yourlife is already destined

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A Muslim believes that yourlife is already destined. Youare not
fighting with nature. Allah has already ordained the exact time you
will spend in Dunya. So, when the year passes by, the way you should
seeit as a Muslim is that I am one year closer to my death. I am
getting closer to my grave.
So it doesn't make any sense for you whatsoever as a Muslim to bring a
cake in front of you and blow the candles and you are smiling and so
happy, when you are one year closer to your death. You should be
making Muhasiba! You should be holding yourself accountable for that
year not celebrating and taking photos in front of a cake. You should
be viewing it with seriousness: I am one year closer to meet Allah,
what have I done? Did I prepare myself for it?
One of the statements of Umar R.A. was: "Hold yourself accountable
before you will be hold accountable for what you did"
Ya ALLAH! Don't let us die, Unless we are true Muslims/
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