we chatted every day; and he told me that he started to like
me very much and even considering to convert to Islam because of me.
He told me that he never met a girl like me and thatit is amazing how
Islam is similar to Christianity. The interesting fact about him that
somehow he lives likea Muslim, he doesn't eat pork, doesn't drink
Alcohol, didn't have sex before marriage. He says every day that, I
miss him. I chat with him for 2 months.
My question are;
1. Should I continue to chat with him in order to convert him to Islam
(I don't intend anything bad like dating, relationship)?
2. He fell in love with me, Idon't know what to answer him?
3. Did I commit sin because I have been chatting with him all this time?
4. He wants to meet me inpersonal, is it haram for me to meet him
regardingthe fact that still he did not convert to Islam?
Please answer, what should I do in this situation because sometimes I
feel that I have started to like him too. May Allah reward you all!
Jaci.
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